{"id":5821,"date":"2018-01-31T21:55:44","date_gmt":"2018-01-31T13:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5821"},"modified":"2023-09-11T16:03:22","modified_gmt":"2023-09-11T08:03:22","slug":"how-do-you-get-over-a-breakup-fast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-do-you-get-over-a-breakup-fast\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Handle A Breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Deal With A Break Up Like A Man<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cActually, Derek, I don\u2019t need help with my marriage,\u201d Andrew confessed to me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBecause it\u2019s over.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrew, a 38-year-old doctor from Oakland, was one of my newer Shogun Method clients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought he was going to ask me for help with his marriage, but I guess we were too late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cKatie has already dumped me,\u201d Andrew continued.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve already tried everything I could, but the divorce is gonna happen. I know it. I wish I knew <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/clean-slate-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to start a relationship over<\/a>, but I didn&#8217;t. Too late. She\u2019s even got a new man in her life now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrew then told me his real problem: <em>he didn\u2019t know what to do next.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;I need to know how to handle a breakup. Like a man. With dignity.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1CgO02yikX8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Deal With A Breakup (For Guys)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Andrew&#8217;s story was all too familiar&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>He didn\u2019t know how to deal with the breakup<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He didn\u2019t know if he should get Katie back or not<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He didn&#8217;t know <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/does-my-girlfriend-still-love-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">if she still loved him<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He didn\u2019t know how to handle being single again<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He didn\u2019t know if he should try again with another woman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And a few more things he didn\u2019t know<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Answer this for me: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">are you in the same position<\/span>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Are you going through a breakup that\u2019s inevitable, and you don\u2019t know what to do next?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If so, then this Shogun Method guide is for you, too. I\u2019m about to teach you what I taught Andrew that day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you\u2019re about to learn is going to put you in a win-win situation&#8230; no matter WHAT you decide to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Want to handle the breakup like a man? <\/strong>This guide will show you how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Want to move on and be happy again?<\/strong> This guide will show you how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Want to how <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-your-ex-want-you-back\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to make your ex want you back<\/a>?<\/strong> Yup, this guide will show you that, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019ll get to the good stuff in a minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For now, let\u2019s take a closer look at what started this whole mess in the first place&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/angry-wife-syndrome\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Deal With An Angry Wife Or Girlfriend<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What Causes Breakups<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>First off, think about this &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>&#8220;What causes breakups?&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everybody seems to think that they know the answer&#8230; and yet, guess what? Most people are dead <em>wrong<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;ll get to the REAL reason why couples break up shortly, but for now, consider what makes relationships <em>work<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Truth:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>The best relationships are where the man DOMINATES, and the woman FOLLOWS.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words \u2013 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">GENDER ROLES<\/span>. They really do <em>work<\/em>. Believe me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not to mention, it&#8217;s completely backed by the science of psychology and biology. It&#8217;s as legit as it gets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>&#8220;The Man Dominates, The Woman Follows&#8221;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Strangely, this simple truth has become controversial over time&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These days, feminists call the idea sexist, misogynist, chauvinist, politically incorrect, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know what? <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">I\u2019ll take science over political correctness any day<\/span>. And so should you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The root cause of all breakups is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>The man didn\u2019t dominate enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, you weren\u2019t \u201cman enough.\u201d And your woman HATED that. EVERY woman hates that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When a woman feels \u201ctrapped\u201d with a man she sees as weak, she shows her hate in many ways:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She starts nagging him<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She criticizes his smallest flaws<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She undermines his authority<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She magnifies his mistakes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She starts behaving like an <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/women-are-assholes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">asshole<\/a> to him<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She gets angry even at little things<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/moody-negative-wife\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">She reacts negatively to anything he does or says<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She disrespects him in public<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She emotionally blackmails him<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She cheats on him<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She acts like a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/female-sociopath-deal-youre-dating-one\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">female sociopath<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s what you MUST know&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Virtually every relationship problem starts when the man does not dominate and lead.