How To Make A Woman Sexually Attracted To You
Do you know how to create sexual tension with a woman?
If you try to date the women you like, but they keep rejecting or friend-zoning you…
…then no, you probably DON’T know how to create sexual tension.
And that can be frustrating when you’re a great guy. You KNOW you’ll be the best boyfriend these women would ever have…
…and yet, they’re just not interested in you.
But here’s some good news – you’re not getting rejected or friend-zoned because of your personality.
Instead, you’re getting rejected because of your APPROACH. You’re not creating enough sexual tension in your interactions with women.
Sexual tension is CRUCIAL for seduction. If you learned how to create sexual tension, all your problems with women would be over.
And that’s what this guide will do for you.
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How To Create Sexual Tension
First off – what IS sexual tension?
It’s sexual desire shared by a man and a woman interacting with each other, but can’t act on just yet.
Imagine being with a woman, and it’s clear that both of you want to have sex with each other…
…but you can’t just yet because you’re in a public place… or in a meeting… or with other people.
That’s sexual tension.
Let’s be clear – if you want to be “more than friends” with any woman, then sexual tension is GOOD.
When you charge your interaction with sexual tension, things move forward automatically. No need for pickup lines and cheesy tricks.
The problem? Most guys can’t create sexual tension.
Or if they can create sexual tension, they can’t HANDLE it for long.
They might create a little sexual tension with a woman, but they ruin everything by…
- Changing the conversation topic from flirty to logical
- Talking about something boring or self-centered all of a sudden
- Giggling like a little girl when the sexual tension gets too much
- Saying “just kidding” or apologizing after saying something sexual
- Verbally confessing their attraction
Don’t make any of those mistakes! Here are some of the best ways to create sexual tension WITHOUT breaking it.
#1: Eye Contact
Get used to making eye contact and NOT breaking it first. You’ll want to get used to women giggling and saying: “What? Why are you staring at me like that?”
Then you give ANY nonsensical answer (e.g. “Nothing, you remind me of my kitten.”). Then slowly turn your head away, but keep your eyes on hers for a few more seconds before you break eye contact.
#2: Be Close To Her
Get into her personal space without being too intrusive. The closer, the better.
You can gradually inch your way closer, or (in places like clubs and parties) pull her to you.
Remember: She’s going to feel the most sexual tension with the guy closest to her.
#3: Touch Her
It’s a good idea to touch her as early as you can – preferably with a handshake, a shoulder tap, or a high-five when you meet up.
It’s not really touching that builds sexual tension, but rather HOW SHE FEELS when you touch her. Touch her in harmless ways early on, but escalate to more daring, flirty touches as you move forward.
If you DON’T touch her early on, then touching her LATER might BREAK sexual tension because it’s so unexpected.
#4: Tone Of Voice
The idea is to start your interaction with a normal, acceptable tone of voice. Then, as the interaction moves forward, you lower your voice tone and volume.
Then you revert to your normal tone of voice when you talk to other people, such as her friends. Then you go right back to your low tone of voice when you re-engage her.
This shared experience deepens your bond and spikes the sexual tension. For even better results, try whispering to each other.
Conversation is your most powerful tool for creating sexual tension with a woman. If you only had time to work on one thing, it should be this.
By “conversation,” I don’t mean those deep, personal conversations. If you’ve tried those before, you already know how they’re a quick ticket into her friend zone.
Instead, your conversations will put her on emotional rollercoasters. These are alternating, intensifying cycles of emotional highs and lows.
Here are some sample conversation topics that take her on emotional rollercoasters:
- Tell her you absolutely love her – because she reminds you of your little sister
- Be sarcastic and funny. If she dresses sexily, tell her you’re attracted to her beautiful personality
- Talk about something romantic, then switch to a platonic topic… then go romantic again
The result? She’ll start feeling some sexual tension between you. The more frequent your emotional rollercoasters are, the more palpable the tension becomes…
…until she can’t take it anymore and starts openly flirting with you.
Why do emotional rollercoasters create sexual tension so well?
Simple – it’s all because of what’s going on in a woman’s mind when meeting a new guy like you.
- She’s always unconsciously interested in men who excite her sexually
- At the same time, she knows she should NOT show her sexual interest in public, or she’ll get shamed
- Most men she meets are either too serious (not sexually exciting) or too forward. (Men who are too forward force her to protect her reputation by hiding her interest.)
- When you put her on emotional rollercoasters, you keep her on edge (which is a good thing). You’re exciting her sexually, but you’re not being too forward.
- The result? She feels more and more sexually excited WITHOUT the fear of getting shamed. And so she gladly rides the sexual tension you create.
Once she starts openly flirting with you, do her a favor. Ask her out, take her on a date, bring her home, etc. – whatever your desired outcome was from the beginning.
Put Women On Emotional Rollercoasters
Putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster is a Mind Control technique:
- You put her in a trance where she’s free to follow her heart
- You snap her out of that trance by engaging her mind
- You put her BACK into the trance – only this time, she naturally falls deeper into it
- Repeat until she gets emotionally addicted to you
Now, some guys wonder: “Isn’t that manipulative, though?”
Sure it is. But if you haven’t noticed, COURTSHIP has always been manipulative:
- Courtship all about coercing the opposite sex to date/mate with you
- These days, we’re civilized enough to renounce physical coercion. We now rely solely on emotional coercion. (This is present-day courtship.)
- The emotional rollercoaster is “nuclear grade” emotional coercion. It wins a woman’s heart NOT with cheesy pickup lines, but with spine-tingling sexual tension
Make no mistake. If you want to create sexual tension with a woman, then emotional rollercoasters are the way to go.
If you don’t want to play the game that way, that’s entirely up to you.
But if you want to finally get “unstuck” in your love life…
If you want to finally get women to like you back…
And if you want to enjoy the kind of success with women you’ve always dreamed of…
…Then I invite you to master Mind Control today.
You can sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control, which you can check out below:
(NOTE: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. It’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Masterclass.)
Remember: Until you learn how to make a woman feel like she wants to have sex with you…
…you’ll ALWAYS have trouble with women.
You’ll keep getting declined, rejected, or friend-zoned.
You CAN get lucky. But do you really want to go through your love life relying on luck?
The dating game isn’t a game of luck – it’s a game of skill.
And the ultimate skill is – you guessed it – the ability to put women on emotional rollercoasters.
You can learn how to do that TODAY. Here’s the link to my Masterclass again.
Now go give women the tingles!
P.S: Has a woman you WEREN’T initially attracted to ever created sexual tension with you? How did it change your perception of her? And how did the interaction end? Tell your story in the comments section below!