If you’re yearning for an “older man, younger woman relationship” <\/em>then know this:<\/p>\n It’s 100% natural, and nothing to be ashamed of. Really.<\/p>\n Still, sometimes a potential couple\u2019s age difference can be substantial.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the kind of gap that makes people whisper, \u201cHe\u2019s old enough to be her father!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n In bygone eras, “older man younger woman relationships” were perfectly acceptable. Heck, it was sometimes the norm<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Going out with someone around your age was seen as weird<\/em>. No joke.<\/p>\n Take, for example, classical Athens, the birthplace of philosophy, science, and democracy.<\/p>\n An Athenian man might not marry until he was in his late 20s or even 30. But a woman was expected to marry as young as 14.<\/p>\n Nowadays, of course, things have changed.<\/p>\n Most guys don\u2019t pursue significantly younger women. Most guys are actually afraid <\/em>to.<\/p>\n I recently met Keith, who had that exact problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n He was attracted to a younger woman. But he was afraid of acting on his desire.<\/p>\n Now, Keith didn\u2019t know about this secret hypnosis technique<\/a> that any man can use to win over any woman.<\/p>\n And you might not know about it, either.<\/p>\n But there\u2019s good news: by the end of this post, you\u2019ll know all about the technique, and how you can use it for your benefit.<\/p>\n Before we get to that, let\u2019s set the scene, shall we?<\/p>\n \u201cGood morning, Keith!\u201d Her bracelet jingled as she waved enthusiastically.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHey there, Lily.\u201d Keith smiled and lifted his coffee mug in salutation.<\/p>\n \u201cMan,\u201d she said, shaking her umbrella over the mat, \u201cit\u2019s really raining out there. Did you get wet coming in?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNope.\u201d He shook his head. \u201cI programmed an app that actually predicts where raindrops are going to land so I can get out of the way.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cHah!\u201d She laughed as she dropped her umbrella into the basket. \u201cYou are such a nerd<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s gonna be huge in the Singapore market,\u201d he said with a grin. \u201cMake sure you tell your friends and family there.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ll make sure I do,\u201d she said, also smiling, as she brushed a damp, dark lock of hair back over her shoulder, \u201cthe next time I go back for a visit.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cPlanning any more trips to the old country any time soon?\u201d<\/p>\n Lily shrugged. \u201cMaybe after the deadline for these next patches. I\u2019ll probably need a vacation by then.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cStill working on the Meltdown and Spectre fixes?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n \u201cYeah.\u201d She nodded as she filled her own coffee cup from the reception area\u2019s Keurig. \u201cWe\u2019ve got it on the run, though. It shouldn\u2019t be too bad.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s great. The dev team\u2019s lucky to have a whiz kid like you, Lily.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAw, thanks!\u201d Her eyes and nose scrunched up in a full-face smile as she lifted her mug to her lips. \u201cYou\u2019re no slouch either, though.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m a financial accountant. All we do is slouch.\u201d<\/p>\n She almost choked on her coffee. \u201cStop, you\u2019re killing me!\u201d <\/em>Her eyes darted to her watch. \u201cI need to go pull some files before the morning meeting.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSounds like fun. Me, I\u2019ve got spreadsheets to go over. Spreadsheets of spreadsheets, even.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBetter you than me, I guess.\u201d She turned to go. \u201cCatch you \u2018round, Keith!\u201d She waved over her shoulder as she went. \u201cDon\u2019t slouch too hard!\u201d<\/p>\n Keith jumped as Doug slapped him on the shoulder hard enough to sting. \u201cTough conversation, huh?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c… huh?\u201d Keith was befuddled.<\/p>\n \u201cBrainy chicks are always talkin\u2019 about shit.\u201d He slapped Keith on the shoulder again. \u201cBut it\u2019s worth sittin\u2019 through to watch \u2018em go. Am I right?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI, uh …\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cJust look at that.\u201d Doug whistled, eyeing Lily\u2019s ass as she walked off down the hall. \u201cLike a hot peach bun at the China Super Buffet.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe\u2019s actually Singaporean.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cClose enough for the old \u2018me so horny\u2019 treatment.\u201d<\/p>\n Keith glanced nervously around. \u201cYou really think it\u2019s a good idea to say stuff like that?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cRelax, bro. You never seen Full Metal Jacket?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYeah. It was set in Vietnam<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSee, just a little movie humor. No harm, no foul. Am I right?