That’s the $64,000 question, isn’t it?<\/p>\n
I met Jay, an events guy, at a recent business convention.<\/p>\n
He told me that he used to play the “pickup” game with reasonable success. Recently, he said, he decided to get a serious girlfriend and settle down.<\/p>\n
\u201cHer name was Nicole, and she was an old friend from college,\u201d Jay told me. \u201cI\u2019ve had the biggest crush on her for the longest time, but never had the guts to tell her.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jay showed me his phone. A photo of Nicole, a petite but sexy Asian-American woman, was his wallpaper.<\/p>\n
\u201cThanks to my pickup skills, I\u2019ve gotten more confident and charismatic than I was in college,\u201d Jay continued, grinning.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo\u2026 a few weeks ago, I took Nicole out on a few dates, gave her a great time, then popped the question.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat did she say?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe said \u2018no,\u2019\u201d Jay chuckled somberly, still staring at Nicole on his phone.<\/p>\n
\u201cNow get this, Derek, I got rejected LOTS of times in my pickup days. I\u2019m supposed to be used to it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBut…?\u201d I prodded him to continue.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut I can\u2019t get over her!\u201d he said. \u201cI can\u2019t move on. I\u2019m obsessed. I can\u2019t stop thinking about her. It\u2019s eating me up inside. I LOVE her, Derek, what should I do? How to stop obsessing over someone like this?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n Let me pause my story right there.<\/strong><\/p>\n Have YOU ever experienced what Jay experienced?<\/p>\n Think about a woman you loved who rejected, dumped or hurt you in the past…<\/p>\n …but no matter what you do, you just couldn\u2019t stop thinking about her.<\/em><\/p>\n Even now, she\u2019s still on your mind, isn\u2019t she?<\/p>\n Or worse, you may even be obsessing over someone you barely know.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n In either case, let me tell you what I told Jay back then:<\/p>\n \u201cDon\u2019t fight the obsession,\u201d I advised him.<\/p>\n \u201cIf you could<\/em> get over her, you would have done so by now<\/strong>. But since you haven\u2019t, it means you\u2019ll need to do something else.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWhat\u2019s that?\u201d Jay asked.<\/p>\n \u201cMake her say \u2018yes.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Jay laughed out loud. \u201cBut she\u2019s already rejected me!\u201d<\/p>\n I shrugged. \u201cSo? Don\u2019t tell me you\u2019re quitting after one measly rejection.\u201d<\/p>\n Jay hesitated. \u201cBut… she already said \u2018no\u2019…\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDoesn\u2019t matter,\u201d I said. \u201cIf you really loved her, you wouldn\u2019t just give up on her, would you?\u201d<\/p>\n I then told Jay that since Nicole rejected his first attempt, he needs to do it differently the next time.<\/p>\n I suggested he do it the Shogun Method way.<\/strong><\/p>\n And you should, too.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s how it\u2019s done…<\/p>\n This is how a “Pickup Artist” is trained to think…<\/strong><\/p>\n Once a woman rejects you, that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n You got to accept your failure and move on to the next girl.<\/p>\n And you know what? This makes complete sense in the pickup game.<\/p>\n Why?<\/p>\n Because the goal of \u201cPickup Artistry\u201d is to have sex with women…<\/strong><\/p>\n …NOT<\/span> to start long-term relationships with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, the faster you get over women who reject you, the faster you\u2019ll meet women who WON\u2019T reject you. That\u2019s how Pickup Artist tricks work. The issue of “unrequited love<\/a>” does not arise at all.<\/p>\n But alas, that\u2019s also the mistake Jay made.<\/p>\n He thought that once Nicole rejected him, he had to get over her and move on right away.<\/p>\n Only this wasn\u2019t pickup anymore. He was playing for keeps<\/em>. He didn’t know how to make a relationship last<\/a>, and that handicapped him severely.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why he got into so much stress. He was using Pickup Artist tricks (short-term) to try and start an exclusive relationship (long-term).<\/strong><\/p>\n So that\u2019s Lesson #1 for you…<\/p>\n If you really love her, don\u2019t give up so easily!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Basically, you\u2019ll need to try again. Only this time, you\u2019ll need to do two things:<\/p>\n Let\u2019s jump right into the really good stuff, shall we?