Were you good with the ladies… but now you\u2019re having trouble with your girlfriend or wife?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a common problem, and it\u2019s one we\u2019ll solve in this exclusive Shogun Method guide.<\/p>\n
Too many guys who used to be good at “pickup” or “seduction” suddenly do HORRIBLY in exclusive relationships…<\/p>\n
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- Their women push them around<\/em><\/li>\n
- Their women dominate the relationship<\/em><\/li>\n
- Their women use emotional blackmail to get what they want<\/em><\/li>\n
- Their women don\u2019t respect their authority<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
But why does it happen? Why do so many “Pickup Artists” become doormats to one woman?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s really because one of two things happen when the committed relationship starts:<\/p>\n
Either:<\/p>\n
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- They revert to being a \u201cnice guy<\/a>\u201d again after they meet \u201cthe one\u201d, or…<\/li>\n
- They rely on their old pickup tricks to solve their relationship problems.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Both approaches are just a disaster waiting to happen:<\/p>\n
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- If you revert to a \u201cnice guy\u201d again, then you\u2019ll go back to being a doormat around women again…<\/li>\n
- …and pickup tricks are short-term solutions. They\u2019re not worth shit in long-term relationships.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
So what DOES <\/em><\/strong>work?<\/p>\n
How do you make your woman stop blackmailing and pushing you around…<\/p>\n
…and start submitting to your authority and following your lead?<\/p>\n
This exclusive Shogun Method guide has the answer.<\/strong> Several, in fact.<\/p>\n
Here are the ten things that will be key to your complete understanding of how relationships work. You’ll learn how to understand women<\/a> and how they think.<\/p>\n
Make sure you take notes, because they are completely DIFFERENT <\/em><\/strong>from what you’ve learned elsewhere, guaranteed…<\/p>\n\n
Understanding Relationships: Top Ten Things You Must Know To Understand Women<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#1: You Must NEVER Be Upfront With A Woman<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Remember how you confessed your feelings to that woman in your past… and scared her away?<\/strong><\/p>\n
And remember how you hid your intentions with women during your pickup days…<\/p>\n
…and they were ALL OVER you?<\/p>\n
Society would tell you that to lead a strong and happy relationship:<\/p>\n
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- You got to be 100% honest.<\/li>\n
- You got to have nothing to hide.<\/li>\n
- You got to be upfront with everything with your woman.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Of course, society is wrong YET AGAIN…<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s the fact: Women are hard-wired by nature to REJECT direct proposals from men. There are several reasons for this:<\/p>\n
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- It\u2019s boring<\/li>\n
- There\u2019s no excitement<\/li>\n
- There\u2019s no mental and emotional stimulation<\/li>\n
- There\u2019s no mystery in you<\/li>\n
- It\u2019s just not sexy<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
So try this instead:<\/p>\n
Stop being so upfront with your woman, and start<\/span> hiding <\/em>your intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n
In your relationship, don\u2019t reveal everything you\u2019ll say or do.<\/p>\n
Just do your thing, play your role in the relationship<\/a>, but keep her guessing.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll be surprised at how much she\u2019ll change when she can\u2019t figure you out.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Be Attractive To Women<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n#2: To Win With A Woman, You Must Manipulate Her<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Most guys who are new to relationships DON\u2019T manipulate their women.<\/strong><\/p>\n
They think it\u2019s underhanded, or rude, or sexist, or evil, etc.<\/p>\n
You know what\u2019s REALLY evil, though?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s what happens when you DON\u2019T manipulate your woman.<\/p>\n
What happens is that your woman ends up manipulating YOU:<\/p>\n
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- She pushes you around<\/li>\n
- She uses emotional blackmail to make you do things her way<\/li>\n
- She uses jealousy to keep you in line<\/li>\n
- She refuses to submit to your authority<\/li>\n
- She treats you badly, and makes you feel guilty if you complain about it<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
My advice?<\/p>\n
Accept that manipulation is the way of life.<\/p>\n
And you know what? Humans are natural manipulators. Women, especially!<\/em><\/p>\n
It’s human nature to manipulate.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n
And whoever manipulates the other partner more DOMINATES <\/em><\/strong>the relationship. Fact of life.<\/p>\n
