Chester was a client of mine who asked me for help recently. He loved his girlfriend, Talia, but he told me her narcissism was driving him insane.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s never satisfied,\u201d Chester moaned. \u201cI keep giving her what she wants, but she keeps demanding more and more. It feels like I\u2019m the only one working in my relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n
I asked him the obvious question. \u201cSo why are you still in a relationship with her?\u201d<\/p>\n
Chester hesitated. \u201cWell… sometimes she showers me with the love and affection I want. It\u2019s just enough to make me stay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s it?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah,\u201d he sighed. \u201cOh, and the fact that EVERYONE loves her… and if we broke up, EVERYONE\u2019S going to think it was MY fault. I guess I\u2019m trapped.\u201d<\/p>\n
Pause right there.<\/p>\n
Does Chester\u2019s predicament sound just like yours?<\/p>\n
If so, then this Shogun Method guide is for you.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re about to learn what I told Chester that day that completely changed his life and his relationship…<\/p>\n
…and what you, too, can do about your narcissistic girlfriend.<\/p>\n
First off, let\u2019s establish the baseline:<\/p>\n\n
Is Your Girlfriend A Narcissist?<\/strong><\/h2>\nL<\/span>et\u2019s find out.<\/strong> Check how many of the following traits your relationship has:<\/p>\n\n- She throws a fit whenever she doesn\u2019t get her way<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s frustratingly high-maintenance<\/li>\n
- Once in a while, she gives you what she wants (love, sex, affection, etc.) just to keep you hooked<\/li>\n
- Your self-esteem is slowly disappearing<\/li>\n
- She doesn\u2019t respect your privacy one bit<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s generally flighty and unreliable<\/li>\n
- She needs constant validation from you and others<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s never satisfied, and she keeps demanding more<\/li>\n
- You feel like you\u2019re the only one trying to make the relationship work<\/li>\n
- She makes you choose between her and the people or things you like<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
If you checked at least three of the traits above, then yes, you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman.<\/p>\n
And yes, that means your relationship is in trouble.<\/p>\n
Why Dating A Narcissistic Woman Is Trouble<\/strong><\/h3>\nThe most obvious problem of dating a narcissistic woman is sustainability.<\/strong><\/p>\nIt\u2019s just not sustainable when one partner keeps giving while the other keeps demanding. Eventually, something\u2019s gotta give.<\/p>\n
The worst part? If it’s you who breaks first, she won\u2019t save you. She won\u2019t give up her narcissistic tendencies to help you recover.<\/p>\n
Instead, she\u2019ll hook up with another guy using the same techniques she used to hook you. She\u2019ll go her merry way while you\u2019re left with a shattered sense of yourself.<\/p>\n
Not worth it.<\/p>\n
So when you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman, there\u2019s really only two ways to come out on top:<\/p>\n
\n- Breaking up with her, but most people will think you caused the breakup<\/li>\n
- Change her<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
If you\u2019ve fallen out of love with her and just want out no matter what, then Option #1 is the obvious choice.<\/p>\n
But if you love her, and if you want to change her into a girlfriend who:<\/p>\n
\n- Has much lower expectations<\/li>\n
- Is stronger, more mentally resilient, and more reliable<\/li>\n
- Works just as hard as you to make the relationship better<\/li>\n
- Loves you, respects you, supports you, and follows your authority<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
…then here\u2019s what you need to do.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Save A Marriage When Only One Is Trying<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nHow To Handle A Narcissistic Girlfriend<\/strong><\/h3>\nYour girlfriend\u2019s biggest anchor to her narcissistic tendencies is her focus.<\/strong><\/p>\nHer current focus is INWARD \u2013 in her mind, it\u2019s all about her.<\/p>\n
To change her, you\u2019ll need to change her focus.<\/p>\n
The best way to do that? Mind Control.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll be manipulating her mind to wrench her focus from inward to outward.<\/p>\n
But you won\u2019t just be making her focus on ordinary “outward” things like work or hobbies, because that won\u2019t change her.<\/p>\n
You need to make her focus on REAL, PAINFUL, DRAMATIC things.<\/p>\n
