If you try to date the women you like, but they keep rejecting or friend-zoning you…<\/p>\n
…then no, you probably DON\u2019T know how to create sexual tension.<\/p>\n
And that can be frustrating when you\u2019re a great guy. You KNOW you\u2019ll be the best boyfriend these women would ever have…<\/p>\n
…and yet, they\u2019re just not interested in you.<\/p>\n
But here\u2019s some good news \u2013 you\u2019re not getting rejected or friend-zoned because of your personality.<\/p>\n
Instead, you\u2019re getting rejected because of your APPROACH. You\u2019re not creating enough sexual tension in your interactions with women.<\/p>\n
Sexual tension is CRUCIAL for seduction. If you learned how to create sexual tension, all your problems with women would be over.<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s what this guide will do for you.<\/p>\n\n
How To Create Sexual Tension<\/strong><\/h2>\nF<\/span>irst off \u2013 what IS sexual tension?<\/strong><\/p>\nIt\u2019s sexual desire shared by a man and a woman interacting with each other, but can\u2019t act on just yet.<\/p>\n
Imagine being with a woman, and it\u2019s clear that both of you want to have sex with each other…<\/p>\n
…but you can\u2019t just yet because you\u2019re in a public place… or in a meeting… or with other people.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s sexual tension.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s be clear \u2013 if you want to be \u201cmore than friends\u201d with any woman, then sexual tension is GOOD.<\/p>\n
When you charge your interaction with sexual tension, things move forward automatically. No need for pickup lines and cheesy tricks.<\/p>\n
The problem? Most guys can’t create sexual tension.<\/p>\n
Or if they can create sexual tension, they can’t HANDLE it for long.<\/p>\n
They might create a little sexual tension with a woman, but they ruin everything by…<\/p>\n
\n- Changing the conversation topic from flirty to logical<\/li>\n
- Talking about something boring or self-centered all of a sudden<\/li>\n
- Giggling like a little girl when the sexual tension gets too much<\/li>\n
- Saying \u201cjust kidding\u201d or apologizing after saying something sexual<\/li>\n
- Verbally confessing their attraction<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Don\u2019t make any of those mistakes! Here are some of the best ways to create sexual tension WITHOUT breaking it.<\/p>\n
#1: Eye Contact<\/strong><\/h3>\nGet used to making eye contact and NOT breaking it first. You\u2019ll want to get used to women giggling and saying: \u201cWhat? Why are you staring at me like that?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\nThen you give ANY nonsensical answer (e.g. \u201cNothing, you remind me of my kitten.\u201d). Then slowly turn your head away, but keep your eyes on hers for a few more seconds before you break eye contact.<\/p>\n
#2: Be Close To Her<\/strong><\/h3>\nGet into her personal space without being too intrusive. The closer, the better.<\/p>\n
You can gradually inch your way closer, or (in places like clubs and parties) pull her to you.<\/p>\n
Remember: She\u2019s going to feel the most sexual tension with the guy closest to her.<\/p>\n
#3: Touch Her<\/strong><\/h3>\nIt\u2019s a good idea to touch her as early as you can \u2013 preferably with a handshake, a shoulder tap, or a high-five when you meet up.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not really touching that builds sexual tension, but rather HOW SHE FEELS when you touch her. Touch her in harmless ways early on, but escalate to more daring, flirty touches as you move forward.<\/p>\n
If you DON\u2019T touch her early on, then touching her LATER might BREAK sexual tension because it\u2019s so unexpected.<\/p>\n
#4: Tone Of Voice<\/strong><\/h3>\nThe idea is to start your interaction with a normal, acceptable tone of voice. Then, as the interaction moves forward, you lower your voice tone and volume.<\/p>\n
Then you revert to your normal tone of voice when you talk to other people, such as her friends. Then you go right back to your low tone of voice when you re-engage her.<\/p>\n
This shared experience deepens your bond and spikes the sexual tension. For even better results, try whispering to each other.<\/p>\n
#5: Conversation<\/strong><\/h3>\nConversation is your most powerful tool for creating sexual tension with a woman. If you only had time to work on one thing, it should be this.<\/p>\n
