If so, then your goal should be simple. You want your first conversation with her to be a slippery slope towards romance.<\/p>\n
Any less than that, and you\u2019re wasting your time and energy.<\/p>\n
Make no mistake: How you start your first conversation with her will make or break your future with her. After all, first impressions last, and you can only make it once.<\/p>\n
If your first impression isn\u2019t good enough, she\u2019ll slot you into her \u201cfriend zone\u201d at best, or tell you to go away at worst. In case you don\u2019t know it yet: Once a woman sees you in a non-romantic context, it\u2019s next-to-impossible to change her mind.<\/p>\n
So yes, you only have one shot. In this Shogun Method guide, you\u2019ll learn how most guys MISS their shots on purpose…<\/p>\n
…and what you should do, instead, to make a girl like you right on the first conversation.<\/p>\n\n
What Doesn\u2019t Work: Pickup Lines<\/strong><\/h2>\nH<\/span>ere\u2019s how most guys mess up their one shot at making a girl like them:<\/strong><\/p>\nThey use pickup lines.<\/em><\/p>\nThese guys have the right idea. They know a normal, everyday conversation with her would lead nowhere.<\/p>\n
So they turn to pickup lines, thinking it\u2019s the only way to go. And they go fuck things up right from the start.<\/p>\n
Why Pickup Lines Don\u2019t Work<\/strong><\/h3>\nHere\u2019s the problem: Pickup lines don\u2019t work because they PUSH into a woman\u2019s life.<\/strong><\/p>\nImagine someone trying to shoehorn themselves into your life:<\/p>\n
\n- A pushy salesman who won\u2019t leave you alone<\/li>\n
- Friends who pressure you into doing things you don\u2019t like<\/li>\n
- A disgusting woman who\u2019s trying to win your heart<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
How would you feel?<\/p>\n
Violated? Disgusted? Under distress?<\/p>\n
Guess what \u2013 that\u2019s how women feel when you use cheesy, pre-rehearsed pickup routines on them.<\/p>\n
Naturally, they\u2019re going to resist you.<\/p>\n
Naturally, they\u2019ll side-eye you and wonder, \u201cWhat does he want from me?\u201d<\/p>\n
Naturally, your relationship starts off on the wrong foot.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t make that mistake!<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll need something different:<\/p>\n
\n- Something that makes her come closer to you instead of peel away from you<\/li>\n
- Something that makes her think: \u201cWhat\u2019s he like?\u201d instead of \u201cWhat does he want?\u201d<\/li>\n
- Something that makes her want to have a real, revealing conversation with you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
You\u2019re about to learn what that \u201csomething\u201d is.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Get Women’s Attention<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nIntroducing Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\nAn Intrigue Ping is a Shogun Method technique that\u2019s meant to do one thing:<\/strong><\/p>\nTo generate INTRIGUE right on the first interaction with a girl.<\/p>\n
Intrigue Pings trigger intrigue and curiosity in a woman\u2019s mind. They give her the irresistible urge to know you better.<\/p>\n
As a result, the conversation flows more easily. The slope to romance becomes more slippery.<\/p>\n
Each Intrigue Ping has three parts:<\/p>\n
\n- Your opening remark, meant to catch her attention<\/li>\n
- Her response, which indicates you have her attention<\/li>\n
- Your statement or question, tailored to the current situation<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
For example: Let\u2019s say you want to approach a cute girl at a bookshop…<\/p>\n
YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cExcuse me, but…\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cYes?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201c…I have a feeling you\u2019ll like this book.\u201d<\/p>\nOr let\u2019s say you want to chat with the pretty girl waiting in line with you at a cafe…<\/p>\n
YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, sorry to bother you, but…\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat is it?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cIt\u2019s my first time trying this place, what do you recommend?\u201d<\/p>\nIt doesn\u2019t matter what your comment or question is at the end. It can be simple, silly, or even nonsensical.<\/p>\n
The closest thing to a non-negotiable element would be this: It needs to be SITUATIONAL.<\/p>\n
Are you in a bookstore? A cafe? At a bus stop? At a party? The more relevant your comment is, the more intriguing your Intrigue Ping becomes.<\/p>\n
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online<\/strong><\/h2>\nN<\/span>ow, a common question: Can Intrigue Pings be used online?<\/strong><\/p>\nThe answer is \u201cyes,\u201d although you\u2019ll need to make some adjustments. The biggest adjustment revolves around the fact that online, there\u2019s no \u201csituation\u201d to riff off of.<\/p>\n
