{"id":5984,"date":"2018-03-02T08:41:01","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T00:41:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5984"},"modified":"2018-03-02T17:12:00","modified_gmt":"2018-03-02T09:12:00","slug":"relationship-advice-for-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/relationship-advice-for-guys\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Advice For Men"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Dating Advice For Guys (It&#8217;s A Landmine Out There!)<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Looking for relationship advice for men?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you are, then you&#8217;re at the right place.<\/p>\n<p>Let me take a guess&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you already know a considerable bit about dating. However, when it comes to women, you\u2019re not as successful as you&#8217;d like to be&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Or, you keep falling for the wrong kinds of women&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Or you\u2019ve tried everything, but nothing\u2019s working&#8230; and so you\u2019re looking for new relationship advice for guys.<\/p>\n<p>If any of the above applies to you, then you\u2019ll want to <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">read this guide to the end<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me assure you &#8211;<\/p>\n<p><strong>The information that you&#8217;re going to find here is entirely <em>unique <\/em>&#8211; you&#8217;ll never find it anywhere else.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I promise that you&#8217;ll never find cookie cutter &#8220;dating guru&#8221; or &#8220;Pickup Artist&#8221; stuff here.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you&#8217;ll find some<em><strong> &#8220;out-of-the-box&#8221;<\/strong> <\/em>insights that you can use to improve your dating life tremendously&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>In particular, you&#8217;ll learn about my proprietary <strong><em>&#8220;four-step model&#8221; <\/em><\/strong>that you can use to make any woman fall in love with you quickly.<\/p>\n<p>Dig in!<\/p>\n\n<h2><strong>Get Ready For &#8220;Out-Of-The-Box&#8221; Relationship Advice For Men<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>My name is Derek Rake, and I&#8217;m the founder of Shogun Method.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Read my back story <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/about-derek-rake\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>, and an impartial review <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/derek-rake-review\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>Want to know the most common kind of men who come to me for help?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s this: <strong>the nice guy who\u2019s a good man through-and-through, but who simply can\u2019t win at love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One of the many was Kirk, a 33-year-old engineer from Austin, Texas.<\/p>\n<p>Kirk was a genuinely great guy&#8230;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>He had an amazing career at a huge multinational, drawing a great salary<\/li>\n<li>He was the traditional gentleman, and he believed in old-fashioned chivalry<\/li>\n<li>He was looking for long-term relationships, not short-term &#8220;pickups&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&#8230;and yet, he was super <em>unlucky <\/em>with women.<\/p>\n<p>Kirk told me about his past girlfriends:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>His first girlfriend (&#8220;Stephy&#8221;) started out okay&#8230; but soon became an angry and <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dominant-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dominant woman<\/a> who <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/pushover-personality-type\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">turned him into a pushover<\/a><\/li>\n<li>His second girlfriend (&#8220;Clara&#8221;) was in a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/long-distance-relationship-advice-stories\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">long-distance relationship<\/a> with him. She eventually got tired of waiting for him and gave up<\/li>\n<li>His third girlfriend (&#8220;Camila&#8221;) abruptly <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-get-ex-girlfriend-back-another-guy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">left him to go back to her ex<\/a>&#8230; who she married in a matter of weeks<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>At that point, Kirk thought he was out of options&#8230; so he started following Pickup Artist (&#8220;PUA&#8221;) advice.<\/p>\n<p>And he tasted some success for a while. He had a couple of flings that were fun&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;but in the end, every one of them left him.<\/p>\n<p>When the dust settled, he was still single and lonely.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, truly out of options, he came to see me in San Diego.<\/p>\n<p>And he soon realized he should have come to me <strong>FIRST<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Now, answer me this question &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Does Kirk\u2019s story sound somewhat like yours?<\/p>\n<p>Yes? Well, then this Shogun Method guide is for you.<\/p>\n<p>In it, you\u2019ll learn how Kirk solved his problem and started a long-term relationship with the woman of his dreams&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8230;and how you, too, can do the very same.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And like Kirk, you&#8217;ll learn to do it with some rather<em> &#8220;out-of-the-box&#8221; <\/em>methods. <strong>Keep reading<\/strong> to find out what these methods are.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/friend-zone-escape\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Am I In The Friend Zone?