{"id":8043,"date":"2021-04-28T12:58:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-28T04:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=8043"},"modified":"2023-11-02T16:52:08","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T08:52:08","slug":"nice-guy-mistakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/nice-guy-mistakes\/","title":{"rendered":"Two Biggest Mistakes Nice Guys Make With Women"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Reading Time: 7 Minutes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Here\u2019s an honest question. When it comes to dating and women, are you a nice guy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or are you a badass?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or&#8230; are you not sure?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By now, you\u2019ve probably heard that in the dating game, \u201cnice guys finish last.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, while that may not necessarily be true, being a nice guy DOES have its disadvantages with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You sabotage your own efforts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You miss one golden opportunity with women after another.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It\u2019s like you\u2019re punching your own ticket to her friend-zone.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to know if you\u2019re a nice guy or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That way, if you <em>are<\/em> a nice guy, you can quickly make adjustments to how you approach women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, life is short. Do you really want to be a nice guy all your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, here\u2019s the good news&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s easy to find out whether you\u2019re a nice guy or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it\u2019s all by looking at the top two mistakes nice guys make with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Put simply\u2013if you\u2019re doing even just one of these mistakes, then you\u2019re a nice guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So let\u2019s find out what they are, shall we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Problem With Nice Guys<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So here are the two biggest mistakes nice guys make with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The first mistake is to just follow her lead.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is when you never take your relationship with a woman to where you want it to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And instead, you make your decisions based on her preferences.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"160\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/nice-guy-mistakes.jpg\" alt=\"nice guy mistakes\" class=\"wp-image-12582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/nice-guy-mistakes.jpg 160w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/nice-guy-mistakes-80x300.jpg 80w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 160px) 100vw, 160px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Yup, it\u2019s a mistake. Not just that \u2013 it\u2019s one of the two biggest mistakes nice guys ever make with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So&#8230; when you\u2019re with a woman, do you tend to go with her preferences?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hold that thought for a moment. Let\u2019s now talk about the next mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The second mistake is to never tell her what to do.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is when you\u2019re too afraid to give her orders&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;or, you\u2019re too scared of potentially hurting your feelings&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and so, to make sure she likes you, you do whatever she tells you, instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re with a woman, do you never tell her what to do, and instead do what she tells you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, these are the two biggest mistakes nice guys make with a woman:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Just following her lead&#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8230;and never telling her what to do.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Friend Zone Problem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Why are they the two biggest mistakes of all?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simple\u2013because they all lead to the dungeon called the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/friend-zone-indicators\/\">friend zone<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They produce the exact opposite of the result you want in the dating game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, yes, they\u2019re the reasons why sayings like \u201cnice guys finish last\u201d ring true even today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So let me ask you another honest question right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color has-background\"><em><strong>Have you ever been friend-zoned because you just followed a woman\u2019s lead, or never told her what to do?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At any rate, the next question is pretty obvious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how do you stop making nice guy mistakes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Should you start acting like a badass and start pushing women around and telling them what to do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course not. That\u2019s just asking for trouble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m about to show you a technique that will change how women see you almost instantly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019ll stop seeing you as a nice guy and start seeing you as a real man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know all those male models they drool over in magazines like Cosmo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Erotic Feeling Trigger<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The key isn\u2019t to look like those models. That\u2019s impossible for most of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, the key is to know how to trigger the same (erotic) feeling women get when they see those models.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They feel hot. Bothered. Excited. Horny. Sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, guess what? You can trigger those same feelings in the women you meet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And without taking your shirt off, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how exactly do you do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With a technique I call Hypnotic Suggestion, and you\u2019re about to learn it next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-background\" style=\"background-color:#dde4ec\"><strong>ALSO READ: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/force-her-to-love-you\/\">How To \u201cForce\u201d A Woman To Fall In Love With You<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Art of Hypnotic Suggestions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hypnotic Suggestions are a classical hypnosis and <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/nlp-seduction-patterns\/\">NLP routine<\/a>, dating back to the days of Shogun Method&#8217;s intellectual forefather, <a href=\"https:\/\/britishhypnosisresearch.com\/about-ericksonian-hypnotherapy\/\">Milton Erickson<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s how it works&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For decades, psychologists have known the female mind\u2019s deepest need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout history, women have always craved the leadership of a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/strong-man\/\">strong, successful male<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"450\" height=\"563\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mistakes-men-make-with-women.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12585\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7992895204262878;width:372px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mistakes-men-make-with-women.jpeg 450w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mistakes-men-make-with-women-240x300.jpeg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the reason why the best hunters, warriors, diplomats, healers, and traders got the most women. The female mind cannot resist the draw of a leader of men, no matter how hard it tries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the psychological principle the Hypnotic Suggestion technique is based on. And it\u2019s the key to making women see you as a real man&#8230; and not another nice guy. And if you want to know <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/hypnotize-someone-falling-love\/\">how to hypnotize a woman and make her fall in love<\/a>, this technique is the answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Hypnotic Suggestions Work<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So how does the Hypnotic Suggestion work? There are two steps to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first step is the <em>redirection<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here, you <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/pattern-interrupts\/\">direct her attention<\/a> to something she wasn\u2019t aware of before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s say you\u2019re chatting with a woman you like. You can redirect her attention with statements like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cDo you smell cinnamon?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cListen to the birds chirping outside.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cHear the chatter from the other room.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also redirect her attention by asking deep questions, like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cWhen was the last time you felt truly happy?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cWhat was the worst pain you\u2019ve ever felt in your life?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cHow did your last ex-boyfriend make you feel about yourself?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You get the idea, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key is to make her think about something unexpected\u2013something under your <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\">control<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a sense, you\u2019re making her think what you want her to think. By asking simple questions, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, the second step is the <em>suggestion<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here, while she\u2019s in the middle of your redirection, you tell her what you want her to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, you can say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cHey, join me for coffee and a cinnamon roll.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cSo it\u2019s been a while since you last felt truly happy. It must feel terrible. Why don\u2019t we go have a little fun?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>\u201cYou said so yourself: Your ex made you feel worthless. I think it\u2019s time you started following your own rules, don\u2019t you think?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see how it works now?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a simple technique you can use anytime, <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/conversationalist\/\">in any conversation<\/a>, with any woman you like. (Yes, even on your girlfriend or wife. In fact, it&#8217;s an essential technique I teach in the Shogun Method <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-train-your-wife\/\">wife training<\/a> program.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Try it out, and you\u2019ll notice she\u2019ll warm up to you much more quickly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019ll start opening up to you. She might start telling you her more intimate secrets. She might even straight up confess her feelings to you. And, further down the road, she might even turn into the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/submissive-girlfriend\/\">submissive girlfriend<\/a> you&#8217;ve always desired to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the power of the Hypnotic Suggestion technique. Try it out and you\u2019ll be surprised. I guarantee it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Where To Fo From Here<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Now, of course, the Hypnotic Suggestion technique isn\u2019t the only one you can use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s just one of many techniques that operate off of a &#8220;mother&#8221; principle. It&#8217;s called Fractionation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you want women to see you as a real man for the rest of your life&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;but you only had the time to master one new skill&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;then I strongly suggest you pick Fractionation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With it, you\u2019ll have the power to make women feel whatever you want them to feel. And all by saying the right words at the right time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a little thank you for reading until the end of this guide, I\u2019m giving you access to a special bonus resource. 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