{"id":5946,"date":"2018-06-27T13:11:52","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T05:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5946"},"modified":"2020-01-17T17:30:50","modified_gmt":"2020-01-17T09:30:50","slug":"signs-your-ex-girlfriend-misses-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-your-ex-girlfriend-misses-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs She Wants You Back"},"content":{"rendered":"

Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Misses You<\/strong><\/h2>\n

What are the signs she wants you back?<\/strong><\/p>\n

How can you tell for sure if your ex-girlfriend misses you?<\/p>\n

Are there any “secret signs”<\/em> your ex-girlfriend still loves you?<\/p>\n

And most importantly…<\/p>\n

What can you do to win her back… IF she wants you back?<\/strong><\/p>\n

These are just some of the questions I get asked a lot in the ShogunMethod.net<\/a> coaching site. (Every Shogun Method client gets unlimited coaching for a lifetime.)<\/p>\n

With over a decade of helping guys navigate through failing relationships (and fixing them<\/a>), we have the answers, and they’re all in this guide.<\/p>\n

Dig in!<\/p>\n\n

Can’t Get Over A Breakup? You’re Not Alone<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Many of the guys who come to me for help because they can\u2019t get over a breakup.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I talked to one of them recently: Justin, a businessman from Boston who just broke up with Iris, his wife of 11 years.<\/p>\n

\u201cRecently, Iris has been showing signs that make me think she misses me,\u201d Justin told me.<\/p>\n

\u201cFor instance, last week she got one of my friends to ask me how I was doing.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cInteresting,\u201d I said, motioning him to continue.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd a few weeks before that, she called me at 2 AM, drunk,\u201d he continued. \u201cDoes she want me back, Derek?\u201d<\/p>\n

I smiled and looked him in the eye.<\/p>\n

\u201cActually, Justin, it doesn\u2019t matter if she wants you back or not,\u201d I told him.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf YOU wanted HER back, and if you were willing to do whatever it took, you can get her back.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cReally?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYup. Do you want her back, Justin?\u201d<\/p>\n

Justin hesitated, and took a couple of seconds to compose this thoughts.<\/p>\n

\u201cYeah, I do, I miss her a lot,\u201d he sighed. \u201cBut during her drunk call, she DID tell me she hated <\/em>me. And she\u2019s already with another guy, so…\u201d<\/p>\n

I interrupted him. \u201cThat doesn\u2019t matter,\u201d I repeated. \u201cAnswer me this question. Do you want her back or not?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes,\u201d he answered after a pause.<\/p>\n

\u201cAre you willing to do anything <\/strong><\/em>to get her back?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes,\u201d he answered again.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s all that matters,\u201d I told him. \u201cNow let\u2019s get to work.\u201d<\/p>\n

READ ALSO: How To Handle A Breakup<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

That day, I showed Justin how to get his ex-wife back, no matter what \u201csigns\u201d he was getting from her.<\/p>\n

And if you, too, want to get your ex-girlfriend or ex-wife back…<\/p>\n

…and if you, too, are willing to do whatever it takes…<\/p>\n

…then I wrote this Shogun Method guide specifically for you<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Let me start by categorically stating a fact…<\/p>\n

Breakups Are Never \u201cFinal\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n

That\u2019s right.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Breakups? Divorces? They\u2019re never <\/em>final.<\/p>\n

Why not?<\/p>\n

Because a breakup is a DECISION<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

And decisions can CHANGE<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

And women, when it comes to matters of love, make decisions NOT <\/strong>by facts.<\/p>\n

Instead, they make their love decisions based on their EMOTIONS<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Or, more specifically \u2013 they make love decisions based on their CURRENT <\/strong>emotions.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about how they\u2019re feeling AT THE MOMENT<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is a “flaw” which is hard-coded <\/em>inside the female psyche.<\/p>\n

This female psychology<\/a> “flaw” is the reason why that old female friend of yours once told you:<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m NEVER getting back with that jerk of an ex-boyfriend ever again!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

…only to hook up with the same jerk that weekend. Ever experienced that?<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another thing you\u2019ve probably experienced:<\/p>\n

A female friend of yours told you about her \u201cperfect\u201d boyfriend or husband:<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m never EVER going to leave him!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

…but a few years later, things fell apart and they broke up.<\/p>\n

Why do these things happen?<\/p>\n

Here’s why…<\/p>\n

When it comes to love, women make their decisions NOT<\/span> by using facts, logic, or reason.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They use their emotions at the moment<\/em>.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why you can <\/em><\/strong>get her back.<\/p>\n

Pay attention because what I’m going to tell you next is super important:<\/p>\n

If you can control her emotions, then you can control her decisions.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

And one of those decisions will be to get back together with you.<\/p>\n

No matter what happened before, or what she\u2019s said before, or what \u201csigns\u201d she\u2019s throwing at you right now.<\/p>\n

