This is one of the questions I get asked the most in the Shogun Method community. And if that\u2019s a question you ask yourself a lot, then this guide is for you.<\/p>\n
How DO you tell if the girl you secretly like only sees you as a friend… or secretly likes you, too?<\/p>\n
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If you ARE <\/em>in the friend zone, how do you get out of it?<\/strong><\/p>\n We\u2019ll answer those questions and more in this Shogun Method guide to escaping the friend zone.<\/p>\n Dig in!<\/p>\n\n I know, I know…<\/p>\n It\u2019s not always easy to tell if you\u2019re in a woman\u2019s friend zone or not, is it?<\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019s showing affection, for sure. But the affection she shows can either be attraction… or just friendliness<\/em>. That\u2019s what makes it so hard to tell.<\/p>\n But thankfully, there are many tell-tale signs that she only likes you as a friend, and nothing more.<\/p>\n They include the eight friend zone signs<\/a> below…<\/p>\n Sign #1: She cancels\/postpones dates because you won\u2019t mind.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n If she\u2019s tired, or if she has a TV show she wants to catch, or whatever…<\/p>\n …it means those things are more important to her than you are. Ouch.<\/p>\n Sign #2: She thinks you and someone else look cute together.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019d never pair you with anyone else if she were attracted to you!<\/p>\n Sign #3: Her friends have never heard of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n If she really liked you, she\u2019d have already told her friends about \u201cthe guy she\u2019s been seeing lately.\u201d But no.<\/p>\n Sign #4: There’s zero sexual tension<\/a> between you and her.<\/strong><\/p>\n Remember: if there’s no tension, there’s no attraction. (If you want to know how to detect sexual tension, look for these signs<\/a>.)<\/p>\n Sign #5: She never follows your lead.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s a sign she sees you as just a buddy, and a weak one at that.<\/p>\n Sign #6: She asks you for love advice.<\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019d never do this if it was YOU she loved!<\/p>\n Sign #7: She tells you about her \u201cideal man.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Likewise, she\u2019d never do this if YOU were her ideal man. (And if she does this repeatedly, you can be sure that she’s playing you<\/a>.)<\/p>\n Sign #8: You never feel that she wants you sexually.<\/strong><\/p>\n Either it’s sexual, or it’s platonic – it’s as simple as that. And guess what: you can make any woman want you sexually<\/a>.<\/p>\n And lastly…<\/em><\/p>\n Sign #9: She says you deserve a \u201cgreat girl.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Meaning that \u201cgreat girl\u201d isn\u2019t her.<\/p>\n If the woman you like is showing any one of the signs above, then yes \u2013 you\u2019re probably stuck in her friend zone.<\/p>\n The good news? You\u2019re not TRAPPED in it.<\/p>\n Yes, you CAN <\/strong>get out of her friend zone<\/a>.<\/p>\n You CAN <\/strong>make her see you differently, fall in love with you, and make you her boyfriend.<\/p>\n And it all starts by knowing how you fell into her friend zone in the first place.<\/p>\n That\u2019s next!<\/p>\n Here\u2019s what you must understand…<\/p>\n You didn\u2019t FALL into her friend zone.<\/strong><\/p>\n Really. You didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Instead, you STARTED OUT<\/em> in her friend zone.<\/p>\n But it\u2019s not just you. EVERY guy in her life she\u2019s not related to started out in her friend zone.<\/p>\n On the road to a strong, lifelong relationship, every couple goes through four stages:<\/p>\n In Shogun Method, this process is called the IRAE Model<\/strong>, coined after the initials of all four stages. (Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction, Enslavement.)<\/em><\/p>\n If you\u2019re in her friend zone, then you know what? It means you\u2019re both in the Rapport<\/strong> (or, the second) stage.<\/p>\n And you got stuck there because of one (or both) of two reasons:<\/p>\n Let me explain…<\/p>\n Yes \u2013 there\u2019s more than one kind of rapport.<\/strong><\/p>\n Think about it…<\/p>\n In Shogun Method, we call this \u201cContextual Rapport.\u201d <\/strong>Meaning: It\u2019s rapport that\u2019s confined to a certain context<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n And when you build too much “friendly” rapport with the woman you like… guess what context she confines you to?<\/p>\n Yup, you guessed it \u2013 the friend zone<\/strong>.<\/p>\n She ends up liking you so much as a friend that she\u2019d rather you STAYED as a friend.