How do you build lightning rapport with a girl you’ve just met? Well, it’s easy if you know how.
Most guys make the mistake of saying the first thing that comes to their minds. Don’t do this. In fact, the most important thing to do first is to say nothing at all.
If you know Shogun Method, then you should already know this: Rapport is subconscious. What you communicate with a girl subconsciously is more important than what you say to her. And often, a girl will already have decided if she likes you even before you talk to her. It’s true.
Remember… in Shogun Method, what you want to do is to bypass her conscious mind. Rejection is a conscious, rational thing. So, to make a girl like you, you must make appeal to her subconscious so that she becomes irrational.
How do you do this?
Well, before you say anything to a girl, here’s what you need to do: notice her breathing pattern. See her chest rise and fall. Notice the rhythm of her breath by observing her chest. Now, don’t look too obvious or you might perv her out, OK?
Next, pace your breathing to her breathing pattern. Inhale and exhale as she does. Again, be as natural as you can. You just have to do this for a couple of seconds. That’s all you need to do. Simple, right?
Why does this work? Well, here’s the answer… it’s all about the subconscious mind. It’s how our brains are wired. Psychologists (in particular, Shogun Method’s intellectual ancestor Carl Jung) call this synchronicity. Ever wondered why we hit it off with certain people but we don’t know why? It’s because we synchronize with them subconsciously. And Breathe Pattern Matching is a great way to sync with a girl’s subconscious mind.
Now, know this: a girl’s rational mind is your enemy. To get a girl to like you, make her emotional and keep her irrational. And this is what Shogun Method does for you: It drowns a girl inside her own cocktail of emotions so you can checkmate her will and rational thought. After all, she can’t reject you when you control her emotions, right?
OK, so once you’ve matched her breathing patterns, what do you do next? This: hit her with an Intrigue Ping. It’s a simple line that gets a girl intrigued with you so she wants to talk to you more. Again, it’s a subconscious device that works covertly on a girl’s mind. Once intrigued, it’ll be easy to put her under hypnotic trance. (To learn how to hypnotize a girl and make her fall in love, you’ve got to escalate her beyond the Intrigue stage.)
To learn more about Intrigue Pings, study Module 4 of Shogun Method. If you’re already a Shogun, click here.