Are rebound relationships good or bad? Let’s find out, alright?
First things first…
What IS a rebound relationship?
Simply, it’s a new relationship that people get into right after a breakup.
Now, they may never admit it, but their rebound relationships are borne out of convenience. They’re not founded on love, strength, and dominance as they’re supposed to be.
In other words, if you find yourself rushing into a rebound relationship, be careful. You might not know it, but you’re unconsciously trying to get over the pain of losing the woman you REALLY love.
And that’s the biggest danger of rebound relationships. If you’re doing it just to “get over” your last relationship, chances are you’ll lose this one real fast, too.
When you think about it – that’s really unfair to the new girl, right? You bet it is.
Now, does that make rebound relationships BAD by default?
Here’s the thing: The answer is “no.”
In fact, your rebound relationship can be REALLY GOOD if it leads to one of two outcomes.
And that’s what this video will be about.
So here are the TWO outcomes you should be striving for.
The first outcome is to make this new relationship your FOREVER relationship.
If your new girl is PERFECT for you, that’s awesome. If she’s ten times better than your ex, and she makes you forget about your past relationship – that’s good.
If that’s your situation, then that’s perfect – you probably don’t need to watch the rest of this video.
On the other hand, if it’s NOT your situation…
…if you still have feelings for your ex, and you sometimes wish you could still get her back…
…then you must strive towards the SECOND outcome.
Your rebound relationship should make your ex want to get back with you.
After all, she’s the one you REALLY want, right?
Now you might be wondering: “Now wait a second, Derek – making my ex want to get back with me? Isn’t that sneaky and manipulative?”
Put simply – yes, it is. It needs to be.
Think about it. What’s more important to you? Your reputation? Or your happiness?
If your reputation is more important to you than your happiness, then you can close this video now. Thanks for your time, but I probably can’t help you.
On the other hand, if your happiness is more important than your reputation – as it SHOULD be…
…then listen closely to what I’m about to say.
First, let’s face reality. Your wife or girlfriend left you, and now you’re in a relationship with a new girl.
Or you’re not in a rebound relationship YET, but you’re desperate to get over the pain. And so, you have this HUGE urge to get into a new relationship with a new woman FAST.
This situation is BAD, I’m not going to lie. But I’m willing to bet it’s NOT your fault.
You’re probably in a rebound right now, or looking for one, because of all the advice you’ve read on the Internet so far.
Lots of pickup “goo-roos” out there will tell you that to get over a breakup, just get into a new relationship.
To be honest – that’s crap advice.
Think about it.
“Getting over a breakup by getting into a new relationship” puts you in a cycle that never ends. And it actually gets worse over time, did you know?
In the U.S. alone, 50% of first marriages end in divorce.
For second marriages, it’s worse. 67% end in divorce.
And for third marriages? A whopping 74% end in divorce. It’s true!
Clearly, getting into rebounds “just to get over the last one” is a downward spiral. It’ll get harder and harder to find the success and happiness you really want.
So, I know what you’re thinking: “So if rebound relationships are a bad idea, why do so many gurus and magazines promote it?”
Simple – because they want you to keep buying their stuff. They want to keep you in this downward spiral because that’s what lets them take your money.
Am I right, or am I right?
I hope you see the danger of BELIEVING rebound relationships are good. They’re really not.
So, what should you do instead?
Here’s what I believe.
Your rebound relationship, or your efforts to get into one, should do one thing. And that is to get your ex back, because SHE’S the one you really love.
I mean, think about it.
If you could get your ex back and make your relationship even BETTER than it ever was, wouldn’t that be great?
Of course, it would. That’s the best-case scenario. And that’s what you should be striving towards.
Luckily for you, I got a technique that’s going to help you do just that.
So here’s how to get your ex back while in a rebound relationship with the DJF TECHNIQUE.
The “DJF” in “DJF Technique” stands for “Doing Just Fine.”
It was taught to me by my friend and mentor, Derek Rake.
