Okay, so I’ve been getting emails from women, asking if someone is using Shogun Method on them. Well, so here’s a quick blog post answering that question.
Before we start, I need to clarify something. After all, I am Derek Rake, the man who wrote Shogun Method. And as such, I don’t see anything wrong with men using my knowledge to gain an edge in their relationships. Some think it’s not right for a man to have all this power. But, riddle me this. Without Shogun Method, how can a brother Shogun copes with the seven women he’s currently seeing? Makes no practical sense at all.
So, without further ado, if you’re a woman and you’re wondering if someone is using Shogun Method one you, here are the three signs to look out for.
- First, you feel intrigued by him even though he’s “not your type”. You tell yourself you’ll never be attracted to him, and yet you do. And so, sometimes you hate yourself for it.
- Second, he sometimes say some really weird things and uses some awkward phrases. He’ll tell you stories that make you feel happy and sad at the same time. (In Shogun Method, we call this Fractionation.)
- Third, he’s utterly unpredictable. He’s sweet as candy one day, and cold as ice the next. He’s doing this to fuck with your mind, and is known as “Rollercoastering” in Shogun Method.
Score 3/3 and he’s using Shogun Method on you, I can guarantee that.
Cool stuff man,
Can you use this on a man? Or does this apply to women only?
I’ve known from the start he was doing this to me, I even questioned him on it at the beginning.
It’s not to say it didn’t work even though I knew, I just didn’t know exactly what it was until now, or why he was doing it.
I believe it has finally worked.
We are not in a relationship and he has refused to give me on.
When I question why the answer is either always different or its an open ended question.
“That’s not the real issue”
Leaving me guessing until recently, the issue is that I wasn’t submitting
Now what? Is he doing it to make me love him or to simply control me?
It’s taken a year, seems like a lot of effort to go to, to have a women submit to you with no outcome other than that.
He has barely slept with me in a year, he will only do it if I have behaved for long enough.
So it isn’t about gaining or holding access to me sexually.
When I read all of this it made me love him more and not less.
I felt that if he was going to such lengths to ensure that if we did end up together that we would last.
Then he must love me.
Otherwise why work so hard and put in so much trial and effort for nothing at the end.
I did your test and apparently I have the Persephone type.
I’d like to know what I do now I know? All I want to do is love him now and give him what he wants so we can be happy.
Elizabeth, I am in no position to know his intentions. But, yes, it’s pointless for a man to go through the entire trouble (let’s face it–Shogun Method is by no means trivial) if he doesn’t love her.