{"id":6693,"date":"2018-10-17T17:24:43","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T09:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=6693"},"modified":"2018-10-17T17:46:57","modified_gmt":"2018-10-17T09:46:57","slug":"how-to-make-it-up-to-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-it-up-to-her\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Make It Up To Her"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>How To Make Up With Your Girlfriend After You Hurt Her<\/h2>\n<p><strong><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-default\" style=\"font-size:1.5em\">D<\/span>id you just do something seriously wrong in your relationship&#8230; and now your girlfriend is extremely angry at you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Has your relationship turned to hell after she found out what you just did?<\/p>\n<p>Do you now want to know how to make it up to her?<\/p>\n<p>If you answered \u201cyes\u201d to any of the questions above&#8230; then you have the exact same problem as Drew, one of my Shogun Method clients.<\/p>\n<p>His girlfriend, Elizabeth, had caught him cheating on her, and she was beyond angry at him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was just a one-night thing,\u201d Drew confessed to me. \u201cI thought it was harmless \u2013 after all, Elizabeth and I aren\u2019t married. But since then, she\u2019s stopped having sex with me, she\u2019s stopped cooking for me, and so on&#8230; I guess I\u2019m lucky she hasn\u2019t kicked me out of the house yet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo do you want things to go back to the way things were before you cheated?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah, I do,\u201d Drew. \u201cI\u2019ve apologized to her a million times, but she still hates my guts. How do I make it up to her, Derek? I really love Elizabeth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you, too, have done something your girlfriend thinks is TERRIBLE, and now you want to make it up to her&#8230; then this Shogun Method guide is for you.<\/p>\n<p>This Guide will show you how to get your relationship back to the way it was&#8230; even when your girlfriend things you\u2019ve done the absolute WORST thing in the world to her.<\/p>\n\n<h2><strong>How To Make It Up To Your Girlfriend After You Hurt Her<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-default\" style=\"font-size:1.5em\">F<\/span>irst of all, trying to do the right thing after you\u2019ve fucked up is ALWAYS honorable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It means you give a shit about your relationship. You\u2019re not an asshole who only does what he wants at the expense of others, so kudos to you.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, I\u2019ll drop the bomb here and now: \u201cMaking it up to your girlfriend\u201d is NOT the \u201cright thing to do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right. It\u2019s NOT.<\/p>\n<p>It IS the right thing to do in everyday dealings, such as business.<\/p>\n<p>But in a relationship, the rules change. In a relationship, \u201cmaking it up to her\u201d is NOT the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>And by the time you read to the end of this Guide, you\u2019ll agree 100%.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>How Men And Women See Apologies<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a lesson on apologies: <em>Men and women see apologies differently.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For men like us, we see apologizing as \u201crestoring the balance.\u201d When you hurt another person in any way, you instantly become more powerful than them.<\/p>\n<p>But when you apologize, you \u201crestore the balance\u201d in power. By apologizing, you surrender some of your power to the person you hurt.<\/p>\n<p>For men like us, apologizing is a vehicle of JUSTICE.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, women see apologizing <em>very <\/em>differently.<\/p>\n<p>For women, it\u2019s NOT about justice. Instead, it\u2019s about VALIDATION OF HER FEELINGS.<\/p>\n<p>When a woman feels hurt or upset because of something you said or did, she immediately thinks:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I feel bad, therefore what he did MUST have been bad.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And when you apologize, she thinks:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I was right \u2013 what he did WAS bad!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>She thinks this way every time she feels distressed, even when you&#8217;ve done nothing wrong. She\u2019ll think: <em>\u201cI feel bad, therefore he must have done something wrong.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This thought process has been so firmly established that Psychology has a proper term for it:<\/p>\n<p><em>Solipsism.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And it seems only women have solipsism. It explains the vast difference in the way men and women see apologies.<\/p>\n<p>When I taught this to Drew, he shrugged and said: \u201cWell, I DID hurt her, and it WAS my fault. Doesn\u2019t that mean she DESERVES an apology?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s why I said \u201cno&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong><div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/relationship-rules\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Relationship Rules<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Why It\u2019s A Mistake To \u201cMake It Up\u201d To Her<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>One more time: Apologizing is a way to \u201crestore balance.\u201d<\/strong> And balance is good to have in areas such as business.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s NOT good to have in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s why: Good relationships are NOT about balance.<\/p>\n<p>Good relationships are about ATTRACTION.<\/p>\n<p>In stable relationships, the \u201cfollower\u201d is more attracted to the \u201cleader.\u201d Never the other way around.<\/p>\n<p>And in the strongest, happiest, most resilient relationships&#8230; the \u201cleader\u201d is <em>always<\/em> the man.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t apologize, even after you fuck up royally:<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you apologize to your woman, you give up your leadership.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You give up your leadership for the sake of \u201cbalance.\u201d And while that may sound good on paper, it\u2019s actually HORRIBLE in practice.<\/p>\n<p>When your woman feels she\u2019s your \u201cequal\u201d or your \u201cleader,\u201d bad things start to happen:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She starts undermining your authority<\/li>\n<li>She starts holding you hostage (such as by withholding sex until you do her a favor)<\/li>\n<li>She starts disrespecting you, even in public<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The more you apologize (or otherwise pursue balance or equality) in your relationship&#8230; the more bad behavior you\u2019ll get from her.