{"id":5615,"date":"2018-01-18T20:49:39","date_gmt":"2018-01-18T12:49:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5615"},"modified":"2018-01-25T13:12:07","modified_gmt":"2018-01-25T05:12:07","slug":"how-to-approach-a-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-approach-a-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Pick Up Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>How To Pick Up Any Woman (This May Shock You&#8230; Or Not)<\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Are you an older guy \u2013 say in your 30\u2019s or better \u2013 who\u2019s making a comeback in the pickup game?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You might:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Be fresh out of a breakup or marriage<\/li>\n<li>Be ready to meet new women again<\/li>\n<li>Feel a little \u201crusty\u201d because you\u2019ve been out of the game for so long<\/li>\n<li>Feel a little insecure because you\u2019re competing against younger guys<\/li>\n<li>Want to know how to \u201cbrush up\u201d on your pickup skills and score with women again<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If any of that hits home, then you\u2019re in the same boat as Nick.<\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you Nick&#8217;s story&#8230; and learn how to pick up women once again.<\/p>\n<p><em>Dig in!<\/em><\/p>\n\n<h2><strong>Getting Back Into The Game: Nick&#8217;s Story<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Nick is a father of four in his 30&#8217;s. He recently recovered from a divorce and wanted to start dating again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, he felt rusty and insecure. He felt women would laugh at him for being the<em> \u201ccreepy old guy.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And so, Nick came to me for help.<\/p>\n<p>This Shogun Method guide outlines everything I taught him. It\u2019s all about how you, too, can not only <em>survive <\/em>the dating game&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;but even become the man that most women want so <em>DESPERATELY<\/em> to meet.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll learn <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-woman-want-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to make a woman want you<\/a> despite whatever shortcomings that you have (perceived or real).<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s start out with something you\u2019ll want to hear&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/is-she-playing-hard-to-get\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Is She Playing Hard To Get?<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Why You Have An Advantage Over Younger Men<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, know this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>It\u2019s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NATURAL<\/span> to feel out of your element if you haven&#8217;t been dating for a while.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, the dating game doesn\u2019t stay the same. It <em>changes <\/em>and <em>evolves<\/em>&#8230; like the people who play it.<\/p>\n<p>But that shouldn\u2019t worry you. Because you have some ADVANTAGES over younger guys, at least in two MAJOR wats:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>You\u2019re more <em>experienced <\/em><\/strong>\u2013 you won\u2019t make the boneheaded mistakes younger guys make, and<\/li>\n<li><strong>You have <em>maturity <\/em><\/strong>\u2013 something younger women desperately want in men, but rarely find.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>And that&#8217;s not all&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Most younger guys try to get women using <strong>Pickup Artist (PUA) <\/strong>tricks&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You know, the stuff that you read inside seedy online forums and dubious blogs.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, most of them absolutely <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">SUCK<\/span> <\/strong>with women.<\/p>\n<p>Ever wondered why?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s why:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Instead of helping them, Pickup Artist tricks are <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">SABOTAGING<\/span> them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Why Pickup Artist (PUA) Tricks Suck<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Here\u2019s what most younger guys don\u2019t get about dating and relationships&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Without exception, all the strongest, happiest, longest-lasting couples go through four &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/stages-of-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stages of love<\/a>&#8220;:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>The <strong>Intrigue <\/strong>Stage, where they first get interested in each other;<\/li>\n<li>The <strong>Rapport <\/strong>Stage, where they get to develop emotional connection with each other;<\/li>\n<li>The <strong>Attraction<\/strong> Stage, where they become lovers;<\/li>\n<li>The <strong>Enslavement <\/strong>Stage, where they completely commit to each other for life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>This is otherwise known as the<strong> IRAE Model<\/strong> (<em>IRAE = Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction, Enslavement<\/em>). It sits at the core of <strong>Shogun Method<\/strong> (which you&#8217;ll find out about later.)<\/p>\n<p>The best relationships go through each stage, one stage at a time, <em>and <\/em>in sequence. This means that they don\u2019t skip a stage, and they all make it past the last stage (<strong>Enslavement<\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Now here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with Pickup Artist (PUA) advice&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most PUA tricks only cover the first step: <strong><em>Intrigue<\/em><\/strong>. It\u2019s all about getting women interested in you. That&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n<p>You might be aware that in most cases, <em>Pickup Artists can\u2019t do even THAT right.<\/em> It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>Most PUA advice would tell you to get women interested in you with lines like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>\u201cOMG, did you just see what happened outside the club? Two women were fighting each other over this short guy! I couldn\u2019t believe it!\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u201cHey ladies, I have a question \u2013 my best friend\u2019s new girlfriend just found a box of photos in his apartment. The photos were of him and his ex-girlfriend. The new girlfriend then threw the photos in the trash without telling him. Did she have the right to do that or not?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u201cHey, got a minute? Just wanted to ask you. If a woman who\u2019s already taken goes to a bar, gets drunk, and kisses another woman&#8230; is she cheating or not?