{"id":5647,"date":"2018-01-23T17:15:57","date_gmt":"2018-01-23T09:15:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5647"},"modified":"2018-01-25T13:18:15","modified_gmt":"2018-01-25T05:18:15","slug":"my-spouse-hates-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/my-spouse-hates-me\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I Hate My Wife&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong>&#8220;I&#8217;m Starting To Despise My Wife. What Should I Do?&#8221;<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>\u201cI hate my wife,\u201d Ralph, a 35-year-old husband and father of two, told me. \u201cWhat am I supposed to do?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever said the same thing to yourself? Or worse&#8230; have you ever said that to others?<\/p>\n<p>If, like Ralph, you\u2019re experiencing any of the following pain points&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Your wife undermines your authority in the marriage<\/li>\n<li>She criticizes you often, and for tiny matters<\/li>\n<li>She nags you all the time<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/women-are-assholes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">She behaves like an asshole to you<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Her perpetually <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/moody-negative-wife\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">negative thinking and attitude<\/a> is affecting you<\/li>\n<li>She criticizes you to your face (or worse, in front of others)<\/li>\n<li>She acts like a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/female-psychopaths\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">female psychopath<\/a> which terrifies you (and your kids if you have them)<\/li>\n<li>She gives you the silent treatment whenever you say or do something she doesn\u2019t like<\/li>\n<li>She uses emotional blackmail to get what she wants<\/li>\n<li>And other examples of \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/why-are-women-so-mean-to-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mean wife<\/a>\u201d behavior<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8230;then you and Ralph are in the same boat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>You hate your wife.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The love you had for her? It has turned to hate&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and you feel <strong>TRAPPED<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving her is out of the question because&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The kids will suffer (if you have them)<\/li>\n<li>Everyone will see <em>YOU<\/em> as the bad one<\/li>\n<li>She can very easily ruin your reputation<\/li>\n<li>Your career and other goals will take a hit<\/li>\n<li>You can\u2019t afford the divorce<\/li>\n<li>She might hurt herself (and others) in retaliation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So the big question: <strong>what should you do?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In this Shogun Method guide, you\u2019ll learn about what I taught Ralph the day he came to me&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and you\u2019ll also learn how Ralph saved his marriage in just a matter of <strong>DAYS<\/strong>. It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>So right now, <strong>think about your wife<\/strong>. Picture her clearly in your mind. See her looking at you with the usual cold, unloving glare.<\/p>\n<p>Done that? Good. Now ask yourself this&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<h2><strong>Empty Marriage: Why Are You Stuck In One?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Do you know WHY you hate your wife?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me say something which might be surprising to you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t <strong><em>REALLY <\/em><\/strong>hate your wife.<\/p>\n<p>You really don\u2019t. In fact, you actually still <strong><em>love <\/em><\/strong>her.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t be here. You wouldn&#8217;t be trying to find ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-happy-when-shes-sad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">make your marriage happy<\/a> again, right?<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Why You Hate Your Wife<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Here\u2019s the truth&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>You hate what your wife is <u>DOING<\/u>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019s not as <em>loving <\/em>as before.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019s being too <em>critical<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you suspect she\u2019s <em>cheating <\/em>on you. (<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-catch-a-cheating-spouse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Look for these signs<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019s being too <em>domineering <\/em>and <em>manipulative<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>All that bad behavior can be maddening for any husband. (It&#8217;s not your fault.)<\/p>\n<p>But when you know the <strong>ROOT CAUSE<\/strong> of the bad behavior, then everything will make sense.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-rekindle-a-broken-marriage\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Rekindle A Marriage<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><strong>Why Your Wife Does Your Head In<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the root cause of your wife\u2019s bad behavior?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>She has lost respect for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because here\u2019s the thing: women don\u2019t treat all men badly.