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSure. Right.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWell, what do you expect?\u201d John asked, dragging on his cigarette. \u201cThat guy\u2019s a chode.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cA what?\u201d Keith asked between puffs.<\/p>\n \u201cWimp. Pussy. Chump. It’s a common term, trust me on this.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDude, I\u2019m an accountant, not an octogenarian.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou\u2019re still old enough to remember three-and-a-half-inch floppies,\u201d John needled him.<\/p>\n \u201cSo are you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYeah.\u201d John nodded. \u201cThat box we found in the attic made great targets for our BB guns.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou kids and your damned intertubes,\u201d Keith muttered snarkily.<\/p>\n \u201cSo what\u2019s the deal with Doug? He doesn\u2019t usually get to you like that.\u201d<\/p>\n Keith shrugged, exhaled. \u201cHe just pissed me off today. That is all.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBut he\u2019s like that every day<\/em>. Maybe not quite as douchey, but still.\u201d<\/p>\n They smoked.<\/p>\n \u201cUnless<\/em> …\u201d John began.<\/p>\n \u201cUnless what?\u201d Keith asked nervously.<\/p>\n \u201cUnless it\u2019s not really about Doug,\u201d John said nonchalantly.<\/p>\n \u201cStop right there.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cUnless<\/em> …\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNo. Stopping.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSo, you got a thing for Lily, huh?\u201d<\/strong> John smirked.<\/p>\n \u201cI didn\u2019t say that.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou didn\u2019t have to. Gonna ask her out?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNo way.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWhy not? She\u2019s smart. She\u2019s hot. She flirts with you all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe\u2019s young<\/em><\/strong>. She flirts with everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYeah, but she flirts with you, too.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt would never work.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBecause you\u2019re an octopus?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s octogenarian, and I\u2019m not.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBut you said, and I quote, \u2018She\u2019s young.\u2019<\/em><\/strong> By which you meant that you\u2019re too old for her.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cRelationships with age differences like that, they never work out,\u201d Keith said wearily, \u201cfor one reason or another. Besides, a girl like her can get any guy she wants. There\u2019s no way I can compete<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYo, I\u2019m really happy for you, and I\u2019ma let you finish,\u201d<\/em> John broke in, \u201cbut before you do, you should talk to a guy named Derek Rake<\/strong><\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDerek Rake? Who\u2019s he?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cCreator of the one and only Shogun Method<\/strong>,\u201d John told him, flicking open his wallet. \u201cSavior of men. Here, I\u2019ve still got his card.\u201d<\/p>\n Keith took the card and eyed it skeptically. \u201cSo, this guy\u2019s … what, a Pick Up Artist? PUA?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNo way, man.\u201d John shook his head. \u201cPUA is kiddy stuff compared to what this guy\u2019s packin\u2019. He can totally help you out.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI dunno.\u201d Keith hesitated. \u201cIt doesn\u2019t really sound like my thing.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI mean, if you\u2019d rather not\u2014I\u2019m sure Doug would appreciate getting a shot at Lily.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSo,\u201d Keith said quickly, \u201cis it okay if I keep this business card?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cA Pickup Artist does one thing and one thing only: he creates a false sense of attraction<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n “That\u2019s why they specialize in one-night stands. Which is fine, I guess, if that\u2019s what you\u2019re after.<\/p>\n \u201cBut that\u2019s not what you\u2019re<\/em> after, is it, Keith?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNo.\u201d Keith shook his head. \u201cIt\u2019s not.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cLots of guys,\u201d I continued, \u201chit their mid or late thirties, and they finally realize they\u2019re not twenty-somethings anymore. And so they try to feel<\/em> twenty-something again by sleeping with younger women.<\/p>\n \u201cBut this isn\u2019t your midlife crisis, either. For you, this is legit. Am I right?\u201d<\/p>\n Keith nodded. \u201cYeah. Lily\u2019s an amazing woman. She\u2019s smart, she\u2019s successful \u2013 any guy would be lucky to be with her.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cHence,\u201d I concluded, \u201cyour anxiety over her.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI wouldn\u2019t call it anxiety, really,\u201d Keith said nervously.