{"id":6218,"date":"2018-03-20T07:21:07","date_gmt":"2018-03-19T23:21:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=6218"},"modified":"2023-09-25T16:04:56","modified_gmt":"2023-09-25T08:04:56","slug":"hard-to-get","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/hard-to-get\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Play Hard To Get With A Girl"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Play Hard To Get In A Relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Should a guy like you play hard to get with your woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, is playing hard to get a woman\u2019s game?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, here&#8217;s the thing &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re seeing a woman and want to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-keep-her-guessing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">keep her interested in you<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and you\u2019re wondering if you should play hard to get with her&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;then this is the last <em>&#8220;how to play hard to get with a girl&#8221;<\/em> guide you\u2019ll ever need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aw7z0G0dguc\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why You Must Play Hard To Get With A Girl<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s answer the first question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SHOULD you play hard to get with your woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The answer is <strong>YES<\/strong>, for the sole reason that it\u2019s <em>YOU<\/em> who should hold the power in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In case you don\u2019t know it yet, here\u2019s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/derek-rake-review\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Derek Rake<\/a>&#8216;s Rule Number One<\/strong> of romantic relationships:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><em>The one who\u2019s being chased is the one who\u2019s in control.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(That&#8217;s super <strong>important<\/strong> to know, by the way.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she\u2019s chasing you, it means she needs you more. And to make her chase you, you\u2019ll need to play hard to get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not an option, by the way. It\u2019s a requirement. <strong>You MUST hold the power in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don\u2019t, bad things happen:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/pushover-personality-type\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>She\u2019ll push you around<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll tell you what to do<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll throw a fit whenever you don\u2019t comply<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll do anything \u2013 including ruin your reputation \u2013 to make you do what she wants<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/why-does-she-play-games-with-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>She&#8217;ll keep playing games with you to keep you on your toes<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She&#8217;ll be <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/why-are-women-so-mean-to-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mean<\/a> to you and behave like a complete <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/women-are-assholes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">asshole<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>And through it all, she\u2019s NOT going to be happy&#8230; and she\u2019ll leave you in the end<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>What happens when you <strong>DO <\/strong>hold the power in your relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These good things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>She\u2019ll be madly in love with you \u2013 possibly for life<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll respect your authority, and let you <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dominance\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dominate the relationship<\/a><br>\n<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll look to you for direction, validation, and security<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll do absolutely anything for you<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She&#8217;ll feel that you&#8217;re the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/a-good-boyfriend-quiz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">best boyfriend<\/a> she could ever have<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>She\u2019ll be completely happy and satisfied, and she\u2019ll stay with you for life<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sounds great, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, that\u2019s settled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">You<\/span> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MUST<\/span> have the power. You <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MUST<\/span> play hard to get. It&#8217;s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NOT<\/span> optional.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now for the second question. HOW do you play hard to get with a girl?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/vulnerable-dark-triad-personality\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dark Triad Personality<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What Women Need From Men<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me say that again:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>She <em>MUST <\/em>need you more than you need her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll want her to feel like she\u2019d lose EVERYTHING good in her life if she lost YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, in other words, you\u2019ll want to her to feel that you&#8217;re the <strong>\u201cprize\u201d <\/strong>in your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to be the <strong>\u201cprize,\u201d<\/strong> you\u2019ll need to meet her <em>TWO BIGGEST NEEDS<\/em> from a man:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Physical satisfaction <\/strong>(Mind-blowing sex and affection)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Emotional satisfaction<\/strong> (Emotional thrills and good feels)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Put simply \u2013 what she wants is a specimen of true manliness taking her on a wild-ass thrill ride for the rest of her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now here\u2019s the challenge:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019re <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span> the only guy in her life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Not even if she&#8217;s in a committed relationship with you.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t fool yourself. There are <em>other <\/em>guys out there who can give her the <em>physical <\/em>and <em>emotional <\/em>thrills she wants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How do you make her ignore all of them, and fall in love only with you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s up next&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Play Hard To Get In A Relationship: The Basics<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ever wondered why most guys are NOT successful with women?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s because they make one of <em>two <\/em>critical mistakes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Either they\u2019re <strong>too easy to get <\/strong>\u2013 they shower women with too many good feelings (which creeps the ladies out);<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8230;or they\u2019re <strong>too hard to get<\/strong> \u2013 they\u2019re too aloof or too mean (which frustrates women into leaving them).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Don\u2019t make either of those two mistakes!