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they only mistreat a man if:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>They can\u2019t respect him, and<\/li>\n<li>If they\u2019re<em> \u201ctrapped\u201d <\/em>with him (such as in a committed relationship&#8230; a.k.a. a marriage)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>It\u2019s obvious, right? If your wife doesn\u2019t respect you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She\u2019ll grab the \u201cauthority\u201d position from you<\/li>\n<li>She&#8217;ll lead the marriage and expect you to follow without question<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019ll nag and criticize you whenever you \u201cfall out of line\u201d<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019ll manipulate you and play mind games with you to get what she wants<\/li>\n<li>Your friends and family will laugh behind your back when they see how submissive you are to her<\/li>\n<li>And other nightmares<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pretty awful, right?<\/p>\n<p>Now I want you to think about this:<\/p>\n<p><strong>What would a wife be like when she\u2019s \u201ctrapped\u201d with a husband she DOES respect and admire?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No doubt, she\u2019ll be the happiest, most respectful, most contented wife in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what? <em>Every woman WANTS to play the role of a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/submissive-wife\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">submissive wife<\/a> to her husband.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the solution right there, my friend.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to love your wife again, make her respect you and treat you well, and save your marriage&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8230;then you must find a way to make her <u>respect<\/u> you again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s up next, so keep reading!<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How To Make Your Wife Respect You Again<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Your Two Options<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Know this &#8211;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are two ways to regain your wife\u2019s respect:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>You can <strong><em>WAIT <\/em><\/strong>for her to respect you again&#8230; or,<\/li>\n<li>You can <strong><em>MAKE <\/em><\/strong>her respect you again.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>In the first way, you basically do <em>nothing<\/em>. You wait and hope that she\u2019ll start feeling ashamed of her actions enough to respect you again.<\/p>\n<p>Or, you can wait and hope that she\u2019ll start thinking logically again.<\/p>\n<p>Or, you can wait and hope that she\u2019ll start being fair with you again.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the problem with that option: <strong>you could be waiting for <u>NOTHING<\/u>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And instead, it might become <em>worse<\/em>. She might see your inaction as a sign of <strong><em>weakness<\/em><\/strong>. And that will make her lose even MORE respect for you.<\/p>\n<p>So, there\u2019s really only one SUREFIRE way to regain your wife\u2019s respect. You must <strong>MAKE <\/strong>her respect you again.<\/p>\n<p>And no, you won\u2019t be using force or threats to do it.<\/p>\n<p>All you\u2019ll use is <strong>subtle, skillful <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-manipulation-tricks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mind manipulation<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-regain-someones-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><strong>To Make Her Respect You, Manipulate Her Mind<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Now, in case you\u2019re thinking: <em>\u201cBut I don\u2019t want to become a manipulative bastard!\u201d&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;then consider this. If you won\u2019t manipulate your wife, then SHE will manipulate YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, she\u2019s <em><strong>ALREADY<\/strong> <\/em>manipulating you. Think about it.<\/p>\n<p>Those challenges to your authority?<\/p>\n<p>Those bouts of silent treatment?<\/p>\n<p>Those episodes of emotional blackmail?<\/p>\n<p>Are those not attempts to manipulate you? Admit it. She\u2019s having her way with you.<\/p>\n<p>And well, guess what? <strong><u>Two can play that game<\/u>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only this time, YOU\u2019RE doing it to get a POSITIVE outcome \u2013 a happier marriage for both of you.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how Ralph did it&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How To Fix Your Marriage (And Switch Your Hate To Love)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s what I taught Ralph:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The female mind has certain \u201cflaws,\u201d or psychological weaknesses. Every woman are born with them. They are embedded inside the <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/female-psychology\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">female psyche<\/a> by nature.<\/p>\n<p>And here&#8217;s the deal&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Manipulate these flaws, and you manipulate the woman.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5701\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/i-hate-my-wife.jpg\" alt=\"i hate my wife\" width=\"700\" height=\"587\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/i-hate-my-wife.jpg 700w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/i-hate-my-wife-300x252.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To fix your marriage and <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-save-a-relationship-thats-falling-apart\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">save your relationship<\/a> with her, you&#8217;ll need to <em>control <\/em>and <em>dominate <\/em>her. And to do that, you\u2019ll need to do these two things:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Snap her out of her disrespectful attitude; and<\/li>\n<li>Make her look to you for direction, validation, and leadership<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>And as Ralph has learned from me, the fastest way to do both is with <strong>Fractionation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/signs-your-marriage-is-failing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Know When Your Marriage Is Over<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><strong>What is Fractionation?