<\/p>\n \u201cBut you are<\/em> anxious about the age difference<\/em><\/strong>, yes?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWell, yeah. I\u2019m almost a decade and a half older than she is. It seems like kind of a problem.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWhy should it?\u201d I wondered.<\/p>\n \u201cThey\u2019re going to call me cradle robber,\u201d he moaned.<\/p>\n \u201cKeith\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAnd call her gold digger.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cKeith.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cOr my neighbors will start saying she\u2019s some kind of Singaporean mail-order bride.\u201d<\/p>\n Clearly, this whole thing was driving Keith neurotic. Decisive action was called for.<\/p>\n \u201cKeith, you\u2019re getting way ahead of yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou\u2019re right,\u201d Keith agreed. \u201cWhy would she even date me in the first place? My hair\u2019s starting to gray and thin. I\u2019ve got more lines on my forehead than candles on my birthday cake.<\/p>\n “How am I supposed to compete with younger guys?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWell,\u201d I said, \u201cyou already have an advantage over younger guys.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI do?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSure. Remember what I told you about Pickup Artists? Well, that\u2019s what all those younger guys are going to try to do: seduce her<\/em><\/strong>. But not you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNot me?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNope. You\u2019re going to enslave<\/em> <\/span>her<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNot like with whips and chains or anything,\u201d I went on.<\/strong> \u201cUnless she\u2019s into that, of course. Which you\u2019ll be finding out soon enough, I\u2019m sure.<\/p>\n \u201cBut the first step down that road is Emotional Segregation<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cEmotional segregation?” his eyes widened.<\/p>\n \u201cHere’s how it works. To win a younger woman over, you’ve got to segregate her from the outside world. That way, you’ll eliminate two problems at once… the age gap perception, and competition from younger guys.”<\/strong><\/p>\n Keith nodded. \u201cSounds great, Derek.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cGood. Now, there are lots of ways you can go about this.\u201d<\/p>\n I passed him a sheet of paper containing this list…<\/p>\n \u201cYou want to be careful, though,\u201d I cautioned as he read. \u201cDo it too fast, and she\u2019ll panic and get social withdrawal. That will not<\/em> work in your favor.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cClearly.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNow, Emotional Segregation isn\u2019t an end in itself,\u201d I instructed Keith. \u201cWhat it does is create the opportunity for Personality Replacement.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cPersonality replacement?\u201d he asked, looking bewildered.<\/p>\n \u201cYup. If she cares that you\u2019re older, she won\u2019t after that. Not once she becomes Persephone<\/em>, anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cPersephone<\/em>?\u201d he asked, still confused.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s what we call the ‘replacement personality’. Once you have replaced her personality with “Persephone”<\/em>, she\u2019ll be completely and totally devoted to you… and you alone.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cHow in the hell am I supposed to do that?\u201d Keith wondered.<\/p>\n \u201cThe tried-and-true method is called the Black Rose Sequence<\/strong><\/a>. That\u2019s an advanced <\/em>mind manipulation technique<\/a>, though\u2014definitely not for beginners. And so, I won’t recommend that to you yet.”<\/p>\n “Sounds super intriguing, though,” Keith enthused. “Is there anything like that which a beginner like me can use to get some results quickly?”<\/p>\n \u201cGlad you asked,” I answered. “There’s a quick-win Enslavement technique which will make her yours pretty quickly.”<\/p>\n “Which is…?”<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a Shogun Method<\/a> technique called Fractionation.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\nWhy Older Man Wants Younger Woman<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Story Of Keith: A Mature Man With Healthy Sexuality<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Story of Lily: A Younger Man Attracted To An Older Man<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Enter Doug: The Younger Man (Who Happens To Be A… Chode)<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Why Older Guys Have Anxiety With Younger Women<\/strong><\/h2>\n
“I Can’t Compete”<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nEnslavement, NOT “Seduction”<\/h2>\n
The Age Difference Anxiety<\/strong><\/h3>\n
“How Am I To Compete With Younger Guys?”<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How To Win A Younger Woman Over<\/h2>\n
Five Emotional Segregation Techniques<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Personality Replacement<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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