How To Handle Rejection Like An Alpha Male
Did you just get rejected by the woman you’re interested in?
If you just did, then welcome to the club. Just about every guy worth his shit has gone through at least one rejection, and it hurts like hell.
You may feel like a loser. You may feel like giving up. The rejection might be replaying over and over in your mind, and you don’t know how to get over it.
If that sounds in any way like you right now, then you’ve come to the right place.
By the end of this Shogun Method guide, you’ll know how to get over rejection, how to deal with rejection in the future…
…and most importantly, how to make yourself “rejection-proof” to women.
Let’s get the first lesson out of the way:
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Rejection Is Normal
That’s right – it’s normal.
Whenever you try to improve your life in any way, it’s normal to rack up failures along the way:
- You’ll go through several companies before finding your dream job
- You’ll go through several setbacks before your business takes off
- You’ll go through several rejections before you find the women who absolutely LOVE you
In the dating game, EVERY guy gets rejected every now and then. Even the manliest, most confident “alpha males” out there get shot down by a woman once in a while.
The key to success with women is simple – to keep approaching women until you find the women who will NOT reject you.
And yes – there ARE women out there who, if you give them a chance, would be absolutely THRILLED to meet you.
But if you get so hung up over one or two rejections that you stop approaching women altogether… then you’ll never find them.
Find The Ones Who Won’t Reject You
The great Michael Jordan once said:
“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
The game of dating is like the game of basketball. When you take a shot, sometimes you miss, and sometimes you make it.
Sometimes, women will reject you. But other times, women will absolutely LOVE you and will gladly say “yes” to you.
The catch? To find those women, you’ll need to go through some rejection.
Even if only one in 20 women feels thrilled to meet you, she will make those 19 rejections worth it. Am I right?
The happiest guys out there – married or otherwise – are the guys who simply never gave up. They kept looking, kept approaching, and kept racking up rejections…
…until they found one, three, or five women who absolutely LOVED them.
Some of the guys chose the best one in the group and married her.
Other guys dated the ladies in a rotation.
Still others never stop approaching, always meeting new women who don’t reject them.
Which of these three setups is the one you want?
Whichever it might be – if you can’t get over rejection, you might never achieve it.
Get over rejection NOW.
Here’s how to do that in two steps:
Step #1: Embrace Rejection
Here’s the thing: When you get rejected, it’s NOT always your fault.
Sure, sometimes it IS your fault…
- You’re too forward and upfront with your feelings
- You tried moving too fast with her
- You’re not attractive enough (or didn’t make yourself attractive enough)
- You used cheesy pickup lines that failed miserably
- You built too much Rapport with her that she ended up friend-zoning you
But other times, the woman you approach is simply UNABLE to say “yes” to you:
- She’s too busy to see anyone at the moment
- She’s already happily taken
- She’s lesbian
- She’s sick the time you approached her
- She’s having a bad day and would rather not meet anyone new
In either case, getting rejected is actually a GOOD thing.
Because it saves you MASSIVE amounts of time and energy. When a woman rejects you outright, it’s a clear sign: You won’t get any relationship or sex with her no matter what you try.
That is a MILLION times better than spending hours, days, or weeks courting a woman…
…and spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on her…
…only to get rejected at the very end.
Wouldn’t you agree?
Outright rejections are awesome, and you should be grateful to women who do that. Thank them for their time, and then move on to the next woman. Easy peasy.
Now here’s a special case: What if a woman rejects you RUDELY?
What if she puts you down so blatantly, in public, that your reputation gets unfairly damaged?
That’s where Step #2 comes in:
Step #2: Learn How To Handle Rude Rejections
Sometimes, some women put you down in incredibly rude ways:
- They insult you
- They reject you in front of other people
- They use a lot of sarcasm
- They reject you loudly and exaggeratedly
What should you do in these situations?
Again, most rejections are good – they save you time and energy.
But when a rejection lowers your status (such as when it happens in public, or when she crosses a line)…
…that’s when you can have a little fun.
This is where you can have some smart, witty retorts that kick HER status a few notches down. At the same time, you’ll be bringing yours a few notches up.
Here are a few good ways to restore the balance after a woman makes you look bad:
HER: “I’m way out of your league.”
YOU: “Well, you do look older, I’ll give you that.”
HER: “Go away.”
YOU: “You looked like you needed a friend, but… never mind.”
HER: “You’re not my type.”
YOU: “Hey, don’t be picky. I’m not.”
HER: “Eww. I’m not interested in you.”
YOU: “Whoa, hey. Not me. I was gonna introduce you to my lesbian friend… but never mind.”
Hopefully, you’ll never need these, but just in case, have these retorts at the ready.
Now here’s a question for you:
What’s better than the ability to embrace rejection AND give snappy comebacks to rude women?
Without a doubt, it’s the ability to charm women SO WELL that they find it almost impossible to reject you.
Whenever women meet you for the first time, they’re rewarded with a flood of good feelings and warm tingles.
If they spend enough time with you, they can’t help but FALL IN LOVE with you.
Can you become this “rejection-proof?”
You sure can.
There are two ways to become rejection-proof:
- The long way. You become incredibly attractive in all areas of your life. You get ripped, you get rich, you get popular, and so on.
- The short way. You use Mind Control. You make women FEEL like you’re the strongest, manliest, most dominant guy they’ve ever met. Yes, even if you’re not quite there yet.
I do suggest you take both ways. Use the long way in the background, always molding yourself into a better, more attractive man. It’ll take years, but you’ll get there.
But in the foreground, use the short way. Use Mind Control.
That way, you’ll have the ability to charm ANY woman you want, anywhere you want, anytime you want…
…using nothing more than your words and gestures.
Want to learn the basics of Mind Control? Then you’re welcome to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
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Now go ahead – make it hard for women to say “no” to you.
P.S: What was the worst rejection you’ve ever experienced, and how did you handle it? Tell me your story in the comments section below.