Want to learn how to be confident with women?
If you tend to feel nervous and insecure around attractive women, then this video is for you.
And I’d like to start out by telling you this:
It’s NOT your fault if you feel that way.
What you’re feeling isn’t really nervousness or insecurity.
Instead, it’s a deeper, more primal fear. And that’s the fear of rejection.
This fear is part of some “obsolete wiring” that Mother Nature programmed us with. Back in the days of our ancestors, being accepted was a matter of life and death. If the village rejected you, you were good as dead.
These days, of course, you’re not going to die if women reject you. And yet the fear is still there.
Here’s the problem: As long as you let this fear RUN you, then you’ll never be successful with women.
And that goes without saying, right? Women fall in love with strong, confident men. They do NOT fall in love with a guy who gets nervous just by being around them.
So let’s fix that TODAY using the tips you’ll learn in this video.
I’m about to show you the top 4 ways to be confident with women.
Now here are the top 4 ways to be more confident with women.
The first way is this:
Have a bigger fear than the fear of rejection.
Yup, you heard that right.
What works for most guys is to realize a simple truth about the issue. If you’re always afraid of getting rejected by the women you like, then you’ll never take risks.
And if you never take risks, you’ll be alone and unsuccessful with women for the rest of your life.
Now THAT’S scary, don’t you think?
So that’s tip number one: Getting rejected is okay. Be more afraid of being ALONE for the rest of your life.
Here’s the second way to be more confident with women:
Find a bigger goal than just being successful with women.
In other words, success with women should be your number two priority in life. Or even number three, or even number four.
The rule is this: Women should NEVER be your number one priority.
And this makes sense, right? If you got something in your life that’s bigger and more important to you than women, then women aren’t so scary anymore.
So make something in your life bigger than women. It could be your work. It could be your “mission in life.” It could be ticking things off your bucket list. Whatever.
Just make sure to have at least one thing in your life as a higher priority than women. Got it?
Now let’s move on to the third way how to be confident with women, and that is:
Be growth-oriented instead of outcome-oriented.
Here’s a thing about the fear of rejection – it’s an outcome-oriented fear.
It desperately wants ONE outcome to happen. It wants you to NOT get rejected. Any other outcome is a “bad” outcome.
Why trap yourself like that, right?
Here’s my advice: Focus LESS on your desired outcomes and MORE on your personal growth.
To be specific, you got to focus on building confidence little by little. And that includes making mistakes and getting rejected.
Think of it this way. If you’re outcome-oriented and you get rejected, you feel pain. So you stop trying and end up a complete failure with women.
Meanwhile, if you’re GROWTH-oriented and you get rejected, you feel different. You actually feel JOY.
Why? It’s because getting rejected is the FASTEST way to grow in confidence. The more you get rejected, the more you get used to it, and the less it bothers you.
Can you imagine a life without fear?
That’s the life you’ll live when you’re growth-oriented.
So quick recap before we continue…
- First, be more afraid of being alone forever than getting rejected.
- Second, have a bigger goal than just being successful with women.
- And third, make your life about growth, not results.
These three ways are tried-and-true ways to become more confident with women.
Their only drawback is that they take tons of time. They’re not just techniques – they’re also lifestyle changes.
So here’s my advice. While you’re putting these three lifestyle changes in place, use the fourth technique.
The fourth technique is called the “DCR” Technique, and I’m about to show it to you.
Now let me tell you all about the DCR Technique.
The DCR Technique was taught to me by my dating coach and friend, Derek Rake.
Derek is the founder of the Shogun Method school of dating, and I happen to be one of his 17,000 students.
“DCR” stands for “Don’t Chase – Replace.”
Like the first three techniques before it, the DCR Technique is also a lifestyle change. To be specific, it makes you adopt the mindset of “never chasing” a woman. And instead, you’ll always be ready to “replace” her with another woman.
Here’s how it works.
Let’s say you’re at a party, and you’re chatting with a hot new woman. You’re having a good time, and then you tell her:
“Hey, you’re pretty cool. Give me your number.”
And then she does what most women do – she tries to make you chase her. She says:
“Um, why should I give you my number?”
At this point, an unconfident, outcome-oriented guy might say something like:
“Oh, come on. I’m a nice guy. I won’t stalk you, I promise.”
Bleagh. Pathetic. You’re chasing. That’s an example of what never to do.
Instead, keep the mantra in mind: “Don’t Chase. Replace.”
So when she says, “Um, why should I give you my number?”
You can then tease her by saying:
“It’s not for me. It’s for my lesbian friend. But you know what – forget it.”
And then when she says, “I’m kidding, here’s my number…”
You tell her: “Nah, it’s cool. See you when I see you.” And you turn around and enjoy the rest of the party.
See what you just did there?
You actually rejected her FIRST. And you did it by teasing her, leaving her, or declining her requests.
And by doing so, you “rejection-proof” yourself.
Pretty neat, huh?
Now, she might feel hurt or offended at first. This is fine. Later on, she’ll feel the insatiable urge to get back at you. And so she might look for opportunities during the party to talk to you again.
Congratulations – you made HER chase you.
What’s more, all the other women in the party who were watching you will see you as a super-confident guy. And so they will be more interested in you, too.
In a nutshell, that’s how the DCR Technique builds your confidence AND makes women like you more.
Now, if you like how the DCR Technique works, then you’ll love this…
Here’s a bonus technique for you to learn.
It’s called “Fractionation.”
My coach Derek Rake calls it the “most powerful Mind Control technique in the world.”
And when it comes to becoming confident with women, nothing beats Fractionation.
Think about this:
What if you had the ability to make women feel completely ADDICTED to you?
What if you could make a woman FALL MADLY IN LOVE with you, even if she just met you?
Wouldn’t it be great if you could have this kind of power in the dating game?
Well, guess what – you CAN have this power
In fact, you can have this power TODAY.
The catch is that you MUST learn Fractionation. It’s the key.
So let me make that as easy as possible for you.
In just a moment, a link will pop up inside this video.
I want you to click on that link because it’ll take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
After you sign up, Derek himself will teach you how to become a master of Fractionation.
And here’s the best part – you don’t need to be supremely confident to master Fractionation.
The question is simple: Do you want to be successful with women?
And if you do, are you willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to achieve that success?
If your answer is “yes,” then you’re actually Derek’s ideal student.
And Fractionation will change your life FOREVER. Trust me on this!
What are you waiting for? Click the link and join the Online Masterclass now. Do it. Click the link now.