You want to jar her out of her self-focus and pay full attention to you.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s exactly what Chester did to Talia to win her back.<\/p>\n
How Chester Changed Talia<\/strong><\/h2>\nC<\/span>hester used a Mind Control technique called the \u201cFake Breakup.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\nFirst, Chester disappeared for more than 3 days, making zero contact with Talia.<\/p>\n
Talia called, texted, and e-mailed him, but he gave her no replies. This jarred her so much, and that was Chester\u2019s intention. She focused on him for three whole days.<\/p>\n
Finally, on the fourth day, Chester picked up a call from Talia and answered with a deadpan: \u201cYeah, what\u2019s up.\u201d<\/p>\n
After she spent a whole two minutes angrily demanding an explanation, Chester answered:<\/p>\n
\u201cI think we should start seeing other people.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t explain any further, and he avoided answering any more of Talia\u2019s questions. \u201cHey, I can\u2019t talk now. I gotta go. Later.\u201d Then he hung up.<\/p>\n
The next few days were a barrage of threats, complaints, and accusations from Talia, sent over text.<\/p>\n
Through it all, Chester avoided replying to her. And when he did reply, his overall message was the same: \u201cI think we should see other people.\u201d<\/p>\n
Finally, Talia broke and begged him to meet up to talk. Chester agreed, and as soon as they met, he laid out his terms:<\/p>\n
\n- He\u2019s the boss of the relationship. She respects his authority or he walks, plain and simple.<\/li>\n
- If she wants something, she gets it herself.<\/li>\n
- If she doesn\u2019t get it, she won\u2019t throw a fit \u2013 she fucking deals with it.<\/li>\n
- If she doesn\u2019t start working on the relationship too, he\u2019s gone.<\/li>\n
- If she can\u2019t respect his decisions, he\u2019s gone.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Talia quickly agreed, and they started dating again. Whenever her narcissistic self cropped up, Chester would punish it with coldness.<\/p>\n
But when she stayed in line, he rewarded her with warmth, affection, and loving reassurance.<\/p>\n
It worked \u2013 Talia eventually gave in and started working on herself. She stopped thinking of herself too much. She eased into the \u201csupportive girlfriend\u201d persona Chester had been molding for her.<\/p>\n
Today, Chester and Talia are happily married with their first kid on the way. And not only is Talia an awesome, supportive wife, but she\u2019s also now an active volunteer in her community. That was a change that surprised even Chester.<\/p>\n
Chester had successfully shocked the narcissism out of his woman.<\/p>\n
Now you can, too.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Deal With A Depressed Girlfriend<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nWhy Mind Control?<\/strong><\/h2>\nA<\/span>t this point, you might be wondering: \u201cDid Chester just trick Talia?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\nI would say the more accurate term would be \u201cmanipulate.\u201d \u201cTricking\u201d involves making a person do something against their will through deception.<\/p>\n
Manipulation isn\u2019t deception \u2013 it\u2019s emotional domination.<\/strong> You\u2019re not coming from a place of temporary mischief \u2013 you\u2019re coming from your permanent nature as a human being.<\/p>\nHuman beings are natural manipulators. We always have been. Our ancestors controlled their environments, relationships and situations to survive.<\/p>\n
Today, we STILL manipulate our relationships. Talia manipulated her relationship with Chester to get more and more of what she wanted.<\/p>\n
What Chester did was different. He used manipulation NOT to take advantage of Talia, but to:<\/p>\n
\n- Save their relationship<\/li>\n
- Re-establish control and direction in the relationship<\/li>\n
- Bring balance into Talia\u2019s life<\/li>\n
- Re-invigorate communication<\/li>\n
- Make them both happier and more satisfied<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Now, you might ALSO be wondering: \u201cBut isn\u2019t that no different from Pickup Artistry (PUA) dating tricks?\u201d<\/p>\n
The answer is also \u201cno\u201d for the following reasons:<\/p>\n
\n- PUA is about getting as many orgasms as you can with as many different women as you can. What Chester did was save his relationship with one woman, which is something PUA is horrible at.<\/li>\n
- PUA is about making a woman do something against her will, often for your own selfish reasons. What Chester did was manipulate Talia to start making the RIGHT decisions. We’re talking about selfless, constructive, and cooperative decisions.<\/li>\n
- PUA is all about \u201ctricking\u201d a woman. What Chester did was restore the balance in the relationship by imposing the right frame on it. That frame is where he was the rightful leader, and Talia was his loyal, supportive sidekick.<\/li>\n