<\/p>\n And if you tried to get romantic or sexual with her, it would creep her out and you\u2019ll lose her forever.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t make that mistake!<\/em><\/p>\n If you want to escape her friend zone, then you\u2019ll need to do two things:<\/p>\n Let\u2019s take a look at each step in turn, alright?<\/p>\n Here’s the first step…<\/p>\n I know what you’re thinking: “So, Derek, what\u2019s exactly the right kind of rapport?”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Is it the kind of rapport she\u2019d share with a potential boyfriend or husband?<\/p>\n Wrong. That\u2019s what ALL her admirers do.<\/p>\n Instead, you\u2019ll want to go ALL IN.<\/p>\n You want her to see you as the ONLY<\/span> guy she could ever imagine spending the rest of her life with.<\/strong><\/p>\n How do you do that?<\/p>\n With Mind Control<\/strong>, of course.<\/p>\n Ever heard your female friends gush about their men in the following ways?<\/p>\n They\u2019re not kidding. It\u2019s simply because they had matching VAKSOG <\/strong>modes with their men.<\/p>\n VAK-what<\/em> now?<\/p>\n \u201cVAKSOG\u201d is a Shogun Method term that stands for:<\/strong><\/p>\n These are the six \u201cmodes\u201d that human beings use to process their thoughts and feelings.<\/p>\n Here’s what useful for you to know…<\/p>\n Most women have two <\/em>or three <\/em>dominant modes.<\/strong><\/p>\n And the guys who \u201ctotally understand\u201d<\/em> or \u201cwere made for them\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n Those guys simply had the same VAKSOG modes as they did.<\/strong><\/p>\n Now, those couples just ended up together by luck.<\/p>\n But YOU can end up with the woman you like ON PURPOSE.<\/p>\n How?<\/p>\n You got it \u2013 by matching her VAKSOG modes<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n So, how do you tell which VAKSOG modes are her most dominant?<\/strong><\/p>\n Simple \u2013 you listen closely to the words she uses to describe her experiences.<\/p>\n For example:<\/p>\n Find out which VAKSOG modes she uses most often, then mirror them. Start using more of the same words when talking to her.<\/p>\n The result? Amazing!<\/p>\n Put simply \u2013 she\u2019ll start thinking of you as more<\/em> than just a friend. Watch out for these signs:<\/p>\n When you see any of these signs, then it\u2019s time for Step #2.<\/p>\n Warning!<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t get tempted to stay in the Rapport stage just because you\u2019re having so much fun.<\/em><\/p>\n You want her to be your girlfriend?<\/p>\n Then move things onto the Attraction stage, fast!<\/p>\n Here\u2019s how you escalate quickly and smoothly to the Attraction stage:<\/p>\n This five-step process is an example of yet another Shogun Method<\/a> technique you\u2019ll want to learn.<\/p>\n The technique is called \u201cFractionation.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s a storytelling technique that puts her on an emotional rollercoaster. For example:<\/p>\n The results are universal and predictable:<\/p>\n Awesome, right?<\/p>\n Make no mistake… Fractionation is indeed a powerful technique… and one of the precious few ways to escape a woman\u2019s friend zone.<\/p>\n Want to stop being her friend?<\/p>\n Want to become the only man she could ever imagine spending the rest of her life with?<\/p>\n Then you MUST <\/strong>learn Fractionation. It\u2019s the key.<\/p>\n And guess what? You can learn Fractionation RIGHT NOW<\/span>.<\/p>\n To do this, sign up for my Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/strong> Check it out by clicking this link now –<\/p>\nAre You In The Friend Zone? How Can You Tell?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
8 Signs You\u2019re In The Friend Zone With A Girl<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Why You\u2019re In Her Friend Zone<\/strong><\/h2>\n
The Four Stages Of Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Not All Kinds Of Rapport Are The Same<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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How To Escape The Friend Zone (In Two Steps)<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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Step #1: Build The Right Kind Of Rapport<\/strong><\/h2>\n
VAKSOG Mode Matching<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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A Woman’s Dominant VAKSOG Modes<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Step #2: Move To The Attraction Stage<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Attraction Escalation\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Fractionation: The Ultimate Friend Zone Problem Eliminator<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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