How To Make Your Relationship Exciting
Are you dating a woman right now, and you want to know how to excite her sexually?
Or have you been in a relationship that’s been getting stale recently, and you want to spice things up?
Or are the old tricks that used to make your relationship exciting no longer working for you?
If any of the three situations above apply to you, and if you plan to read this Shogun Method guide to the end…
…then let me start off by commending you. I think it’s great how you’re actively looking for ways to make your relationship exciting and keep it that way.
It’s true – the key to ANY lasting relationship is an excitement level that’s kept constantly high.
Not many guys know that, but you do. And I think that’s awesome.
Now here’s the problem:
Sometimes, making a relationship exciting (or keeping it exciting) can be confusing:
- You might not know HOW to excite a woman
- You might not know how to KEEP a woman excited
- She’s “outgrown” the things that used to excite her, and you’re stumped about what to do next
So if you have problems about making or keeping your woman excited…
…or you don’t YET, but want to avoid having those problems at all costs…
…then what you’ll learn in this guide will change how you lead your relationship forever.
Table of Contents
How To Excite A Woman Sexually
When it comes to “exciting a woman,” most guys think of the SEXUAL kind of excitement:
- Bedroom tactics
- Kinky games
- Mind-blowing sex
Unfortunately, that idea of exciting a woman is incomplete.
Why? Because that’s the kind of excitement that gets MEN going. We’re simple creatures – if it has anything to do with sex, we’re game.
And many of us tend to think that since women are human beings too, then they get turned on by the same things that turn US on.
But no, women are NOT the same.
Read this carefully: A woman’s arousal doesn’t begin INSIDE the bedroom, but OUTSIDE of it.
If you want to excite a woman sexually, you’ll need to start well before sex.
The Difference Between Men And Women
For men, sexual excitement is pretty straightforward. You see a hot naked woman, she makes eye contact with you, and she bites her lip. You can bet you’ll get a boner.
It’s very different for women, though. For women, arousal is much more complex.
To be specific, sexual arousal for women has an EMOTIONAL component to it.
They need to get “warmed up,” so to speak, and get turned on emotionally BEFORE they can get wet.
This is where most guys trip up. They don’t know the first thing about exciting women EMOTIONALLY.
Luckily for you, you’re about to learn how to do just that.
How To NOT Excite A Woman Emotionally
First off, let’s talk about the three things you should NEVER do when trying to excite w woman:
- NEVER directly say what you’ll do to her in the bedroom. You risk turning her OFF if she’s not attracted to you. And even if you DO turn her on, it ruins the excitement if you can’t take her somewhere private within the next 10 minutes.
- NEVER use Pickup Artist tricks. Women have seen these tricks a million times. When she sees you do it, she immediately knows what you’re up to, and she quickly switches to defensive mode.
- NEVER send her dick pics. For fuck’s sake, do I need to explain why? If you need more proof, Google “why women hate dick pics.”
Now that THAT’S out of the way, let’s move on to what women DO love.
How To Excite A Woman Emotionally
It’s easier to internalize how to excite a woman emotionally when you know how the female mind works.
The female mind feels the MOST excited when it’s:
- Not in control
- Grappling with a mystery
- Under emotional stress
- Struggling to find answers to nagging questions
- In keen anticipation of something good that’s about to happen
The key to exciting a woman emotionally, then, is to simply put her in the states above.
When she’s not in control of her situation, under some emotional stress, and is in keen anticipation of something good…
…then she’ll look to YOU to take control, alleviate her stress, and reward her.
How exactly do you do that?
With a Mind Control technique called Fractionation.
Here’s how Fractionation works…
An Emotional Thrill Ride
Fractionation is a technique that puts your woman in a “trance…”
…then snapping her out of it…
…then putting her in a trance again, over and over.
When a woman is under a “trance,” the following changes happen to her:
- She drops her guard and pays complete attention to you
- She feels a nagging curiosity about you
- She unconsciously starts seeing you as the “fix” to her fear, curiosity, and need for arousal
What you’re doing is putting her on a sort of “emotional rollercoaster.” You’re putting her in rapidly alternating states of:
- Curiosity and resolution
- Emotional stress and relief
- Sexual tension and release
- Vulnerability and safety
- Pain and happiness
The more frequent the rollercoasters are, the more she’ll link safety, arousal, and joy to you.
Would your woman be much more excited if she saw YOU as the SOURCE of her safety, arousal, and joy?
You better believe it. And that emotional excitement can evolve into sexual excitement in the blink of an eye.
Here are a few quick ideas on how to put your woman in a trance and snapping her out of it:
- Chatting, then telling a happy story with a sad ending (or vice-versa), then going back to chitchat
- Doing something dangerous or scary with her, then taking her home safely
- Taking her to multiple locations and doing multiple activities during a single date
- Doing some small talk, then “read her mind” accurately, then go back to small talk
- Discussing platonic topics, then switching to romantic topics, then going back to platonic
An Uncontrollable Addiction
The problem with kinky bedroom games and Pickup Artist tricks is this: They don’t last.
They’re exciting for a while. But afterward, they lose their charm, and your woman gets bored again.
Fractionation is different. Its profound effect on the female mind tends to get STRONGER with time, not weaker.
Why? Because of yet another fact about the female mind:
Emotional rollercoasters are the female mind’s most addicting, most satisfying “drug.”
Women LOVE emotional rollercoasters, even if they don’t know it. It’s the reason why women are so addicted to:
- Erotic novels like 50 Shades
- Gossip with their girlfriends (and even with strangers)
- TV Dramas like Grey’s Anatomy and Game of Thrones
- Dating jerky “bad boys” and rebels without causes
- Gossipy magazines for women
Imagine if you could make your woman as addicted to YOU as she is addicted to 50 Shades or Game of Thrones.
That’s what emotional rollercoasters do. That’s what Fractionation does.
My advice? If you want to excite a woman, then master the art of Fractionation.
And you can do that today. If you want to learn more about Fractionation and how to use it to excite women…
…then sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
Check out the Online Masterclass now:
(NOTE: Use your best e-mail address when signing up. It’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Online Masterclass.)
Want your relationship to last?
Then get her addicted to you. That’s all there is to it.
The thing is that kinky bedroom games and Pickup tricks will NOT get her addicted to you. Not for long.
But emotional rollercoasters will. Fractionation will.
My advice? Master it now. Here’s the link to my Online Masterclass again.
Go get her,
P.S.: Have you ever tried to “spice up” your relationship, only to have it blow up in your face? Tell me about it in the comments section below.