Check if any of the following statements apply to you:<\/p>\n
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- You have trouble getting women to feel attracted to you<\/li>\n
- You\u2019ve had little to no success in the dating game so far<\/li>\n
- The thought of approaching women you\u2019ve never met before makes you uncomfortable<\/li>\n
- You\u2019re afraid of getting rejected<\/li>\n
- You\u2019re worried others will see you as a \u201closer\u201d in dating \u2013 so you don\u2019t even try<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
If you can relate to any of the statements above, then it\u2019s understandable why you want to try online dating.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s alluring because on the Internet:<\/p>\n
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- Women can \u201cmatch\u201d with you if they find you attractive, instead of you having to make the first move all the time<\/li>\n
- It\u2019s accessible and (in most cases) free<\/li>\n
- No need to go out there and meet women \u2013 you can do that with your phone<\/li>\n
- Lots of hot women online<\/li>\n
- Etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Unfortunately, online dating has some disadvantages, too. Chances are your success rate with women will be EVEN WORSE than your success rate in real life.<\/p>\n
So if you want to meet more women, this Shogun Method guide will show you why online dating may NOT be the best way.<\/p>\n\n
Why There Are More Cons Than Pros To Online Dating<\/strong><\/h2>\n
L<\/span>et\u2019s use the online dating app Tinder as our example.<\/strong> It\u2019s the biggest, most accessible online dating platform today, and the ladies there tend to be hotter.<\/p>\n
What are the disadvantages of trying to meet women on a platform like Tinder?<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s answer that question with an experiment.<\/p>\n
The First Disadvantage<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Imagine yourself being in your living room with four other guys you know.<\/strong> These guys could be your friends, co-workers, or even strangers you met recently.<\/p>\n
Imagine the five of you in the room right now.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s the question: Among the five of you, are YOU the best-looking guy in the bunch?<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re not, then you\u2019re in trouble… because online, looks are everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n
On Tinder in particular, the best-looking 20% of guys tend to get the attention of 80% of the women there.<\/p>\n
Meanwhile, the other 80% of guys tend to compete for the remaining 20% of women.<\/p>\n
That means if you and the other four guys in your living room decided to go on Tinder…<\/p>\n
…the best-looking one among you will get about 16 times more matches than the others.<\/p>\n
So if you\u2019re among the top 20% \u2013 then online dating will be good for you.<\/p>\n
But if you\u2019re NOT… then online dating will be a nightmare.<\/p>\n
And guess what \u2013 it gets worse.<\/p>\n
The Second Disadvantage<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Another problem with online dating is how it makes you look to women.<\/strong><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re on Tinder, then it\u2019s easy for women to assume that you DON\u2019T approach women in real life.<\/p>\n
In other words… if you\u2019re NOT among the top 20% best-looking guys on Tinder, women will tend to assume you\u2019re a loser.<\/p>\n
Of course, that\u2019s not automatically true. But the truth doesn\u2019t matter on Tinder.<\/p>\n
On Tinder, all that matters is what women think of your photo and description. And if you\u2019re not among the most attractive 20%, they\u2019ll swipe left.<\/p>\n
And here\u2019s the kicker…<\/p>\n
The Third Disadvantage<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Lastly, your lack of success in online dating can falsely send you into a downward spiral.<\/strong> After trying it for several months with little to no success, you might conclude:<\/p>\n
\u201cWell, maybe I AM a loser.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
Or… \u201cI guess no woman will ever love me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
But here\u2019s the truth…<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re not having much success in online dating, it\u2019s only because you don\u2019t belong to the most attractive 20% of men. The vast majority of men don\u2019t.<\/p>\n
And so online dating tends to give you a false “score” of your attractiveness to women.<\/p>\n
In reality, a LOT of the women who \u201cswipe left\u201d on you online would absolutely LOVE you if they met you in real life.<\/p>\n
