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- She makes everything about her<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She often drags the mood down<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She’s pessimistic about everything<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She discourages you from chasing your goals and dreams<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She can be an asshole at times<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She never supports you in anything you do<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She seems to be angry about everything, all the time<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She keeps ranting about her exes<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She never becomes intimate first \u2013 it\u2019s always you<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She’s insecure just about everything<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She has lots of emotional damage<\/a> from her previous relationships<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She always needs saving<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She doesn\u2019t trust you much<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She wants both of you to be the \u201cperfect couple,\u201d but hates that you\u2019re not the “perfect husband<\/a>” in her mind<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She almost never apologizes for her mistakes even when it’s obvious that it’s her fault<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She blames you for bad things that happen to her<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
But the worst part is this…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019re not even sure why <\/em>she\u2019s so negative all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What you do know is this…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Life is getting unbearable with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If any of the above hits home, then you\u2019re in good company. Wanting to know “how to deal with a negative spouse”<\/em> is more common than you think! I’ll tell you why in a short while…<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
Stuck With A Negative Wife? You’re Not The Only One<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
“My Wife Is Always Unhappy And Angry! How Do I Deal With Her?”<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Many of my Shogun Method clients come to me not because they want to meet \u201cThe One.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead, they\u2019ve found \u201cThe One\u201d… but she\u2019s driving them crazy with negativity.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nOne of my private Shogun Method clients was James, an entrepreneur from Kentucky. He was at his emotional limit with Lauren, his extremely doomy-and-gloomy<\/em> wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI\u2019m going insane,\u201d James confessed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“My wife is the most negative person I know.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDerek, it\u2019s becoming so bad that I actually dread coming home to her. I\u2019m even considering divorce. But I don\u2019t want to hurt her, or be the bad guy, or be responsible if something bad happened to her. Why is my wife always so miserable? What should I do?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’ve probably heard things like that about a thousand times since I started taking private clients…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
…and because of that, we’ve got a battle-tested solution<\/em> to the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, if your own wife is likewise driving you insane, then here\u2019s some good news: There\u2019s a way out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You CAN <\/em><\/strong>turn your negative wife positive \u2013 not just temporarily, but PERMANENTLY<\/em><\/strong>. There’s a method with which you can train your wife<\/a> into a subservient woman, and you’ll learn what that is shortly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In short, you can turn a toxic relationship<\/a> around and make it into a happy, and long-lasting one. Believe me because this is 100% possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To start, I want you to picture this for a second:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- You\u2019ll come home to a happy household every single time…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- You\u2019ll never have to worry about her emotional swings anymore…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She can take care of herself and not rely on you that much…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She stops being so high maintenance<\/a> and becomes rather easy to deal with…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She supports you and the household wholeheartedly…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- …and when she has her dramatic moments, she\u2019s more than manageable<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Sounds good, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Then let\u2019s get to the battle-tested<\/em> solution that I’ve been telling you above.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before we jump into it, however, here’s a friendly suggestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do take a moment to download the “Negative Wife Action Checklist”<\/span> below.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\nClick Here To Download<\/u><\/span><\/span>\n\n\n\n
Think of it as a cheat sheet you can easily refer to as you turn your negative wife positive. It summarizes all the information in this long, comprehensive guide in a handy, checklist-type PDF.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With the “Negative Wife Action Checklist,” you’ll be sure you’re following the right steps and avoiding all the dangerous mistakes along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But that’s not all…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your copy of the “Negative Wife Action Checklist” will also teach you a bonus secret technique<\/span> <\/strong>that can INSTANTLY<\/span> turn your negative wife into a positive one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s a powerful technique – yet also controversial. As in, you don’t even want to mention its name in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And yet it may very well be the technique that will save your marriage and your sanity. It’s THAT powerful and life-changing, and you can’t afford to miss out on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That’s why it’s hidden away in the “Negative Wife Action Checklist.” So if you haven’t downloaded your copy yet, go ahead and get it now.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\nClick here to download “The Negative Wife Action Checklist”<\/u><\/span><\/span>\u00a0which contains everything in this guide, PLUS<\/u> the top-secret, all-powerful, life-changing technique <\/em>that just might save your marriage today.<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\nDownloaded it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Great. So let’s continue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Right now, try to answer this question for me…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why Is Your Wife So Negative And Critical?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Ever wondered why<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re like most guys, then you\u2019ve probably tried to make your gloomy wife feel better by:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Doing nice things for her<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Giving her treats that make her life easier<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Surprising her with nice gifts<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Following her preferences<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Making the household as stress-free for her as possible<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Attempting everything you can to make her happy<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
