{"id":5920,"date":"2018-02-26T14:15:51","date_gmt":"2018-02-26T06:15:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5920"},"modified":"2018-02-26T20:43:06","modified_gmt":"2018-02-26T12:43:06","slug":"signs-of-cheating-girlfriend-psychology","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-of-cheating-girlfriend-psychology\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"

How To Know If She Has Cheated<\/h2>\n

Want to know how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating?<\/strong><\/p>\n

So did Jeff, a 29-year-old software engineer from Illinois. He suspected his girlfriend Marcy was cheating on him.<\/p>\n

And he came to see me, he was a broken man.<\/p>\n

\u201cI can\u2019t be sure if she\u2019s really cheating on me,\u201d he told me, \u201cbut I\u2019ve been seeing some disturbing signs in our relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n

Those signs included:<\/p>\n

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  1. She was becoming unusually critical of him<\/em><\/li>\n
  2. She was much less interested in talking to him<\/em><\/li>\n
  3. She was no longer having sex with him<\/em><\/li>\n
  4. She was spending less and less time with him<\/em><\/li>\n
  5. She insisted everything was \u201cokay,\u201d but she\u2019d never look him in the eye when saying so<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Desperate, Jeff had tried to fix the problem…<\/p>\n

    He\u2019d call her up more, try to set up more dates, and start being nicer and more “caring” to her…<\/p>\n

    At first, it seemed to work. At least, for a little while. Marcy would go back to being her sweet, attentive self…<\/p>\n

    …but after some time, she’d slip back into her strange, shady behavior.<\/p>\n

    Jeff was starting to feel really helpless.<\/p>\n

    \u201cDerek, I love her, and I don\u2019t think I can stand the idea of her leaving me for another guy,\u201d he told me.<\/p>\n

    \u201cTell me, Derek \u2013 is she cheating on me?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

    I couldn\u2019t lie. \u201cWell, the signs are there,\u201d I told him.<\/p>\n

    Jeff closed his eyes.<\/p>\n

    “Jeff, don’t do anything drastic. You need to first learn how to catch your girlfriend cheating<\/a>.”<\/p>\n

    \u201cBe upfront with me. Can I stop her from leaving?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cOf course,\u201d I answered. \u201cBut you\u2019ll need to change a few things.\u201d<\/p>\n

    He stared at me. \u201cLike what? I’ll do fucking anything<\/em>!\u201d<\/p>\n

    That day, I taught Jeff what he was doing wrong… and what he had to do to keep Marcy from leaving him.<\/p>\n

    Likewise, if you suspect your own woman is cheating on you, and you want to keep her from leaving you…<\/p>\n

    …then be sure to take lots of notes. This is the definitive <\/em>Shogun Method guide on how to fix a relationship<\/a> when your woman is cheating on you.<\/p>\n

    Dig in!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n

    How To Tell If She Has Cheated On You<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Jeff and Marcy lived in the same house and in the same town. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

    But your situation with your own girlfriend might be different<\/em>. You might:<\/p>\n

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    1. Not live together, but you suspect she\u2019s seeing someone she works with<\/li>\n
    2. Be in a long-distance relationship<\/a>, and you think she’s seeing someone else<\/li>\n
    3. Suspect that your girlfriend is cheating with someone on Facebook<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      In each of these situations, a cheating girlfriend will show different tell-tale signs. You can tell if she has cheated on you by observing if these signs are present.<\/p>\n

      Here are some of these…<\/p>\n

      READ ALSO: How To Start A Relationship Over<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

