Have you been married for a few years, but now your marriage is going stale?<\/p>\n
Not sure? Well, then check how many of the following signs your wife is showing:<\/p>\n
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- She\u2019s not nearly as interested in you as she was when you were still dating<\/em><\/li>\n
- Sex has gotten stale, boring, or conditional<\/em><\/li>\n
- She no longer cares what you do<\/em><\/li>\n
- She doesn\u2019t answer your calls and texts as often, and as quickly<\/em><\/li>\n
- She seems to be setting higher and higher expectations for you<\/em><\/li>\n
- She\u2019s just plain cold to you<\/em><\/li>\n
- She’s displaying some signs of a female psychopath<\/a>, and it’s terrifying<\/em><\/li>\n
- She says she\u2019s \u201cfine\u201d when you ask her what\u2019s wrong<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Do you identify with any of those signs?<\/p>\n
If you do, then listen up. You’re about to know how to make your wife want you again – physically <\/em>and emotionally<\/em>. You’re in for a real treat today.<\/p>\n
Continue reading!<\/strong> \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n
The Story Of Vince & Sarah<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Vince, a teacher from Cleveland, complained to me that his wife, Sarah, was showing these signs and more.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u201cGive it to me straight, Derek. Is my marriage failing?\u201d Vince asked me.<\/p>\n
\u201cSure is,\u201d I answered without hesitation. After all, all the signs were there.<\/p>\n
\u201cDammit,\u201d he spat, then sighed.<\/p>\n
\u201cDerek, look, I\u2019ve tried every damn thing. I\u2019ve tried being nicer to her. I\u2019ve tried taking her out on more dates. I\u2019ve tried having heartfelt chats with her every night. Yet… nothing is working!<\/strong><\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n
I shrugged. \u201cOf course not.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stared at me blankly. \u201cBut WHY not?\u201d<\/p>\n
I smiled and got ready to tell him what I\u2019ve told thousands of other men in failing marriages before him.<\/p>\n
What I told him that day, I’ll tell you in this Shogun Method guide.<\/p>\n
If YOUR wife is showing signs she doesn\u2019t want you anymore… then this guide is for you.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re about to learn the REAL REASON<\/strong> why wives stop wanting their husbands…<\/p>\n
…and what you absolutely MUST do to save your marriage.<\/p>\n
So, pay attention closely – because your marriage is worth it<\/em>.<\/p>\n
Let me start by giving you some reassurance.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Make A Relationship Last<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\nIt\u2019s Not Your Fault<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Here\u2019s the sad fact of the matter:<\/p>\n
All marriages DEFAULT towards failure.<\/strong><\/p>\n
In other words, marriages don\u2019t tend to \u201cwork out\u201d on their own.<\/p>\n
Instead, sadly, the opposite <\/em><\/strong>is true:<\/p>\n
Marriages tend to FAIL <\/strong>on their own.<\/p>\n
So, it’s important to realize that it\u2019s not<\/u> your fault<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
You see, a lot of factors naturally set in to pull your marriage towards failure:<\/p>\n
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- Boredom<\/li>\n
- A predictable routine<\/li>\n
- The stress of raising children<\/li>\n
- Displeasure at each other\u2019s flaws<\/li>\n
- And, unfortunately, more<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Here’s the kicker…<\/p>\n
While it’s not your fault that your marriage is failing, it IS your responsibility to fix it.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Specifically:<\/p>\n
It\u2019s ENTIRELY ON YOU to make your wife want you again.<\/p>\n
Because let\u2019s face it: she won\u2019t do it for you.<\/p>\n
And no marriage counselor or therapist will do it for you.<\/p>\n
And \u201cOprah advice\u201d – like treating her more nicely and being more honest \u2013 will definitely NOT do it for you.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ll say it again: It\u2019s on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n
But don\u2019t worry \u2013 I\u2019ll show you what to do.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re about to learn how to make your wife want you again… even MORE <\/strong>than she did when she married you.<\/p>\n
