{"id":8050,"date":"2021-04-30T16:26:53","date_gmt":"2021-04-30T08:26:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=8050"},"modified":"2023-11-02T16:11:12","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T08:11:12","slug":"my-wife-cheated-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/my-wife-cheated-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"“My Wife Cheated On Me!” How To Get Over It?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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\u201cHey, Derek. I caught my wife cheating<\/a> on me. Can you tell me how to get over it?\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a question I get often. And it\u2019s precisely the question I\u2019ll answer in this guide today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll show you the fastest way to get over the pain, but not just that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll also show you how to get into new relationships that are way better than the one you lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yup, it\u2019s possible. It\u2019s even easy, as you\u2019ll soon see, but let\u2019s start at the beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First of all, let me commiserate with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being cheated on cuts deep into your manhood. It\u2019s enough to make you question the meaning of existence itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yet you know what? Dwelling on it will just make your life worse over the years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a downward spiral you\u2019ll want to get out of as soon as you can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yes, you can<\/em> get out of it. Especially with the technique you\u2019ll learn in this guide.<\/p>\n\n\n

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I\u2019m about to show you a method called the Replacement Protocol which will do two things for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. It\u2019ll help you get over losing your wife, and<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. It\u2019ll help you make the rest of your life the best time of your life, ever.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    And it all starts with answering one question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Why is it so hard to get over your wife after she cheated on you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

    The Replacement Protocol<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    So here\u2019s the science behind the Replacement Protocol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    First of all, you know your wife cheated on you. You already know she\u2019s not worthy of your trust. And you\u2019re quite sure that dwelling on it won\u2019t change a thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So why is it still so hard to get over what she did?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    According to science, there are two reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The First Reason<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    The first reason is failed expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When you first married your wife, you probably had high hopes and big dreams for your life with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Unfortunately, she flushed it all down the toilet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And now, you\u2019re afraid to expect anything good anymore. It\u2019s almost impossible for you to imagine a better future for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And so your mind keeps replaying the cheating incident, over and over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    That\u2019s the first reason why it\u2019s hard to get over a cheating wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Of course, Shogun Method fixes this (read how here<\/a>), but you\u2019ll first need to understand why both male and female psychology work this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    ALSO READ:<\/strong> Ignoring Your Ex-Wife<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The Second Reason<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    The second reason is emotional attachment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I\u2019m quite sure you don\u2019t necessarily miss your wife right now. After all, the marriage is over<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    At the same time, you do<\/em> miss how you felt before the cheating incident, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    You may have felt at peace, motivated, and goal-oriented. You might have felt creative, strong, sexy<\/a>, attractive<\/a>, and unstoppable…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    …but now, you feel the opposite of all that…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    …and so your mind keeps going back to the good old days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    That\u2019s the second reason why it\u2019s so hard to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Simple\u2013because that\u2019s not how the brain works. The brain doesn\u2019t forget trauma that easily. No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    In fact, Mother Nature programmed it to remember the times you got seriously hurt. And that definitely includes the time your wife cheated on you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How To Get Over The Trauma Of Getting Cheated On<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    So how does the brain manage trauma? How does it get over a horrible experience?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    By replacement, that\u2019s how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The brain only forgets trauma by overwriting<\/em> it with newer, better experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And that\u2019s where the Replacement Protocol comes into play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Your goal is to replace<\/span> your failed expectations and emotional attachments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    With what? With better things, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n

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    And when it comes to being cheated on, you overwrite the trauma with new experiences with new women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I mean, think about it. There\u2019s got to be hundreds, nay, thousands<\/em> of women out there who are better than your ex-wife, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Of course there are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So why not spend time with them instead of those dark thoughts in your head?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The Most Serious Mental Problem In Dating<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    The Replacement Protocol is a Shogun Method technique that was developed to solve a serious mental problem in the dating game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Obsession<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    This includes obsession over rejections, unattainable women, and\u2013you guessed it\u2013cheating wives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The Replacement Protocol was developed by my group at the Shogun Method HQ<\/a>. My group focuses on one thing: To solve relationship problems with science. Or more accurately, the science of the mind. Human psychology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And here\u2019s how it works…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The key word is replacement<\/em>. <\/strong>You\u2019re overwriting your past negative experiences with newer positive ones. And that involves re-entering the dating game and meeting new women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Now, here\u2019s the important distinction: You\u2019re not here to \u201cpick up\u201d women<\/span>. If you tried that, you\u2019ll end up in a rebound relationship. And trust me, that will do the opposite<\/em> of helping you get over your wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So, no. Avoid picking up women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Instead, your goal is to check out whether they\u2019re worth spending more of your time with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If you approach a woman and decide she\u2019s not interesting enough, it\u2019s not a problem. You thank her for her time and move on to the next woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If she says no to you, it\u2019s also fine. You weren\u2019t there to pick her up anyway, so thank her for her time and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How To Approach Women<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Next, let me tell you exactly what to say to the women you approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    First of all, avoid asking straight questions or giving direct compliments. Why? Simple\u2013doing so will naturally put women in a defensive, skeptical mood. And that\u2019s not what you want them to feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Instead, open your interaction by getting their attention with statements like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n