Imagine you travel back in time to meet Hitler during World War 2, and you tell him this:
“Yo Adolf, I’ve got a deal for you. I want you to model this piece of pink underwear for me. In return, you’ll get all the bright pink thongs you’ll ever need for a lifetime.”
What do you think he’ll say?
Do you think he’ll turn you down with a courteous “No, thanks very much”? Heck, no! He’ll probably say, “Fook off. Guards, shoot this man.” In German, of course.
Ridiculous, sure. But I am telling you this story to make something clear: ask difficult questions to someone grouchy at the wrong time – and you’ll get unexpected (and unwanted) answers.
And you know what – this is especially true for WOMEN.
It’s the same way that guys ask “important” questions to a woman: whether to ask her out on a date… or propose to her… or persuade her not to leave. Guys pretty much shoot from the hip, never thinking about HOW to ask those questions in order to get a favorable answer.
Every guy’s situation is different, but I know one thing that’s the SAME for EVERY woman:
She is hard-wired to pursue things that are running away from her.
This little “feature” (or flaw) inside her psychology means that in order to be fulfilled, she needs to hunt and pursue. If you don’t run from her, you’re denying her natural inclination to chase you.
And when she tells you that “I’ll think about it first…” or “I’ll let you know later…”, and she doesn’t call you back for a day or two… your brain kicks into overdrive.
You start to think: “Oh, crap. She hates me.” Or, “She’s probably telling all her friends and laughing at me.” Or, “She’s seeing another guy.”
Then, you get an urge to do something, anything to recover from the disastrous situation… and when your emotions take control of your brain, something bad is about to happen. You may be tempted to call or text her just to “follow up”.
If you’re trying to get her out on a date, you might tell her that it’s entirely up to her to choose where to go, and you’re going to pay for everything.
Or if you’re asking her not to leave you, you might even try to assure her that you’re changing your behavior, and you’ll stop doing things that she doesn’t like.
I summon you to CONTROL your urge.
My clients have been in this situation so many times that I’ve lost count, and therefore I can tell you this with absolute certainty:
If you stick to the process that I’ve laid out in the Shogun Method, you can still win.
It’s impossible for me to lay out the entire strategy in this email, but here’s the gist of what you should do:
Instead of giving her more options, you should take away some.
Say you’re thinking of canceling the date. Suggest that you’re moving on… to bigger and more important things. Imply that you’re going to see other women. Play the jealousy card.
Remember: this is the time to offer less, not more.
Of course, you should then turn up a notch and use some deliciously wicked Implanted Commands on her (pick from the list of some 44 of these inside the Shogun Method).
This will push her to a tiny corner where you can watch her squirm in her panties and beg for your love and mercy. I’ve seen this happen so frequently that it’s not even funny anymore.
Cruel? Sure. Unlike Mills and Boon romance novels, seduction and love can be extremely ugly in real life – deal with it.
Lastly, I want you to remember this:
In relationships, problems are a real BITCH to solve once they are created.
And for this reason, if you go into an interaction with a woman with enough preparation and knowledge, you’ll get more enthusiastic YESes and much less painful rejections.
This link below will lead you to that knowledge about female psychology that will give you that power, control and domination over women that you want –
Lastly, remember to never ask Hitler to model pink underwear… unless you are a real sucker for torture and severe pain.
Derek “Dictator Humiliator” Rake