{"id":5525,"date":"2018-01-12T10:16:40","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T02:16:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5525"},"modified":"2023-09-18T15:42:57","modified_gmt":"2023-09-18T07:42:57","slug":"how-to-get-back-at-your-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-get-back-at-your-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get Back At Your Ex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">She Dumped You? Here&#8217;s How To Get Back At Your Ex Girlfriend (Or Wife)!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Got dumped by your girlfriend or wife?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you still love her deeply, and yet you\u2019re feeling angry and really, really hurt by what she did?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you feel a secret, seething need to somehow hurt her back?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do you want to know <strong>how to get back at your ex<\/strong>?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do, then you\u2019re in the same situation as Kenny, one of my private Shogun Method clients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read Kenny&#8217;s story below next, and see if you can relate to what happened to him. Let&#8217;s go!<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kenny&#8217;s Story<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When Kenny came to see me, he was probably at the lowest point of his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He had gotten cheated on, then dumped by, his then-girlfriend Sandra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And guess what? <em>She didn\u2019t stop there.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandra then hooked up with the other guy, and got engaged to him in a matter of <em>WEEKS<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Needless to say, it fucked Kenny up bad. Really, really <em>bad<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After he told me his story, he stayed silent and kept quiet for about a minute. And then, all hell broke loose&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He cried and ranted and wailed for a good half-hour before he told me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>\u201cI want to get back at her, Derek. I want to give her a taste of what she did to me. How can I do that?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you feel the same way, then I\u2019ll tell you in this article what I told Kenny that day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the exact same thing I tell all my clients who want <strong>revenge<\/strong> on their ex-girlfriends or wives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, let me get a <em>HUGE <\/em>thorn out of your side&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-my-ex-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Stop Thinking About Your Ex<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>It\u2019s Not Your Fault<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>There, I said it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to get back at your ex&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want her to suffer for what she did to you&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you find yourself wishing all sorts of painful things to happen to her&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;then I want you to know this: it\u2019s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">okay<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It\u2019s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NOT<\/span> your fault you feel that way.<\/strong> It\u2019s <em>really <\/em>not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know what, there\u2019s really something about getting dumped by a woman you love that <em>wounds <\/em>the core of manhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s like you\u2019ve&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8230;been judged as weak and pathetic<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8230;been outed to the world as not a real man<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8230;been told to your face that you\u2019re <em>\u201cnot worthy\u201d<\/em> of having a woman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8230;stopped being the &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/alpha-male-characteristics\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alpha male<\/a>&#8221; that you thought you once were<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It hurts so much that in some countries, guys who get dumped throw acid on the women who rejected them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fucked up, I know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019re asking if it\u2019s normal to feel that way&#8230; then here&#8217;s the definitive answer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Yes. <\/strong>It\u2019s PERFECTLY normal. And it\u2019s really, really that screwed up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the <strong><em>first <\/em><\/strong>thing you need to know. That\u2019s me putting a hand on your shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now here\u2019s the <strong><em>second <\/em><\/strong>thing you need to know. And this is me using my same hand to smack you in the head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read this carefully:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While it\u2019s normal to want to get back at a woman who hurt you&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8230;it\u2019s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">NOT<\/span> normal to ACTUALLY get back at her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you actually went out there to \u201cget revenge\u201d on her, then here\u2019s some bad news. <strong>You\u2019re really no better than those acid throwers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, if you tried to get back at your ex, then you\u2019re actually proving her right:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You are weak and pathetic<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You are not a &#8220;real&#8221; man<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You are not worthy of having a woman<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So here\u2019s my advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t even go there. Don\u2019t prove her right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Don\u2019t get back at her.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, I have a <strong>better <\/strong>way. This is what I told Kenny, and it\u2019s what I\u2019m telling you to do right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>GET <em>EVEN<\/em> with her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Big difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How do you get even with a woman who dumped you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Answer: By <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Enslaving <\/strong><\/span>her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me explain&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dealing-with-heartbreak-pain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Deal With Heartbreak<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Enslavement, Not Seduction<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Fallacy Of &#8220;Pickup Artist&#8221; (PUA) Tricks<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Question: have you ever followed PUA (Pickup Artist) or &#8220;seduction&#8221; advice?