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And here&#8217;s how it gets worse. The problems pile up until the relationship can\u2019t take anymore, and the breakup happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your breakup is inevitable&#8230; or if it\u2019s already happened&#8230; then there\u2019s only one thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-woman-want-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Make A Woman Want You<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Handle A Break Up With Someone You Love &#8211; Like a Man<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The best way to handle a breakup is to \u201cbe a man\u201d about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s not even a figure of speech. You\u2019ll need to break up in a way that makes your woman feel your most attractive, most <em>masculine <\/em>traits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Two reasons:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You\u2019ll get over the breakup much more quickly, <strong>AND<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You\u2019ll leave a window open to possibly win her back later.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Win-win situation, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, how do you get over a breakup fast?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Break Up In Five Steps<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tell her you accept the breakup.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Find ways to make the breakup easier for her, then do it.<em> (E.g.: If she\u2019s already seeing someone else, tell her that her new relationship has your blessing.)<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>At the same time, make the breakup easier for you by moving on with your life.<em> (You can focus on work, hobbies, going to the gym \u2013 anything to stay busy.)<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Leave the emotional baggage behind. Say goodbye to that <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-she-psycho\/\">crazy woman<\/a>. Shit happens. No sense bringing shit with you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M<strong>OST IMPORTANTLY: <\/strong>Suggest being just friends again. <strong><em>Put yourself squarely in her friend-zone<\/em><\/strong> \u2013 nothing romantic or sexual anymore.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>This five-step process will do <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">two<\/span> <\/strong>things for you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You\u2019ll look manlier, which makes her feel more attracted to you&#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And she\u2019ll wonder why it\u2019s so EASY for you to move on. She\u2019ll wonder: <em>Why is he so easygoing? Is he up to something? Or has he found someone better than me?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>The breakup will still happen&#8230; but now, she\u2019s more intrigued by you. She\u2019ll be thinking about you in the weeks to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What happens?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, it\u2019s totally up to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can choose to just move on with your life&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>&#8230;or, you can choose to win her back.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you choose to win her back \u2013 as Andrew did \u2013 then here\u2019s what you need to do.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/what-she-means-when-she-says\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What A Woman Says (And What She Really Means)<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Get Your Ex Back After The Breakup (&#8220;The Reversal&#8221;)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I told Andrew that, under normal circumstances, a woman would NEVER go back to an ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNormal circumstances\u201d include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>A tumultuous pre-breakup<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>A hostile breakup<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>A lot of post-breakup drama<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>So, to win Katie back, Andrew had to create <strong>ABNORMAL <\/strong>circumstances:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>A chill pre-breakup<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>An amicable breakup<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Zero post-breakup drama<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;which he did when he followed the five-step <em><strong>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-break-up-with-her\/\">how to break up<\/a>&#8220;<\/strong> <\/em>process I&#8217;ve shared with you earlier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What followed was a few weeks of no-contact with Katie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Naturally, all that time, Katie was thinking about Andrew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their amicable breakup changed her opinion of him somewhat, and he began to miss him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One day, she missed him enough to text him, just to ask how he was doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, <em>Andrew was expecting this<\/em>. Now, since he was squarely in Katie\u2019s friend-zone, he was free to be chummy with her again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Katie loved spending time with Andrew again \u2013 it was like reuniting with a harmless old friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Destroy Your Ex&#8217;s New Boyfriend<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>As their meet-ups continued, Katie started talking about what she didn\u2019t like about her new man.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That was Andrew\u2019s signal. It was time to <em>\u201cdestroy the new guy.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whenever Katie complained about her new boyfriend, Andrew would say things like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>\u201cReally? He did that? Wow. What else did he do?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cWow. I don\u2019t think even I was that bad. You sure picked a winner.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cWow, what a jerk. I can\u2019t believe it, seriously.