Oh, and speaking of dominance<\/em>…<\/p>\n
#3: A Woman Will Only Be Happy If You Dominate Her<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Let me say that again:<\/p>\n
You MUST manipulate your woman, as it\u2019s the only way to dominate her<\/a>.<\/p>\n
Now let\u2019s take it to the next level:<\/p>\n
You MUST dominate your woman, as it\u2019s the only way she\u2019ll be truly happy in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n
It’s true.<\/p>\n
Do this mental experiment with me:<\/p>\n
Think of your friends who are in relationships where the GUY is the dominant one.<\/p>\n
Now think of your friends who are (or were) in relationships where the WOMAN was dominant.<\/p>\n
In which types of relationships were the women truly happy, level-headed, and emotionally stable?<\/p>\n
I rest my case.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: “I Love Someone Who Doesn’t Love Me Back. What Do I Do?<\/a>“<\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n#4: There Is Such A Thing As \u201cWrong Rapport\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Another fact to remember for life: Not all rapport is the same.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Let me explain.<\/p>\n
Your woman shares different kinds of rapport with different people in her life:<\/p>\n
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- Her friends in town<\/li>\n
- Her friends in another town<\/li>\n
- Her friends online<\/li>\n
- Her co-workers<\/li>\n
- Her boss<\/li>\n
- You<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Moral of the story?<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll need to build the RIGHT <\/strong>kind of rapport with her.<\/p>\n
Not as a friend, not as a boyfriend, and even not as a husband.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll want her to treat you like the man she\u2019ll spend the rest of her life with.<\/strong><\/p>\n
How do you do that?<\/p>\n
You guessed it. Manipulation, control and domination<\/strong>. I can\u2019t say it enough. You must learn how to control your woman<\/a> if you want to be good at this game!<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\n#5: Pickup Artist Tricks Are Crap<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Look. It\u2019s time to leave the “Pickup Artist” tricks behind.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Here’s the truth:<\/p>\n
Conventional \u201cdating guru\u201d and “Pickup Artist” advice is designed to make you fail at some point.<\/p>\n
Why? Well, it\u2019s the only way they can get you to keep buying their products. Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n
It goes like this:<\/p>\n
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- \u201cI got to build my confidence, so I\u2019ll buy this product.\u201d<\/li>\n
- \u201cGreat, now I got confidence, but I still suck at talking to women. So I\u2019ll buy this product.\u201d<\/li>\n
- \u201cOkay, now I can talk to women, but I keep getting friend-zoned! So I got to buy this product…\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Sounds familiar?<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t use short-term solutions to face long-term challenges, like an exclusive relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Instead, just follow what works. And you\u2019re learning what works right now.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Make A Relationship Last<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n#6: To Keep A Woman, You Must ENSLAVE Her To You Emotionally<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Yup, you MUST<\/span> enslave<\/span> her.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Not the physical <\/em>kind of enslavement, by the way.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m talking about EMOTIONAL addiction.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s the kind of \u201censlavement\u201d you might feel towards:<\/p>\n
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- A TV show like Game of Thrones<\/em><\/li>\n
- A video game<\/li>\n
- Porn<\/li>\n
- A sports team<\/li>\n
- A kind of beer<\/li>\n
- Etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
You\u2019ll want her to have THAT kind of emotional addiction to you. It\u2019s the only way she\u2019ll treat you right AND want to stay with you for life.<\/p>\n
Burn this Shogun Method mantra into your brain:<\/p>\n
Enslavement, not seduction!<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n
#7: Making Her \u201cHappy\u201d All The Time Is Not Enough<\/strong><\/h2>\n
You know the reason why so many men fail to hold their relationships together these days?<\/strong><\/p>\n
It\u2019s because they mistakenly think a strong relationship is \u201chappy\u201d all the time.<\/p>\n
And once the relationship hits a rough patch, they chicken out and give up.<\/p>\n
A lot of Pickup Artists bring this mistaken belief with them when they find \u201cthe one.\u201d It\u2019s an easy mistake to make because, in pickup, good emotions get the girls.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t make that mistake, though!<\/p>\n