<\/p>\n So why did she reject you?<\/strong><\/p>\n You might think it\u2019s any of the following reasons…<\/p>\n …so on and so forth.<\/p>\n But here\u2019s the thing…<\/p>\n All these possible reasons actually stem from the REAL <\/em>reason why she rejected you.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you had this REAL reason covered, she would NOT have rejected you…<\/p>\n …and instead, she would have been thrilled you asked, and would have gladly said \u201cYES!\u201d<\/p>\n What\u2019s the real reason?<\/p>\n She wasn\u2019t enslaved<\/u> to you.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Yup, you read that right.<\/p>\n And NO, I don\u2019t mean the physical <\/em>kind of enslavement. (That would be illegal, not to mention immoral.)<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking about EMOTIONAL <\/strong>enslavement.<\/p>\n It\u2019s about making her emotionally addicted to YOU \u2013 even more than she\u2019s addicted to 50 Shades of Grey <\/em>or Game of Thrones.<\/em><\/p>\n If you\u2019ve never heard of emotional enslavement before, it\u2019s like this…<\/strong><\/p>\n Every relationship with a woman goes through four stages (also known as the “four stages of love<\/a>“):<\/p>\n In Shogun Method, this is called the IRAE Model<\/a>. <\/strong>(IRAE = Intrigue\/Rapport\/Attract\/Enslave.)<\/p>\n It\u2019s meant to be followed one stage at a time, without skipping a stage, all the way to Enslavement.<\/p>\n This model explains why most Pickup Artists fail miserably when it comes to long-term relationships…<\/p>\n They don\u2019t reach the Enslavement stage.<\/strong><\/p>\n Most Pickup Artists only hit the Attraction <\/em>stage, which ends with having sex with a woman. But beyond that, they have little (if anything) to offer.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the reason why so many Pickup Artists are massive failures in exclusive, long-term relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n Makes complete sense now, doesn’t it?<\/p>\n So that\u2019s Step #1. You need to understand and accept the IRAE Model as the ONLY way to build a relationship with a woman.<\/em><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t, then you\u2019ll keep making the same mistakes with women. You\u2019ll keep getting rejected, and you\u2019ll keep getting dumped.<\/p>\n But once you do accept the IRAE Model<\/strong>, then it\u2019s time to take action.<\/p>\n So how do you enslave a woman emotionally?<\/strong><\/p>\n How do you make a woman emotionally addicted to you for life?<\/p>\n Without a doubt, the fastest way to do it is with a Shogun Method<\/a> technique called Fractionation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Fractionation is a mind manipulation technique<\/a> that uses storytelling to persuade women covertly.<\/p>\n It takes a woman into a \u201ctrance,\u201d then snaps her out of it, then takes her into it again. It does this over and over.<\/p>\n Fractionation works by exploiting one of the most basic vulnerabilities in the female mind:<\/p>\n The weakness (and addiction) for emotional rollercoasters.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n You see, when you take a woman on emotional rollercoasters, a few interesting things happen:<\/p>\n Fractionation may sound somewhat “exotic”, but the truth is that it is used everywhere<\/em>.<\/p>\n For example, it\u2019s Fractionation that\u2019s at work when:<\/p>\n It\u2019s the emotional rollercoasters these things give you that make them so addictive.<\/strong><\/p>\n Guess what… women are even more vulnerable to emotional rollercoasters than you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n And so it\u2019s this same emotional rollercoaster that\u2019s going to make YOUR woman addicted to YOU.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s how I suggested Jay to use Fractionation to overcome his first rejection with Nicole:<\/p>\n That\u2019s what you should do, too! If it worked for Jay, it WILL work for you.<\/p>\n The whole process can take a few days or a few weeks, but you\u2019ll have your dream girlfriend at the end of it.<\/p>\n Sounds great, right?<\/p>\n But here’s the kicker… you MUST<\/u> learn Fractionation<\/strong>. It\u2019s the ultimate key to your success.<\/p>\n You can discover how Fractionation can work its magic for you – join my Online Masterclass now<\/strong>:<\/p>\n Remember<\/span>:<\/p>\n Just because she rejected you once doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s game over.<\/p>\n You just need to try again, and do things differently.<\/strong><\/p>\n This time, you\u2019ll need to:<\/p>\nHow To Stop Obsessing Over Someone Who Hurt You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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