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8230;or some other over-the-top, awkward, scripted pickup lines.<\/p>\n<p>I mean \u2013 seriously? You want to win women over with that dumb shit?<\/p>\n<p>The sad thing is this. Most (younger) guys who follow this advice DON\u2019T know that they\u2019re actually:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Creeping women out<\/li>\n<li>Showing how socially awkward they really are<\/li>\n<li>Setting up women to be massively disappointed later on<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>But <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">YOU<\/span> know.<\/strong> And you\u2019re going to avoid making those dumb mistakes. <em>That&#8217;s going to be your advantage over younger, clueless guys.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When you know what to do, the women you meet for the first time won\u2019t care about your age. All they\u2019ll care about is that they finally found a guy who \u201cgets it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>And they\u2019ll do everything they can to keep you!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Also, remember that it&#8217;s not enough to get a woman interested. You&#8217;ve got to know <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-keep-a-woman-interested\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to keep her interested<\/a> for the long-term. Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n<p>Today, you\u2019ll learn about how to move your relationship with a woman through all four stages: <strong><em>Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction, Enslavement.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For now, let\u2019s focus on the first stage: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Intrigue.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-be-attractive-to-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Be Attractive To Women<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>How To Pick Up Women (The Right Way)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Let me tell you why Shogun Method works where the vast majority of PUA schools fail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Shogun Method operates using <em>Mind Control <\/em>technology.<\/p>\n<p>Hypnosis. Extreme Persuasion. Mind Hacking.<\/p>\n<p>And no, I don\u2019t mean the wacky Hollywood kind.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about proven, peer-reviewed science. Applied psychology. Hypnotherapy. Social exchange theory. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/understanding-relationships\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Deep understanding of relationships<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This is as legitimate as it gets.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>REAL Hypnosis vs Hollywood Hypnosis<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Make no mistake&#8230; <strong><em>REAL <\/em><\/strong>hypnosis is nothing like the <em>&#8220;you&#8217;re getting sleepy&#8221; <\/em>kind you see on TV.<\/p>\n<p>To keep things simple, think of it this way:<\/p>\n<p><strong>REAL <\/strong>hypnosis is really nothing more than a <em>heightened <\/em>sense of <em>relaxation<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>When people are in that sense of <em>relaxation<\/em>:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>They stop making decisions based on logic<\/li>\n<li>They start making decisions based on emotions<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re much more likely to trust the person talking to them<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The technique you\u2019re about to learn is designed to put women under this state of relaxation. And it all happens within the first few minutes of meeting her, if not <em>seconds<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5718\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/how-to-pick-up-women.jpg\" alt=\"how to pick up females\" width=\"700\" height=\"587\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/how-to-pick-up-women.jpg 700w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/how-to-pick-up-women-300x252.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The technique is called the <strong>Intrigue Ping,<\/strong> and here\u2019s how it works:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Intrigue Pings are short, simple spoken lines<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re meant to evoke a natural reaction from the woman you\u2019re talking to<\/li>\n<li>They make you look confident and assertive<\/li>\n<li>They lead into natural conversation<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Intrigue Pings work better than scripted pickup lines or<em> &#8220;opener routines&#8221; <\/em>because:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Pickup lines make women feel uncomfortable. Intrigue Pings are \u201charmless.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Pickup lines can make a woman dislike you right away. Intrigue Pings make women LIKE you right away, because you captured their attention.<\/li>\n<li>Pickup lines often do NOT lead into conversation and rapport-building. Intrigue Pings do.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>To use Intrigue Pings, you\u2019ll need to tailor your spoken line to the situation. What you\u2019d say to a woman in a bookshop will be different from what you\u2019d say to her in a bar, right?<\/p>\n<p>Nick was a guy who liked going to coffee shops, parties, and bars. So here are some Intrigue Pings I gave him to get him started:<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Coffee Shop Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cCan I make an assumption?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201c&#8230;Okay?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cYou like caramel in your coffee.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #2<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cYou\u2019re an interesting person. Can I tell you why?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201cYeah, why?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cYour choice of coffee. You have good taste.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/daddy-issues-dating-psychology\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Girls With Daddy Issues<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><strong>Party Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cI\u2019ve been thinking about something all afternoon. I really have to ask you.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201cWhat is it?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cYou\u2019re friends with (insert friend\u2019s name here), right?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #2<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cSomething\u2019s bothering me. I need to know something.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201cWhat is it?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cWe\u2019ve met before, haven\u2019t we?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bar Intrigue Pings<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cWanna know something?