Sound good?<\/p>\n
Great. Let\u2019s start by taking a closer look at the problem…<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Rekindle A Marriage<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\nWhy Your Wife Doesn\u2019t Want You Anymore<\/strong><\/h2>\n
So, why DO wives stop wanting their husbands?<\/strong><\/p>\n
The biggest cause is this:<\/p>\n
“Lack of excitement”<\/strong><\/p>\n
There\u2019s just no more drama going on:<\/p>\n
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- The \u201cchase\u201d is over \u2013 she\u2019s got you in the bag<\/li>\n
- You\u2019re her safe, stable, reliable provider of security<\/li>\n
- She\u2019s realizing that \u201chappily ever after\u201d is also \u201cBORINGLY ever after\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Here\u2019s the thing about women…<\/p>\n
Whether they\u2019re single or married, they NEED <\/strong>drama.<\/p>\n
They crave it. They look for it. They go CRAZY <\/strong>without it.<\/p>\n
So what does a wife do when her marriage has no drama?<\/p>\n
On instinct, she LOOKS <\/strong>for drama.<\/p>\n
On instinct, she CREATES <\/strong>drama.<\/p>\n
And she does this in various ways:<\/p>\n
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- Disrespecting her husband<\/li>\n
- Undermining his authority<\/li>\n
- Responding negatively to everything he does for her<\/a><\/li>\n
- Getting on his nerves so he reacts in a negative way<\/li>\n
- Stressing him out enough to make him cheat… and then use his infidelity against him<\/li>\n
- Cheating on HIM<\/a>… and then using their unhappy marriage as an excuse<\/li>\n
- Behaving like a prima donna<\/a> just to get attention<\/li>\n
- Acts insecure<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Now, again… this is all on INSTINCT<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n
She doesn’t know WHY she does it. But she does it anyway. And in her mind, she FEELS<\/em> she’s doing the right thing…<\/p>\n
…even though she’s dragging your marriage through the mud.<\/p>\n
(When it comes to love and relationships, she’s relying on her EMOTIONS entirely)<\/em><\/p>\n
Now, read this carefully:<\/p>\n
The lack of drama is the #1 reason why marriages fail.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n
“But Derek, how about infidelity?”<\/p>\n
Good point. Guess what, though? Infidelity is NOT the root cause.<\/p>\n
Infidelity is CAUSED<\/u> by the lack of drama.<\/strong><\/p>\n
It\u2019s either she cheats on you… or she makes your life hellish enough for you to cheat on her.<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s the biggest danger of all.<\/em><\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t give her the emotional drama she so desperately craves, she\u2019ll find another man who does<\/span>.<\/p>\n
Yes, it\u2019s pretty crazy. It’s also unfair, I know.<\/p>\n
But should that surprise you? The game of love has ALWAYS<\/u> been unfair to men.<\/strong><\/p>\n
It’s ALWAYS been us who do most of the work.<\/p>\n
So, it’s just one of those problems that won’t go away on their own.<\/p>\n
But here’s the good news:<\/p>\n
Like all problems, it contains the seed of its solution.<\/strong><\/p>\n
And you\u2019re about to learn how to solve the problem \u2013 just like Vince did.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: “I Hate My Wife<\/a>. What Should I Do?”<\/strong><\/div><\/div>\nHow Vince Made Sarah Want Him Again<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Know this:<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t REASON with your wife to want you again.<\/strong><\/p>\n
To a woman, love is purely emotional<\/em>. It\u2019s not logical.<\/p>\n
Also, remember that all her bad behavior is not intentional.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s on INSTINCT<\/u>.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a woman\u2019s instinctual response to the lack of drama. It’s hard-wired inside her psychology<\/a>.<\/p>\n
And this is what that means…<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll need to address the problem on an INSTINCTUAL level.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Not with \u201cOprah advice\u201d or “Pickup Artist” (PUA) or dating guru tricks.<\/p>\n
But, with MIND CONTROL<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
How To Use Mind Control On Your Woman<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Back to Vince:<\/strong><\/p>\n
