Is your marriage on the rocks?
Want to learn how to fix a marriage that is falling apart?
If so, then good on you. Wanting to make your marriage work is part of what makes you a man. After all, a man’s life is not just about fulfilling his mission and saving the world. It’s also about making his woman happy.
The problem is this: If you can’t make your wife happy, you’ll lose her AND you’ll feel terrible for a long, long time. It’s like you “failed to be a man.”
Now, of course, you didn’t really “fail” as a man, because that’s impossible. And yet it definitely FEELS that way when a marriage fails. It hurts your pride, your life, and your future all the same.
So let’s steer clear of that, shall we?
This video will show you how to fix a marriage that is falling apart.
First, you’ll learn the three things NEVER to do in trying to fix your marriage.
And it’s important to know these things because it’s what most guys turn to FIRST to fix their marriages. And unfortunately, they’re often with disastrous results. The marriage gets worse, the divorce pushes through, and they lose everything.
So the first order of business is to NEVER make these mistakes.
Now here’s the first big mistake to avoid at all costs.
The first mistake NEVER to make is to work doubly hard to please her.
That’s something you should NEVER do. It actually has the negative long-term effect of making her want to leave you MORE.
Let me explain why…
Let’s say your marriage is on the rocks, and you decide to “fix” it by taking her on a romantic vacation.
It’ll work for a WHILE. She’ll be happy and thankful, and for a few days, you’ll think everything’s back to normal.
And yet in her subconscious mind, she’ll realize the following thoughts:
- “Geez, he’s not the leader of this marriage – I am. Look at how he grovels after me.”
- Or she might think: “If I want him to treat me better, all I need to do is to act up. Easy peasy.”
- Or worst of all, she might be thinking this. “If I push the divorce through, I’ll be rid of this weakling and still have his provision. That’s objectively better than staying in this marriage.”
And the more you work hard to please her, the more she’ll think these thoughts.
See how it actually makes her want to leave you more?
So if you’re working doubly hard to please her, stop right now.
That’s the first thing you should do.
Now here’s the second mistake NEVER to make: To ignore her.
Some guys do the exact opposite of working doubly hard to please their wives. Instead, they ignore her concerns and complaints completely.
This is the kind of advice you’d hear from “Pickup Artist” gurus. When you hear advice like this, understand that it’s geared towards a specific audience. It’s for men who are not in committed relationships, and are instead bouncing from one woman to the next.
You know, like a real Pickup Artist.
And that’s NOT what you are right now. So steer clear of this advice.
I don’t need to explain why, right? You ignore your wife, she’ll leave you for good. So much for fixing a marriage that’s falling apart.
That’s the second thing you should never do. Simply ignoring her is a huge mistake.
Now here’s the third mistake NEVER to make: To get therapy.
It’s because when you do, your wife realizes: “He’s given up. He’s not man enough to handle me and now he needs to get some shrink to fix things for us. I’m done.”
See why therapy is actually a bad idea?
You acknowledge with your words, actions, and resources, that the marriage is failing.
And that just gives her all the more reason to leave you.
So what should you do instead?
Well, we’ll need to turn to science for the answer.
In just a moment, I’ll teach you a technique that psychologists call the “Course Correction.”
So what’s the “Course Correction” technique, and what does it do?
Earlier in this video, I mentioned that making your woman happy is part of what makes you a man. You remember, right?
Well, do you know what ELSE makes you a man?
It’s making your woman SUBMIT to him.
And that’s exactly what Course Correction will do.
Now let me tell you all about the Course Correction technique.
The Course Correction technique was first popularized by Derek Rake, the dating coach.
If Derek’s name is familiar, it’s because he founded the Shogun Method school of dating. He made a name for himself because, instead of sleazy pickup strategies, he uses science.
Or more specifically, Mind Control – psychology, hypnotherapy, that sort of thing. Derek teaches his students to not only “seduce” the woman in their lives, which is temporary. He also teaches them how to make her feel emotionally ADDICTED to them for life.
That’s Mind Control in a nutshell – you don’t just “seduce” her, you make her feel emotionally addicted to you. And Course Correction happens to be one of the most powerful ways to do just that.
So how exactly does it work?
Course Correction works by triggering a “shift” in your wife’s mindset.
Right now, her mindset is: “My husband is weak, my marriage is failing, I want out.”
Course Correction will actually make her FORGET that mindset. And instead, she’ll start feeling scared of losing you.
And it does this by making her see and feel like you’re the manliest guy she’ll ever meet in her life. She’ll believe that if she divorced you, her life would actually be WORSE.
When she’s in that mindset, she won’t leave you. Plain and simple. Right?
So here’s how it works. Course Correction is a four-step process, and the first step is this: Call a time-out in the marriage.
You’re not breaking up with her. You’re not leaving her. Instead, you’re calling a “truce,” so to speak. You and your wife are to spend time away from each other to figure things out on your own.
You can tell her: “You know what, this isn’t working out. Let’s call a time-out for a few weeks and see how we feel at the end of it.”
Take note: You’re not asking for a time-out. You’re calling it. You don’t let her dissuade you from it, because that would keep her in control.
So you pack your bags and live away from each other for a few weeks.
That’s the first step. Here’s the second one: To make the time-out “permanent.”
Within a few days or weeks, she’s going to miss you and start checking up on you.
When she does, you’ll feel tempted to get back with her. Resist this temptation, and instead, double-down on the timeout, extending it indefinitely.
You can tell her: “You know what? I know I said ‘just a few weeks,’ but I’m actually happier this way. I’ll call you in another two weeks or so.”
And no matter what how badly she reacts, you stand firm. You make her think and feel like she’s about to lose you.
That’s the second step. Now here’s the third step: To “restart” the marriage.
After a week, you re-establish contact with your wife. Either she contacts you, or you contact her. Agree to meet her somewhere, just to catch up and check on each other.
Then you take her on a friendly date, treating her like an old buddy you haven’t seen for a long time. Eventually, she’ll bring up the topic of your marriage and getting back together.
This is when you “restart” the marriage by saying something like:
“You know what, I’m okay with getting back together. But some things have got to change.”
And then you lay out your “new terms” for the marriage.
- Maybe you want to be in charge of the finances from now on.
- Or you want to block off your Sunday mornings to spend time with your friends.
- Or maybe you will no longer tolerate any disrespect from her under your roof.
If you made her miss you enough, she’ll gladly agree to your terms.
Congratulations – you’ve just “Course Corrected” your marriage and saved it.
Still, there’s one more problem to solve: Course Correction doesn’t last forever.
If you slip back into your old “weak, wife-pleasing” habits, for instance, she’ll start wanting out again.
To prevent that, you’ll need to manage and control your wife emotionally. And for that, you’ll the fourth step of the process – a technique called Fractionation.
This is a high-level Mind Control technique that only Derek can teach you.
So that’s what I’ll let him do right now.
In one moment, a link will come up inside this video – click on it right away.
That link will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control. There, Derek Rake will teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation.
To join the Online Masterclass, click the link and sign up for it. Make sure you use your best e-mail address. That’s where Derek will send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify.
You now know how to fix a marriage that is falling apart.
Now take one more step to make sure it stays fixed.
Click on the link, master Fractionation today, and never worry about divorce again. Go ahead – do it now.