Speaking of signs your ex-girlfriend is not over you \u2013 okay, let\u2019s talk about “signs” for a moment…<\/p>\n

READ ALSO: What Does It Mean To Be A Pushover<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Doesn\u2019t Want You Back<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Of course, in some cases, she DOESN\u2019T want you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here are some signs she thinks it\u2019s \u201cgame over\u201d:<\/p>\n

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  1. Her relatives and friends don\u2019t welcome you anymore<\/li>\n
  2. She absolutely hates your guts and can’t stand being in your presence<\/li>\n
  3. She will not meet up with you under any circumstance<\/li>\n
  4. She wants absolutely nothing to do with you<\/li>\n
  5. Either she blocked your number or she simply will not reply to you<\/li>\n
  6. If you lived together once, she has returned (or thrown) all your stuff<\/li>\n
  7. She keeps telling you to \u201cmove on\u201d or to \u201cget over it\u201d or to \u201cget out of her life\u201d<\/li>\n
  8. She becomes extra mean to you<\/a>, behaving like an asshole<\/a> just for the heck of it<\/li>\n
  9. Her anger<\/a> at you has turned into indifference and apathy<\/li>\n
  10. She has a restraining order against you \ud83d\ude42<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    If you see any (or, God forbid, all<\/em>) of these signs, then you can be darn sure that she doesn\u2019t want you back.<\/p>\n

    But even then, you can STILL <\/strong>get her back if you wanted to. You\u2019ll discover how later in this guide.<\/p>\n

    For now, let\u2019s take a look at the signs she DOES <\/strong>want you back.<\/p>\n

    Signs She Wants You Back But Won\u2019t Admit It<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Here’s the deal:<\/p>\n

    The signs she DOES want you back can be hard to spot. But, when you DO spot them, it\u2019s safe to assume that she misses you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    So, watch out for these “she wants you back”<\/em> signs:<\/p>\n

    Ten Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Wants You Back<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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    1. On social media, she\u2019s trying too hard to show she\u2019s \u201cmoved on.\u201d (e.g. partying hard, meeting handsome men, living the single life again, etc.)<\/li>\n
    2. She\u2019s already dating\/seeing someone else just DAYS after breaking up with you. (It\u2019s a sign she\u2019s having withdrawal symptoms)<\/li>\n
    3. She\u2019s depressed<\/li>\n
    4. When she talks to you, she talks about the relationship you once had (“remember the time…”<\/em>)<\/li>\n
    5. She \u201caccidentally\u201d bumps into you in town<\/li>\n
    6. She still contacts you, even if she says she hates you<\/li>\n
    7. She calls you up just to ask how you\u2019re doing<\/li>\n
    8. When she gets drunk, you\u2019re the one she calls<\/li>\n
    9. Your mutual friends tell you that she still talks and asks about you from time to time<\/li>\n
    10. She keeps in touch with your family members, and tries to remain on good terms with them<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Here\u2019s the good news:<\/p>\n

      If she shows even just ONE <\/strong>of the signs above, then there\u2019s a pretty good chance she misses you.<\/p>\n

      And you SHOULD get her back!<\/em><\/p>\n

      Next, I’ll share with you how Justin did it… and how you can use the same technique to get your ex back.<\/p>\n

      READ ALSO: I Hate My Wife<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

      How To Get Your Ex Back: Using Fractionation<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      What I taught Justin was a Mind Manipulation<\/a> technique.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      It’s called “Fractionation”<\/em><\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n

      Fractionation pretty much storytelling on steroids<\/em>. What it does is that it puts your woman on an emotional rollercoaster.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      The effect? She gets COMPLETELY hooked on you<\/span>.<\/p>\n

      Ever gotten addicted on a TV series like Game of Thrones <\/em>or The Walking Dead?<\/em><\/p>\n

      Yup \u2013 you got hooked because of the emotional rollercoaster you\u2019ve been put on.<\/p>\n

      That\u2019s the power of Fractionation.<\/strong> It makes you \u201cforget\u201d logic and reasoning. You need the fix like an addict. So you\u2019d do ANYTHING to watch the next episode.<\/p>\n

      I told Justin that if he wanted Iris back, he had to use Fractionation.<\/p>\n

      He had to put her on an emotional rollercoaster<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

      That way, he could manipulate her mind<\/em>…<\/p>\n

      …and if he could manipulate her mind<\/em>, he could manipulate her emotions<\/em>…<\/p>\n

      …and if he could manipulate her emotions<\/em>, he could manipulate her decisions<\/em>.<\/p>\n

      Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n

      How To Use Fractionation – Step By Step<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Long story short… here\u2019s how Justin did it in five simple steps:<\/strong><\/p>\n