<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Surprising Truth About What Women Really NEED<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Emotional Polarities<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s start by stating a fact about women:<\/p>\n<p><strong>They are EMOTIONAL creatures.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Heck, you probably already know that, right?<\/p>\n<p>Well, so did Kirk. That\u2019s why, with each of his first three girlfriends, he showered them with <strong>POSITIVE <\/strong>emotions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He did his best to make his girlfriends <strong>HAPPY<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>He would get on <strong>FUN <\/strong>dates with them every Saturday weekend<\/li>\n<li>He made them feel <strong>SECURE <\/strong>when they are with him<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And yet they all left him, one by one.<\/p>\n<p>What Kirk didn\u2019t realize was this surprising truth about women:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Women need NEGATIVE emotions, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They need &#8220;BAD&#8221; emotions to balance out the &#8220;GOOD&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>In the Shogun Method world, we call this the <em>\u201cemotional rollercoaster.\u201d<\/em> And it\u2019s what women <em>REALLY <\/em>desire in their relationships.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>How Men And Women Want Different Things In Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Imagine this:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How do you feel when a beautiful woman suddenly strips in front of you?<\/p>\n<p>Turned on, right?<\/p>\n<p>And you couldn\u2019t help it, right? You really can\u2019t. It\u2019s <strong>biological<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? The same goes for women and emotional rollercoasters.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Emotional rollercoasters turn women on.<\/strong> They can\u2019t help it. It\u2019s something Mother Nature hard-wired into the female mind over 200,000 years of evolution.<\/p>\n<p>The problem?<\/p>\n<p>Women get more of these emotional rollercoasters from bad boys and jerks&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>&#8230;and NOT ENOUGH OF THEM from nice guys.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now, most nice guys guys \u2013 like Kirk \u2013 try to fix this by following Pickup Artist advice.<\/p>\n<p>And to make things worse&#8230; they quickly realize it\u2019s <em>NOT <\/em>the solution, either.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dark-triad-test-scores\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dark Triad Test<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Why Pickup Artist (PUA) Tricks Don&#8217;t Work<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t Pickup Artist tricks work on women?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Simple, really. Consider these two scenarios &#8211;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>If she\u2019s the type who\u2019s looking for a long-term relationship, she\u2019ll soon realize you \u201ctricked\u201d her. And so she leaves you in the end.<\/li>\n<li>If she\u2019s NOT looking for a long-term relationship, she\u2019ll STILL leave you in the end.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Either way, you lose, right?<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s why following Pickup Artist advice is fun for a while&#8230; <em>but in the end, you feel even MORE empty.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It makes you realize that being single and lonely isn\u2019t the worst thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The worst thing is being single and lonely, and then tasting what it\u2019s like to have a woman in your life&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and THEN becoming single and lonely again.<\/p>\n<p>No joke&#8230; that fucking <em>hurts<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been through that, right?<\/p>\n<p>Well, you\u2019ve been through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>ENOUGH<\/strong>.<\/span> So, let\u2019s fix that today.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What Women Really Want From You<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>What do women really want?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Again \u2013 it\u2019s emotional rollercoasters. Positive emotions, then negative emotions, then more positive emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Who do women fall in love with?<\/p>\n<p>Answer: <strong>men who make them feel the most <em>intense <\/em>emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Think of the happiest, most contented wives you know. Did you notice that at least some of them are married to jerks?<\/p>\n<p>They keep having arguments&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>They keep having power struggles (which the guy always wins)&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re never the \u201cfairy tale couple\u201d&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and yet, these women are happier than the others who are married to \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-stop-being-a-nice-guy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nice guy<\/a>\u201d types of men.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not because these women are <em>dumb<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s simply because their husbands are SMART.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>These guys KNOW women love emotional rollercoasters. They <em>KNOW<\/em> their wives will create some drama from time to time. They handle it and give her the emotional ride she needs.<\/p>\n<p>Want women to like you, trust you, then fall <strong>MADLY IN LOVE with you<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Then follow the<strong> four steps<\/strong> you\u2019re about to discover in this guide.