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If so, then you probably have used some Pickup Artist tricks to win your girlfriend or wife in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And all your \u201csmooth\u201d tricks helped you seduce her, win her, and make her commit to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, Pickup Artist tricks can do that&#8230; <em>sometimes<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, here\u2019s the BIGGEST drawback of Pickup Artist tricks:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>They don\u2019t ENSLAVE a woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&#8217;s the reason why your woman eventually fell <strong><em>out <\/em><\/strong>of love with you and dumped you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now read this carefully, because it&#8217;s super <strong>important!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you had Enslaved her, she wouldn\u2019t ever have dumped you<\/strong>. She wouldn\u2019t ever have fallen out of love with you in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, she would have stayed with you \u2018til death&#8230; <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-happy-when-shes-sad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">happy<\/a>, contented, <\/strong>and <strong>completely committed. <\/strong>It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"587\" src=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/can-i-get-my-ex-back.jpg\" alt=\"how to get back at your ex girlfriend or wife\" class=\"wp-image-5711\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/can-i-get-my-ex-back.jpg 700w, https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/can-i-get-my-ex-back-300x252.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Enslavement Is The Name Of The Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s what the typical Enslaved woman looks like:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Completely <em>happy<\/em>, even in an imperfect relationship with an imperfect man<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Completely <em>satisfied<\/em>, and would never even think of cheating<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Completely <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/submissive-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>submissive<\/em><\/a>, following her man\u2019s lead to whatever end<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Completely <em>supportive <\/em>\u2013 she\u2019s her man\u2019s #1 fan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Completely <em>stable <\/em>\u2013 her man gets almost zero drama from her<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>But what <em>IS<\/em> <strong>Enslavement<\/strong>, anyway? And why do I spell it with a capital \u201cE\u201d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t mean \u201cEnslavement\u201d in the dictionary sense of the word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, it\u2019s a Shogun Method term. It\u2019s the fourth and final step in the \u201cLadder of Love.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Ladder Of Love<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In the \u201cLadder of Love,\u201d there are four \u201crungs\u201d to climb with your woman:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The <strong><em>\u201cIntrigue\u201d<\/em><\/strong> rung, where you catch her interest for the first time<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The <strong><em>\u201cRapport\u201d<\/em><\/strong> rung, where you earn her affection and trust<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The <strong><em>\u201cAttraction\u201d<\/em><\/strong> rung, where you make her fall madly in love with you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And the <strong><em>\u201cEnslavement\u201d<\/em><\/strong> rung, where she becomes emotionally addicted to you for life<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the Ladder or <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/stages-of-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Stages of Love<\/a>. Technically, it\u2019s known as the <strong>IRAE Model<\/strong>, and is the pillar principle of <strong>Shogun Method<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>(<\/em><strong><em>IRAE <\/em><\/strong><em>is the abbreviation for each of the stages: <\/em><strong><em>Intrigue<\/em><\/strong><em>, <\/em><strong><em>Rapport<\/em><\/strong><em>, <\/em><strong><em>Attraction <\/em><\/strong><em>and <\/em><strong><em>Enslavement<\/em><\/strong><em>).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll learn more about Shogun Method later. For now, let&#8217;s focus on the IRAE Model&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The rules of climbing the ladder of love are simple:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You must go through each step <strong>ONE AT A TIME<\/strong>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You must go through the steps <strong>IN SEQUENCE<\/strong>, without skipping any step.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You must go through <strong>EVERY <\/strong>step all the way to Enslavement \u2013 no exceptions. This means that you <strong>MUST<\/strong> complete the Enslavement step to truly win the game of love<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Makes sense?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/obsessing-over-someone-ocd\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Stop Obsessing Over Someone<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why She Left You (IRAE Model Explains Why)<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Now let&#8217;s see how we can apply the concept of the IRAE Model on YOUR relationship, alright?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your girlfriend or wife dumped you, then you\u2019ve probably passed the <em>Attraction <\/em>step in the IRAE Model.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, you seduced her and made her yours, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But guess what? You did <strong><em>NOT <\/em><\/strong>Enslave her. And that\u2019s why she dumped you in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And now, if you want to get even with her, the only way to do that is to finish the job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll need to Enslave her and make her feel addicted to you again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pickup Artist or dating guru tricks will probably bring you to <em>Attraction <\/em>stage, and nothing more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shogun Method&#8217;s strategy to Enslave a woman is through <strong>Mind Control<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that was what I taught Kenny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What&#8217;s Fractionation?