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To make it work, you\u2019ll need to strike a <strong><em>balance <\/em><\/strong>between the two extremes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember \u2013 you want to give her a thrill ride. You\u2019ll want to give her bad feelings <em>(playing hard to get) <\/em>and good feelings <em>(playing easy to get)<\/em>. But never too much (or too little) of either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Next, let&#8217;s look at some &#8220;easy to get&#8221; vs &#8220;hard to get&#8221; examples&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-a-female-coworker-likes-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Tell If A Girl Likes You At Work<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>&#8220;Easy To Get&#8221; vs &#8220;Hard To Get&#8221; Examples<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some good examples of<strong> \u201ceasy to get\u201d<\/strong> behavior from you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>Once in a while, you talk to her about \u201ctaking things to the next level\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Showing exaggerated affection and compliments<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Giving her the best sex of her life<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Not letting her forget she\u2019s special to you<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Engaging her in deep conversation, showing her you \u201ccare\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Always showing her that you will do anything to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-girl-happy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">make her happy<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>But you\u2019ll also need to play <strong>\u201chard to get\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 here are a few examples of doing so:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>Disappearing for a few days without explaining anything to her<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Arguing with her pointlessly<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Continue to meet, date, and maybe even sleep with other women<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Whenever she\u2019s wrong, point it out and don\u2019t back down<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Don\u2019t answer all her calls and texts<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Act disinterested when she wants to talk about something important<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>If she tests you, be unaffected by it (this drives her crazy)<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t forget: the key here is BALANCE.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you play too easy to get, she\u2019ll think you\u2019re a pussy, and she\u2019ll leave you for a stronger, more \u201calpha\u201d guy&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and if you play too hard to get, she\u2019ll either hate you or think she can\u2019t win you&#8230; so she gives up trying to win you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Hitting The Right Balance<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll know you\u2019ve struck the right balance when she\u2019s showing all the signs of mad love for you:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She can\u2019t get enough of you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She tells you about other guys\u2019 \u201clame attempts\u201d to hit on her<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She tries to \u201cwin\u201d you by pushing for an exclusive relationship, or even marriage<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>But here\u2019s the problem&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you <strong>DO <\/strong>become exclusive with her, the power of playing hard to get goes away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, she\u2019s \u201cgotten\u201d you already. The chase is over. She\u2019s won the prize, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you have a new bunch of challenges:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>How to keep her from getting bored<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to keep her from \u201cfiguring you out\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to keep her from leaving you for a more \u201cthrilling\u201d relationship with another man<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So you\u2019ll need something else \u2013 something <strong>MORE POWERFUL<\/strong> than playing hard to get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s what it is&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-my-ex-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Stop Thinking About Your Ex<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>When To Stop Playing Hard To Get&#8230; And Taking Things To The Next Level<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When you settle into a long-term relationship, it\u2019s time to stop playing hard to get. <\/strong>Its power is gone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you love your woman and want to keep her for life, you\u2019ll need to use a different technique&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and that technique is <strong>Fractionation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What&#8217;s Fractionation?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a little-known Mind Control technique used to put the target \u2013 in your case, your woman \u2013 on intense <em>emotional rollercoasters<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of Fractionation as being like \u201cnuclear-grade hard-to-get.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Playing hard to get is like a <strong><em>firecracker <\/em><\/strong>\u2013 it \u201clights up\u201d the relationship as needed&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;while Fractionation is like<strong> <em>nuclear fusion<\/em> <\/strong>\u2013 it lights up the relationship FOR LIFE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s what happens when you use Fractionation on your woman:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She\u2019ll be emotionally <strong>ENSLAVED <\/strong>to you. Meaning she\u2019ll depend on you for her emotional satisfaction for the rest of her life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll respect your authority and follow your lead to whatever end. She&#8217;ll be the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/submissive-girlfriend\/#Submissive-Girlfriend-How-To-Turn-Her-Into-One-In-Two-Simple-Steps\">submissive girlfriend<\/a> willingly and lovingly<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll love you, care for you, support you, and make you happy for life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll be completely happy and contented \u2013 she\u2019ll never cheat on you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She&#8217;ll never play mind games on you ever again<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Sounds good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now here\u2019s the thing&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can\u2019t explain Fractionation in detail here because this guide is already lengthy as it is&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and that\u2019s why I prepared something better for you. It&#8217;s an invitation to my <strong>Online Masterclass on Mind Control<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the Masterclass, I\u2019ll explain Fractionation in detail&#8230; and how you can use the technique to get a woman <em>enslaved <\/em>to you emotionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To see if you qualify for the Masterclass, <strong>click on the link below<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" class=\"wp-image-4793\" style=\"width:126px;height:125px\" width=\"126\" height=\"125\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png 250w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 126px) 100vw, 126px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Request Invite Ticket to Derek Rake&#8217;s Online Masterclass&nbsp;<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>(The registration page comes up after you click that link. There, enter your best e-mail address because that\u2019s where I\u2019ll send your Invite Ticket if you pass our screening process.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, here&#8217;s a quick recap:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>YES, you <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MUST<\/span> play hard to get.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not an option \u2013 it\u2019s a requirement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The drawback?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This &#8211; the effects of playing hard to get are <em>temporary<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a while, you\u2019ll lose steam, and she\u2019ll lose interest, and she\u2019ll leave you for another man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s the deal\u2026 if you want a lasting, loving long-term relationship, then playing hard to get isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll need Fractionation. <\/strong>And the good news is that you can learn it <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Game on,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" class=\"wp-image-165\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P.S: Have you ever played hard to get with a woman, and she got MADLY interested in you, but she left you in the end? 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