How do you make a woman happy?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n We\u2019ve been told that women need to have lives outside of their relationships and homes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sure, this provides them with a sense of fulfillment and accomplishment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But does it make them happy<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n As we\u2019re all aware, the answer is a firm no<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here\u2019s an important secret: most women don\u2019t realize that they are not in control of their own happiness<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n No, making a woman truly happy is something that only <\/em>a man can do. It’s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unfortunately, most boyfriends and husbands don\u2019t realize this either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the end, it leads to unhappiness all around. The man ends up alone, dumped, and disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And his woman? She goes off in search of a man who can make her happy<\/a>. And she, too, ends up disappointed again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n How can you stop this from happening? How can you make your beloved wife or girlfriend really, truly happy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, you\u2019re in luck. Pour yourself a drink and kick back, my Shogun Method padawan<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because I am going to show you how it\u2019s done. And you’ll learn how to do it differently<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You’ll never find better “how to make your girlfriend happy” <\/em>information anywhere else, guaranteed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n First, let me tell you a story…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Karla hadn\u2019t even set her bag on the chair beside the door when she asked, \u201cLiam, have you started dinner yet?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Liam looked up from his magazine. \u201cDinner?\u201d he asked, puzzled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah.\u201d She stopped and stared at him. \u201cDinner. You know, that stuff you put in your mouth and then it goes down into your stomach. Dinner.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKarla, I cooked last night,\u201d he replied. \u201cIsn\u2019t it supposed to be your turn?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Karla didn\u2019t just set her bag down, she threw it into the chair, which rattled a little. \u201cI just got home from having class all day,\u201d she said with a scowl. \u201cI\u2019m tired and I need to cram for an exam tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah, I know, but…\u201d Liam began timidly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI don\u2019t have time to make dinner every night!\u201d she snapped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut I cooked last night! Didn\u2019t we say, back when we moved in together, that we\u2019d share these kinds of responsibilities?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cLiam.\u201d Karla\u2019s voice was icy. \u201cYou sit around all day smoking weed and making up stories.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI\u2019m a writer,\u201d Liam said lamely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAnd you\u2019re not even a good enough one to pay the bills!\u201d she spat. \u201cI\u2019m going to med school so I can support you. Although I\u2019m seriously starting to wonder why. The least you could do is put forward a little effort.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOkay. I\u2019m sorry. I\u2019ll go get some dinner started.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cDon\u2019t bother,\u201d she said, picking up her bag again. \u201cI\u2019ll just order a pizza.\u201d She stormed off down the hall. \u201cI have to study. Call me when it gets here.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Their bedroom door slammed shut behind her.<\/p>\n\n\n Obviously, Liam\u2019s girlfriend is not happy. Not by any stretch of the imagination.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n So, what\u2019s the problem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is it that Liam\u2019s a slacker?<\/p>\n\n\n\n No, that\u2019s not the case. Liam works hard. He holds up his end of the deal with housekeeping and chores. But look where that<\/em> got him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is it that Liam isn\u2019t the household breadwinner?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nope. Plenty of women are more successful professionals than their boyfriends and husbands. That, by itself, doesn\u2019t foreclose on achieving happiness together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is Karla\u2019s stress level the problem? Is she frustrated with school and taking it out on Liam?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, med school is stressful, but that isn\u2019t what\u2019s ruining their relationship. Not by a long shot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Still stumped?<\/p>\n\n\n\n The problem is Liam\u2019s attitude toward his relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Submissive<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Apologetic.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Compromising.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n And you know what? If you\u2019re trying to make your woman happy, this is the wrong approach entirely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Realizing this fact can be difficult for men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But, as Liam learned, I\u2019m here to help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI\u2019ve tried talking to her,\u201d he said, wrapping up the tale. \u201cBut she won\u2019t open up to me. She just blows me off. I\u2019m worried that…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I finished the thought for him. \u201cThat you\u2019re caught in a downward spiral. Right?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah, exactly. I mean, I don\u2019t know how to save this relationship<\/a>. It\u2019s only a matter of time before she leaves me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cLiam,\u201d I said, leaning back and folding my hands behind my head, \u201cThat\u2019s only a symptom <\/em>of your problem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThat she\u2019s going to leave me? Duh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNo.\u201d I shook my head. \u201cThat you\u2019ve resigned yourself to the fact that she\u2019s going to leave you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWhat else can happen, if things keep up this way? The relationship is getting really toxic<\/a> and it kills me.\u201d He buried his face in his hands. \u201cI don\u2019t know what else to do.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cEasy now. You\u2019re trying to fix things, which is good. You\u2019re just going about it the wrong way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n \u201cAlright,\u201d I said, \u201cHere\u2019s the deal: talking to her about why she\u2019s unhappy is pointless.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut,\u201d Liam stuttered, \u201cbut everyone says that communication is important for healthy relationships.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThat is very, very true,\u201d I agreed. \u201cBut in this case, it\u2019s still pointless. Because Karla doesn\u2019t actually know why she\u2019s unhappy<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAnd you do?