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Toxic Relationship Examples: Signs, Symptoms and Solutions<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Are you dating a woman you love very much… but who can be very toxic sometimes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

In short, how do you know if a relationship is toxic? Are you dating a toxic woman?<\/p>\n

Or, looking from another angle: how is a normal relationship supposed to be like?<\/p>\n

Well, here’s the answer…<\/p>\n

If your relationship is showing any of the following three signs:<\/p>\n

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  1. She sometimes gets offended by something you said or did that was harmless<\/li>\n
  2. She sometimes gets offended when you offer constructive feedback<\/li>\n
  3. She doesn\u2019t appreciate it when you apologize or try to make her feel better<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    …then yes, quite simply, you have a toxic girlfriend<\/em><\/strong>, <\/em>and you’re stuck inside a toxic relationship<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n

    Quite simply, \u201ctoxic\u201d simply means the inability to listen to logic. When you have a toxic woman as your girlfriend, she\u2019s one who\u2019s a slave <\/em>to her emotions<\/em>\u2013 especially NEGATIVE <\/strong>emotions.<\/p>\n

    And here’s what makes it worse:<\/p>\n

    Whenever you try to disprove or alleviate her negative emotions… she doesn\u2019t appreciate it. Instead, she\u2019ll blame YOU <\/strong>for her bad feelings…<\/p>\n

    …and that\u2019s why it’s toxic<\/em><\/strong>!<\/p>\n

    The bad news?<\/p>\n

    Well, unless you do something FAST<\/span>, she\u2019s going to get MORE and MORE toxic. It’s a one-way street to emotional ruin<\/em> for her.<\/p>\n

    And guess what? Things will worsen until either you or she can\u2019t take the relationship anymore and leave.<\/p>\n

    The good news?<\/p>\n

    There\u2019s a proven way to \u201cdetoxify\u201d your girlfriend and your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    If you want a better relationship \u2013 happier and more pleasant for you both \u2013 then this guide will show you how to get it<\/strong>.\"\"<\/p>\n

    We’ll get into everything in detail in just a little while. First of all, though, it’s IMPORTANT<\/strong> to know what I’m going to tell you next, so pay attention…<\/p>\n

    The solution to the “toxic girlfriend” problem which I am going to share with you is quite comprehensive<\/em>. I’ve written it simply so that anyone can use it to “detoxify” their relationships and marriages.<\/p>\n

    So here’s what I guarantee: if you read this guide and understand it completely, and take action EXACTLY like how I tell you – you WILL be enjoying a healthy, happy relationship with your girlfriend. In short, I will show you how to make a toxic relationship work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Now here’s the kicker…<\/p>\n

    Since there are lots of details in this guide (and you shouldn’t be missing anything), remembering EVERYTHING<\/em> can be a little tricky. It’s true.<\/p>\n

    So, to help you out, I’ve created this:<\/p>\n

    \"Derek<\/p>\n

    “How To Handle Toxic Girlfriends Action Checklist”<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

    Click here to download<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

    It’s a free<\/strong><\/span> PDF document which you can download on your phone or computer for you to refer to whenever you want to use these tactics on your toxic girlfriend.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

    Leaf through this beautiful PDF and check off everything you need to know – without worrying about missing out a step in your game plan to detoxify her.<\/p>\n

    Sounds good, right?<\/p>\n

    And that’s not all…<\/p>\n

    I’ll also share with you a BONUS technique called “Implanted Commands” which you can use to “hack” into her mind – and remove toxic behavior from her psyche immediately!<\/strong><\/p>\n

    (This Bonus technique is not<\/span> inside this blog post because, well, it’s a little to controversial to be published openly. Read it inside the PDF and you’ll understand why this is so.)<\/p>\n

    Download the Action Checklist here:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    Click here to download the Action Checklist<\/span><\/span> which contains everything in this guide in easy-to-follow step-by-step format PLUS<\/span> routines containing “Implanted Commands” you can use to detoxify her behavior immediately.<\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n

    Downloaded the Action Checklist? Great!<\/p>\n

    Now, let\u2019s start by taking a closer look at the problem…<\/p>\n\n

    What Is A Toxic Relationship? (A Definition)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    How To Know If You Are In A Toxic Relationship<\/h3>\n

    Realize this –<\/strong><\/p>\n

    The nature of the relationship between men and women is changing <\/em>before our very eyes. And it’s changing for the worse<\/em>.<\/p>\n

    Why?<\/p>\n

    Well, here’s the reason…<\/p>\n

    Men are losing control of relationships<\/strong>. They\u2019re giving more and more power over to women.<\/p>\n

    And that’s why relationships go toxic.<\/p>\n

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    The solution to this problem is obvious: take back control<\/em><\/strong>. But that’s easier said than done.<\/p>\n

    Why? Well… you see, women inherently resist <\/em>control.<\/p>\n

    And, to make things worse, the society is telling women that they<\/em> should be in control.<\/p>\n

    Yes, the situation seems rather hopeless…<\/p>\n

    …but I\u2019m here to tell you it\u2019s not. In fact, I have the solution that will solve this problem, once and for all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    You’ll find out about this solution later in this comprehensive guide, but for now, I’d like you to take a step back and do this important thing:<\/p>\n

    To look out for these warning signs of toxic relationships<\/strong> and see if they are present in your girlfriend.<\/p>\n

    Toxic Relationship Traits: 38 Signs To Look Out For<\/h2>\n

    Let me ask you this…<\/p>\n

    Are you worried that you, or someone you care about, is in a toxic relationship?<\/p>\n

