Let’s call him Todd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Todd was on the football team and as you’d expect, he had a particularly high opinion of himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Besides being a star athlete and honor student, he had a drop dead gorgeous girlfriend called Kate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Long, brown locks… big, round hazel eyes… pearly white teeth… shapely, 6 ft figure… you know, the works.<\/em> She was an absolute dream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But what he didn\u2019t know at the time was that she was blowing the rest of the football team behind his back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/strong>Eventually, it all came out in the high school rumor mill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And once Todd found out he was never the same again. The world came crashing down, and it completely fucked him up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let’s face it. Truth is, nothing hurts like being played by a girl.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Who are we kidding? It\u2019s a massive blow to your ego, and to call it an “embarrassment”<\/em> would be the understatement of the century. (Plus, that shit can mess you up for a really long time.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n And you know what? It\u2019s because of women like Todd\u2019s girlfriend that I\u2019ve written this article.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Every guy needs to know the warning signs of infidelity because no matter what, you NEVER<\/span> want to get played.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Speaking for myself, I\u2019ve been lucky enough to avoid<\/em> <\/strong>being cheated on…<\/p>\n\n\n\n …which is why I\u2019ve enlisted the help of my buddy Kenneth, who had some extraordinary experience dealing with female mind games all his life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Back in the day, Kenneth had a girlfriend called Mason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After years of dating, he was getting ready to propose to her, when one day out of the blue she dumped him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her explanation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI want to date other people.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kenneth would later find out she had cheated on him with some guy from work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After they split he was a broken man and spent his days and nights pounding six packs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Seeing what this did to him made me realize I never wanted to be in this position.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I asked him why he thinks it happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI ignored the obvious signs she was playing me.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n So what were those obvious signs? How can you tell if a woman is playing mind games with you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n You’re about to find out in this comprehensive guide. Dig in!<\/p>\n\n\n\n OK, so here’s the deal. This guide is pretty comprehensive and long. After all, female mind games are not trivial matters that can be explained in a few hundred words…<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n And that means it’ll be easy to get lost in all the detailed<\/em> knowledge you’re about to get. It’s true!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n That’s why I prepared a special “Female Mind Games Action Checklist”<\/strong> which summarizes ALL<\/span> the most important details in this comprehensive guide.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n And so here it is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Think of it as your handy Checklist or “Cheat Sheet”<\/strong> as you learn the ability to spot women’s mind games and protect yourself from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, a Cheat Sheet like that would be super useful, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n What’s more, the “Female Mind Games Action Checklist”<\/strong> also contains a killer “Anti Female Mind Game” technique that will single-handedly STOP<\/span> a woman’s mind games before they get out of hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (It’s called the “You Owe Me”<\/strong> <\/em>technique.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n The moment you sense a woman is playing you, you immediately use the “You Owe Me” on her – and instantly, the games stop, and she starts behaving the way you want her to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sounds good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, if the “You Owe Me” technique sounds a bit manipulative<\/em> – it’s that’s because IT IS.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n In fact, it’s almost as controversial as it is powerful. That’s why I didn’t cover it in this blog article. To be safe, I “locked it away” in the Action Checklist.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The only way you can find out what it is is to see it inside the Action Checklist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, do the smart thing and download your copy of the Action Checklist now.<\/strong> It’s 100% free. All you need to do is to click the link below.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Got your Action Checklist downloaded yet?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Good! Then let’s get started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n N<\/span>ow, back to the story of my friend Kenneth:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n When Kenneth said he had “ignored the obvious signs” that his ex-girlfriend Mason had been showing, I asked him:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n “What were those signs?”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n He told me that looking back it was clear as daylight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cFor the longest time, there were these unexplained absences<\/strong>.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201cShe was always off doing something with someone, and when she came back I\u2019d have to hear some B.S. story<\/strong> about a friend she was with.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201cAfter a while, I realized that this friend was probably a boyfriend<\/strong>.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201cThe other thing was that she was always on her phone<\/strong>, talking and texting random people.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201cShe also lost interest in sex completely…\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201c…also it just seemed like she was hiding something, you know?\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Eventually, he put two and two together, figured out what was going on… but out of fear and confusion, he decided to just bury his feelings… until she decided to dump him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And you know what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can learn a lot from his experience.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Most importantly that you need to be aware of what your woman is up to.