{"id":6342,"date":"2018-05-11T07:26:41","date_gmt":"2018-05-10T23:26:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=6342"},"modified":"2023-09-18T15:18:17","modified_gmt":"2023-09-18T07:18:17","slug":"how-to-woo-a-woman-into-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-woo-a-woman-into-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Woo A Woman"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

How To Woo A Lady And Win Her Love<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Is there a woman in your life you secretly want to be your girlfriend…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

…but you\u2019re not sure what to do to win her heart?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So did Harry, a 37-year-old physician from Pennsylvania. He was one of the many clients who wanted to learn Shogun Method after having failed too many times with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI just have a lot of bad luck with women, I guess,\u201d <\/em>Harry told me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ve always gotten friend-zoned<\/a>, ignored<\/a>, or flat-out rejected. But I\u2019m pushing 40, and I want to get it right this time. Can you help me? Teach me how to woo a woman, Derek!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this guide, I\u2019ll tell you what I told Harry that day. It helped him win the heart of the girl of his dreams mere weeks after we talked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This guide will also show you what NEVER<\/strong> to do when wooing the woman you want…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…what to do INSTEAD…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…and a \u201cmagic bullet\u201d technique that will help you understand relationships<\/a> on a deep level and fast-track your way into her heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s start with what NOT <\/strong>to do…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How To Woo A Woman – The Wrong Way<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s the most common mistake men make when wooing a woman?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s this: Using Pickup Artist (PUA) tricks.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They use pre-rehearsed routines that supposedly make women feel more attracted to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now here\u2019s the problem with Pickup Artist routines \u2013 they\u2019re not relationship<\/em>-oriented…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…you know what? They\u2019re not even dating<\/em>-oriented.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what are they?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re ORGASM-oriented.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

95-98% of Pickup Artist advice out there are all geared to help you have sex with more women… but not much beyond that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when you use PUA tricks on a woman you want to become your girlfriend, you trap yourself in a lose-lose situation:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Worst case, she rejects you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Best case, she sleeps with you… and THEN<\/em> she leaves you.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    If you think #2 isn\u2019t so bad, think again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nothing\u2019s worse than having the woman of your dreams for one night… and then losing her… and then realizing too late that you\u2019ll NEVER have her again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So let me say it again: If you use Pickup Artist tricks on the woman you want to woo, you WILL<\/em> lose her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Don\u2019t trap yourself like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Instead, follow what WORKS<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n

    READ ALSO: How To Steal A Girl’s Heart<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

    How To Woo A Woman – The Right Way<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    The right way to woo a woman is to take it one step at a time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And as it turns out, there are four \u201csteps\u201d to take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    In Shogun Method, we call these steps:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The IRAE Model<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    IRAE (pronounced \u201ceye-ray\u201d<\/em>) is an acronym for the four steps or \u201cstages of love<\/a>\u201d in the process:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. The Intrigue <\/strong>stage,<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. The Rapport <\/strong>stage,<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    3. The Attraction <\/strong>stage,<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    4. and the Enslavement <\/strong>stage.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      How it works is remarkably simple…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Focus on moving through one stage at a time, IN SEQUENCE, without skipping any one stage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Each stage has a specific endpoint to achieve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      1. For the Intrigue <\/strong>stage, it\u2019s to break the ice with her<\/a>, get her attention<\/a> and engage her in a friendly conversation.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      2. For the Rapport<\/a> <\/strong>stage, it\u2019s to make her start wanting to be more than just friends with you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      3. For the Attraction <\/strong>stage, it\u2019s to make her fall in love and get into a relationship with you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      4. For the Enslavement <\/strong>stage, it\u2019s to make her STAY in love with you for the rest of her life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Each stage also requires specific Shogun Method techniques to be used. When you move your relationship to a new stage, you then switch to a different set of techniques to use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Trust the process, and you maximize your chances of not just winning her, but also keeping her for life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Now, you might be wondering: \u201cProcesses? Techniques? Doesn\u2019t all this sound just like Pickup Artist stuff?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

        READ ALSO: Age Difference In Relationships<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

        Why Shogun Method’s IRAE Model Is Not “Pickup”<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        First of all, understand this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        EVERYTHING in life is a process<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Think about it. Everything is all about getting from Point A to Point B. It’s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Starting a business, mastering a new skill, tying your shoelaces… it’s all about processes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Wooing a woman is no different.<\/strong> It takes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        1. A good knowledge of your current situation (Including what you want, but DON\u2019T have)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        2. A clear idea of what your goal is (Your woman and the kind of relationship you want)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        3. A proven process of bridging the gap between #1 and #2<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          Secondly, any process requires techniques. Don\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          And wouldn\u2019t you also agree that some techniques are better than others?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          The trouble with the vast majority of Pickup Artist techniques is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          They\u2019re based on pseudoscience<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

          You\u2019ve probably heard of Pickup Artist terms like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n