Here’s a question for you…do you keep screwing up with the women in your life?
It might be a woman you are trying to attract. Or it might even be your girlfriend or wife if you’re already in a relationship.
If you seem to keep screwing up with them, you’re probably doing something wrong without knowing.
I’m not judging you, by the way.
After all, if you keep getting poor results, there’s something wrong with what you’re doing. Right?
It’s not just about relationships—it applies to every area of our lives as men.
Poor strategies lead to poor results.
And so, if you keep fucking up with women, this exclusive Shogun Method guide will help you find out why today.
You’re about to learn seven classic mistakes men make with women.
And no, these aren’t the common mistakes you already know about… like “being needy” or “projecting too much interest”.
Instead, these are seven mistakes almost no one talks about.
So, here’s the thing. Even the best of us make these blunders once in a while. Even someone like me, Derek Rake…
…and yet you won’t—not when you learn to avoid making these seven mistakes no matter what.
Are you ready?
Table of Contents
- Mistake Men Make With Women #1: Treating Love As a Democracy
- Mistake Men Make With Women #2: Putting Women Ahead of Your Mission
- Mistake Men Make With Women #3: Giving Her Stability.
- Mistake Men Make With Women #4: Thinking She’ll Love You For Who You Are Forever
- Mistake Men Make With Women #5: Shunning Your Own Masculinity
- Mistake Men Make With Women #6: Hiding Your Vulnerabilities (All The Time)
- Mistake Men Make With Women #7: Thinking All You Need Are Good Times
Mistake Men Make With Women #1: Treating Love As a Democracy
Here’s the first way to screw up your love life: by treating your relationship as a democracy.
An inconvenient truth, I know. But here’s the thing…
A relationship needs a clear leader—a dictator, if you will.
And if you want your relationship to succeed, it needs to be your dictatorship.
Otherwise, she’ll leave you. I’m not kidding here.
So, your relationship isn’t a democracy. It’s an autocracy… one ruled by you.
Here’s the second mistake…
Mistake Men Make With Women #2: Putting Women Ahead of Your Mission
Do you make your woman your #1 priority?
If you do, she’s probably hating you a bit more each day.
Here’s why: women are naturally attracted to men of purpose.
These are the men who have a grand mission in life. And one of her deepest natural needs is to attach herself to such a man and support him.
Sure, you probably won’t hear her say it out loud. That’s because she doesn’t even know about it.
She just feels it. Mother Nature put it in the psyche of every emotionally healthy woman in the world.
So, if you want her to love and support you, make her your second (or third, or fourth) priority.
And if you put her ahead of your mission, she will quietly despise you.
Now, here’s the third screw-up to avoid…
Mistake Men Make With Women #3: Giving Her Stability.
Here’s another thing Mother Nature programmed into every emotionally healthy woman. She’s always looking for something better.
And that especially applies to their choices of men.
When your relationship is stable, that lets her mind wander. And she’ll start thinking if there’s anything better for her out there.
But, if she feels she can lose you anytime—especially when she disrespects you—she’ll behave. She’ll focus on you instead of what she could find elsewhere.
So, here’s the bottom line. You don’t want stability. You want controlled chaos.
How do you inflict controlled chaos on your relationship?
More on that later… but here’s a short preview:
Controlled chaos is how you control your girlfriend and keep her attracted to you for as long as you want.
Mistake Men Make With Women #4: Thinking She’ll Love You For Who You Are Forever
Remember! She’s always looking for something better.
If you don’t work on yourself, you’ll deteriorate. You’ll get weaker. Some of us get dumber, too.
So, you must constantly stoke the fire. Keep building yourself… because there’s no excuse not to improve. Lift weights. Get strong. Read. Write. Get smart. Build your business. Build your network. Get rich.
As a man, you want to avoid the mediocrity trap. And so does she.
She won’t accept you for who you are forever. To keep her love and affection, you must keep moving on up.
The fifth mistake to avoid…
Mistake Men Make With Women #5: Shunning Your Own Masculinity
By now, you might have experienced getting brainwashed by the media. It might be hard to think of masculinity without thinking about it as toxic.
Here’s my advice: ignore the feminist agenda.
There’s nothing wrong with masculinity. In fact, your woman wants you to be masculine.
Not only that, society and civilization desperately needs manliness. Because there’s nothing worse than feminine men running the world. (Just imagine if these spineless bimbos are.)
So, if you want to save your relationship and civilization, do this:
Embrace your masculinity.
We’ll all thank you later.
What’s the sixth mistake?
Mistake Men Make With Women #6: Hiding Your Vulnerabilities (All The Time)
I’ve got to clarify this.
In Shogun Method, I wrote this–
Women should never let see men bleed.
There’s an exception to this.
Sometimes, you want to show your weakness so she can nurture you.
This is not so you’ll feel pampered or such. Instead, it’s to bring out the motherly side in her.
Use it sparingly—only when she’s down and feeling useless. Then, give her a chance to live up to her role as the nurturing mother.
The rest of the time, follow the axiom. Never let her see you bleed.
And the last mistake to avoid is this…
Mistake Men Make With Women #7: Thinking All You Need Are Good Times
When everything’s fine and dandy all the time in your relationship, it quickly gets boring.
And when she’s bored, she tries to look for fun elsewhere. Oops.
So, listen to this carefully because it’s important. Bad times are what bind couples together.
It’s simply human nature. The strongest bonds are forged through times of difficulty, danger, and crisis.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you go looking for trouble.
Instead, you invent trouble.
Remember when I told you about controlled chaos earlier? You want chaos… and yet you want it to be under your control.
And you do it by injecting some healthy stress into your relationship. Create a problem, then tackle it.
That way, every time you resolve the problem, your bond with your woman gets stronger.
You do this emotional rollercoaster over and over until your relationship is bulletproof.
Your woman will not only love you—she’ll feel totally addicted to you.
And when she’s hooked on you, she’ll never leave you.
Even if you screw up now and then.
Now, how exactly do you inject some controlled chaos in your woman’s life?
With a technique called Fractionation, that’s how.
It’s a hypnosis technique that puts her on emotional rollercoasters.
By mastering Fractionation, you counteract every single one of these seven mistakes.
And as the days go by, you’ll see your woman getting more and more attached, attracted, and addicted to you.
Are you ready to stop screwing up your love life?
Are you ready to be in 100%, absolute control for a change?
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