Are you heading for a breakup?
Do you feel you’re about to lose your girlfriend, despite your best efforts?
Want to learn how to stop a breakup before it’s too late?
I know, I know – it’s a nerve-wracking situation to be in. And for good reason. Deep inside, you know it’s “on you” to make the relationship work.
And if it fails, it’s like a tattoo on you, telling the world that you’re a bad boyfriend. It might sound crazy, but that’s how it FEELS, doesn’t it?
Well, this video should make you feel better.
The good news is this: There IS a way to stop a breakup. It’s just probably something you’ve never heard of before.
So how do you stop a breakup?
With a technique called the DORA technique, and you’re about to learn it in this video.
So let me tell you all about the DORA technique.
It’s a new technique developed by the mentalist and dating coach, Derek Rake.
In case Derek’s name sounds familiar, it’s because you’ve probably heard of the Shogun Method school of dating. Derek is its founder and head instructor. He teaches his students to use Mind Control to lead their relationships with women.
And the DORA technique happens to be one of his go-to methods of fixing a failing relationship.
DORA actually stands for “Delayed Onset Re-Attraction.” It operates on one basic fact: That when a woman is “falling out of love” with you, she’s really losing her ATTRACTION to you.
And the solution is simple: Rekindle that attraction, and she’ll stay.
Unfortunately, here’s the problem…
Most guys, when their girlfriend is “falling out of love”, try to re-ignite the attraction RIGHT AWAY.
So they take her on fancy dates or expensive vacations…
Or they buy her gifts and do her favors…
Or they cancel all their plans to spend more time with her…
You get the idea.
And it actually works… for a while.
For a few days, she’s happy and in love, and things seem back to normal.
Unfortunately, soon afterward, she slips back into her old habits.
She’s nitpicky again, she’s critical again, she’s unreasonable again…
You get the idea.
If you’ve had similar experiences yourself, then you know how it is.
And that’s where the DORA technique can help you.
As its name implies, Delayed Onset Re-Attraction means you rekindle her love for you. Only not RIGHT AWAY.
Instead, you DELAY it somewhat.
And as a result, the Re-Attraction becomes much more powerful.
Let me show you how it works…
The DORA technique has three steps.
The first step is to call a “cool-off period” in your relationship.
This is where you tell her: “You know, we’re both really stressed out right now. Let’s take a few weeks off from each other. Let’s see what happens after that.”
In a way, you’re calling a “temporary breakup.” And it’s non-negotiable – no matter what she says or does, you stand firm on the cool-off period.
If you have to, you pack your bags and live someplace else for those few weeks, just to get away from her.
Yup, that’s the first step.
Harsh? Sure, but that’s the point of the DORA technique.
It’s meant to snap her out of the “I want a breakup” state of mind. And instead, it puts her into a “What’s going on, I don’t know what to do” state of mind.
It’s because you want her in an insecure, helpless state. Only then will she feel the uncontrollable urge to find the most familiar source of security she’s known.
And that’s YOU, her boyfriend.
After a few days or weeks of zero contact, she’ll start missing you. She’ll then get in touch with you, ask how you’re doing, and hint about getting back together.
When that happens, congratulations. You’ve begun the process of Re-Attraction.
However, stay vigilant. You can still make a critical mistake here.
Most guys, when their girlfriend asks to get back together, immediately give in. They say, “Sure, baby, I missed you!”, and they think their job’s done.
Yet, after a few days, they realize they’re sorely mistaken. Their girlfriend slips right back into her bad habits – and it might be even WORSE this time around.
It’s all because they’re missing a critical ingredient: Her respect.
Here’s why: Your girlfriend will only love you if she’s attracted to you.
And she’ll only feel attracted to you if she RESPECTS you.
And she’ll only respect you if you’re a strong, dominant man who’s in control of his relationship.
And when you show you’re NOT in control – such as when you welcome her back so readily – then she loses respect for you.
And since she loses respect, she loses attraction. And so she falls out of love all over again.
See the problem here?
The key is to welcome her back, but at the same time, you show her that YOU’RE in charge of the relationship, not her.
How do you do that?
With the second step of the DORA technique, which I’ll show you in just a moment.
Now here’s the all-important second step of the DORA technique.
The second step is NOT to welcome her back so readily.
Instead, Step #2 is to amplify the Re-Attraction.
Remember: She’ll only be attracted to you if she respects you.
And so the second step is to make her respect you more BEFORE you welcome her back.
How exactly do you do this?
By showing her you’re in charge of the relationship, not her.
For instance, when she asks to get back together, you tell her:
“You know what? I’m actually happier this way. I’m meeting new people and experiencing new things. But most of all, I’m in total control over what happens in my life.”
You can also then say:
“Don’t get me wrong – I do miss you. But if we’re gonna get back together, some things HAVE to change.”
And then you lay out your new terms for the relationship.
- Maybe she should stop criticizing your choices from now on.
- Or maybe she should let you take your Tuesday and Friday nights off to see your friends.
- Or perhaps you want her to stop badgering you about getting married.
- Or maybe you want her to use more respectful language around you.
You get the idea. It’s your way or the highway.
And if she can’t agree with your new terms, she can leave.
Which, by the way, is a good thing. You don’t want to be the slave of a woman who doesn’t respect you and your authority.
Meanwhile, if she DOES agree with your new terms, then congratulations. You’ve won her back. You’ve stopped the breakup, and you’ve started a stronger, happier relationship.
Now, here’s the thing…
As great as the DORA technique is in fixing a failing relationship, it’s not a permanent solution.
I mean, even after you win your girlfriend back, things can happen that will erode her attraction to you.
- For instance, you might not enforce your new terms firmly enough, and she slips back into her bad habits.
- Or she might decide your new terms are too tough and start thinking about leaving again.
- Or she might meet a new guy who’s interested in her, and she decides she respects him more than she respects you.
You get the idea.
So what should you do?
I suggest you take steps to make her attraction to you PERMANENT.
And the best way to do that is to simply make her feel totally, emotionally ADDICTED to you.
And the fastest, easiest path to do that is by using another Mind Control technique.
That technique is called Fractionation.
Think of it this way: If you want to know how to stop a breakup before it’s too late, the DORA technique will be enough for you…
…but if you want your girlfriend to NEVER leave you, then you MUST use Fractionation on her.
It’s the key.
And luckily for you, I’ll be giving you that key today.
In just a moment, a link will come up inside this video.
Click on that link so that you can join Derek Rake’s Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
In this Online Masterclass, Derek will teach you all you need to know about Fractionation.
And, in effect, you’ll learn everything you need to make your girlfriend feel totally ADDICTED to you.
Fractionate her enough, and she’ll never leave you. It’s that simple.
Do you love her?
Do you want her to stay with you forever?
And are you willing to do whatever it takes?
Then click on the link and sign up for Derek’s Online Masterclass now. Do it.