If Derek’s name sounds familiar, it’s because he’s one of the more controversial dating coaches around.
Derek is controversial because he doesn’t teach “pickup.” In fact, he HATES pickup.
And instead, he teaches Mind Control. He teaches his students how to use psychology to get the results they want out of their love lives.
And the DJF Technique is one of his more powerful Mind Control techniques. It’s true!
Here’s how it works…
When your ex calls you or contacts you in any way, you bring the message across that you’re “doing just fine.”
You give her the impression that you’re getting along really well without her.
Now, how do you do that? Here are a few good ways:
- If she asks how you’re doing, tell her you’re “doing just fine.”
- Also, if she asks you to call her, do so while in a party, preferably with squealing girls in the background.
- And if she asks who you’re with, tell her the name of your rebound girl. Avoid rubbing it in – casually tell your ex she’s good for you, and that you’re doing okay.
See how it works?
This makes your ex feel JEALOUS. When she realizes your life actually IMPROVED when she left you, she’ll go crazy. And she’ll start making moves to win you back.
Now, the key is to execute the technique CASUALLY. There must be no pain, no grudges, and no animosity in your voice. Just happiness and peace of mind. You’re “doing just fine,” after all.
If you execute the DJF Technique correctly, then she’ll stay in touch. And inevitably, she’ll ask if you could meet face-to-face just to “catch up.”
That’s when you meet her as a good friend. You talk to her like a friend, you have fun like a friend, you relive the good times like a friend.
Eventually, if you treat her like a friend long enough, she’ll bring up the topic of your past relationship. She might even ask for a second chance.
When that happens, that’s when you lay out your new terms.
You tell her: “I’ll admit. I do miss those times. But if we were to get back together, some things have got to change…” and you tell her what your “second chance” relationship will be like.
If she misses you enough – and she will, if you execute the DJF Technique perfectly – she’ll gladly say “yes.” Believe me.
And when THAT happens, congratulations. You’ve successfully won your ex back, even if you’re in a rebound relationship.
Now, you might be wondering: “But what about my rebound girl?”
Well, NOW do you see why rebound relationships tend to be bad news? They just complicate things. In fact, you can execute the DJF Technique WITHOUT a rebound girl.
It’ll be a lot easier to let go of your rebound if you didn’t become boyfriend-girlfriend. And that’s my parting tip for you. If you ever DO get into a rebound relationship, and you STILL want to get your ex back at the same time…
…then avoid making any promises you can’t keep. Better stick to being friends, or hobby buddies, or friends-with-benefits.
Now, one more thing about the DJF Technique…
I’ve met guys who used it on their ex, and IMMEDIATELY got her back the same day.
When she asked them to call her, they’d be in parties with squealing girls… or in a rebound relationship… or even just enjoying the single life without her.
It shocked her enough that she initiated the topic of getting back together right away. And so, these guys laid out their terms, got her back, and started a newer, better relationship with her.
Now, what happened? What went RIGHT?
It’s the core technique behind the DJF Technique, that’s what. It’s a little-known, yet super-powerful, technique called “Fractionation.”
It’s another Mind Control technique. It works by putting women on emotional rollercoasters.
That’s the key. Put a woman on an emotional rollercoaster, and she falls in love with you.
Or in this case, she falls BACK in love with you.
Now, I won’t explain the whole of Fractionation in this video.
Instead, I got something better lined up for you – a Masterclass by Derek Rake himself.
In just a moment, a link will come up inside this video. Click on it right away, because it’s your ticket to Derek’s Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
In this Masterclass, Derek will teach you all about Fractionation. What it is, how it works, and how to use it on your woman TODAY.
This is the technique that has changed 17,000 men’s lives so far. And it will change yours, too, if you want.
Want to get your ex back?
Want to make your second-chance relationship to be the absolute best it can be?
And are you willing to do WHATEVER it takes?
Then you owe it to yourself – and to her – to click on this link right now. Do it.