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How To Make A Girl Love You Again

October 16, 2018 Leave a Comment

How To Make Her Fall In Love With You All Over Again

Is your woman “falling out of love” with you?

Women can “fall out of love” with you at different stages of the dating process:

  • Your wife or girlfriend can lose interest in your relationship
  • The woman you’re courting can start thinking twice about hooking up with you
  • The woman you just met might start showing signs of boredom with you

Such was the case with Alex, one of my Shogun Method clients. Alex’s girlfriend of two years, Monica, had been losing interest in her relationship with him:

  • She’s been complaining to him more
  • She’s been showing less appreciation for Alex’s efforts
  • They’ve been arguing more
  • She initiated dates much less frequently
  • She never seemed satisfied anymore

“I’ve tried everything,” Alex ranted to me. “I’ve tried spicing things up, I’ve tried giving her more attention…I’ve even quit a hobby just so I can spend more time with her. Nothing’s working, and I have the feeling she’s about to break up with me. What should I do?”

I told him: “You HAVEN’T tried everything yet.”

He stared at me. “Come again?”

“Everything you’ve been doing so far has been giving her good feelings,” I explained. “And that’s just one half of the equation.”

Alex gasped. “Are you saying I should HURT her too?”

“Yes,” I answered, “but I’m NOT talking about PHYSICAL pain. Here’s how it works…”

Pause right there.

If your woman is ALSO falling out of love with you, then this Shogun Method guide is for you.

In this guide, you’ll learn what I taught Alex that day he came to me. It’s the same thing I teach every other man whose woman is falling out of love with him.

Table of Contents

  • How To Make Her Fall In Love With You All Over Again
  • How To Make Her Fall In Love With You All Over Again
    • Technique #1: The Takeaway
    • Technique #2: The Disappearing Act
    • Common Objections To The Takeaway And Disappearing Act Techniques
  • The Theory Of Emotional Rollercoasters
    • Request Invite Ticket For Online Masterclass

How To Make Her Fall In Love With You All Over Again

You’re about to learn two techniques, but you’ll use only one of these, depending on your relationship.

If you’ve just met her, then Technique #1 – the Takeaway – is what you’ll need.

If you’re in an exclusive relationship with her, then you’ll need Technique #2 – the Disappearing Act.

Technique #1: The Takeaway

This is for the woman who:

  • …you just met, and she seemed interested in you for a few moments, but now she’s getting bored
  • …you’ve gone on a few dates already, and while the first few dates were good, her interest in you seems to be waning

In these cases, if you want to make her feel attracted to you again, do the “Takeaway.”

The Takeaway is a technique that puts a woman in your Friend Zone before she has a chance to do that to you.

Most times, when a woman you just met or just started dating “falls out of love” with you, she does this:

She tells you, “I think we should be just friends.”

She does this for one of two reasons:

  1. Either she’s really rejecting you…
  2. …or she’s trying to see if you’ll try harder to win her back.

Either case is not good for you because it forces you to chase her. And in any man-woman relationship, the one being chased is the one who has the power.

Don’t give up the power. Instead, shift the power to you. The Takeaway technique does just that.

Here’s how the Takeaway works. The moment you sense your chemistry with her fading, tell her something like:

“You know, you’re really cool. I’d ask you to be my girlfriend, but…”

She’ll say: “But what?”

Then you say: “I dunno. Maybe we should take it slow. To me, you’re the kind of girl I WOULD take it slow with. It may sound dumb, but I don’t want to ruin everything by rushing.”

This instantly does three things:

  1. It makes her feel like SHE’S chasing YOU
  2. It shows her you’re NOT desperate to win her, which makes you so much more attractive
  3. It decreases her resistance as you move the relationship forward

Fair warning. The Takeaway technique will work IF AND ONLY IF she already has SOME romantic interest in you.

You need to reach the point where her enjoyment in life would decrease if you left her life.

Any sooner than that and the Takeaway technique won’t work.

READ ALSO: How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship

Technique #2: The Disappearing Act

This is what Alex used on Monica because it’s best suited for exclusive relationships.

The Disappearing Act technique is basically a nuclear-grade Takeaway. You don’t just put her in the Friend Zone – you abruptly disappear for a time.

