{"id":6078,"date":"2018-03-10T09:19:31","date_gmt":"2018-03-10T01:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=6078"},"modified":"2023-09-13T15:58:05","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T07:58:05","slug":"spice-up-boring-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/spice-up-boring-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Spice Up Your Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Ways To Spice Up A Boring Relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Do you have a girlfriend or wife you love, but your relationship has gone somewhat <em>stale<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is your relationship lacking the thrill and excitement it used to have?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Want to learn <em>how to spice up your relationship<\/em> and make her hot for you again?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If so, then I have some <strong>good news <\/strong>and <strong>bad news<\/strong> for you&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The good news:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re on the right track. When your relationship is going stale, it\u2019s your DUTY to spice it up again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The bad news?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You got to do it SOON&#8230; or you\u2019ll end up losing your woman, SOON.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Stale Relationships Don&#8217;t Last Long<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Think of it this way:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When she decided to stop seeing other men and start seeing YOU exclusively&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;it was because, at that time, <em>you were the manliest guy in her life. <\/em>No one was more &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/alpha-male-characteristics\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alpha male<\/a>&#8221; than you. No one gave her the <em>tingles<\/em> more than you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, to be more specific \u2013 <strong>you were the guy who met her deepest need best.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s her deepest need?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It\u2019s her need for emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And now, she\u2019s not getting those thrill rides anymore. At least, not with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if your relationship is going stale, your woman might be feeling one or more of the following emotions&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Five Signs Your Relationship Is Getting Stale<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She\u2019s disappointed at your lack of manliness (and your demotion to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/beta-male-test\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">beta male<\/a> status in her eyes)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019s angry because she feels you \u201ctricked\u201d her into becoming exclusive with you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019s frustrated because you don\u2019t seem to have any clue how she feels<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She&#8217;s becoming <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/emotionally-unavailable-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emotionally unavailable<\/a> to you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>She\u2019s curious about the possibility of leaving you and seeing other men<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>That last one is particularly dangerous&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine if she went to town one day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine if she bumped into a man who made her feel the emotional thrill rides you used to give her, but no longer do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What would she do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>You can bet she\u2019ll be thinking about leaving you for him.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s that serious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ever felt the temptation to cheat on the woman you were with, especially after she made you feel bad?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Guess what \u2013 women feel that, too. <strong>Only about <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">TEN TIMES<\/span> as strongly.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>(This is a fact backed by science. It&#8217;s a female psychology characteristic known as &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/therationalmale.com\/category\/hypergamy-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hypergamy<\/a>&#8220;.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More importantly, what should <em>you <\/em>do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re about to find out&#8230; so take lots of notes!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/unspoken-tension\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sexual Tension Signs<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Spice Up (A Boring) Relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s revisit your woman\u2019s deepest need:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/what-women-want\/\">Emotional rollercoasters.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Emphasis on the word \u201crollercoaster.\u201d We\u2019re not just talking about good emotions like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Joy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Security and certainty<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Contentment<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Companionship<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Excitement<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fun<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Desire<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, we\u2019re ALSO talking about <strong>NEGATIVE <\/strong>emotions, like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sadness<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/insecure-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Insecurity<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dissatisfaction<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/angry-wife-syndrome\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Anger<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Loneliness<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fear<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pain<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Despair<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, <strong>women are wired psychologically to CRAVE <em>bad <\/em>emotions over the good ones. <\/strong>It&#8217;s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the reason why <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-stop-being-a-nice-guy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nice guys don\u2019t get the girls<\/a>. They\u2019re all about giving women <em>good <\/em>feelings, but no <em>bad <\/em>ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s ALSO the reason why bad boys don\u2019t get the girls (at least for long). They\u2019re all about giving women <strong>BAD <\/strong>feelings&#8230; coupled with the <strong>GOOD <\/strong>(sometimes).