Hello, this is Derek Rake, and welcome to my blog.
I’d like to share with you the things that have worked well for me (and my coaching clients) when it comes to meeting and attracting women. Over the years, I have coached more than 12,000+ men to achieve considerable success with women. I am also published widely online (google my name) and am the founder of the Shogun Method.
Today, I am going to share with you a quick tip on how and where to meet women.
Most single guys out there want to know which places would be the best ones to find girls in. If you are one of these guys, then you have probably already tried to pick up girls at clubs, huh? Well, although it is true that you can have many interactions in a short span of time in night clubs and they would be great places to practice in and go to if you don’t have time to go out a lot when the sun is out, you also need to know that picking girls up in clubs is completely different from picking them up during the day.
The first place you could look into would be the Internet (in particular, resources like the Seduction FAQ Blog). After all, Internet dating is now a million-dollar business for a reason. Now, if you would rather go outside the confines of clubs or the Internet to meet girls, though, then one of the best places to go to would be the bookstore. What’s great about a bookstore is that you won’t need to be full of energy there like you would in a club because most guys won’t try to pick up girls there.
Also, if you meet girls in a place like this, their defenses will be completely down because they won’t expect to get picked up there to begin with. This is a good thing because they won’t expect anything special from you and you can then add some excitement to their day by showing them that you find them attractive.
Ideally, the places you should pick girls up in during the day should always be the ones where they won’t have any defensive shields on, in general. Aside from the places mentioned above, these would also include malls, coffee shops, grocery stores and outdoor places, such as parks. Why? Well, first of all, there will always be a lot of single girls at these places.
Aside from that, they won’t be defensive, either, because drunk guys won’t be around to hit on them. In fact, you might be pleasantly surprised at how friendly girls can be when you approach them during the day – provided you do so in the right way, anyway. Unfortunately, several guys have more trouble approaching girls during the daytime when they are sober and when a lot of other people are around. If you are one of these guys, then you will obviously have to overcome these things first.
Another great place to meet girls in during the day would be abroad. If you ever go on a business trip, try going on a tour. Believe it or not, this will give you instant access to a ton of girls who travel alone or with friends and who wouldn’t mind hooking up with a guy while abroad. Yes, tours would be great ways to meet girls. And, regardless of where you might be from, there are a lot of benefits to traveling if you are considered to have a foreign accent there.
The good news is that girls love having romantic stories about how you meet. So, if they meet you at a cafe instead of a club, then their romantic sensibilities will appeal to you much more. Just look at how things happen in Hollywood movies where people meet on the radio or in Paris or in other places where you generally really wouldn’t expect to meet anyone. This is simply principles of female psychology of love in action.
On that note, your workplace alone would also be a great way to meet girls. However, this would only be advisable if you don’t actually share the same office. Remember: some distance would be needed for this to work out; otherwise, too many problems might pop up in the future.
Evening classes would be another great – and easy – way to meet girls. Just put your social networking skills to use and make sure you look for things that you might have in common with a girl you are interested in before going for the kill. What’s great about this place is that you shouldn’t have any trouble starting up conversations since you can simply talk about your classes or what you are doing there. There are a lot of other benefits to this, as well, but the best part is that these classes don’t last very long. So, if you end up going out with a girl in your class and things don’t work out in the end, you won’t have to worry about seeing her again afterwards – problem solved!
Believe it or not, you can also meet several great girls through your family members and friends. In fact, most married couples in today’s day and age have meet through colleagues, family members and friends, so do not underestimate their value. Human resources are clearly great ways to find girlfriends or wives, if that is what you are looking for right now.
Now you know how to meet more girls and where to meet girls during the day. Just remember: don’t look too much and you will find more. Just go to some of the places mentioned above and stay calm and collected, and girls might even be the ones to approach you. If you aren’t too fond of the places mentioned in this article, though, then just use your creativity and come up with new places you can find girls at. What about the gym, for example, or an art exhibit? Any place would be a great place to find girls if you put your mind to it, and it doesn’t even have to be hard, either. Just put yourself out there and you are sure to get what you want eventually. Using fractionation seduction techniques should also help tremendously in upping your dating game.
Either way, the best part is that you won’t have to shell out a lot of money for drinks or for club entrance fees by meeting girls during the day. In any case, just make sure you don’t expect anything to happen. This would be the key. Remember: if you don’t look, more girls will show up at your doorstep, so always expect the unexpected. Good luck, and enjoy!
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