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n (Take your eyes off the ball for even a little while and something bad could happen.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Todd and Kenneth’s stories remind me of another friend of mine — and another victim of female mind games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You might have heard of him – he’s Fredo Hill. He’s also a “graduate” of Shogun Method, and he shares his deep knowledge on his YouTube channel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anyway, Fredo wasn’t always <\/em>good with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In fact, he made an embarrassing confession to me just recently…<\/p>\n\n\n\n He told me that his girlfriend Amanda used to really push him to his limits.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Fredo said that she would purposely do things that would drive him crazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example: she\u2019d pull her phone out and text other guys while they were talking. She would make decisions without consulting Fredo first. She would make plans with him, then cancel at the last minute for \u201csomething better\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It took Fredo a while to realize it, but he eventually discovered that he was being played<\/em>. Over time, Amanda ramped up her mind games with him to the point it was unbearable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Derek, I’ll kid you not,” Fredo told me, laughing sheepishly. “She made my life really shitty<\/em><\/strong>. I needed help, and that’s why I came to you.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this guide, I’ll share with you what Fredo, Kenneth, and Todd did to overturn their situations completely. (And more importantly, how you can do the same to get the same results that they had gotten.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n First, let’s tackle the biggest question of all:<\/p>\n\n\n\n When he came to see me, Fredo was pretty desperate for a solution.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Amanda was driving him insane, and he had to put a stop to her nonsense once and for all. And so this was what he did…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fredo flew out to San Diego on a Monday morning to my office. During our meeting, I told him:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMind games are a woman\u2019s way of trying to take control in a relationship. You\u2019ve let her become the dominant personality.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Fredo’s mouth hung open. It was so obvious! He realized he was entirely powerless in his relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sounds familiar, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you, too, feel powerless<\/em> in your relationship… then this guide will change your life forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You’ll never feel “weak and submissive”<\/strong> <\/em>in your relationship again. And instead, you’ll feel strong, dominant, and in total control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And best of all – your girl will love you for it, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/span><\/span>\n\n\n\n Anyway, back to my meeting with Fredo…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let me reveal to you three tell-tale signs <\/strong>that Fredo saw in his girlfriend Amanda. These signs made him feel powerless and impotent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And as for you, it won’t matter if your woman is your wife, your girlfriend or just a girl you\u2019re trying to hook up with. They all display these THREE SAME <\/strong>signs if they are playing you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If a girl ignores your messages, she\u2019s trying to tell you you\u2019re not worth her time. It\u2019s a bitchy move, but one which is very common, unfortunately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is the most offensive thing a woman can do in front of a guy she knows is into her. When a girl does this, she\u2019s trying to incite jealousy in you. It makes her feel good knowing she can toy with your emotions however she pleases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fucked up, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n IMPORTANT!<\/span> <\/strong><\/em>When your woman flirts with other men in front of you, it’s a HUGE TRAP if you don’t know what to do. If you ignore it, you’ll look like a submissive boyfriend… and if you get mad or emotional, you’ll look weak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Either way, you lose!<\/p>\n\n\n\n So what should you do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is where the “You Owe Me”<\/strong> technique comes in VERY handy. You use it on her and she IMMEDIATELY stops flirting around and starts behaving herself. It’s an extremely useful tool, and you can learn it in the Action Checklist.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you haven\u2019t downloaded the Female Mind Games Action Checklist<\/strong> yet, you can download it for free here<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n\n\n\n So you planned to meet up for a coffee, and you get a last minute text to tell you she\u2019s too busy? This is a surefire sign you’re getting played.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If any of these sound familiar, then she\u2019s stringing you along like a puppet. Take it from me: I know how it feels<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And so does Todd, Kenneth, Fredo, and millions<\/em> of other Shogun Method students before you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I’ve been there myself, many, many times. Believe me because this is true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, if you’re being played, stay calm. There’s an easy way to fight back, and you’ll learn about that next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L<\/span><\/strong>et me tell you how the rest of my meeting with Fredo went. He had just realized that he had lost his power <\/em>in his relationship with his girlfriend Amanda. It was the root cause of his misery and frustration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSo what should I do?\u201d Fredo asked me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To which I replied:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou need to fight fire with fire. You need to manipulate her back!\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n I then gave him a detailed plan on what to do and say in a step-by-step game plan, similar to the Female Mind Games Action Checklist<\/strong><\/span><\/span>.\n\n\n\n Long story short? Fredo followed every word in the plan I gave him that day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And fast forward to today, his girlfriend is now like a docile little chihuahua who’d roll over on his command. Mind games are a thing of the past for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And you know what? It’s the same happy ending with Kenneth, whose toxic girlfriend<\/a> dumped him just as he was about to propose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Laying the Groundwork to catch her mind games means performing these two action steps:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Today, old Kenneth keeps a tight leash on the girls he\u2019s seeing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can say that like Fredo, he had also learned his lesson (albeit the harsh<\/em> way).