\u201d He seemed skeptical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut of course. It\u2019s my job, after all.\u201d I grinned. \u201cThe reason she\u2019s unhappy, Liam, is because you\u2019re letting her dominate your relationship.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Liam sat and thought about that for a minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, he said, \u201cMy question still stands: what am I supposed to do?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIsn\u2019t it obvious? You need to take back control<\/a>.<\/strong> You need to be the dominant member of the relationship. And you need to make her be submissive to you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOh, no.\u201d Liam\u2019s eyes were wide. \u201cThat\u2019s not going to work. She\u2019s very progressive. If I try something like that, she\u2019ll definitely<\/em> leave me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I couldn\u2019t help but laugh. \u201cLiam, my man, your head is still in the wrong place. Now, let me tell you a little secret…\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut first, let me ask you something,\u201d I went on. \u201cWhat\u2019s her favorite kind of movie?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n He answered without hesitation. \u201cChick flicks. Romantic comedies. That kind of stuff.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAnd how about you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHistory documentaries,\u201d he told me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cLet me guess: in your time together, you\u2019ve sat through way more chick flicks than she has documentaries. Am I right?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah…\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cDo you know why she likes chick flicks?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He shrugged. \u201cShe\u2019s a chick. It\u2019s in the name. They all love \u2018em.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYes,\u201d I agreed, \u201cbut do you know why<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n He shook his head again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWomen are emotional animals,\u201d<\/strong> I said. \u201cNow, I know Karla\u2019s smart and studying to be a doctor. But when it comes to women\u2019s personal lives, emotion trumps reason every time<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah, okay,\u201d Liam said. \u201cI guess I can see that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNow, tell me: what do all chick flicks have in common?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cA happy ending?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYeah, but what happens before that?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWell, there\u2019s always a conflict <\/em>that causes a bunch of drama.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cExactly!\u201d I snapped my fingers. \u201cAnd that, my friend, is the key to your problem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n \u201cWomen love romantic comedies because they\u2019re an emotional rollercoaster ride,\u201d I explained.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWomen want to empathize with the characters. And they love those ups and downs that the story puts them through.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThere\u2019s already plenty of drama in our relationship,\u201d Liam said sourly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYup. And that\u2019s the problem. Unhappy women don\u2019t get sad. They get angry<\/em>.<\/strong> And when that happens, they find ways to create emotional drama. And that, Liam, lies the key in understanding women<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSo what you\u2019re saying,\u201d Liam said, skeptical again, \u201cis that, if I want to make her happy, I need to make her unhappy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBasically, yes,\u201d I agreed. \u201cWomen need<\/em> drama.<\/strong> But if you want to make her happy, you need to be in control of that drama. Otherwise, her frustration is just going to keep feeding on itself until it explodes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut you can stop that from happening by exploiting the emotional flaw in her psychology<\/em>. All women share it. And that\u2019s what makes this method universally effective. Believe it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOkay,\u201d Liam said. \u201cSo what do I do?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n \u201cAnswer another question for me,\u201d I said. \u201cWhat\u2019s your most memorable date? The one that you two will always remember.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWe were on our way to a restaurant in the next town over,\u201d Liam began after a moment. \u201cThe car broke down in the snow. We had to walk back to a rest stop we\u2019d passed, and we waited for a tow truck there in the cold for two hours. And we missed our dinner reservation.\u201d He laughed. \u201cI thought for sure she would never speak to me again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBut here you are, laughing about it,\u201d I observed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He seemed shocked by that, but nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cFeeling sadness,\u201d I explained, \u201cgives people room to feel happiness. That\u2019s especially true of women. They can only feel one emotion once they\u2019ve felt the other.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAlright,\u201d he agreed. \u201cI can believe that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWhat happened on that date,\u201d I went on, \u201cis that you both faced a problem. Solving that problem gave you something to bond over.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSo what you\u2019re saying is that I need to create conflict and drama,\u201d Liam said, starting to get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cExactly. You have to give her that emotional rollercoaster ride she craves.<\/strong> And you\u2019ll benefit because you\u2019ll be the one in control. There is, quite frankly, no other way to make a woman truly happy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I quickly added, \u201cOr to make sure that you\u2019re happy, for that matter.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSo, how do I do it?\u201d Liam asked. \u201cYou said you\u2019ve got a method.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYes,\u201d I told him. \u201cIt\u2019s called Fractionation<\/strong>. It\u2019s actually a type of secret Mind Control.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMind Control?\u201d Skeptical Liam was back again.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe Story Of Liam And Karla<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What Makes A Woman Unhappy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
If You Don’t Fix This Problem, She WILL Leave You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
How To Make Your Girlfriend Happy: By Making Her Submissive<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The Biggest Flaw In The Female Mind<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Women Need Emotional Drama & Conflict To Be Happy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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How To Give Your Girlfriend The Emotional Rollercoaster<\/h2>\n\n\n\n