Have you heard of Barnum Statements before, but you’re not entirely sure how they work?
Want to learn how they can make women like you and trust you more?
Imagine you were chatting with a beautiful woman. You just met her two minutes ago, and you’re easing into small talk.
Then you deliver an insightful statement or question about her. And all of a sudden, she brightens up and excitedly engages you in conversation. You’ve earned her complete trust in a snap of a finger, and now she wants to spend even more time with you.
That’s the power of Barnum Statements.
Make no mistake about it. Barnum Statements are awesome tools for dating.
They’re easy to use and very effective when used correctly.
However, they’re not foolproof. Deliver a Barnum Statement wrongly, and you just might ruin an interaction for good. That’s the exact OPPOSITE of what you want to happen, and you’ll want to avoid that at all costs.
So what ARE Barnum Statements, anyway? How do they work? And how can you use them to make women instantly like you more?
We’ll answer those questions about Barnum Statements AND MORE in today’s video.
So let’s start with a little backstory.
Barnum Statements were developed by my friend and mentor, the dating coach Derek Rake.
Derek is the only dating coach in the world who advocates the use of Mind Control.
And not the “Hollywood” kind of Mind Control, by the way. We’re talking about proven, scientific Mind Control. Applied psychology, hypnotherapy, that sort of thing.
Anyway, that’s another story.
See, here’s the thing…
According to Derek, your relationships with women go through four “Stages.” These are collectively called the IRAE Model.
So what’s that?
The acronym “IRAE” stands for the four Stages in the process.
- First, there’s the Intrigue Stage, where she sees you as an interesting stranger.
- Secondly, there’s the Rapport Stage, where she sees you as a fun friend to be with.
- Thirdly, there’s the Attraction Stage, where she starts seeing you as a lover, or at least a potential lover.
- And lastly, there’s the Enslavement Stage, where she completely commits to you for life.
Now, obviously, not all the women in your life go through all four Stages. Most women you meet stay at the Intrigue Stage with you. Your female friends are stuck at the Rapport Stage. Your lovers, if you have them, are at the Attraction Stage.
And if you’re in a relationship with the woman of your dreams, she’s in the Enslavement Stage.
You get the idea, right?
Now, here’s the thing about the IRAE Model – you CANNOT skip stages.
Instead, you have to move a woman up the four Stages, one Stage at a time.
Now, you probably know getting from the Rapport Stage to the Attraction Stage is the hardest part.
It’s almost impossible to turn a female friend into a girlfriend or lover, right?
You’d sooner get friendzoned for life.
Now, that’s where Barnum Statements come in.
A Barnum Statement is a highly accurate, educated “guess” you make about a woman. Its goal is to make a woman instantly feel a much stronger emotional connection to you.
Here’s an example: While chatting with a woman, you might tell her:
“You’re giving me a strange vibe. You’re a frustrated artist, aren’t you? You even tried to write a book once or twice.”
Or you might pretend to read her palm and say:
“You like being with other people. You’re comfortable in your own skin. But you have moments where you want to just stay home, away from all the attention and all the noise.”
These are Barnum Statements. They’re educated guesses about her.
When your Barnum Statements are correct, they instantly make her like you more.
She might say: “Oh my gosh, how did you know I wanted to write a book? That’s amazing!”
Or maybe: “Wow, that’s EXACTLY right! I love people, but sometimes I just want to disappear! That’s not weird, is it?”
Do you see the effect now?
She’ll feel that you UNDERSTAND her more than most people in her life – and she’s just met you.
And that’s when she’ll start wondering: Is this guy ‘the one?’ He’s amazing to talk to – would he make a good boyfriend? Is he taken?
And so on.
And when a woman is in that mindset, it’ll be MUCH EASIER to move her from being “just a friend” to becoming your lover.
Pretty good, right?
Yet here’s the bad news. It’s easy to make a Barnum Statement that totally misses the mark.
For instance, she might say: “Uh, no… I’ve never wanted to write a book. What are you getting at?”
Or: “No way, I love people. I never want to ‘get away’ from it all. Are you trying to trick me?”
You bet. When you make a bad Barnum Statement, it can ruin the interaction.
So here’s the key: Your Barnum Statements must be highly accurate to be successful.
So how do you make your educated guesses hit the bull’s eye more often?
That’s what I’ll teach you next.
For now, here’s a question: Did you learn something new so far in this video?
Great – now let me tell you the secret.
Earlier, I told you that my friend, dating coach Derek Rake, invented Barnum Statements.
Now, he didn’t pull it out of thin air. It took him and hundreds of his students years of experimentation to perfect it.
And here’s what they found. To craft good Barnum Statements, consider three categories of women.
- Number one, there are women who are in their 20’s.
- Number two, women in their 30’s.
- And number three, women in their 40’s and better.
Let’s start with the first category. When it comes to women who are in their 20’s, the best Barnum Statements will hint on her struggles for happiness.
For instance, when you’re chatting with a woman in her 20’s, a good Barnum Statement would include this one:
“I have a feeling your parents have too-high expectations of you.”
Or this one:
“I get the sense that you attract the wrong kinds of guys most of the time.”
Meanwhile, if she’s in her 30’s, the best Barnum Statements will touch on her career and settling down.
So if you’re with a 30-something woman, you might say:
“I get the feeling you shoulder a lot of responsibility. Probably more than you can handle.”
Or this one:
“Let me guess – you’ve had a terrible relationship in the past, but now you’re stronger and know what you want in a man.”
And lastly, if she’s in her 40’s and beyond, your Barnum Statements should touch on her experience and wisdom. For instance:
“I have a feeling you’ve been through a lot, but at the same time, you’re open to new experiences.”
Or this one:
“I bet you now have a strong sense of intuition – like you know whether a man is lying to you or not.”
Are you getting the picture by now?
That’s how you craft highly accurate Barnum Statements. You take the cue from her age. One or two spot-on Barnum Statements, and she’ll start trusting you more than she trusts her best friend.
And your road to a more serious relationship with her gets easier.
Pretty good, huh?
Now, you might be thinking: “This sounds like a lot of guesswork, Fredo.”
Well, that’s because it is. During the Rapport Stage, when you’re still getting to know a woman better, there’s a LOT of guesswork involved.
And yet with Barnum Statements, your guesses make the conversation ten times better. And as a result, you become ten times more attractive. Not a bad deal if you ask me.
In any case, yes, I know how you might feel. So here’s what I’ll do for you…
I got ANOTHER technique to teach you. This one doesn’t require much guesswork. Instead, it requires you to simply carry a conversation with a woman.
Also, Barnum Statements work best in the Rapport Stage. Meanwhile, this other technique can be used anytime. You can use it at the moment you meet a woman for the first time, and you can use it all the way to the Enslavement Stage.
So what’s this technique?
It’s called Fractionation. Coach Derek Rake calls it the most powerful Mind Control technique of all.
You’re about to learn all about Fractionation. And best of all, Derek himself is going to teach you all about it.
So here’s what we’re going to do…
In just a moment, a link will pop up inside this video. That link will take you to Derek’s Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
That’s where Derek will teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation.
So when you see the link, click it.
Make no mistake: If you had time to master only ONE Mind Control technique…
…and use it to become a MASTER at attracting and enslaving women…
…then you’d better make it Fractionation, the most powerful Mind Control technique of all.
So sign up for the Online Masterclass now. You’ll be on your way to becoming a master of Mind Control. Click on the link now.