By \u201cconversation,\u201d I don\u2019t mean those deep, personal conversations. If you\u2019ve tried those before, you already know how they\u2019re a quick ticket into her friend zone.<\/p>\n
Instead, your conversations will put her on emotional rollercoasters. These are alternating, intensifying cycles of emotional highs and lows.<\/p>\n
Here are some sample conversation topics that take her on emotional rollercoasters:<\/p>\n
\n- Tell her you absolutely love her \u2013 because she reminds you of your little sister<\/li>\n
- Be sarcastic and funny. If she dresses sexily, tell her you\u2019re attracted to her beautiful personality<\/li>\n
- Talk about something romantic, then switch to a platonic topic… then go romantic again<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
The result? She\u2019ll start feeling some sexual tension between you. The more frequent your emotional rollercoasters are, the more palpable the tension becomes…<\/p>\n
…until she can\u2019t take it anymore and starts openly flirting with you.<\/p>\n
Why do emotional rollercoasters create sexual tension so well?<\/p>\n
Simple \u2013 it\u2019s all because of what\u2019s going on in a woman\u2019s mind when meeting a new guy like you.<\/p>\n
\n- She\u2019s always unconsciously interested in men who excite her sexually<\/li>\n
- At the same time, she knows she should NOT show her sexual interest in public, or she\u2019ll get shamed<\/li>\n
- Most men she meets are either too serious (not sexually exciting) or too forward. (Men who are too forward force her to protect her reputation by hiding her interest.)<\/li>\n
- When you put her on emotional rollercoasters, you keep her on edge (which is a good thing). You\u2019re exciting her sexually, but you\u2019re not being too forward.<\/li>\n
- The result? She feels more and more sexually excited WITHOUT the fear of getting shamed. And so she gladly rides the sexual tension you create.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Once she starts openly flirting with you, do her a favor. Ask her out, take her on a date, bring her home, etc. \u2013 whatever your desired outcome was from the beginning.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Build Rapport<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nPut Women On Emotional Rollercoasters<\/strong><\/h2>\nP<\/span>utting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster is a Mind Control technique:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n- You put her in a trance where she\u2019s free to follow her heart<\/li>\n
- You snap her out of that trance by engaging her mind<\/li>\n
- You put her BACK into the trance \u2013 only this time, she naturally falls deeper into it<\/li>\n
- Repeat until she gets emotionally addicted to you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Now, some guys wonder: \u201cIsn\u2019t that manipulative, though?\u201d<\/p>\n
Sure it is. But if you haven\u2019t noticed, COURTSHIP has always been manipulative:<\/p>\n
\n- Courtship all about coercing the opposite sex to date\/mate with you<\/li>\n
- These days, we\u2019re civilized enough to renounce physical coercion. We now rely solely on emotional coercion. (This is present-day courtship.)<\/li>\n
- The emotional rollercoaster is \u201cnuclear grade\u201d emotional coercion. It wins a woman\u2019s heart NOT with cheesy pickup lines, but with spine-tingling sexual tension<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Make no mistake. If you want to create sexual tension with a woman, then emotional rollercoasters are the way to go.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t want to play the game that way, that\u2019s entirely up to you.<\/p>\n
But if you want to finally get \u201cunstuck\u201d in your love life…<\/p>\n
If you want to finally get women to like you back…<\/p>\n
And if you want to enjoy the kind of success with women you\u2019ve always dreamed of…<\/p>\n
…Then I invite you to master Mind Control today.<\/p>\n
You can sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control, which you can check out below:<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"Derek](\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/derek-rake.png\")
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Request Invite Ticket to Online Masterclass<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n(NOTE: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. It\u2019s where I\u2019ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Masterclass.)<\/p>\n
Remember: Until you learn how to make a woman feel like she wants to have sex with you…<\/p>\n