So what do I recommend?<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Keep A Girl Interested In You<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nA Better Way To Make Women Like You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
O<\/span>nline dating can be a \u201ccrutch\u201d for your love life.<\/strong> But unless you \u201cstrengthen your legs,\u201d so to speak, your success with women will always be limited.<\/p>\n
The worst case is that you\u2019ll remain single and lonely for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n
Or you\u2019ll settle for a woman who\u2019s much less than your ideal because there\u2019s no one else.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t trap yourself like that. You MUST strengthen your legs.<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s where some bad news and good news come in.<\/p>\n
First, the bad news. The fastest way to strengthen your legs, growth- and results-wise, is to approach women in real life.<\/p>\n
The good news? You don\u2019t even need to \u201chit on\u201d women. All you need is to know how to carry an easy, harmless conversation.<\/p>\n
Your Own Unique Brand Of Chitchat<\/strong><\/h3>\n
The great thing about conversation is that ANYONE can do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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- You don\u2019t need to talk about anything in particular<\/li>\n
- It\u2019s small talk. It\u2019s chitchat. If it\u2019s under the sun, it\u2019s good to talk about.<\/li>\n
- As long as you don\u2019t<\/em> keep a chat going for longer than 1-2 minutes, you won\u2019t be annoying anyone.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
There\u2019s just one little twist. You\u2019re not going to engage women in ordinary, regular, “Hi goodbye” conversations.<\/p>\n
Instead, you\u2019ll be subtly putting them on emotional rollercoasters.<\/p>\n
Your conversations will give women emotional highs and lows in quick succession. And you do it in a way they won’t notice.<\/p>\n
Here are some examples of subtle \u201cemotional rollercoaster\u201d conversations:<\/p>\n
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- You tell her a fun experience you had with a friend. Then you tell her you\u2019ve been missing that friend ever since they passed away.<\/li>\n
- You talk about topics that make her excited. Then you switch to a topic that annoys or angers her, then switch back to exciting topics again… over and over.<\/li>\n
- You talk about a non-romantic topic. Then you make a vaguely romantic or sexual comment (preferably involving you and her). Then you switch back to a harmless topic again. Rinse and repeat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nREAD ALSO: How To Get Women’s Attention<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n
Why Women Love Emotional Thrill Rides<\/strong><\/h3>\n
What do these emotional thrill rides do?<\/strong><\/p>\n
Simple \u2013 it makes her feel emotionally addicted to you. No one else makes her feel the way you do.<\/p>\n
Most of the other guys in her life do one of three things:<\/p>\n
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- Put her on sustained emotional highs, which makes her take them for granted<\/li>\n
- Put her on sustained emotional lows, which makes her hate or avoid them<\/li>\n
- Give her neither emotional high nor emotional lows, which bores her to death<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
But you: You put her on emotional rollercoasters. And it\u2019s the most addicting experience she\u2019ll ever share with a guy.<\/p>\n
And the more she gets addicted to you, the more easily you\u2019ll move from become \u201cmore than friends\u201d with her.<\/p>\n
In fact, she might even move your relationship forward all by herself. And it’s all because you\u2019re such an awesome guy she\u2019d be crazy to miss out on.<\/p>\n
So Should You Still Meet Women Online?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
I<\/span>f you\u2019re a good-looking guy \u2013 then by all means, meet women online.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Just remember \u2013 even then, you\u2019ll need to know how to hold a good conversation. Otherwise, you\u2019ll bore or annoy most of the women who swipe right on you.<\/p>\n
And if you\u2019re NOT among the most attractive 20% of men, then online dating is a massive waste of time.<\/p>\n
My advice? No matter who you are and what you want to do, you MUST learn how to put women on emotional rollercoasters.<\/p>\n
Why waste time online when you have the skills to hook ANY woman you want, anytime you want, anywhere you want?<\/p>\n
So again: Master giving women emotional highs and lows in the space of a single conversation. And you can do that right now by signing up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\n
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