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Now let\u2019s talk about your situation&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re her boyfriend or husband and the relationship is going stale, then you\u2019ve probably lost your \u201cedge.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ve lost your manliness, dominance, and unpredictability. You\u2019ve settled into a predictable routine. And you&#8217;ve stopped giving her <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mixed-signals-crush\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mixed signals<\/a> that would excite her&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8230;and guess what? It\u2019s boring her to death.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because she&#8217;s bored, she turns into a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/drama-queen-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">drama queen<\/a> in a bid to inject more excitement in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when that fails&#8230; there&#8217;s always the last resort: <strong>dumping you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So, how do you solve the problem before she leaves you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Answer: use this technique you&#8217;re about to learn next. It\u2019s the <em>fastest<\/em>, <em>easiest <\/em>way to give a woman an emotional thrill ride she desperately needs from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it\u2019s precisely what\u2019s going to spice up your relationship like nothing else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-approach-a-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Pick Up Women<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Push-Pull Technique<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What\u2019s \u201cpush-pull\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simple:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u201cPush\u201d <\/strong>means to <em>\u201cpush away\u201d <\/em>a woman by giving her negative emotions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u201cPull\u201d<\/strong> means to <em>\u201cpull her toward you\u201d <\/em>by giving her positive emotions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Nice guys are \u201call pull.\u201d Bad boys are \u201call push.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But REAL MEN push-pull.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why Relationships Fail<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What you&#8217;re going to read next is important, so pay attention:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>EVERY problematic relationship has an <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">IMBALANCE<\/span> of push vs pull in it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is even more CRITICAL for long-term relationships like yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Because just because you\u2019ve \u201cwon\u201d your woman doesn\u2019t mean other guys don\u2019t have their eyes on her.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some still do!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And here&#8217;s the thing&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>They even see your woman as an \u201ceasy target\u201d now, because now that she\u2019s taken, there\u2019s much less competition for her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They no longer need to outwit, outplay, and outlast all her other admirers&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;they just need to outwit, outplay, and outlast <em>YOU<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(There are those who specialize in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.calpont.com\/boyfriend-destroyer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Boyfriend Destroyer techniques<\/a> just to go after attached women &#8211; it&#8217;s true.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t let those jerks steal your woman!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your girlfriend or wife is getting bored&#8230; then you\u2019re probably \u201cpulling\u201d too much, and \u201cpushing\u201d too little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s fix IMBALANCE now&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Conversational Push-Pull<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Right now, let\u2019s focus on a quick fix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How do you give your woman an emotional thrill ride with just your words?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s how:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The concept is to treat your conversations with her like tennis matches.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First you go easy on each other, warming up&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and then you get more active and forceful, really getting into things&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;then you reach her breaking point, and she wants to stop playing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your goal is to <strong><em>NOT <\/em><\/strong>reach that breaking point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, you want to keep your conversations with her <strong><em>JUST BELOW<\/em><\/strong> her breaking point. That\u2019s where she gets her maximum thrill, and she can talk for hours if you could keep up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few tips to help you spark your love life with Conversational Push-Pull:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Stop agreeing with her all the time. Once in a while, after agreeing with her two or three times, interrupt her: \u201cWait a minute,\u201d or \u201cReally? I thought it was different,\u201d or just disagree with her. Then agree with her two or three times more before your next interruption.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don\u2019t challenge her at every turn. Remember, the goal is to play just under her breaking point.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Signs she\u2019s enjoying the conversation: She\u2019s excited, she\u2019s animated, and she\u2019s flirty.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, and speaking of flirting&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\">READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/relationship-age-gap-rule\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Age Gap Relationships<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Sexual Push-Pull<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sex is the highest form of intimacy you could share with your woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you\u2019ll want that to be an emotional thrill ride for her, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s what \u201cspiced-up sex\u201d should look like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You don\u2019t ask for permission. If you can\u2019t be spontaneous, make her wet by telling her: \u201cPrepare yourself for tonight,\u201d and by fondling her.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You spend as much time as you can just under her breaking point.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Never stop teasing your woman, flirting with her, kissing her, and fondling her at odd hours of the day. Never stop turning her on!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A good rule of thumb to follow is the <strong>&#8220;1:3 Rule&#8221;<\/strong> &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Give her 1\/3 of what she gives you.