- And the list goes on.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Make no mistake. Between PUA and Mind Control, you’re a THOUSAND TIMES better off with Mind Control.<\/p>\n
Chester figured that out. And if you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman and want to save your relationship with her, you should, too.<\/p>\n
And luckily for you, you can do that TODAY.<\/p>\n
If you want to learn how Mind Control can help you create the relationship of your dreams…<\/p>\n
…then I invite you to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\n
- \n
- She throws a fit whenever she doesn\u2019t get her way<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s frustratingly high-maintenance<\/li>\n
- Once in a while, she gives you what she wants (love, sex, affection, etc.) just to keep you hooked<\/li>\n
- Your self-esteem is slowly disappearing<\/li>\n
- She doesn\u2019t respect your privacy one bit<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s generally flighty and unreliable<\/li>\n
- She needs constant validation from you and others<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s never satisfied, and she keeps demanding more<\/li>\n
- You feel like you\u2019re the only one trying to make the relationship work<\/li>\n
- She makes you choose between her and the people or things you like<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
If you checked at least three of the traits above, then yes, you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman.<\/p>\n
And yes, that means your relationship is in trouble.<\/p>\n
Why Dating A Narcissistic Woman Is Trouble<\/strong><\/h3>\n
The most obvious problem of dating a narcissistic woman is sustainability.<\/strong><\/p>\n
It\u2019s just not sustainable when one partner keeps giving while the other keeps demanding. Eventually, something\u2019s gotta give.<\/p>\n
The worst part? If it’s you who breaks first, she won\u2019t save you. She won\u2019t give up her narcissistic tendencies to help you recover.<\/p>\n
Instead, she\u2019ll hook up with another guy using the same techniques she used to hook you. She\u2019ll go her merry way while you\u2019re left with a shattered sense of yourself.<\/p>\n
Not worth it.<\/p>\n
So when you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman, there\u2019s really only two ways to come out on top:<\/p>\n
- \n
- Breaking up with her, but most people will think you caused the breakup<\/li>\n
- Change her<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
If you\u2019ve fallen out of love with her and just want out no matter what, then Option #1 is the obvious choice.<\/p>\n
But if you love her, and if you want to change her into a girlfriend who:<\/p>\n
- \n
- Has much lower expectations<\/li>\n
- Is stronger, more mentally resilient, and more reliable<\/li>\n
- Works just as hard as you to make the relationship better<\/li>\n
- Loves you, respects you, supports you, and follows your authority<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
…then here\u2019s what you need to do.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Save A Marriage When Only One Is Trying<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nHow To Handle A Narcissistic Girlfriend<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Your girlfriend\u2019s biggest anchor to her narcissistic tendencies is her focus.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Her current focus is INWARD \u2013 in her mind, it\u2019s all about her.<\/p>\n
To change her, you\u2019ll need to change her focus.<\/p>\n
The best way to do that? Mind Control.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll be manipulating her mind to wrench her focus from inward to outward.<\/p>\n
But you won\u2019t just be making her focus on ordinary “outward” things like work or hobbies, because that won\u2019t change her.<\/p>\n
You need to make her focus on REAL, PAINFUL, DRAMATIC things.<\/p>\n
You want to jar her out of her self-focus and pay full attention to you.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s exactly what Chester did to Talia to win her back.<\/p>\n
How Chester Changed Talia<\/strong><\/h2>\n
C<\/span>hester used a Mind Control technique called the \u201cFake Breakup.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n
First, Chester disappeared for more than 3 days, making zero contact with Talia.<\/p>\n
Talia called, texted, and e-mailed him, but he gave her no replies. This jarred her so much, and that was Chester\u2019s intention. She focused on him for three whole days.<\/p>\n
Finally, on the fourth day, Chester picked up a call from Talia and answered with a deadpan: \u201cYeah, what\u2019s up.\u201d<\/p>\n
After she spent a whole two minutes angrily demanding an explanation, Chester answered:<\/p>\n