The strongest human bonds are forged during times of severe stress. So don\u2019t shy away from it.<\/p>\n
Some tips:<\/p>\n
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- Don\u2019t avoid arguments. Instead, start them from time to time.<\/li>\n
- Don\u2019t respect her all the time. Instead, be critical and teasing too.<\/li>\n
- Don\u2019t just talk about hope and happiness. Talk about scary and sad things too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Remember: negative experiences will often bond couples together stronger than positive experiences.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n
#8: You Can \u201cImplant\u201d Any Ideas in a Woman\u2019s Mind if You Know How To<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Don\u2019t say, \u201cYou love me.\u201d Instead, say: \u201cI KNOW you love me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t say, \u201cGive me a massage.\u201d Instead, say: \u201cI WAS WONDERING if you could give me a massage.\u201d<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t say, \u201cDon\u2019t talk to me like that.\u201d Instead, say: \u201cI\u2019D TELL YOU NOT to talk to me like that, BUT I WON\u2019T.\u201d<\/p>\n
(In Shogun Method, these are known as Implanted Commands.<\/strong>)<\/p>\n
Remember:<\/p>\n
The female mind is hard-wired to REJECT direct commands.<\/strong><\/p>\n
But Implanted Commands bypass this natural defense mechanism and tug right at her heartstrings.<\/p>\n
Try it out, and she\u2019ll start saying \u201cyes\u201d to you more.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO: How To Know If Your Relationship Is Toxic<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n#9: The Process of Attracting A Woman Is In A Straight Line<\/strong><\/h2>\n
There\u2019s only one path to a successful, lifelong relationship, and it goes through four stages:<\/p>\n
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- The INTRIGUE <\/strong>stage, where she first feels the urge to know you better<\/li>\n
- The RAPPORT <\/strong>stage, where she gets to know more about you<\/li>\n
- The ATTRACTION <\/strong>stage, where she feels romantically attracted to you<\/li>\n
- And the ENSLAVEMENT <\/strong>stage, where she becomes emotionally addicted to you for life<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
(In Shogun Method, this is known as the<\/em> IRAE Model<\/em><\/strong> – Intrigue\/Rapport\/Attract\/Enslave. These are the stages of love<\/a> that every couple goes through as they build their relationships.)<\/em><\/p>\n
It\u2019s when you deviate from this path \u2013 or stop anywhere before Enslavement \u2013 that things go wrong.<\/p>\n
Remember rule #6? You got to ENSLAVE your woman emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t, she\u2019ll eventually get tired of you and leave you. No exceptions.<\/p>\n
If you love her, you’ll enslave her.<\/strong><\/p>\n
#10: A Woman Yearns for Emotional Roller-Coasters<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Women LOVE emotional ups-and-downs.<\/strong><\/p>\n
They love it. They need it. They look far and wide for it.<\/p>\n
Women are powerless against emotional roller-coasters. And yet, emotional roller-coasters make them feel happy, at peace, and emotionally stable afterward.<\/p>\n
What we guys call \u201cdrama\u201d is actually a manifestation of the female need for emotional roller-coasters.<\/strong><\/p>\n
How\u2019s that for a bit of trivia?<\/p>\n
My big message is this:<\/p>\n
If you want her to submit to you…<\/p>\n
… if you want her to be truly happy…<\/p>\n
… and if you want her to stay with you for life…<\/p>\n
… then you MUST know how to put her on an emotional roller-coaster.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n
And the best way to do that, hands-down, is with a Mind Control technique<\/a> called:<\/p>\n
“Fractionation”<\/strong><\/p>\n
How To Have Attraction Superpowers: Learn Fractionation!<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Fractionation is a mind manipulation technique that involves skillful storytelling.<\/strong> It puts your woman in trance, then takes her out of it, over and over.<\/p>\n
Here’s why Fractionation works so well…<\/p>\n
It taps into the natural female weakness for emotional roller-coasters. The more you use it, the more emotionally addicted she becomes to YOU.<\/em><\/p>\n
Fractionation is THE cornerstone mind manipulation technique.<\/strong> You can do all the ten things you learned above EASILY if you know Fractionation.<\/p>\n
In fact, if you only had time to learn ONE psychological manipulation technique<\/a>…<\/p>\n
…I\u2019d strongly advise you to learn Fractionation.<\/p>\n
So if you want her to stop treating you like a doormat, and start respecting you like the leader that you are…<\/p>\n
- The RAPPORT <\/strong>stage, where she gets to know more about you<\/li>\n
- The INTRIGUE <\/strong>stage, where she first feels the urge to know you better<\/li>\n
- A TV show like Game of Thrones<\/em><\/li>\n
- They rely on their old pickup tricks to solve their relationship problems.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
- Their women dominate the relationship<\/em><\/li>\n
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