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the same four steps I taught Kirk the day I met him.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s the same four steps that helped Kirk find and marry the woman of his dreams.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let&#8217;s start with the <em>first<\/em> step!<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/relationship-age-gap-rule\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Age Gap Relationships<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Intrigue (The &#8220;I&#8221; Stage)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>At the time, Kirk had his eyes set on Leanna, a 25-year-old interior designer in his social circle. <\/strong><em>(Name changed for privacy reasons)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Leanna was smart, kind, and goal-oriented \u2013 exactly the kind of woman he wanted to be in a relationship with.<\/p>\n<p>The first step I taught Kirk was to \u201cintrigue\u201d her in a way that no other guy could. Here\u2019s how he did it.<\/p>\n<p>I taught Kirk that every woman has two \u201cfaces\u201d:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Her <strong>\u201csocial face,\u201d <\/strong>which is the personality she shows to society; and<\/li>\n<li>Her <strong>\u201calter ego,\u201d<\/strong> which is the personality she\u2019d show if she knew she wasn\u2019t being judged (or, the <a href=\"https:\/\/illimitablemen.com\/2015\/06\/30\/the-nature-of-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">true nature of women<\/a>.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I told Kirk that he had to speak to Leanna\u2019s \u201calter ego.\u201d That way, she\u2019d start dropping her \u201csocial face\u201d around him, and be herself more.<\/p>\n<p>Kirk did this at a party. Leanna started talking to him about business, to which he replied:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cReally? It\u2019s my day off and you want me to tell you about work? Let\u2019s lighten up, please.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(In the Shogun Method world, that&#8217;s known as the <strong>Intrigue Ping<\/strong>.)<\/p>\n<p>Leanna laughed, and from then on started relaxing around Kirk. That\u2019s when he moved to Step #2&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Rapport (The &#8220;R&#8221; Stage)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Here, Kirk needed Leanna to feel a much stronger emotional connection to him than to any other guy in her life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He did it by speaking to her in the <em>same way <\/em>she speaks to herself in her mind.<\/p>\n<p>(Technically, this is known as <strong>VAKSOG Matching<\/strong>.)<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how he did it: Whenever Leanna spoke, he took note of the words she used.<\/p>\n<p>He noticed that she used \u201cvisual\u201d words often:<em> \u201cSee,\u201d \u201cBeautiful,\u201d \u201cWatch,\u201d \u201cView,\u201d <\/em>and so on.<\/p>\n<p>And so he started using the same words while speaking to her. He would be as &#8220;visual&#8221; as he could in their conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Soon, Leanna was telling him:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cAre you sure we\u2019ve never met?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cWow, that\u2019s EXACTLY right! How did you know that about me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIt\u2019s like you know me better than my best friend!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>She started feeling a super-strong connection with Kirk. It was a connection that he soon turned into attraction.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-control-your-girlfriend-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Control Your Girlfriend<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Attraction (The &#8220;A&#8221; Stage)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Kirk started taking Leanna out on dates, where they talked more and got to know each other better.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>During these dates, they would normally talk about non-romantic topics. Then Kirk would branch off and talk about something related to romance and sex. Then he\u2019d go back to being non-romantic again.<\/p>\n<p>He did this over and over. It was a <em>subtle <\/em>emotional rollercoaster for Leanna&#8230; but she loved it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>(Shogun Method students know this: the key to making a woman attracted to you is to put her through a <strong><em>series <\/em><\/strong>of emotional rollercoasters.)<\/p>\n<p>Soon enough, Leanna fell in love with Kirk \u2013 and they got into a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Kirk finally had a girlfriend who was MAD for him&#8230; and yet guess what? He wasn\u2019t finished.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Enslavement (The &#8220;E&#8221; Stage)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Even after Leanna became his girlfriend, Kirk kept putting her on emotional rollercoasters:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Most of their deep conversations were emotional rollercoasters<\/li>\n<li>Most of the dates they went on involved some emotional rollercoasters<\/li>\n<li>Their vacations were emotional rollercoasters from start to finish<\/li>\n<li>When they argued, Kirk stood his ground and established his dominance. At first, it shook Leanna, but it made her love him even MORE later<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The effect? <strong>Leanna got COMPLETELY addicted to Kirk.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She knew she could NOT get this kind of emotional satisfaction from any other guy in the world.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, Leanna is<strong><em> emotionally enslaved t<\/em><\/strong>o Kirk. Leaving him is a sheer <em>impossibility<\/em> for her&#8230; because she needs him like she needs water and food to survive.