{"id":7939,"date":"2023-11-27T16:33:38","date_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:33:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=7939"},"modified":"2023-11-27T16:35:12","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:35:12","slug":"i-like-her-but-she-has-a-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/i-like-her-but-she-has-a-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"She Has A Boyfriend! (What Should You Do?)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

So you’re in love with a woman, and she likes you too…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…but unfortunately for you, she has a boyfriend already.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What should you do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re wondering if you should try to make her leave her boyfriend for you… or if that makes you a \u201cbad guy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s worse, if you did decide to try to get her for yourself… you don\u2019t know exactly how to do that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a confusing, frustrating dilemma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now here\u2019s the bad news: If you do it wrong… Or if you wait too long… Then you’ll lose her forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So here\u2019s the question again that\u2019s burning in your mind:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She has a boyfriend.<\/em> What should I do?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s start with the first part of the dilemma. The obvious question is: Is it ever okay to try to make a woman fall in love with you… when she already has a boyfriend?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The answer might surprise you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she\u2019s NOT married or raising her boyfriend\u2019s kids… then it\u2019s TOTALLY okay to try to win her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because she\u2019s not his \u201cproperty.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, technically, even if she WERE married to him, she\u2019s STILL not his property. People don\u2019t \u201cown\u201d other people, because that\u2019s slavery and it\u2019s illegal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But let\u2019s face it \u2013 while you CAN make a woman leave her husband and kids for you… it\u2019s just not worth it. It\u2019s too much work, and it\u2019s going to be a headache that\u2019s going to last decades… so don\u2019t bother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But on the other hand, if she\u2019s NOT tied down like that… you can try to win her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, if her boyfriend is a jerk, then you SHOULD try to win her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that leads us to the second part of the dilemma: How exactly do you make her choose you over her boyfriend?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This short, action-packed guide will show you how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But first, I’ll show you what NEVER to do when gaming a woman who\u2019s already taken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve already made this mistake… then you\u2019re in trouble. So I hope you haven\u2019t made it yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s that super-bad Big Mistake?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s super IMPORTANT for you to know what this Big Mistake is. If you make this Big Mistake, then it\u2019s pretty much GAME OVER for you. It\u2019s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> She’s Not Ready For A Relationship<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She Has A Boyfriend? Here’s What Not To Do<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Now here\u2019s what you should NEVER do when gaming a woman who\u2019s already taken.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should never, EVER, under any circumstance… confess your feelings for her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you love her? Do you want to make her happy? Are you willing to do everything you can to make her dreams come true?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then do yourself a favor and DON\u2019T tell her. Don\u2019t tell her anything REMOTELY CLOSE to those things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s why not…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you\u2019d force her to make a choice now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019d be forcing her to choose between you and her boyfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And naturally, it\u2019ll be so much easier for her to choose her boyfriend… because choosing you might ruin her reputation. Makes lots of sense, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, you know how it is. In today\u2019s society, if a man bounces from one woman to another, he\u2019s a player… but when a woman bounces from one man to another, she\u2019s a slut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She doesn\u2019t want to be called a slut in any way… and so she\u2019ll choose her boyfriend over you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oops.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s on top of the fact that confessing your feelings makes you look needy and weak… two qualities that massively turn women OFF.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the worst part?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Confessing your feelings puts HER in charge. Now she can control you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And trust me when I say you do NOT want a woman controlling you. It\u2019s worse than being single and lonely. Believe me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So now you know what NEVER to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> The ONE Word That Makes Any Woman Go Crazy Over You<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How To Make A Woman Leave Her Boyfriend For You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

So how DO you make her leave her boyfriend for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obviously, you need a different approach… one that\u2019s NOT about being honest and upfront with your feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rather, you need an approach that CONCEALS your true intentions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By concealing your intentions and feelings, you totally avoid killing her attraction for you… which is what happens when you confess your feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But there\u2019s more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concealing your intentions and feelings also lets you use a powerful Mind Control technique… called the \u201cBoyfriend Exposer.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The \u201cBoyfriend Exposer\u201d discretely makes her like her boyfriend LESS AND LESS…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…while she subconsciously starts liking you MORE AND MORE…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…until she realizes that dumping her boyfriend for you is the ONLY LOGICAL CHOICE FOR HER TO MAKE. (Or, if all you want her is to cheat on him with you<\/a>, then it’ll also work.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sound good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shogun Method Boyfriend Exposer Technique<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Now let me tell you all about the Boyfriend Exposer technique.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I developed the Boyfriend Exposer as part of my magnum opus, Shogun Method (reviewed here<\/a>). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am probably the only relationship coach in the world who teaches men how to use Mind Control\u2013instead of pickup tricks and feel-good dating advice\u2013to lead successful relationships and love lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, by \u201cMind Control,\u201d I don\u2019t mean the Hollywood kind of Mind Control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, I’m more of the SCIENCE of Mind Control. Applied psychology, neuro-linguistic programming<\/a>… in other words, it\u2019s the kind of Mind Control that solves real world problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s going to solve YOUR problem, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyway, back to the Boyfriend Exposer technique…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Boyfriend Exposer technique is a series of statements that emphasize and exaggerate her boyfriend\u2019s flaws and bad traits…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…while contrasting them with the GOOD qualities you have in abundance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s where the power of the Boyfriend Exposer technique lies \u2013 in the CONTRAST it creates in your woman\u2019s mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s how the Boyfriend Exposer technique works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First, you start spending time with her… focusing on just having long conversations with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You could meet her twice a week for coffee, just chatting over common interests and other fun stuff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The key is to build trust with her. You want her to feel like she could tell you ANYTHING without getting judged for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you do it correctly, inevitably she\u2019ll start telling you about her boyfriend. Now you should pay attention to the BAD things she says about him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when she says something bad about him, emphasize it by saying:<\/p>\n\n\n\n