So you adjust a bit and make \u201cyou chatting with her\u201d as the situation.<\/p>\n
No matter on which online platform you use Intrigue Pings, the goal is to arrange a meet-up with her.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t chat too long, and don\u2019t try to be online-only friends.<\/p>\n
Remember the goal: Romance.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Build Rapport<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nHow To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Whatsapp<\/strong><\/h3>\nTexting services like Whatsapp and Viber are easy.<\/strong> Simply use Intrigue Pings in their usual structure (opening, response, statement).<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I was just wondering.\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cWhen are you going to text me?\u201d<\/p>\nHow To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Facebook<\/strong><\/h3>\nOn Facebook, where she can post status updates, you have more options for the \u201csituation\u201d to use.<\/strong><\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I have a question.\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cYeah?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cI saw your latest status. What\u2019s up with that?\u201d<\/p>\nHow To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Instagram<\/strong><\/h3>\nUsing Intrigue Pings on Instagram follows the same approach as on Facebook.<\/strong> Use her latest photos and videos as alternative \u201csituations.\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I have something to tell you.\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cReally? What?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cYour latest video was crazy. How\u2019d you get in that situation?\u201d<\/p>\nHow To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Snapchat<\/strong><\/h3>\nOn Snapchat, you may need to get the ball rolling with a curiosity-piquing Snap first.<\/strong> Then you ease into the Intrigue Ping.<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Opening Snap) \u201cGuess what. I just saw something that reminded me of you.\u201d<\/p>\nHER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat was it?\u201d<\/p>\nYOU:<\/strong> (Situational Snap) \u201cThis. It\u2019s so you, don\u2019t you think?\u201d<\/p>\nREAD ALSO: Does She Still Love Me?<\/a><\/div><\/div>\nIntrigue Pings And More<\/strong><\/h2>\nI<\/span>ntrigue Pings are great for starting conversations.<\/strong> But they won\u2019t be all you need to get things romantic.<\/p>\nYou\u2019ll also need to:<\/p>\n
\n- Ride her initial Intrigue and start building Rapport with her. (In Shogun Method, this is called \u201cI-R Bridging\u201d)<\/li>\n
- Steer the conversation onto more romantic grounds (such as with Implanted Commands)<\/li>\n
- Make her fall in love with you with techniques such as Fractionation<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Intrigue Pings, I-R Bridges, Implanted Commands, Fractionation, etc…<\/p>\n
…all these techniques involve one root skill.<\/p>\n
Mind Control.<\/strong><\/p>\nIt’s the manipulation of a woman\u2019s mind, enticing her to make decisions that move you ever closer to romance.<\/p>\n
In Shogun Method, you\u2019ll master how to think, speak, and act in a way that triggers all the right feelings in a woman…<\/p>\n
…starting with the very first conversation you have with her.<\/p>\n
If that\u2019s something you\u2019d like to master instead of some lame pickup line…<\/p>\n
…then you\u2019re welcome to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\n
They use pickup lines.<\/em><\/p>\n These guys have the right idea. They know a normal, everyday conversation with her would lead nowhere.<\/p>\n So they turn to pickup lines, thinking it\u2019s the only way to go. And they go fuck things up right from the start.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the problem: Pickup lines don\u2019t work because they PUSH into a woman\u2019s life.<\/strong><\/p>\n Imagine someone trying to shoehorn themselves into your life:<\/p>\n How would you feel?<\/p>\n Violated? Disgusted? Under distress?<\/p>\n Guess what \u2013 that\u2019s how women feel when you use cheesy, pre-rehearsed pickup routines on them.<\/p>\n Naturally, they\u2019re going to resist you.<\/p>\n Naturally, they\u2019ll side-eye you and wonder, \u201cWhat does he want from me?\u201d<\/p>\n Naturally, your relationship starts off on the wrong foot.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t make that mistake!<\/p>\n You\u2019ll need something different:<\/p>\n You\u2019re about to learn what that \u201csomething\u201d is.<\/p>\n An Intrigue Ping is a Shogun Method technique that\u2019s meant to do one thing:<\/strong><\/p>\n To generate INTRIGUE right on the first interaction with a girl.<\/p>\n Intrigue Pings trigger intrigue and curiosity in a woman\u2019s mind. They give her the irresistible urge to know you better.