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How To Deal With An Insecure Girlfriend Or Wife<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Are you dating (or married to) an insecure woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you know how to tell for sure?<\/p>\n

Well, to start you off, here are some of the most common signs she\u2019s insecure:<\/p>\n

List Of Female Insecurities (Top 10 Traits Of An Insecure Woman)<\/h3>\n
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  1. She\u2019s controlling, manipulative and acts crazy<\/a><\/li>\n
  2. She\u2019s extremely jealous of your friends and relatives<\/li>\n
  3. She doesn\u2019t respect your authority<\/li>\n
  4. She\u2019s super-needy, and constantly wants to be reassured of your love<\/li>\n
  5. She snoops through your phone, e-mail, and social media profiles<\/li>\n
  6. She’s behaving like a female psychopath<\/a><\/li>\n
  7. She puts the blame on you, even if it\u2019s her fault<\/li>\n
  8. She frequently talks about people who annoy her<\/li>\n
  9. She keeps making you feel guilty<\/li>\n
  10. She takes everything personally<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    If she shows any of the signs above, then yes \u2013 she\u2019s insecure, and you\u2019re stuck with her<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    That\u2019s a dangerous situation to be in, by the way…<\/p>\n

    I\u2019m willing to bet that, as early as now, your relationship is stressing you out. Well, guess what \u2013 it\u2019s only going to get MORE stressful down the line…<\/p>\n

    …UNLESS you do what Danny, one of my Shogun Method<\/a> clients, did.<\/p>\n\n

    On Dealing With An Insecure Woman: Danny\u2019s Story<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Danny is a chef from Chicago.<\/strong> He came over to see me after he stumbled upon this blog some time ago.<\/p>\n

    Back then, Danny was engaged to Kay, a terribly insecure woman. She had all the signs of insecurity, and then some.<\/p>\n

    And she was driving Danny crazy.<\/p>\n

    \u201cI don\u2019t want to be the bad guy in all of this,\u201d Danny told me. \u201cI\u2019ve tried adjusting to her, talking to her, and being passive-aggressive. But nothing\u2019s working! She\u2019s just getting worse!\u201d<\/p>\n

    I asked: \u201cJust how bad is it, Danny?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cIt\u2019s terrible,\u201d Danny lamented. \u201cTwo weeks ago I had to stay with my mother who\u2019s in the hospital. Kay wanted to meet for a movie, but I told her I couldn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cWhat happened next?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n

    \u201cKay told me that if I didn\u2019t meet her THAT DAY, I could kiss the engagement goodbye,\u201d was Danny\u2019s painful answer. \u201cI didn\u2019t have a choice. I left my mom to see a movie with Kay. I felt like the worst human being in the world.\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cCrazy,\u201d I said, patting him on the shoulder. \u201cBut I have a question: How did you manage to come here to see me? Didn’t she know who I was<\/a>? She agreed to let you go?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cAre you kidding?\u201d Danny chuckled sheepishly. \u201cI\u2019m here because I didn\u2019t tell her anything. I\u2019m that desperate. If she found out, I\u2019ll never hear the end of it.\u201d<\/p>\n

    I rose. \u201cThat\u2019s perfect,\u201d I said. \u201cDanny, do you want her to change?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cOf course,\u201d Danny answered. \u201cI\u2019ll do anything.\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cGood. Then let\u2019s get started.\u201d<\/p>\n

    I then taught Danny what I\u2019ve taught hundreds of other guys before, all of whom had the same problem. Dating or being married to an insecure woman can seem like a HUGE<\/em> problem…<\/p>\n

    …but not if you understand WHY<\/em> it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

    It all starts with knowing the answer to this question:<\/strong><\/p>\n

    What Causes Insecurity In A Woman?<\/h2>\n

    Here lies the ultimate key to understanding women<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n

    It’s something that some people might find controversial:<\/p>\n

    ALL women are insecure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    You read that right. ALL<\/span> women. No exceptions.<\/p>\n

    Even the most independent and most confident women out there are inherently insecure.<\/p>\n

    Why? Because of several factors they can\u2019t escape:<\/p>\n