After months of firing blanks, Andy finally landed a date with Melanie, this sweet-looking, blue-eyed brunette he had cold-approached just a week before.
“Oh man, the date went like a dream,” Andy told me excitedly. “We really hit it off. By the end of the night, Melanie was swooning all over me. And we’ve been talking on the phone now every single day. And ya know what, Derek… I think she digs me for real.”
I smiled. “That’s great, Andy. I already know that things will work out… since you have done everything I told you to do so diligently.”
He then turned really serious. “But here’s the thing,” he said. “The fact that it’s all going so well makes me anxious. I mean, I might just do or say something stupid and screw it all up. So tell me, Derek, what should be my next move?”
I leaned closer to Andy.
“What I am going to ask you to do might not make much sense to you. It may surprise you… or even rattle you a little. And from my experience, most guys are too chicken to do this.”
“What is it?” he whispered in anticipation.
“I want you to dump her.”
“What!?” Andy’s curiosity turned into confusion and bewilderment.
“Say to her things that are not working out. And that you’re now having doubts about the whole thing. Even better, tell her that it’s probably better to be friends than lovers.”
He calmed down a little.
“OK, let me try to understand. Inside the Shogun Method, you mentioned about it’s not enough to “attract” a woman, and that for long-term success, you’ll need to “Enslave” her. Is it what this is all about?”
“That’s correct,” I replied. “You should already know that making a woman attracted to you is the easy part. To keep a woman and to make sure that she doesn’t leave you, you must take it to the next level… by Enslaving her.”
“So… pushing her away will do that for me?”
“Yes. Rejecting her will amplify her attraction to you into downright obsession. In response, she’ll feel surprised, confused or even angry. The more you push her away, the more obsessed she will be over you. And by the time you’re done, she would have hit the point of no return.”
Like every one of my most committed Shogun Method clients… Andy did everything I told him to do. I’ll tell you what happened to Andy later in this email, but right now I want you to do this little experiment for me:
Let’s say you’re seeing a girl, and everything is going great.
I want you to introduce a “minor” conflict into the relationship. Say that you’re going to take time off from her to do other things or “pursue other interests”. (Don’t tell her that you’re seeing other women… it would be too obvious). Even better, tell her that for now, you’d enjoy her company more as a “friend”, not a lover.
I can guarantee you that after she gets through the initial feeling of surprise and shock, she’ll come running back, and start to salivate over you like you’re a Calvin Klein underwear model.
Understand that most guys are too chicken to play mind games like these on women. But even so, I assure you that you haven’t seen anything yet. The stuff I teach inside the Shogun Method is about 100X more hardcore than what you’ve read in my emails.
In fact, many of my readers get the shock of their lives when they encounter the Shogun Method (especially the Enslavement strategies section) for the first time –
I don’t sugarcoat anything. If you’re easily offended by the true (and often BRUTAL) nature of the women psyche then go read a lightweight Pickup Artist ebook. Not my loss.
Derek “Enslaver” Rake
PS: And what happened to Andy? Long story short: I’ll be flying out to Mississauga, Ontario this Saturday to see Melanie marry him. Bless.