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Control technique<\/a> Kenny learned from me is called <strong>Fractionation.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Few people know if its existence, and you&#8217;ll fully understand why later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For now, I\u2019m going to show you how to use it to get even with your ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why Fractionation Works So Well<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Fractionation works with women because of this reason:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It\u2019s totally <em>unexpected<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While she expects you to be angry, hurt, obsessed, and all that&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fractionation will make you look perfectly NORMAL and cool-headed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that\u2019s going to <em>shock <\/em>her. It\u2019s going to knock her off-balance. It\u2019s going to make her pay her full attention to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that\u2019s precisely why Fractionation works. You don\u2019t play by her rules. <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">You<\/span> make the rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll shift the power in the relationship to your favor. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-control-your-girlfriend-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You&#8217;ll be in control again<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How Fractionation Works<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/what-women-want\/\">Fractionation works by putting your woman on an <em>emotional rollercoaster<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is what that means &#8211; you make her feel <em>alternating<\/em>, <em>intensifying <\/em>cycles of <strong>pressure <\/strong>and <strong>relief<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(This is similar to the &#8220;hot-cold-hot&#8221; treatment that some women use on men, but goes deeper than that.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What happens when you put her on this emotional rollercoaster?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All these:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Her logical defenses come crashing down.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Her emotions will overrule any rational thought that she may have.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>She becomes emotionally and <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/psychological-manipulation-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychologically vulnerable<\/a>.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And all that\u2019s going to let you get even with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a little while, you\u2019ll learn how to use Fractionation on your ex-girlfriend or wife. But for now, let me tell you how Kenny got even with Sandra&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-relationship-stronger\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Make A Relationship Last<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How Kenny Got Back At Sandra (In Four Steps)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here were the steps that I taught Kenny:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Step #1: Do The &#8220;Freeze-Out&#8221;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>First, Kenny introduced some pressure in Sandra\u2019s life by completely <em>disappearing<\/em>. He didn\u2019t contact her for several weeks, even on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually, Sandra\u2019s curiosity got the best of her, and she contacted him to see how he was doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Step #2: Do The &#8220;Reverse Friend-Zone&#8221;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Next, Kenny relieved the pressure on Sandra by re-establishing contact with her. But this time, he put himself firmly in her friend-zone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>(Yes, <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-escape-the-friend-zone\/\">putting yourself in the friend-zone<\/a> is a <\/em><strong><em>VALID <\/em><\/strong><em>strategy under certain circumstances&#8230; especially when you want to appear harmless to her.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He was \u201cdoing just fine,\u201d he was perfectly okay with \u201cjust being her friend,\u201d and he had \u201cno hard feelings\u201d over the breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This had the following effect on Sandra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>As she had expected Kenny to react badly, she gets knocked off balance by his <em>nonchalance<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She wondered: <em>&#8220;Had he moved on from me? So quickly!?&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Step #3: Destroy The New Boyfriend<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the next few weeks, Kenny gradually added more pressure on Sandra&#8230; simply by being her <em>friend<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And because he seemed so <em>harmless<\/em>, she was now talking to him about everything. And that included what she didn\u2019t like about her new fiance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kenny started \u201cdestroying the fiance\u201d with joking comments like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>\u201cReally? He said that? What a jerk.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cNo kidding? He really did that? You *really* picked a winner this time. (Eye roll)\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cHoly shit, what an idiot. You dumped me for a jackass.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>As the weeks went by, Sandra felt the pressure rising. She was liking her fiance less and less, while liking Kenny more and more&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and to make things even sweeter, he even <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/girl-cheat-on-boyfriend\/\">got her to cheat on him<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, when Sandra ranted about a big problem with her fiance, Kenny gave the <em>coup-de-grace<\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>\u201cWhat the hell are you waiting for? Dump his sorry ass already.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that\u2019s EXACTLY what Sandra did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>At that point, Kenny had gotten even with Sandra. <\/strong>He made her realize she made a HUGE mistake by dumping such a kind, funny, great guy like him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, he was in control, and she was at his mercy. Before long, Sandra begged him to come back.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/love-someone-doesnt-love-back\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I Love Someone Who Doesn&#8217;t Love Me Back<\/a>. 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