Here’s how Alex did it:

  1. He met Monica for dinner in a restaurant
  2. In the middle of dinner, he suddenly looked at his phone and said: “Sorry, I need to meet someone important right now.”
  3. When Monica started asking what was going on, Alex simply said: “I’m sorry I can’t explain it to you. It’s just really, really important. I’ll explain everything at a later time.”
  4. He rose and left the restaurant. He didn’t respond to Monica’s angry calls and texts for days.

When Monica calmed down enough to ask Alex to show up, he did just that. He met her, and when she asked again what happened, he simply said: “Don’t worry, I took care of it. That’s all you need to know. Let’s move on, shall we?”

Alex would never divulge any more information (there was nothing to divulge). But the Disappearing Act did the trick. He only had to do it once, but the effects were immediate:

  • Monica stopped taking him for granted, and started thinking about him a LOT
  • The more he thought about him, the more attracted she felt towards him
  • The more attracted she felt, the more she worked to strengthen her relationship with him

That was a year ago. Today, Alex and Monica are married, and their relationship has never been happier.

If you, too, want to win back a woman who’s “falling out of love” with you, then you now have two new techniques in your toolkit.

Common Objections To The Takeaway And Disappearing Act Techniques

Now, some men do NOT like the idea of using the Takeaway and Disappearing Act techniques. “That’s so evil and manipulative!” they’d cry.

But are these techniques REALLY evil and manipulative?

Maybe. Maybe not. It doesn’t matter.

It doesn’t matter because “evil” is a question of morality. And we’re not concerned about morality here.

All we’re concerned about, and all YOU should be concerned about, is one thing. RESULTS.

You want to make her fall back in love with you again, right? That should be the only thing that matters to you.

Now, some guys might STILL object: “But wouldn’t these techniques make her LEAVE you?”

Think of it this way:

  1. If you keep doing what you’re already doing, she WILL fall out of love with you, and you’ll lose her. Guaranteed.
  2. If you use the Takeaway or Disappearing Act technique, you might STILL lose her. But you ALSO might win her back, just as how Alex made Monica fall in love with him again.

My advice?

Give yourself a chance of getting the results you want.

READ ALSO: How To Deal With A Drama Queen

The Theory Of Emotional Rollercoasters

There’s one last common objection to the Takeaway and Disappearing Act techniques.

It’s the objection of “I don’t want to hurt her.”

If that’s how you’re feeling right now, then good on you. Your heart’s in the right place because you don’t want to do anything that hurts her.

But here’s the thing – you’re NOT hurting her. We’re not talking about physical, bodily injury here.

What you’re giving her is entirely different, and actually extremely beneficial for her, for you, and for your relationship.

It’s the gift of the EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER.

It’s the gift of:

  1. Inflicting emotional STRESS on her…
  2. Then inflicting emotional PLEASURE on her…
  3. …over and over again.

Here’s what most men never figure out. Emotional rollercoasters are the single most addicting feeling a woman could ever experience.

Think of the addiction women have for:

  • Erotic novels
  • TV dramas like Game of Thrones and Grey’s Anatomy
  • Gossip
  • Shopping

All of these things involve cycles of emotional stress and pleasure. The more intense and frequent the cycles, the stronger the addiction.

Now imagine if she felt that same IRRESISTIBLE ADDICTION for you.

Imagine how much BETTER your relationship with your woman would be.

Imagine how EFFORTLESS things would be for the rest of your lives.

That can be yours if – and ONLY if – you’re man enough to inflict emotional stress on your woman.

I’ll agree – it’s not for everyone. It’s not for men who’d rather lose their woman than hurt her.

But if YOU want to make a girl love you again…

…and if you’re willing to do WHATEVER it takes…

…and if you could only learn ONE new skill…

…then it absolutely MUST be the emotional rollercoaster.

If that sounds like you, then you’re in luck. You can master the emotional rollercoaster TODAY.

Simply sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control. Check it out below:

Request Invite Ticket For Online Masterclass

(NOTE: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. That’s where I’ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify.)

Now go ahead – make her love you again.

Derek Rake

P.S: Have you ever tried to make a woman love you again, but you got rejected anyway? Tell me about it in the comments section below.

About Derek Rake

Derek Rake is the founder of Shogun Method, the world's one and only relationship strategy for men based on authentic Mind Control technology. He is widely acknowledged as the leading international authority on using Mind Control and extreme hypnosis in dating and relationships. Shogun Method's "Enslavement, Not Seduction" philosophy makes it one-of-a-kind in the relationship coaching world. Attend his legendary Masterclass - click here.

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