Famous psychologist Carl Jung once said,
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”
And you know what? That’s probably my favorite quote of all time. There’s just so much wisdom packed into those twelve words.
What Jung said really resonated with me because I realized something similar about myself. I was living a life I never actually chose.
I mean, it’s true if you think about it. Most people end up taking up roles imposed on them by society.
Indeed, we never decided for ourselves who we truly want to be. Others define us, telling us who we are supposed to be.
And for this reason, most people never become their authentic selves. As Jung further wrote–
“The world will ask you who you are, and if you don’t know, the world will tell you.”
When I read that, it hit me hard.
But to be fair, breaking free from this societal conditioning is tricky. In fact, it’s downright impossible for 99.9% of people.
For this reason, Jung considers the ability to become your authentic self an enormous privilege. And it truly is…
…but guess what?
If you are already a Shogun Method practitioner, you are among the few–the 0.1%–to have this privilege.
Why?
Because being a Shogun is a crucial step to uncover one’s true identity and purpose as a man.
This is part of a process Jung calls individuation.
What’s individuation?
Well, it’s a lifelong journey of self-discovery and personal growth. It’s the forging of a one’s character, shaping raw potential into refined steel. And it’s especially important for men like you and me.
Now, here’s the kicker… individuation can be painful.
Why? Because more often than not, it involves digging into the dark, hidden corners of the masculine psyche. (Jung calls this the shadow.) Exploring the shadow, you face your fears, bringing them to light and destroy them.
For this reason, individuation is a struggle–even for the most hardened guys among us.
And guess what? If you’re feeling pain now, understand this. Realize that you’re in the middle of individuation, and that’s a good thing.
You might be having a hard time right now. A woman may be fucking things up for you. She’s shit-testing you twenty-nine ways to Hell, and you’re left in a daze.
Even when you’re in an extremely shitty situation, remember–
It’s all part of the individuation of a man where facing challenges is crucial to concretize your masculinity.
Endure through it, and in the end, you’ll emerge on the other side a better, stronger man. TRUST ME. Your 18,000+ brother Shoguns will tell you the same thing.
In Shogun Method, Derek Rake wrote about how the female psyche is useful to men. Simply, it’s the nature’s truest barometer of masculine worth.
I think this is what Derek means. How a woman treats you depends entirely on the strength of your masculinity.
When you score high on the masculinity meter, she treats you like a king. She bends over backwards for you. She obeys everything you say. She does everything you ask.
No flaking, no messages left unread, no mind games.
Conversely, if you radiate low masculine worth, expect crappy behavior from your woman.
She flakes on dates. She ignores your messages. She sends you mixed signals. She’s mean-spirited, disrespectful and bitchy.
Smart Shoguns treat the female psyche as their masculine barometer. It measures the strength of our masculinity with razor-sharp precision. And it’s never wrong.
As Robert Greene once said, everything that happens to us is a lesson if we pay attention. So, if a woman treats you like shit, take heed.
It’s a signal from the universe that you must raise your value as a man.
You’re here because you’re recognizing the signal. For that, I commend you.
By taking this step in your individuation journey, you set yourself apart. Like Shoguns, you’re embracing your Jungian privilege.
Carl Jung believed everyone has a unique potential that’s not realized at birth. Our Life’s Task is to discover what this potential is and make it real.
Shogun Method offers a pathway for individuation–for you and your woman. With Shogun Method, you’ll both individuate together. You’ll form emotional bonds that transcend plain love and affection.
The heart of Shogun Method is the IRAE Model. It maps the four stages of sexual individuation: Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction and Enslavement. You’re your woman’s spiritual mentor as she individuates, from Intrigue to all the way to emotional Enslavement.
You’ll be on this journey with her, suffering through the same trials and tribulations only to emerge stronger in the end, together. (In Shogun Method, we call this process Emotional Rollercoastering, or Fractionation.)
You’ll be her fearless leader and a ferocious warrior, cementing your value as a man worthy of her love, respect and devotion. Follow the IRAE Model and notice her emotions turn from casual to admiration, and from love to emotional enslavement.
It’s like seeing your masculine value shooting up in real time right before your eyes.
Finally, remember this. The female psyche is nature’s mirror reflecting your masculinity.
If women are not treating you how you want to be treated, it’s not their fault. They’re just reacting to their womanly instincts. You may not be masculine enough for her to treat you as a real man. That may sound harsh, and yet I must say it because it’s true.
Understand–nothing is more important than the essence of your manhood. For that reason, you must individuate and realize your masculine potential.
Truly, it’s your ultimate Life Task!
The good news is what the most crucial step you must take today is right in front of you. This is your moment, and you must grab it.
Step up and be a Shogun.
To find out how, go to ShogunMethod.com. Do it now.
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