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>She touches you three times, you touch her once.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>She tells you you&#8217;re cute, you tell her she&#8217;s cute once.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>She writes you three lines of text, you write her one.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And guess what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The perfect BALANCE of push-pull obeys this rule. <\/strong>In fact, you&#8217;ll need to PUSH more than you PULL.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&#8217;s why the proverbial &#8220;bad boy&#8221; is more attractive than a &#8220;nice guy&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Spark Your Love Life: The &#8220;Nuclear&#8221; Option<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Let&#8217;s do a quick recap&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ve just learned a few quick ways to spice up your relationship with your woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ve learned the two types of &#8220;push-pull&#8221; &#8211; (1) <strong>Conversational Push Pull<\/strong>, and (2) <strong>Sexual Push Pull<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do them quickly and frequently enough, and you should notice some changes in her:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She\u2019s a bit more respectful<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019s a bit more preppy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The relationship\u2019s a bit more fun<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing though&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are just <em>\u201cBand-Aid solutions.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, they do the job. They&#8217;ll give you temporary relief. But you&#8217;ll be mistaken if you think they will fix your problem for long&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Two reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You\u2019ll need to do them over and over for them to work<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>But even then, your woman will get used to it and goes back to being bored. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-fix-a-toxic-relationship\/\">The relationship goes stale all over again<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why you\u2019ll also need to master the LONG-TERM solution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Long-Term, &#8220;Nuclear&#8221; Option<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the long-term solution?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a technique that\u2019s basically <strong>NUCLEAR-GRADE <\/strong>push-pull.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a technique that makes the effects of push-pull <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>PERMANENT<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s the technique?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s called <strong>Fractionation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know the kind of addiction your woman has for TV dramas, erotic novels, gossip, and shopping?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Fractionation gives her that kind of addiction \u2013 only she\u2019ll get addicted to <em>YOU<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That way, even if you don\u2019t use push-pull so much, you\u2019ll STILL spice up your relationship in a way she\u2019ll absolutely LOVE:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She\u2019ll see you as the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/strong-man\/\">manliest<\/a>, most <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-be-dominant-in-a-relationship\/\">dominant<\/a> man in her life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll do more than her share of the work in the relationship<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll respect your authority without question, even if she used to boss you around<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll never, ever leave you&#8230; even when you make mistakes sometimes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She&#8217;ll never <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/what-to-do-when-she-loses-interest\/\">lose interest<\/a> in you&#8230; and will even &#8220;spice&#8221; things up in her own little ways<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She\u2019ll be the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-tame-your-girlfriend\/\">obedient girlfriend<\/a> you&#8217;ve always wanted&#8230; and she&#8217;s happy to be one!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadly, I can\u2019t teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation in a single guide&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;but that\u2019s why I have something <em>better<\/em> for you. I\u2019m inviting you to join my <strong>Online Masterclass on Mind Control<\/strong> today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In it, you\u2019ll learn:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The scientific foundations of <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/fractionation\/#Fractionation-Seduction-Putting-Her-Through-An-Emotional-Roller-Coaster\">Fractionation Seduction<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>HOW Fractionation works<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>WHY Fractionation works<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Real-world examples of how to use Fractionation on your woman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And more!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Do this next: click on the link below &#8211;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" class=\"wp-image-4793\" style=\"width:70px;height:69px\" width=\"70\" height=\"69\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake.png 250w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/derek-rake-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 70px) 100vw, 70px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Request Invite For Derek Rake&#8217;s Online Masterclass (Click Here)<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>After you click on this link, the Masterclass registration page will come up. There, enter your email address so that I can qualify you. Once you&#8217;re qualified, I&#8217;ll email you your private Invite ticket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A stale relationship is BAD NEWS.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you don\u2019t move fast, your woman might leave you for another guy. You don&#8217;t want that to happen, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You must act <strong>NOW<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the short-term, some push-pull might keep her interested&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;but if you want her to stay with you <strong>FOREVER<\/strong>, you\u2019ll need something much more <strong>powerful<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll need Fractionation.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do the smart thing and master Fractionation right NOW. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Click here<\/strong>.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Onward and upward,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" class=\"wp-image-165\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P.S: Questions? Need help? Got a story to share? 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