The day I met him, I taught him a simple yet powerful Mind Control<\/a> technique.<\/p>\n
That technique is called Fractionation.<\/strong><\/p>\n
It\u2019s a storytelling technique used by hypnotherapists, salespeople, life coaches, and more.<\/p>\n
It works by putting the listener on an emotional rollercoaster.<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s where Fractionation\u2019s power lies.<\/p>\n
To women, emotional rollercoasters<\/span> are the most ADDICTING type of drama!<\/strong><\/p>\n
When a woman is put on an emotional rollercoaster, good things happen:<\/p>\n
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- She snaps out of her toxic behavior<\/a><\/li>\n
- She pays complete attention to you<\/li>\n
- She feels the uncontrollable urge to follow and obey you<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Sounds great, right?<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s how Vince used Fractionation to make Sarah want him again in five simple steps:<\/p>\n
#1:<\/strong> He stopped being sweet to Sarah, and instead buried himself in work and hobbies. This snapped Sarah out of her bad behavior, and she began asking if he was okay.<\/p>\n
#2:<\/strong> He added some drama to the marriage by telling her: \u201cI just needed some alone time.\u201d And when she asked why, he wouldn\u2019t explain.<\/p>\n
#3:<\/strong> When she kept prodding, he finally told her: \u201cMaybe we need time away from each other.\u201d This drove Sarah crazy until she begged him to reconsider.<\/p>\n
#4:<\/strong> He relieved the drama by \u201cagreeing\u201d to give the marriage a second chance.<\/p>\n
#5:<\/strong> In the weeks that followed, Vince kept using Fractionation to:<\/p>\n
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- Discourage Sarah\u2019s bad behavior<\/em><\/li>\n
- Encourage her good behavior<\/em><\/li>\n
- Establish his leadership in the marriage<\/em><\/li>\n
- Command respect for his authority and dominance<\/em><\/li>\n
- And more<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Little by little, Sarah began to change:<\/p>\n
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- She started having the \u201chots\u201d for Vince again<\/em><\/li>\n
- Sex was fun, exciting, and frequent again<\/em><\/li>\n
- She became Vince\u2019s #1 fan<\/em><\/li>\n
- She has stopped behaving like a female sociopath<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n
- She obeyed his every instruction without question<\/em><\/li>\n
- She accepted him for who he was<\/em><\/li>\n
- She was much warmer and sweeter<\/em><\/li>\n
- Most importantly: She was much happier and more satisfied<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Today, Sarah wants Vince more than she wanted him when they were still dating.<\/p>\n
And now, it\u2019s… your wife\u2019s turn.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Deal With An Angry Wife<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\nHow To Make Your Wife Want You More Than Ever<\/strong><\/h2>\n
One big warning:<\/p>\n
Not all kinds of drama will save your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n
For instance, physical or emotional abuse can lead to drama… but it won\u2019t fix your marriage. (Duh.)<\/p>\n
Neither will passive-aggressiveness or childish silent treatment. It\u2019s drama, but it makes your wife want you LESS, not more.<\/p>\n
Only one kind of drama can make her want you more.<\/p>\n
That kind of drama is the emotional rollercoaster<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
And you can only put your wife on an emotional rollercoaster through Fractionation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
You, too, can learn Fractionation… and you can learn it RIGHT NOW<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n
All you need to do is join my Online Masterclass<\/strong>. Check it out by clicking this link –<\/p>\n
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After clicking the link, you’ll be sent to a signup page. Enter your best e-mail address to request an invite to the Online Masterclass. If you qualify, I’ll e-mail you your very own Invite Ticket.<\/p>\n
Finally, remember what you learned earlier:<\/p>\n
- Sex was fun, exciting, and frequent again<\/em><\/li>\n
- Encourage her good behavior<\/em><\/li>\n
- Sex has gotten stale, boring, or conditional<\/em><\/li>\n
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