<\/p>\n As a result, the conversation flows more easily. The slope to romance becomes more slippery.<\/p>\n Each Intrigue Ping has three parts:<\/p>\n For example: Let\u2019s say you want to approach a cute girl at a bookshop…<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cExcuse me, but…\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cYes?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201c…I have a feeling you\u2019ll like this book.\u201d<\/p>\n Or let\u2019s say you want to chat with the pretty girl waiting in line with you at a cafe…<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, sorry to bother you, but…\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat is it?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cIt\u2019s my first time trying this place, what do you recommend?\u201d<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what your comment or question is at the end. It can be simple, silly, or even nonsensical.<\/p>\n The closest thing to a non-negotiable element would be this: It needs to be SITUATIONAL.<\/p>\n Are you in a bookstore? A cafe? At a bus stop? At a party? The more relevant your comment is, the more intriguing your Intrigue Ping becomes.<\/p>\n N<\/span>ow, a common question: Can Intrigue Pings be used online?<\/strong><\/p>\n The answer is \u201cyes,\u201d although you\u2019ll need to make some adjustments. The biggest adjustment revolves around the fact that online, there\u2019s no \u201csituation\u201d to riff off of.<\/p>\n So you adjust a bit and make \u201cyou chatting with her\u201d as the situation.<\/p>\n No matter on which online platform you use Intrigue Pings, the goal is to arrange a meet-up with her.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t chat too long, and don\u2019t try to be online-only friends.<\/p>\n Remember the goal: Romance.<\/p>\n Texting services like Whatsapp and Viber are easy.<\/strong> Simply use Intrigue Pings in their usual structure (opening, response, statement).<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I was just wondering.\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cWhen are you going to text me?\u201d<\/p>\n On Facebook, where she can post status updates, you have more options for the \u201csituation\u201d to use.<\/strong><\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I have a question.\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cYeah?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cI saw your latest status. What\u2019s up with that?\u201d<\/p>\n Using Intrigue Pings on Instagram follows the same approach as on Facebook.<\/strong> Use her latest photos and videos as alternative \u201csituations.\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening remark) \u201cHey, I have something to tell you.\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cReally? What?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational comment) \u201cYour latest video was crazy. How\u2019d you get in that situation?\u201d<\/p>\n On Snapchat, you may need to get the ball rolling with a curiosity-piquing Snap first.<\/strong> Then you ease into the Intrigue Ping.<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Opening Snap) \u201cGuess what. I just saw something that reminded me of you.\u201d<\/p>\n HER:<\/strong> (Response) \u201cWhat was it?\u201d<\/p>\n YOU:<\/strong> (Situational Snap) \u201cThis. It\u2019s so you, don\u2019t you think?\u201d<\/p>\n I<\/span>ntrigue Pings are great for starting conversations.<\/strong> But they won\u2019t be all you need to get things romantic.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll also need to:<\/p>\n Intrigue Pings, I-R Bridges, Implanted Commands, Fractionation, etc…<\/p>\n …all these techniques involve one root skill.<\/p>\n Mind Control.<\/strong><\/p>\n It’s the manipulation of a woman\u2019s mind, enticing her to make decisions that move you ever closer to romance.<\/p>\n In Shogun Method, you\u2019ll master how to think, speak, and act in a way that triggers all the right feelings in a woman…<\/p>\n …starting with the very first conversation you have with her.<\/p>\n If that\u2019s something you\u2019d like to master instead of some lame pickup line…<\/p>\n …then you\u2019re welcome to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\nWhy Pickup Lines Don\u2019t Work<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Introducing Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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How To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online<\/strong><\/h2>\n
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Whatsapp<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Facebook<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Instagram<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Snapchat<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Intrigue Pings And More<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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