      Ten Signs She Is Cheating At Work<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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      1. She works late hours… a lot<\/li>\n
      2. She\u2019s wearing sexier outfits to work<\/li>\n
      3. She keeps going out of town for \u201ccorporate events\u201d<\/li>\n
      4. She talks a lot about a particular co-worker whom she seems to hate <\/em>(huge sign!)<\/li>\n
      5. If you work together, she\u2019s thinking of finding another job<\/li>\n
      6. She has stopped bitching about work like she used to<\/li>\n
      7. She’s online in the evening, and she tells you that she’s working<\/li>\n
      8. She has work-related mood swings… she dreads going to work one day, and is completely upbeat the next. Reason: emotional drama with the coworker<\/li>\n
      9. She has got a separate “work phone” which she keeps away from you<\/li>\n
      10. She goes out for “business meetings” even on Saturday or Sunday evenings<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Ten Signs She Is Cheating In A Long Distance Relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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        1. She spends less time chatting and Skyping with you<\/li>\n
        2. She suddenly prefers talking over the phone and not the webcam<\/li>\n
        3. She had a makeover seemingly out of the blue<\/li>\n
        4. She no longer talks about her friends and relatives (or yours)<\/li>\n
        5. She\u2019s busy and\/or unreachable much more often now<\/li>\n
        6. She\u2019s almost never at home when she video calls you<\/li>\n
        7. She’s either stopped saying “I love you” completely, or started saying it more often (out of guilt)<\/li>\n
        8. She has stopped talking about future plans that you made with her before going long distance<\/li>\n
        9. She has stopped taking an interest with what’s happening to you. Heck, you tell her that you’ve met a “nice” girl and she wouldn’t even react<\/li>\n
        10. She’s supposed to come and see you, but flaked in the last minute<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Ten Signs She Is Cheating On Facebook<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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          1. She has lots of strange new friends<\/li>\n
          2. She\u2019s spending a lot more time on her phone<\/li>\n
          3. She\u2019s hiding her phone (or she has changed her passwords or pin numbers)<\/li>\n
          4. She\u2019s been chatting with this new male friend a lot<\/li>\n
          5. She doesn\u2019t acknowledge your relationship on Facebook (i.e. she\u2019s still \u201csingle\u201d)<\/li>\n
          6. You see her whip out her phone and a glowing smile comes on her face as if she has gotten a message from an admirer<\/li>\n
          7. Your pictures with her have gone strangely missing<\/li>\n
          8. She takes more selfies than ever before<\/li>\n
          9. She puts her phone away quickly when she sees you<\/li>\n
          10. She has multiple Facebook accounts (huge red sign!)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
            READ ALSO: How To Make My Girlfriend Want Me More Sexually<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

            Why A Woman Cheats<\/strong><\/h2>\n

            So, how do you score in the “how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating<\/em>” quiz above?<\/strong><\/p>\n

            If you see a couple of those signs then guess what – relax. When you’re done reading this article you’ll know exactly what to do to fix things. I promise you.<\/p>\n

            Before that, however, let’s get into the root cause of the problem…<\/p>\n

            Why DO women cheat?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

            Here’s why…<\/p>\n

            You see, when men cheat, 90% of the time it\u2019s a physical <\/em><\/strong>thing. When a man is starved of sexual satisfaction in his relationship, he looks elsewhere for it. Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n

            But for women, it\u2019s very different<\/em>.<\/p>\n

            Women cheat when they\u2019re starved of EMOTIONAL satisfaction in their relationships.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

            So, when your girlfriend shows signs that she might be cheating on you, it should tell you one thing:<\/p>\n

            You’re not<\/em> meeting her emotional needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

            Such was Marcy\u2019s case with Jeff.<\/p>\n

            Now, you might be wondering:<\/p>\n

            \u201cWait a minute. Didn\u2019t Jeff try to fix things with Marcy? Didn\u2019t he try to be caring and more attentive to her? He was trying his best to make her happy<\/a>, right?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

            Yes. And guess what? That\u2019s not<\/u><\/strong> the solution.<\/p>\n

            We’ll talk about why next…<\/p>\n

            What Your Woman Needs From You<\/strong><\/h2>\n

            Here\u2019s what most guys don\u2019t realize:<\/p>\n

            Your girlfriend doesn\u2019t just need good <\/em>emotions. She also needs BAD ones.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

            Did you catch that?<\/p>\n

            Women also need BAD <\/strong>emotions in their lives.<\/p>\n

            Or more specifically… they need NEGATIVE <\/strong>emotions, balanced by POSITIVE <\/strong>emotions.<\/p>\n

            In other words, they need emotional rollercoasters<\/em>. It\u2019s what they LIVE for.<\/p>\n

            Think about it for a second…<\/p>\n

            Why are women helplessly addicted to these things?<\/strong><\/p>\n