But like most guys, you\u2019ve probably noticed that everything you do just seems to make things WORSE<\/em>…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I mean, you might make her smile for a while, but sooner or later she snaps back to her negative self. And this time, she\u2019s even MORE<\/strong> negative than before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, just what the hell <\/em>is going on?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Root Of All Negativity<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Well, here\u2019s what\u2019s going on. You, like most guys, are probably unaware of this rule in marriage:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not about what you DO<\/span>. It\u2019s about how she FEELS<\/span> about what you do.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Logically, doing all those nice things for her SHOULD <\/em>make her feel better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And on the surface, it might even look that way for a while…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
…but deep inside, she\u2019s going to feel something different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deep inside, she\u2019ll feel that she\u2019s the stronger, more dominant one in the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
After all,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- You\u2019re the one doing all the work, and<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She\u2019s the one you\u2019re doing all that work for, and<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- She feels like a queen; and you\u2019re a servant!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
And instead of making her happy, this drives her absolutely MAD<\/em> inside.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why? Because no woman would ever feel happy if she\u2019s married to a man who\u2019s \u201cbelow\u201d her. No woman wants to be tied to a WEAK man.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
And yet, that\u2019s how you’re making her feel<\/em>. That makes her frustrated, and that frustration manifests in her negative behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And that frustration, my friend, is the root to all the negativity that’s building up inside her<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
QUICK NOTE:<\/strong><\/span> Mind-blowing, huh? Guess what — it goes even deeper than this. So again, if you haven’t received your “Negative Wife Action Checklist” yet, <\/em><\/p>\n\n\ndownload it here<\/strong><\/span>.<\/span>\n\n\n\n
It’s a handy way to make sure you don’t forget all the eye-opening lessons you’ve learned so far in this guide — as well as the lessons you’re STILL about to learn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let me illustrate this “root of all negativity” with another story — this one of another one of my clients.<\/p>\n\n\n
\n![\"Drama](\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/drama-queen.jpg\")
<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nStory Of Josh And His “Drama Queen” Wife<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The other day my Shogun Method client Josh needed help with his “drama queen” wife, Becky.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Those are his words, not mine. Here are some of the things he told me during our meeting:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDerek, this girl is crazy! She was a cheerleader in college, she has a rich daddy, she rides horses…\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whoops,<\/em> I thought. Daddy issues.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
He continued:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cThere\u2019s ALWAYS some kind of drama in her life. <\/em>If it\u2019s not this, it\u2019s that\u2026 if it\u2019s not that, it\u2019s the next thing… <\/em>And it\u2019s never her fault! <\/em>It\u2019s starting to stress the heck out of me… <\/em>Every time she calls my stomach doubles up in knots…\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Josh went on to say that most of the time it would turn out to be NOTHING<\/span>. <\/strong>It turned out Becky had this annoying habit of blowing things WAY out of proportion.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nWorse than that, her so-called drama <\/em>was almost always self-inflicted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eventually this issue started to affect their relationship in a bad way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The emotional strain was killing Josh. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
He loved her, but couldn\u2019t handle the drama anymore. And so he wanted to know what he could do about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After hearing Josh’s story, here’s what I told him…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why Women Become “Drama Queens”?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Why do some women turn into drama queens at the slightest provocation?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
The reason is simple…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
…it’s because they have <\/em><\/strong>to!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Drama is part of women\u2019s natural psychology<\/a>.<\/strong> It’s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They need, crave and yearn for emotional turmoil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Like vampires need blood, women have to have this emotional \u201cjuice\u201d.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Every Woman Is A Drama Queen<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
So, here\u2019s what you really need to understand about women<\/a>…
<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nALL women are drama queens. Every single one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There\u2019s no escaping this fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Drama creates the emotional juice which keeps women alive.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
They also use it to get rid of negative emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anytime she\u2019s feeling bad, insecure<\/a> or in need of attention, what is she going to do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That’s right. She\u2019s going to create DRAMA<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Which is why it’s SUPER IMPORTANT for you to learn how to defuse and deal with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nQUICK NOTE:<\/strong><\/span> Want to learn one of the best ways to defuse and deal with the issues of a negative wife or “drama queen?” It’s the secret bonus technique I have locked away in my <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n“Negative Wife Action Checklist.”<\/strong><\/span>\n\n\n\n
Again, this technique is as controversial as it is powerful, so I won’t name it here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To give you a hint, though, the technique’s name starts with “G.” Can you guess what it is?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Download your free copy of the Negative Wife Action Checklist<\/strong> to learn what it is. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\nClick here now.<\/span>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nNow let’s talk about the solution. <\/strong>How do you deal with a “drama queen” of a wife?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let’s start with what NOT to do…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Two Mistakes Guys Make When Dealing With A Negative Wife<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The bad news is this…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you keep trying <\/em>to appease her, she WILL come to the conclusion that you ARE weak.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
And she’ll do one of two things…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Either she\u2019ll leave you in search of a stronger man…<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Or she’ll keep raising drama in your relationship until you “man up.” (And she’ll never tell you directly — she’s hoping it’ll dawn on you somehow, like some damned miracle.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
I know. It\u2019s fucked up and yet it’s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, if you want a happy marriage, here’s the first thing you should do:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stop making the mistake of trying to make her happy.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
This sounds somewhat like a paradox, I know…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
…and yet when you know how female psychology works, then it makes PERFECT <\/strong>sense. (More on female psychology in just a moment.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Right now, let’s talk about the SECOND thing you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stop avoiding drama in your marriage… and instead, you must start CREATING drama in your marriage before SHE does.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sounds crazy, right? But let me explain.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nThink about this for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n