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, Andrew was secretly egging Katie on. As they met and chatted more often, Katie came up with more bad things to say about her new boyfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The whole time, Andrew was making Katie like him MORE&#8230; and her new boyfriend LESS.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then one day, when Katie was REALLY fed up with her new boyfriend, Andrew delivered the coup de grace:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong><em>\u201cWhat the hell are you waiting for? Dump the guy already.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Soon enough, that\u2019s exactly what Katie did. She broke up with her new boyfriend and became single again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that left the door open for Andrew to start flirting again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only this time, Katie liked the new Andrew so much that she readily went back into a relationship with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, Andrew and Katie are back together again. Only this time, the relationship is so much better:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Andrew is now the <strong>dominant <\/strong>one, and he commands <strong>authority<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Katie <strong>supports <\/strong>and <strong>follows <\/strong>Andrew\u2019s lead&#8230; and she couldn\u2019t be happier<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrew made the impossible happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Now, it\u2019s <\/em><strong><em>your <\/em><\/strong><em>turn to do the impossible!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/depressed-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Deal With A Depressed Girlfriend<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What Andrew Did That Most Ex-Boyfriends Never Do<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s recap:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Under <em>normal<\/em> circumstances, your ex will NOT get back with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So to win her back, you\u2019ll need to create <strong><em>ABNORMAL <\/em><\/strong>circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>David did to Katie what most guys would <em>NEVER <\/em>do to their ex-girlfriends:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>He swallowed his pride and agreed to the breakup<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He made the breakup as easy as possible for her<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kicked up ZERO drama throughout the entire process<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Moved on like a real man (i.e. WITHOUT hurting her feelings)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Put himself squarely in her friend-zone (known inside Shogun Method as the <strong>&#8220;Reverse Friend-Zone Strategy&#8221;<\/strong> &#8211; RFZS)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>But he didn\u2019t stop there. He also:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Used some skillful, subtle <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Control<\/a> on Katie<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Manipulated Katie into liking him more and hating her new boyfriend at the same time<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cHypnotized\u201d Katie into breaking up with the new guy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Won her back like a boss, turning her into the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/submissive-girlfriend\/\">submissive girlfriend<\/a> he has always wanted<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-regain-someones-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rebuilt the trust in the relationship<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Used more Mind Control to make her happier than she\u2019s ever been in her life<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Key To Getting Her Back: Manipulation!<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re not comfortable with the idea of manipulating your woman, think about this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>If you DON\u2019T manipulate her, SHE will manipulate YOU.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, hasn&#8217;t she hurt you before? With all that emotional blackmail, <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/psychological-manipulation-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychological manipulation<\/a>, the silent treatment, and other kinds of Mind Control?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, guess what? <em>Two can play that game.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only this time, YOU\u2019RE doing it not to hurt her&#8230; <strong>but to save your relationship and make her happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She won\u2019t come back to you under normal circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Want her back? <strong>Then you\u2019ll need to manipulate the circumstances. You\u2019ll need to manipulate HER.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How To Use Mind Control To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Or Wife Back<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Know this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Manipulation is really the only way you can win her back and make her happy again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you want to do what Andrew did&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;if you want to handle your breakup like a man&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and if you want to win your woman back&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8230;then you\u2019ll need to learn how to use Mind Control on her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good news: you can learn everything I taught Andrew <strong>TODAY<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, you can do what Andrew did and get your ex back by following the same steps he took.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember this because it&#8217;s important:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Under normal circumstances, she won\u2019t come back to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You need to manipulate the circumstances. You need to manipulate <strong><em>her<\/em><\/strong>. And Mind Control is the safest, fastest, most effective way to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you\u2019ll need to do it RIGHT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I can show you how. Join the Shogun Method movement today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll see you inside,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" class=\"wp-image-165\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P.S: Questions? Comments? Violent reactions? Feel free to sound off in the comments box below. 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