{"id":6088,"date":"2018-03-10T14:14:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-10T06:14:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=6088"},"modified":"2018-03-14T12:49:00","modified_gmt":"2018-03-14T04:49:00","slug":"how-to-get-her-attention","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-get-her-attention\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get A Woman’s Attention"},"content":{"rendered":"

How To Get The Attention Of The Girl You Like – Using Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u201cDerek, can you teach me how to get women\u2019s attention?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

This was the request of Matthew, one of my Shogun Method clients.<\/p>\n

Matthew was still single at 35. He had been a single guy all his life. And for years he had been desperate for a girlfriend.<\/p>\n\n

Matthew’s Problem: He’s Invisible To Women<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The problem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Matthew was a rather awkward <\/em>guy… not to mention rather plain-looking.<\/p>\n

He was pretty much invisible <\/em><\/strong>to women. They almost never notice him.<\/p>\n

And to make things worse… he just didn\u2019t know how to get their attention. He’s absolutely clueless about what women find attractive in a man<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, he\u2019d spot a woman he\u2019d REALLY <\/em><\/strong>like to know better… but he\u2019d get too nervous<\/em>…<\/p>\n

…and before too long, she\u2019d be gone, and he\u2019d be kicking himself for losing yet another opportunity.<\/p>\n

Does any of that sound familiar to you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Are you also looking for a girlfriend, but you\u2019ve been awkward with the ladies all your life?<\/p>\n

And are you looking for a fool proof <\/em>way to approach women, get to know them better, and go on dates with them?<\/p>\n

Do you want to know how to be attractive to women<\/a>?<\/p>\n

You know what? You’re not alone. <\/strong>It\u2019s a problem most guys go through in their lives.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s a problem we\u2019ll solve in this Shogun Method guide.<\/p>\n

First things first…<\/p>\n

READ ALSO: Deep Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n

This Is NOT A Pickup Artist (“PUA”) Guide<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Most inexperienced guys try Pickup Artist routines to get better with the ladies.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019d approach a woman, say a rehearsed line, and hope she finds them attractive.<\/p>\n

Rinse and repeat until they find a woman who\u2019s interested. It’s a number’s game.<\/p>\n

And as long as you’re thick-skinned enough, you’ll definitely end up with someone… as long as you’re not choosy.<\/p>\n

As you might guess, Pickup Artist routines have certain problems…<\/em><\/p>\n

Pickup Problem #1: It\u2019s Insincere And Scripted<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Have you ever tried using a pickup line on a woman, and it failed miserably?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or, maybe it worked at first… but eventually, she lost interest in you?<\/p>\n

You know why?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all because of a thing called \u201cintuition.\u201d <\/strong>Women have it.<\/p>\n

And with it, they can sense insincerity <\/em>in you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As soon as they find out you\u2019re playing them \u2013 and you ARE, if you use Pickup Artist routines…<\/p>\n

…then they turn \u201ccold\u201d on you.<\/em><\/p>\n

They lose all interest in you, and they just want to get away from you.<\/p>\n

And when that happens… well, prepare for severe heartbreak<\/a> and rejection pain.<\/p>\n

Look:<\/strong><\/p>\n

The only way you can succeed with Pickup Artist routines is when you get lucky<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You can, for instance, meet a woman who IS <\/em><\/strong>dumb, and doesn\u2019t realize you\u2019re playing them.<\/p>\n

Or, you can meet a woman who\u2019s so desperate for a man that she\u2019ll say \u201cyes\u201d to even you.<\/p>\n

Answer me honestly:<\/p>\n

Is that the kind of woman you want?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, right? (I hope not!)<\/p>\n

READ ALSO: How To Tell If A Woman Is Attracted to You<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n

Pickup Problem #2: Too Much Work (For Too Little Reward)<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Pickup Artist \u201cgurus\u201d would tell you that to be good with women, you\u2019ll need to do a lot of work during your interaction.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You got to learn and memorize a bunch of lines and routines…<\/p>\n

You got to impress her…<\/p>\n

You got to lead the conversation…<\/p>\n

You got to keep her from getting bored…<\/p>\n

Etc. Etc.<\/p>\n

Don’t kid yourself. That\u2019s WAY too much work.<\/p>\n

And that’s why our technique is different <\/em>from the typical, cookie-cutter Pickup Artist approach.<\/p>\n

With our technique:<\/p>\n

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  1. The woman does most of the work in the interaction<\/li>\n
  2. SHE chases YOU, and not the other way around<\/li>\n
  3. There\u2019s nothing to rehearse, and everything is natural and effortless<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Sounds great, right?<\/p>\n

    It\u2019s the technique I taught to Matthew when he came to me for help…<\/p>\n

    …and it\u2019s the technique you\u2019re about to discover today – Intrigue Pings.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    How To Get Women’s Attention – Use Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    What\u2019s an \u201cIntrigue Ping?\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Simply, it’s a statement you use that grabs a woman\u2019s attention and makes her curious about you… without fail.<\/p>\n

    That\u2019s the key, by the way. You MUST<\/span> make women curious.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Not necessarily curious about YOU<\/em>. Just curious. That\u2019s it. That\u2019s how she needs to feel when you approach her. Curious.<\/p>\n

    Why?<\/p>\n

    Because when a woman is curious, she can\u2019t be \u201ccold.\u201d<\/strong> A woman can\u2019t be curious and cold to you at the same time.<\/p>\n

    When she\u2019s cold, she moves AWAY <\/strong>from you.<\/p>\n

    But when she\u2019s curious, she moves TOWARDS <\/strong>you. She wants to figure you out. And as long as she’s curious, you’ll keep her interested in you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

    That\u2019s how powerful Intrigue Pings are at getting women\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

    The best part \u2013 it WORKS<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    The second-best part? It\u2019s easy to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    READ ALSO: High Maintenance Woman<\/a> – Are You Dating One?<\/div><\/div><\/strong><\/p>\n

    Structure of an Intrigue Ping<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    I taught Matthew the three <\/strong>parts of an Intrigue Ping:<\/p>\n

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    1. The first half of his statement<\/strong>, which is meant to make the woman curious,<\/li>\n
    2. Her response<\/strong>, and<\/li>\n
    3. The second half of his statement<\/strong>, which is a question tailored to the situation.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Here’s the formula to remember:<\/p>\n

      [Statement \/ Response \/ Statement]<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      That’s it. Easy, right?<\/p>\n

      Intrigue Ping Examples<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Now, let’s go through an example…<\/strong><\/p>\n

      In Matthew\u2019s case, he was a bookworm. He spent a LOT of his time in bookshops and coffee shops. That\u2019s where I suggested he start meeting new women.<\/p>\n

      Here\u2019s an example of an Intrigue Ping Matthew used in bookshops:<\/p>\n