…you\u2019ll ALWAYS have trouble with women.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll keep getting declined, rejected, or friend-zoned.<\/p>\n
You CAN get lucky. But do you really want to go through your love life relying on luck?<\/p>\n
The dating game isn\u2019t a game of luck \u2013 it\u2019s a game of skill.<\/p>\n
And the ultimate skill is \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 the ability to put women on emotional rollercoasters.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s sexual desire shared by a man and a woman interacting with each other, but can\u2019t act on just yet.<\/p>\n
Imagine being with a woman, and it\u2019s clear that both of you want to have sex with each other…<\/p>\n
…but you can\u2019t just yet because you\u2019re in a public place… or in a meeting… or with other people.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s sexual tension.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s be clear \u2013 if you want to be \u201cmore than friends\u201d with any woman, then sexual tension is GOOD.<\/p>\n
When you charge your interaction with sexual tension, things move forward automatically. No need for pickup lines and cheesy tricks.<\/p>\n
The problem? Most guys can’t create sexual tension.<\/p>\n
Or if they can create sexual tension, they can’t HANDLE it for long.<\/p>\n
They might create a little sexual tension with a woman, but they ruin everything by…<\/p>\n
- \n
- Changing the conversation topic from flirty to logical<\/li>\n
- Talking about something boring or self-centered all of a sudden<\/li>\n
- Giggling like a little girl when the sexual tension gets too much<\/li>\n
- Saying \u201cjust kidding\u201d or apologizing after saying something sexual<\/li>\n
- Verbally confessing their attraction<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Don\u2019t make any of those mistakes! Here are some of the best ways to create sexual tension WITHOUT breaking it.<\/p>\n
#1: Eye Contact<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Get used to making eye contact and NOT breaking it first. You\u2019ll want to get used to women giggling and saying: \u201cWhat? Why are you staring at me like that?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
Then you give ANY nonsensical answer (e.g. \u201cNothing, you remind me of my kitten.\u201d). Then slowly turn your head away, but keep your eyes on hers for a few more seconds before you break eye contact.<\/p>\n
#2: Be Close To Her<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Get into her personal space without being too intrusive. The closer, the better.<\/p>\n
You can gradually inch your way closer, or (in places like clubs and parties) pull her to you.<\/p>\n
Remember: She\u2019s going to feel the most sexual tension with the guy closest to her.<\/p>\n
#3: Touch Her<\/strong><\/h3>\n
It\u2019s a good idea to touch her as early as you can \u2013 preferably with a handshake, a shoulder tap, or a high-five when you meet up.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not really touching that builds sexual tension, but rather HOW SHE FEELS when you touch her. Touch her in harmless ways early on, but escalate to more daring, flirty touches as you move forward.<\/p>\n
If you DON\u2019T touch her early on, then touching her LATER might BREAK sexual tension because it\u2019s so unexpected.<\/p>\n
#4: Tone Of Voice<\/strong><\/h3>\n
The idea is to start your interaction with a normal, acceptable tone of voice. Then, as the interaction moves forward, you lower your voice tone and volume.<\/p>\n
Then you revert to your normal tone of voice when you talk to other people, such as her friends. Then you go right back to your low tone of voice when you re-engage her.<\/p>\n
This shared experience deepens your bond and spikes the sexual tension. For even better results, try whispering to each other.<\/p>\n
#5: Conversation<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Conversation is your most powerful tool for creating sexual tension with a woman. If you only had time to work on one thing, it should be this.<\/p>\n
By \u201cconversation,\u201d I don\u2019t mean those deep, personal conversations. If you\u2019ve tried those before, you already know how they\u2019re a quick ticket into her friend zone.<\/p>\n
Instead, your conversations will put her on emotional rollercoasters. These are alternating, intensifying cycles of emotional highs and lows.<\/p>\n
Here are some sample conversation topics that take her on emotional rollercoasters:<\/p>\n