    Well, just like the human body, when a relationship is toxic, there are certain traits or symptoms you can look for…<\/strong><\/p>\n

    38 Warning Signs Of A Toxic Relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    “Is My Girlfriend Toxic?”<\/strong><\/h4>\n
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    1. You feel unhappy or lonely around her, instead of thrilled like when you first got together.<\/li>\n
    2. Affection is lacking; you rarely or never kiss, smile at each other, hold hands, etc.<\/li>\n
    3. She uses sex to coerce you.<\/li>\n
    4. She\u2019s passive aggressive.<\/li>\n
    5. She\u2019s jealous.<\/li>\n
    6. She\u2019s always critical or contemptuous<\/a>.<\/li>\n
    7. The two of you are constantly fighting. Not just sometimes, but always.<\/li>\n
    8. You argue instead of communicating. She places blame, won\u2019t acknowledge valid points, refuses to compromise, and uses ultimatums to win.<\/li>\n
    9. You avoid her, because being around her is too stressful.<\/li>\n
    10. Your entire life revolves around keeping her happy<\/a>, but she never returns the gesture.<\/li>\n
    11. You\u2019re never sure how she\u2019ll react to something, and so you\u2019re afraid of sharing things with her.<\/li>\n
    12. She\u2019s never pleased or satisfied with anything you do.<\/li>\n
    13. She discourages you from growing and developing. She tells you that you\u2019re not smart\/talented\/attractive enough to do something new and change your life.<\/li>\n
    14. She says you only have one redeeming feature, whether its looks, money, or something else.<\/li>\n
    15. She implies that, by staying with you, she\u2019s doing you a favor you don\u2019t really deserve.<\/li>\n
    16. You remember the good times you had at the beginning of your relationship, but you don\u2019t look forward to your future together.<\/li>\n
    17. She keeps a relationship scorecard of wrongdoings (just yours) and positive gestures (but only hers).<\/li>\n
    18. She stonewalls you and refuses to discuss important topics.<\/li>\n
    19. You turn to friends and family for emotional support, not her<\/a>.<\/li>\n
    20. She tries to isolate you from your friends and family to make you emotionally dependent on her.<\/li>\n
    21. She complains about you to her friends and family.<\/li>\n
    22. She has no respect for your opinions, ideas, or passions.<\/li>\n
    23. She dismisses your emotions and your need for attention or affection.<\/li>\n
    24. You can identify very obvious ways you\u2019ve negatively influenced each other. Drinking too much, watching TV instead of exercising, chain-smoking to relieve stress, etc.<\/li>\n
    25. She only points out your flaws and never praises your positive qualities.<\/li>\n
    26. You\u2019re constantly going through the breakup\/makeup cycle.<\/li>\n
    27. You behave in embarrassing ways together, such as arguing loudly in public.<\/li>\n
    28. She involves you in illegal or immoral activities, and maybe uses that as relationship blackmail.<\/li>\n
    29. She\u2019s disinterested and dismissive of your interests and successes.<\/li>\n
    30. She sets a standard that is impossible to meet.<\/li>\n
    31. She jokes about leaving you, but it\u2019s never very funny.<\/li>\n
    32. There\u2019s only one right way to do things: her way.<\/li>\n
    33. She blames you for her own shortcomings and failures.<\/li>\n
    34. You feel trapped; you\u2019re unable to improve your relationship, but you can\u2019t escape from it, either.<\/li>\n
    35. You find yourself thinking about other people you know and would rather be in a relationship with.<\/li>\n
    36. She dismisses and belittles you as stupid, crazy, etc.<\/li>\n
    37. She gets violent with you when she\u2019s angry, whether she\u2019s angry at you or something else. In short, you’ve got a female psychopath<\/a> in your hands.<\/li>\n
    38. She cheats on you and expects you to just live with it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      How many of these toxic relationship traits do you score?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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      For TEN more (non-obvious) signs that you are in a  toxic relationship, download the Action Checklist<\/span><\/span><\/span>.<\/div><\/div>\n

      Here’s the deal…<\/p>\n

      Any single <\/em>one of these signs could indicate a hidden poison in your relationship with your wife or girlfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      And if you don’t detoxify your relationship soon enough, it’s pretty much doomed. Believe me because this is true!<\/p>\n

      Why Is Your Girlfriend Toxic<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      Next, I want you to take a nostalgic trip back to where it all started…
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      When you first started your relationship, your girlfriend wasn\u2019t nearly as toxic, am I right?<\/p>\n

      Instead, she simply became more and more toxic over time<\/em>.<\/p>\n

      So, what happened?<\/p>\n

      Here’s what happened:<\/p>\n

      “Solipsism”<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      What\u2019s Solipsism?<\/p>\n

      In philosophy, Solipsism is a belief system that centers around this idea:<\/p>\n

      \u201cOutside the self, nothing exists.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

      Let me explain.<\/p>\n

      In the realm of dating and relationships, a woman\u2019s Solipsism is the unspoken belief which goes like this:<\/p>\n

      \u201cI feel this emotion, therefore this emotion is valid.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

      I said \u201cWoman\u2019s Solipsism\u201d <\/strong>because solipsism is exclusively a “woman” thing (or, it’s a female psychology<\/a> phenomenon.)<\/p>\n

      This means that men don\u2019t have it. So, you\u2019ve never experienced it \u2013 and never will.<\/p>\n

      But get this… Solipsism is the reason your girlfriend, when she\u2019s distressed, IGNORES <\/strong>logic:<\/p>\n