Jimmy Barnes here, covering for Derek today.
So, you’re interested in a woman only to find that she’s married. What do you do then?
Look, I can’t be a hypocrite. There was a time in my life when I ONLY dated married women just for the heck of it. I would be lying if I told you that I didn’t like it!
Here are a couple of reasons why I love married women so much:
- One, a married woman knows how the game is played, and so you don’t have to deal with immature bullshit.
- Two, she already knows what she wants in a guy, and so if she’s interested in you, it’s for real.
- And three, there’s the thrill of getting her to dump the other guy for you, proving that you’re the better man.
Of course, there are also a couple of disadvantages about dating a married woman. These two are the obvious ones…
- One, she might have some pretty heavy emotional baggage from a dysfunctional marriage…
- And two, her husband might beat the shit out of you.
For me, it’s pretty simple…
As long as she’s not batshit crazy, I’m game. And I don’t give a fuck about the other guy because I’m 6’8 and I’ve got a black belt in Ass Kicking.
So, it’s entirely up to you if you want to go ahead with the married woman or not. If you want to know how to seduce a married woman, then this exclusive DerekRake.com guide has got all the answers for you!
How To Seduce A Married Woman With Words
To make a married woman fall for you, there are three steps that you need to take. Let’s get into the entire process, step-by-step, OK?
Step #1: Make her interested in you
The thing about a married woman is that if she shows ANY sign of interest in you, she’s for real.
Remember… she’s pretty much experienced in dating and so she won’t be playing games. If she’s showing some interest in you, then you can safely assume that she likes you.
Step #2: Make her love you more than her husband
This is easy if she already has an unhappy marriage. All you need to do is to find out what she hates about her husband. And when you’ve done that, keep REMINDING her what she hates about him.
For example, let’s say her husband is a deadbeat who does nothing but drink beer and watch Game Of Thrones on repeat. So, here’s what you can say to her:
“I can’t stand lazy people. They just sit on their ass all day and do jack shit.”
Or:
“I know of a friend who turned out to be a deadbeat husband who did nothing but watch Netflix all day. I really pity her wife. It must be tough married to a slob like that.”
See what I did there?
What you shouldn’t do, however, is to be DIRECT about it. For example, you should NEVER say:
“I’m the better man for you. Dump the fucker!”
You must be as under-the-radar as possible so that she doesn’t know what you’re trying to do. Get it?
Step #3: Use Fractionation on her
Fractionation is a Mind Control trick that can make any woman emotionally addicted to you. (And if you haven’t heard of Fractionation before… where have you been, man?)
Remember I said that married women have more emotional baggage than usual? Well, that can turn out to be an ADVANTAGE for you because you can EXPLOIT that weakness for YOUR BENEFIT. And you do this by using the Fractionation technique.
With Fractionation, you’ll make her go through an emotional roller coaster – through a series of ups and downs over time. This way, you’ll build up her addiction to you, and she won’t be able to resist you. Believe me!
There’s one caveat though…
The Fractionation effect is permanent – once you’ve gotten her to be emotionally addicted to you, she won’t be able to quit you. And when you dump her, she’ll suffer greatly.
Therefore, be absolutely, 100% sure that you want to use it before you do – and do it responsibly!
To get started on how to use Fractionation to seduce women (married or single), watch this Masterclass.
I want your advice I met a married woman on the net and I like her and we talk and we will travel together but in different cabins , we live in Finland and she says that she got free marriage fro her husband , I tired to search in the internet but I did not read that she can make relationship with another man or not !? I want to your advice how can I make her sleep with me but she says that we are friends. If you could answer me as soon as possible. What can I do to make her sleep with me . Thanks .
You’ve been friend-zoned. Start back from I stage in the IRAE Model, and move quickly to E stage without developing Contextual Rapport.
There is a married women in my building. She is interested. She shows much of interest in me. I’m 23 she is 29. But it is possible she just wants to talk to me and not get intimate, you know. It might get wrong image of me as we live in same building if I ask her directly and if i keep talking, i don’t want that, meaning it is really weird to talk to her with that intention, flirting and all. Situation is she has kids, she shows interest like she wants to talk. What exactly should I do here?