\u201cI think we should start seeing other people.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t explain any further, and he avoided answering any more of Talia\u2019s questions. \u201cHey, I can\u2019t talk now. I gotta go. Later.\u201d Then he hung up.<\/p>\n
The next few days were a barrage of threats, complaints, and accusations from Talia, sent over text.<\/p>\n
Through it all, Chester avoided replying to her. And when he did reply, his overall message was the same: \u201cI think we should see other people.\u201d<\/p>\n
Finally, Talia broke and begged him to meet up to talk. Chester agreed, and as soon as they met, he laid out his terms:<\/p>\n
- \n
- He\u2019s the boss of the relationship. She respects his authority or he walks, plain and simple.<\/li>\n
- If she wants something, she gets it herself.<\/li>\n
- If she doesn\u2019t get it, she won\u2019t throw a fit \u2013 she fucking deals with it.<\/li>\n
- If she doesn\u2019t start working on the relationship too, he\u2019s gone.<\/li>\n
- If she can\u2019t respect his decisions, he\u2019s gone.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Talia quickly agreed, and they started dating again. Whenever her narcissistic self cropped up, Chester would punish it with coldness.<\/p>\n
But when she stayed in line, he rewarded her with warmth, affection, and loving reassurance.<\/p>\n
It worked \u2013 Talia eventually gave in and started working on herself. She stopped thinking of herself too much. She eased into the \u201csupportive girlfriend\u201d persona Chester had been molding for her.<\/p>\n
Today, Chester and Talia are happily married with their first kid on the way. And not only is Talia an awesome, supportive wife, but she\u2019s also now an active volunteer in her community. That was a change that surprised even Chester.<\/p>\n
Chester had successfully shocked the narcissism out of his woman.<\/p>\n
Now you can, too.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Deal With A Depressed Girlfriend<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nWhy Mind Control?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
A<\/span>t this point, you might be wondering: \u201cDid Chester just trick Talia?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n
I would say the more accurate term would be \u201cmanipulate.\u201d \u201cTricking\u201d involves making a person do something against their will through deception.<\/p>\n
Manipulation isn\u2019t deception \u2013 it\u2019s emotional domination.<\/strong> You\u2019re not coming from a place of temporary mischief \u2013 you\u2019re coming from your permanent nature as a human being.<\/p>\n
Human beings are natural manipulators. We always have been. Our ancestors controlled their environments, relationships and situations to survive.<\/p>\n
Today, we STILL manipulate our relationships. Talia manipulated her relationship with Chester to get more and more of what she wanted.<\/p>\n
What Chester did was different. He used manipulation NOT to take advantage of Talia, but to:<\/p>\n
- \n
- Save their relationship<\/li>\n
- Re-establish control and direction in the relationship<\/li>\n
- Bring balance into Talia\u2019s life<\/li>\n
- Re-invigorate communication<\/li>\n
- Make them both happier and more satisfied<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Now, you might ALSO be wondering: \u201cBut isn\u2019t that no different from Pickup Artistry (PUA) dating tricks?\u201d<\/p>\n
The answer is also \u201cno\u201d for the following reasons:<\/p>\n
- \n
- PUA is about getting as many orgasms as you can with as many different women as you can. What Chester did was save his relationship with one woman, which is something PUA is horrible at.<\/li>\n
- PUA is about making a woman do something against her will, often for your own selfish reasons. What Chester did was manipulate Talia to start making the RIGHT decisions. We’re talking about selfless, constructive, and cooperative decisions.<\/li>\n
- PUA is all about \u201ctricking\u201d a woman. What Chester did was restore the balance in the relationship by imposing the right frame on it. That frame is where he was the rightful leader, and Talia was his loyal, supportive sidekick.<\/li>\n
- And the list goes on.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Make no mistake. Between PUA and Mind Control, you’re a THOUSAND TIMES better off with Mind Control.<\/p>\n
Chester figured that out. And if you\u2019re dating a narcissistic woman and want to save your relationship with her, you should, too.<\/p>\n
And luckily for you, you can do that TODAY.<\/p>\n
If you want to learn how Mind Control can help you create the relationship of your dreams…<\/p>\n
…then I invite you to join my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/p>\n
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