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why Drew wasn\u2019t getting anywhere with Elizabeth. The more he apologized, the more bad behavior he got in return.<\/p>\n<p>In short: Apologizing makes your relationship unsustainable in the long term.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t make that mistake. Here\u2019s what you should do instead.<\/p>\n<p><strong><div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/drama-queen-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Deal With A Drama Queen<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Women Are Attracted To Men Who Break The Rules<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-default\" style=\"font-size:1.5em\">O<\/span>ne more time: Relationships aren\u2019t about balance.<\/strong> They\u2019re about ATTRACTION.<\/p>\n<p>If your woman is attracted enough to you, she\u2019ll forgive ANYTHING \u2013 even infidelity.<\/p>\n<p>Why is that?<\/p>\n<p>Because deep inside, women actually WANT a sense of danger in their men. They\u2019re innately attracted to men strong enough to \u201cmake their own rules.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And yes, that includes cheating, lying, and other manipulative behavior.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one of the reasons why women are so attracted to \u201cbad boy\u201d types of men. You\u2019ve probably met women who stuck with their philandering boyfriends and husbands.<\/p>\n<p>For these women, their thought process goes: <em>\u201cHe has options in his life, but he still chose me.\u201d <\/em>And that\u2019s enough to make them stay.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, women will never say this out loud \u2013 they have reputations to protect.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, the proof is in the results. \u00a0You can see how women do NOT treat \u201cnice guy\u201d types of men the same way.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you\u2019ll often see women LEAVING their \u201cnice guy\u201d men&#8230; often for stronger, manlier \u201cbad boy\u201d types.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How To Make Your Girlfriend Happy<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-default\" style=\"font-size:1.5em\">S<\/span>o here\u2019s my advice: Instead of \u201cmaking it up to her,\u201d try \u201cmaking things WORSE.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the long run, it\u2019ll make your girlfriend love you more&#8230; just as it did for Drew and Elizabeth.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>How Drew Won Elizabeth Back<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>At my advice, Drew put Elizabeth on an emotional rollercoaster.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>First, Drew took Elizabeth to an unexpected date at her favorite restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>Throughout the date, Drew didn\u2019t mention the cheating incident. Instead, he focused on giving Elizabeth a good time \u2013 and that\u2019s what she had.<\/p>\n<p>After that date, Elizabeth was happy. It seemed like all was forgiven.<\/p>\n<p>But then, Drew countered that emotional high with an emotional low. He disappeared for days.<\/p>\n<p>For those several days, he didn\u2019t answer any of Elizabeth\u2019s angry calls and texts.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, after a few days, Elizabeth calmed down enough to send a text message begging Drew to come home and talk.<\/p>\n<p>Drew did come home, which gave Elizabeth a huge dose of relief.<\/p>\n<p>Then Drew gave her another emotional low by saying: \u201cI think we should start seeing other people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Drew offered no explanation, despite the questions and accusations that Elizabeth spewed. He stood firm: <em>Maybe they should see other people. That\u2019s it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eventually, Elizabeth calmed down again and begged him for a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>That was the sign Drew was waiting for. He was once again the \u201cleader\u201d of the relationship. And he pounced on the opportunity.<\/p>\n<p>Drew laid out his new terms for their relationship:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She should respect his privacy<\/li>\n<li>She should respect his authority<\/li>\n<li>She should follow his direction<\/li>\n<li>And several other agreements solidifying his role as the leader<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>To Drew\u2019s surprise, Elizabeth readily agreed.<\/p>\n<p>Today, Drew and Elizabeth are still together \u2013 happier and stronger than ever.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s all because Drew stopped trying to \u201cmake things right\u201d&#8230; and instead reinforced his position of leadership.<\/p>\n<p><strong><div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-treat-a-woman-you-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What Does It Mean To Be A Pushover<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Twist The Knife<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>The emotional rollercoaster technique that Drew used on Elizabeth has a proper term:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Fractionation.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a technique that makes a woman \u201cfractionate.\u201d That is, to snap out of her solipsism, feel powerless, and feel the powerful urge to follow a strong man\u2019s leadership.<\/p>\n<p>You, too, can save your relationship&#8230; even after you\u2019ve fucked up.<\/p>\n<p>But you WILL need Fractionation. It\u2019s the only way.<\/p>\n<p>Luckily for you, you can learn Fractionation today. All you need to do is sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can check out the Masterclass below:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4793\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"250\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png 250w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Request Invite Ticket to Online Masterclass<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>(NOTE: Use your best e-mail address when signing up. It\u2019s where I\u2019ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Masterclass.)<\/p>\n<p>Go ahead \u2013 \u201cmake things right.\u201d But do it the RIGHT way.<\/p>\n<p>Master Fractionation today. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Here\u2019s the link to my Masterclass again.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Good luck,<\/p>\n<p><strong><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-165\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" \/><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S: What was the absolute worst thing your woman caught you doing? How did you recover (or not recover) from it? Tell me about it in the comments section below.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How To Make Up With Your Girlfriend After You Hurt Her id you just do something seriously wrong in your relationship&#8230; and now your girlfriend is extremely angry at you? Has your relationship turned to hell after she found out what you just did? 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