- \n
- Tell her you absolutely love her \u2013 because she reminds you of your little sister<\/li>\n
- Be sarcastic and funny. If she dresses sexily, tell her you\u2019re attracted to her beautiful personality<\/li>\n
- Talk about something romantic, then switch to a platonic topic… then go romantic again<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
The result? She\u2019ll start feeling some sexual tension between you. The more frequent your emotional rollercoasters are, the more palpable the tension becomes…<\/p>\n
…until she can\u2019t take it anymore and starts openly flirting with you.<\/p>\n
Why do emotional rollercoasters create sexual tension so well?<\/p>\n
Simple \u2013 it\u2019s all because of what\u2019s going on in a woman\u2019s mind when meeting a new guy like you.<\/p>\n
- \n
- She\u2019s always unconsciously interested in men who excite her sexually<\/li>\n
- At the same time, she knows she should NOT show her sexual interest in public, or she\u2019ll get shamed<\/li>\n
- Most men she meets are either too serious (not sexually exciting) or too forward. (Men who are too forward force her to protect her reputation by hiding her interest.)<\/li>\n
- When you put her on emotional rollercoasters, you keep her on edge (which is a good thing). You\u2019re exciting her sexually, but you\u2019re not being too forward.<\/li>\n
- The result? She feels more and more sexually excited WITHOUT the fear of getting shamed. And so she gladly rides the sexual tension you create.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Once she starts openly flirting with you, do her a favor. Ask her out, take her on a date, bring her home, etc. \u2013 whatever your desired outcome was from the beginning.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Build Rapport<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\nPut Women On Emotional Rollercoasters<\/strong><\/h2>\n
P<\/span>utting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster is a Mind Control technique:<\/strong><\/p>\n
- \n
- You put her in a trance where she\u2019s free to follow her heart<\/li>\n
- You snap her out of that trance by engaging her mind<\/li>\n
- You put her BACK into the trance \u2013 only this time, she naturally falls deeper into it<\/li>\n
- Repeat until she gets emotionally addicted to you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Now, some guys wonder: \u201cIsn\u2019t that manipulative, though?\u201d<\/p>\n
Sure it is. But if you haven\u2019t noticed, COURTSHIP has always been manipulative:<\/p>\n
- \n
- Courtship all about coercing the opposite sex to date\/mate with you<\/li>\n
- These days, we\u2019re civilized enough to renounce physical coercion. We now rely solely on emotional coercion. (This is present-day courtship.)<\/li>\n
- The emotional rollercoaster is \u201cnuclear grade\u201d emotional coercion. It wins a woman\u2019s heart NOT with cheesy pickup lines, but with spine-tingling sexual tension<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Make no mistake. If you want to create sexual tension with a woman, then emotional rollercoasters are the way to go.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t want to play the game that way, that\u2019s entirely up to you.<\/p>\n
But if you want to finally get \u201cunstuck\u201d in your love life…<\/p>\n
If you want to finally get women to like you back…<\/p>\n
And if you want to enjoy the kind of success with women you\u2019ve always dreamed of…<\/p>\n
…Then I invite you to master Mind Control today.<\/p>\n
You can sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control, which you can check out below:<\/strong><\/p>\n
<\/p>\nRequest Invite Ticket to Online Masterclass<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n
(NOTE: Please use your best e-mail address when signing up. It\u2019s where I\u2019ll send your Invite Ticket as soon as you qualify for the Masterclass.)<\/p>\n
Remember: Until you learn how to make a woman feel like she wants to have sex with you…<\/p>\n
…you\u2019ll ALWAYS have trouble with women.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll keep getting declined, rejected, or friend-zoned.<\/p>\n
You CAN get lucky. But do you really want to go through your love life relying on luck?<\/p>\n
The dating game isn\u2019t a game of luck \u2013 it\u2019s a game of skill.<\/p>\n
And the ultimate skill is \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 the ability to put women on emotional rollercoasters.<\/p>\n
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