{"id":8379,"date":"2022-09-26T10:22:00","date_gmt":"2022-09-26T02:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=8379"},"modified":"2023-10-05T17:42:05","modified_gmt":"2023-10-05T09:42:05","slug":"dark-seduction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dark-seduction\/","title":{"rendered":"Dark Seduction: The Forbidden Secret of Carnal Attraction"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

You might have heard of seduction, but have you heard of <\/strong>dark <\/em>seduction?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is one secret about attraction that most don\u2019t want to talk about. It\u2019s controversial, politically incorrect and triggers some people\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Indeed, you can get into trouble by talking about it around the wrong people\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2026And yet, you know what? Dark seduction is something that affects all of us no matter what we believe about love and dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s called the Forbidden Secret of Carnal Attraction, and that\u2019s what we\u2019ll talk about today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

The Forbidden Secret of Carnal Attraction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Let me explain…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever had a relationship that was hot, romantic, and sexual for a long time\u2014but it didn\u2019t last?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe it suddenly turned sour and ended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, she started taking you for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, worse, she suddenly ignored you as if you never existed in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s like overnight, her love for you turned to annoyance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think about that relationship and that woman in your life for a moment. Picture her in your mind now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what happened? Why did it go from good to bad so quickly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s what happened:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She felt too safe with you.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That was the reason, it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She knew she \u201chad\u201d you for good. She knew she wasn\u2019t going to lose you anytime soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be specific, she didn\u2019t feel any anxiety.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And guess what? That was precisely why she started taking you and your relationship for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the lesson, and listen carefully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seduction Isn\u2019t Just Sunshine and Roses.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like everything else in life, you need to take the bad with the good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating, love, and sex are some of the best and brightest things in life, right? And yet to enjoy them completely, you need the dark side of seduction to balance out the light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I first discovered this darker side of love, and I was surprised nobody wanted to talk about it. I call this the Forbidden Secret of Carnal Attraction<\/strong>, and it\u2019s this\u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Erotic tension does not <\/em>come from comfort and certainty…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…instead, it comes from anxiety punctuated by occasions of fear.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s probably the most important thing a man can ever learn how to seduce a woman<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Rake Axiom<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Erotic tension does not come from comfort and certainty. It comes from anxiety punctuated by occasions of fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I call this the RAKE AXIOM<\/strong>, and it underscores pretty much everything inside Shogun Method.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And here\u2019s why…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the game of love, women are, by their nature, willfully defensive<\/em> with men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You see it all the time with single, available ladies. They avoid approaches and invitations by admirers. They play hard to get and make the guys jump through hoops.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, why do women do this at all? Why not just cooperate and flirt back?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a woman is dealing with a man who likes her, and she likes him too, she is <\/em>fearful<\/em><\/strong> for her physical safety.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, if you think about it, it makes total sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most of the men interested in her are bigger and stronger. She can get hurt if she finds herself alone with the wrong guy. (This is especially true among girls with daddy issues<\/a>\u2013they still carry the emotional baggage they’ve accumulated in their childhood.)<\/p>\n\n\n

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And so, she tests <\/em>his sincerity by playing hard to get and making him jump through hoops. And she\u2019ll say \u201cyes\u201d once she feels reasonably safe with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s this combination of anxiety and comfort that gives relationships that sizzle, that X-Factor. Or, that all-important sexual arousal.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s also the reason we get friend-zoned by some women we fancy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They feel a lot of comfort with us, but none of the anxiety. And so there\u2019s no spark or sizzle, and therefore no romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Origins of Sexual Tension<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I hope you\u2019re convinced now, because the RAKE AXIOM will be one of the most important things a man will ever learn in a lifetime. I\u2019m not exaggerating at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And I want you to be aware of this. It can get even more dramatic in relationships that start out hot and sizzling. When the man\u2019s not careful, his woman can stop feeling any fear at all and get too comfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When there\u2019s only comfort and no anxiety left, what happens?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She loses the sizzle, that\u2019s what. She might still like him, but the sexual arousal starts fading fast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And to some women, that can be annoying as heck.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They feel cheated\u2014like they were scammed into getting into a relationship with a boring guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s how passionate relationships get cold overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make no mistake: Anxiety creates sexual tension.<\/em><\/strong> That\u2019s the forbidden secret of seduction. That\u2019s the Rake Axiom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the bottom line is simple:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Create anxiety.<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How exactly do you do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s a simple way. When you feel your woman is taking you for granted, tell her something like\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe need to talk. About us.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or even\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need some alone time. I need to think about our future.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instantly, her defensiveness will turn to anticipation. She\u2019s anxious, uncertain, and fearful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019ll wonder\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIs he having second thoughts? Did he meet another woman?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At that moment, she loses her willful defensiveness. And the relationship regains some of its sizzle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where To Go From Here<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Now, what you say afterward is up to you. You have two choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n