<\/p>\n\n\n\n After going through Shogun Method<\/a>, he realized his entire approach to women was dead wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, he tells me if you think your girl is playing you, the worst thing you can do is keep quiet about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t be afraid to confront her and demand to know exactly what\u2019s going on.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n And when you do, pay close attention to the psychological<\/em> signals she\u2019s giving off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (If you’re familiar with the entire Shogun Method<\/strong> portfolio, then using the Truth Extractor<\/strong><\/em> makes it piss easy to expose the truth behind the lies.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, make sure to watch her eyes closely:<\/p>\n\n\n\n If they dart around or she can\u2019t make eye contact it\u2019s a good sign something is wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, does she touch her face when speaking to you, or cross her arms and look nervous or defensive?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, make sure to listen closely to the way she speaks. Sounding nervous, stumbling over her words or stuttering could all mean trouble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n According to Kenneth, he sometimes goes further than just asking:<\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019s not afraid to, as he says, \u201cinterrogate\u201d<\/strong> his women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s nothing ugly or nasty about the way he does it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In fact, his methods are pure genius<\/em>. (You’re going to learn all his techniques below.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n The girls don\u2019t know what he\u2019s doing so they give up their secrets easily, and in that way, it\u2019s almost like a sneaky form of Mind Control<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt\u2019s necessary,\u201d Kenneth tells me, \u201cLearning how to know if a girl is playing you is absolutely essential to your well-being as a man!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n (Even if you’re already married to her, it’s important to know if she’s playing mind games on you. Detecting the early signs that your marriage is failing is how you can stop a divorce from happening<\/a>.<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n N<\/span><\/strong>ow that you have laid the necessary groundwork required, use these two techniques to find out if your woman is playing mind games on you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To find out if your woman is playing mind games on you, get your woman confused<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Did you know that confusion is a mild form of a hypnotic trance<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n You go into a trance when confused because it breaks you out of your habitual, limiting thought patterns. In addition to this, it makes you more compliant<\/em> and willing to answer questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If that sounds manipulative<\/em>, it’s because it is. Sowing Confusion is a standard psychological manipulation technique<\/a> which is familiar to all devotees of the Shogun Method.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So how do you use this tactic on a woman?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here’s how:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Use words which sound similar<\/em> but have different<\/em> meanings.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, words like leave<\/em> and leaf<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Another way is with words that are opposite<\/span> to each other. You know, like left<\/em> and right<\/em> or up<\/em> and down<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Use these together in a sentence and pay close attention to how women respond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can also confuse people by talking about many different subjects all at once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you\u2019re talking change the subject every so often, and don\u2019t let her focus on one thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Doing this will confuse her and also creates a type of tension<\/strong> which makes her more compliant<\/em> with your commands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Confusion is a really useful way to trick people into telling you the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It works because it makes you open up and go off balance. And when you can\u2019t think straight, that\u2019s when you slip up and reveal secrets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Makes sense?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/span><\/span>\n\n\n\n Next, Kenneth moves onto something called a \u201cYes Set\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. (This technique is also known as a “Yes Ladder”<\/a> in psychology circles.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a technique Kenneth learned from his time selling insurance. And yes, it’s quite insidious knowing how sneaky insurance salesmen could be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It works like this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n You ask your girlfriend a bunch of questions which all have simple “yes” answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cDid you go to work today, did you drive there, did you drink coffee?\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n As someone replies yes, yes, yes to these questions they start to lose concentration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then you casually ask her what you really want to know about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, you could say, \u201cAre you cheating on me?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Most of the time she won\u2019t be paying attention and will reveal what\u2019s actually on her mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I once saw Kenneth use this method on a cute bartender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He asked her a bunch of questions like, ![\"girl](\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/girl-in-sexy-lingerie-e1502268574499.jpg\")
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The “I” Sign: She purposely IGNORES your text messages.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The “F” Sign: She openly FLIRTS with other guys in front of you.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The “B” Sign: She constantly BAILS on you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
How To Fight Female Mind Games: The Groundwork<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Step #1: Observe Her Eyes And Body Language<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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How To Tell If A Woman Is Playing You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Technique #1: Sow Confusion<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Technique #2: The “Yes Set”<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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