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cI get the feeling you don\u2019t like the music here.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Example #2<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>YOU: \u201cI\u2019ll probably be sorry for saying this, but&#8230; do you know what I like about this song?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>HER: \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>YOU: \u201cIt\u2019s the song playing when we first met.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>All the Intrigue Pings are meant to catch a woman\u2019s attention (By making her say \u201cWhat?\u201d or \u201cYes\u201d in the middle). And they\u2019re all meant to lead to a fun (and natural) conversation.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What Happened To Nick?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Nick had a blast using Intrigue Pings. He told me they worked so well that they became the usual way he opened conversations with women.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He also told me that most of the women he \u201cPinged\u201d eventually became his friends.<\/p>\n<p>Some became flings.<\/p>\n<p>And later on, one \u2013 a beautiful 24-year-old named Joan \u2013 became his fianc\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>How did he do it?<\/p>\n<p>Intrigue Pings definitely helped him. And guess what? They\u2019ll help you, too. Believe it.<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the kicker&#8230;<strong> Intrigue Pings are <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NOT<\/span> enough.<\/strong> After all, Intrigue is just one stage of the process. There are<em> three more stages<\/em>: Rapport, Attraction, and Enslavement.<\/p>\n<p>How did Nick take his relationship with Joan all the way past the Enslavement stage?<\/p>\n<p>The same way YOU\u2019LL pick up and date women from now on, no matter how old you get.<\/p>\n<p><em>You learn how to do that next&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-get-from-friend-to-boyfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone<\/a> (With The VAKSOG Modes Tactic)<\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Beyond Pickup: It&#8217;s All About Enslavement<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s the thing&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Intrigue Pings, and all the other techniques in Shogun Method, are based on <strong>ONE <\/strong>technique.<\/p>\n<p>That \u201cMother Of All Mind Control Techniques\u201d is <strong>Fractionation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be fazed, though&#8230; because Fractionation can be rather simple to learn (and use).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s basically a <em>storytelling <\/em>technique. With it, you will tell your woman stories that will put her on <strong>emotional rollercoasters<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Why emotional rollercoasters?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, here&#8217;s the reason&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Emotional rollercoasters put women in a mild state of hypnosis. <\/em>And remember, hypnosis is that state of relaxation where they\u2019re more open to liking you and trusting you.<\/p>\n<p>So, with Fractionation you&#8217;ll get a woman to like and trust you. <strong>It&#8217;s that easy.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And guess what? The best Intrigue Pings use Fractionation, which is why they work so well.<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s not all&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Remember the <strong>IRAE Model<\/strong>? Fractionation will move your relationship with a woman through the four IRAE stages.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s Fractionation that will:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Get her attention and make her like you <strong>(Intrigue)<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Make her trust you and want to know you better<strong> (Rapport)<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Make her feel romantically and <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/sexual-tension\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sexually attracted to you<\/a> <strong>(Attraction)<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Make her feel emotionally addicted to you \u2013 for life, if you want! <strong>(Enslavement)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Remember: <strong>it&#8217;s all about Enslavement, not &#8220;pickup&#8221;. <\/strong>Enslavement is the end goal.<\/p>\n<p>And Fractionation will get you to your end goal.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Do This Next<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Now here\u2019s the best part of all&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can learn and master Fractionation RIGHT <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NOW<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yup, <strong><em>now<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>All you\u2019ll need to do is to <strong>join my Online Masterclass <\/strong>by clicking the link below:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3612\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shogun-method-point-down.png\" alt=\"Shogun Method\" width=\"125\" height=\"271\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\"><strong>Request Invite To Derek Rake&#8217;s Online Masterclass<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>(After you click that link, a signup page will appear. There, enter your best email address so that I can email you your Invite to the Masterclass.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Remember this&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We all get older. You can\u2019t escape it, right?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s some consoling thoughts, though. Like Nick (and the tens of thousands of my other Shogun Method clients), you can still play the dating game.<\/p>\n<p>And as you\u2019ve just learned, you can play the game <em>EVEN BETTER <\/em>than the younger guys.<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the catch&#8230; <strong>you MUST learn Fractionation<\/strong>. It\u2019s not an option if you want to succeed with women.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get outplayed by those Pickup Artist bozos!\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/masterclass\/\">Learn Fractionation now.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Onward and upwards,<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-165\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/derek-rake-sig-60.png\" alt=\"Derek Rake\" width=\"167\" height=\"60\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>PS: Questions or comments? Leave them below and I will answer them personally.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How To Pick Up Any Woman (This May Shock You&#8230; Or Not) Are you an older guy \u2013 say in your 30\u2019s or better \u2013 who\u2019s making a comeback in the pickup game? 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