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Fractionation is a storytelling technique that puts the listener on an <em>emotional rollercoaster<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it\u2019s so powerful. One of the biggest \u201cflaws\u201d of the female mind is this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Women are helpless against emotional rollercoasters.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Every woman has a weakness for emotional turmoil. And this weakness is what smart men exploit to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-be-dominant-in-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">control and dominate women<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>When a woman is subjected to an emotional rollercoaster, these six things happen:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>She snaps out of her bad attitude<\/li>\n<li>She drops her logical defenses<\/li>\n<li>She begins to act out of emotion<\/li>\n<li>She stops being a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/drama-queen-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">drama queen<\/a><\/li>\n<li>She feels a stronger emotional attachment to the man<\/li>\n<li>She looks to the man for direction and validation<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3><strong>Fractionation: A Real Example \/ Case Study<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s how Ralph put his wife on an emotional roller-coaster with Fractionation:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Step #1: Pain. <\/strong>Ralph \u201cdisappeared\u201d for a full 24 hours. He didn\u2019t reply to any of his wife\u2019s texts or calls. Naturally, this drove her crazy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step #2: Relief.<\/strong> Ralph \u201creappeared\u201d by showing up at their home. When she demanded to know where he had been, Ralph went to Step #3.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step #3: More pain.<\/strong> Ralph simply answered: \u201cI think we need some time apart.\u201d He wouldn\u2019t explain, no matter what she asked. This drove his wife crazy \u2013 enough to ask him for a compromise.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step #4: More relief.<\/strong> Ralph agreed to \u201ccompromise,\u201d but only on his conditions. And he then laid his terms:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>No more emotional blackmail<\/li>\n<li>No more silent treatment<\/li>\n<li>No more disrespectful behavior<\/li>\n<li>Otherwise, he\u2019s gone<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As I had predicted, his wife agreed. And she swore: no more <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-know-if-a-girl-is-playing-mind-games-on-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mind games<\/a>, and no more bad behavior.<\/p>\n<p>But as I instructed him, Ralph didn\u2019t stop there. He kept using Fractionation to enforce more of his terms:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>That he was the leader of his household<\/li>\n<li>That she follow his lead to whatever end<\/li>\n<li>That she respects his authority on all matters<\/li>\n<li>And a few other conditions to seal the deal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And then the unthinkable happened: <strong>The marriage became happy again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The love that had turned to hate had turned back to love again.<\/p>\n<p>Today, Ralph and his wife are doing just fine \u2013 they\u2019re picking up right where they left off.<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/stages-of-a-breakup-for-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Stages of a Breakup<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Now, It\u2019s Your Turn<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Enough about Ralph. Now, let&#8217;s talk about <em>you<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you hate your wife?<\/p>\n<p>Do you hate what she\u2019s doing to you?<\/p>\n<p>Want her to start treating you more respectfully from now on?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve just learned the only <strong><em>real <\/em><\/strong>way to do it.<\/p>\n<p>No force, no threats, and no ultimatums necessary. Just simple, subtle, skillful <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Control<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The best news?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can learn and master Fractionation <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">RIGHT NOW<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right \u2013 <strong>NOW<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>All you need to do is to<strong> join my online Masterclass<\/strong> which is currently live. <strong>Click on this link<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3610\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/derek-rake.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"200\" height=\"287\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>(Request Invite) Derek Rake&#8217;s Online Masterclass<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>After you clicked on the link, a signup form will come up. Enter your email address so that I can send you an Invite (if you qualify).<\/p>\n<p>Remember this:<\/p>\n<p><strong>When your wife can\u2019t respect you, she can\u2019t love you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And it all goes downhill from there. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A marriage without respect for the man is doomed to fail<\/span>. It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>But you can \u2013 and you SHOULD \u2013 regain her respect.<\/p>\n<p>And <strong>Fractionation is the fastest, most painless way to do so.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do the smart thing and join my Masterclass. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Click here<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Onward and upwards,<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-165\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>PS: Got questions? Need specific help? 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