<\/p>\n<p>Today, Kirk and Leanna are happily married, and Kirk is a completely changed man. He\u2019s a far cry from the wimpy nice guy I first met when he came to my San Diego office. In fact, he had <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-train-your-wife\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trained his wife<\/a> in such a way that she became completely subservient to him.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-its-time-to-end-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Know When It&#8217;s Time To Break Up<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>The IRAE Model<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Is there one woman you have your eyes on, too?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Oh, <em>many <\/em>women?<\/p>\n<p>What if I told you that one of them can be your girlfriend in a couple of weeks&#8230; or even less?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s possible. It happens all the time. Leanna willingly became Kirk\u2019s girlfriend in less than a week.<\/p>\n<p>The catch?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll need to learn some hardcore Shogun Method techniques.<\/p>\n<p>Remember the four steps?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s what we call the <strong>IRAE Model<\/strong> in Shogun Method. (IRAE is pronounced <em>eye-ray<\/em>, and it stands for Intrigue-Rapport-Attract-Enslave).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the definitive roadmap or &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/stages-of-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stages of love<\/a>&#8221; that you must bring a woman through if you want her to be with you.<\/p>\n<p>Inside each of these stages are the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Control tactics<\/a> that you&#8217;ll use to bring the woman closer to <strong>Enslavement<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In Kirk&#8217;s example above:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>In the <strong>Intrigue <\/strong>stage, Kirk bypassed Leanna\u2019s \u201csocial face\u201d and connected directly with her \u201calter ego.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>In the <strong>Rapport <\/strong>stage, Kirk used a Shogun Method technique called &#8220;matching her VAKSOG Modes.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>And in the <strong>Attraction <\/strong>and <strong>Enslavement <\/strong>stages, Kirk used a Shogun Technique called \u201cFractionation.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>All of these techniques do one thing on your woman:<\/p>\n<p><strong>They put her on emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And that, my friend, is the &#8220;secret sauce&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>It makes her see you in a special way \u2013 MUCH more special than she sees any other guy in her life. It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Learn Mind Control NOW<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s the deal&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Learning the ways of Shogun Method (and the IRAE Model) cannot be done in a single day.<\/p>\n<p>In other words: Shogun Method is not a magic bullet. You can&#8217;t just <strong>buy Shogun Method <\/strong>and then expect miracles to happen.<\/p>\n<p>However, that doesn&#8217;t mean that you can&#8217;t get quick results if you want them&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and that\u2019s why I\u2019m offering you a &#8220;Quick Start&#8221; version of Shogun Method &#8211; an invitation to my <strong>Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inside this Masterclass, you&#8217;ll learn the quickest way to put a woman through an emotional rollercoaster so that she falls in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>So, here&#8217;s the deal &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>If you want to stop being single and lonely&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and if you\u2019re serious about starting a relationship with the woman of your dreams&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;then do this:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn how to use Mind Control to put a woman through intense emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>To do that, <strong>click this link<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3610\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/derek-rake.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"200\" height=\"287\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>YES \u2013 I Want To Learn Mind Control<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>After you click the link, a new page will come up. Follow the instructions on that page and you&#8217;ll be all set.<\/p>\n<p>Remember this:<\/p>\n<p>Women don\u2019t like nice guys.<\/p>\n<p>And they don\u2019t like Pickup Artists either.<\/p>\n<p>What do they like?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong> They can\u2019t get enough of them.<\/p>\n<p>YOU can give it to them. YOU can make them fall MADLY IN LOVE with you.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the catch&#8230; you MUST master Mind Control. It\u2019s the key.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Master Mind Control now &#8211; click here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll see you in the Masterclass next,<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-165\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S: Questions? Comments? A story to share? Be sure to sound off in the comments section below. Get writing!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating Advice For Guys (It&#8217;s A Landmine Out There!) Looking for relationship advice for men? If you are, then you&#8217;re at the right place. Let me take a guess&#8230; Perhaps you already know a considerable bit about dating. 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