{"id":5239,"date":"2017-12-16T15:21:37","date_gmt":"2017-12-16T07:21:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5239"},"modified":"2017-12-16T18:16:08","modified_gmt":"2017-12-16T10:16:08","slug":"how-to-rekindle-a-broken-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-rekindle-a-broken-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Rekindle A Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"

How To Save A Marriage (When The Love Is Gone)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Let me tell you the story of William.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He had been married to Megan for a couple of years.<\/p>\n

But what started as a magical marriage quickly devolved into a miserable one.<\/p>\n

\u201cDerek, I don\u2019t know what happened,\u201d<\/em> William told me with a heavy sigh.<\/p>\n

\u201cOur first year was awesome. The next year was so-so. This year has been just plain horrible!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

William then told me about what he deemed were the “signs” that their marriage was failing. They were the same signs as those that many other married men gave when they came to me for help:<\/p>\n

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  1. She\u2019s taking him for granted<\/em><\/li>\n
  2. She\u2019s unappreciative of the things he did for the relationship<\/em><\/li>\n
  3. She instantly gets irritated by the smallest mistake or misunderstanding<\/em><\/li>\n
  4. She complains that he\u2019s \u201cnot the man I fell in love with\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n
  5. She gives the silent treatment… a lot<\/em><\/li>\n
  6. She drops threatening hints about leaving him<\/em><\/li>\n
  7. She acts crazy whenever something triggers her<\/em><\/li>\n
  8. Her behavior was at times completely psychopathic<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n
  9. She completely transformed from an easygoing gal to a high maintenance woman<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n
  10. …and other signs of a toxic relationship<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    If you\u2019re married right now, and your marriage is showing even one <\/em>of the signs above…<\/p>\n

    …and if, like William, you don\u2019t want your wife to leave and your marriage to fail…<\/p>\n

    …then let me tell you what I told William right then and there:<\/p>\n

    It\u2019s Not Your Fault.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    That\u2019s right \u2013 it\u2019s not<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    All<\/em><\/strong> marriages, no matter how well they start out, will have their moments of near-failure. No exceptions.<\/p>\n

    And yet at the same time, I will tell you the second thing I told William:<\/p>\n

    It IS, however, YOUR<\/span> responsibility to fix things.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    If you want to rekindle your marriage, only YOU can do that \u2013 and not your wife.<\/p>\n

    You shouldn\u2019t wait for her to fix things for you. You can\u2019t wait for her to \u201cdo her part.\u201d<\/p>\n

    She won’t.<\/p>\n

    It\u2019s entirely on you<\/em>. No ifs or buts about it.<\/p>\n

    In this article, I\u2019ll show you the three steps on how to rekindle a marriage. You’ll learn how to spice up a marriage that has gone stale over the years.<\/p>\n

    Follow the steps in this guide, and you\u2019ll soon relive the magical, awesome marriage you used to have.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Sounds good?<\/p>\n

    How To Rekindle The Romance In Your Marriage (In 3 Steps)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    The three steps to rekindling your marriage are as follows:<\/p>\n

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    1. Understand why your wife is being so difficult;<\/strong><\/li>\n
    2. “Fake-Dump” her, and then<\/strong><\/li>\n
    3. Use the “Deal Sealer” technique to rekindle the relationship FOR GOOD.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Let\u2019s tackle each step one by one, OK?<\/p>\n

      Here’s the first step…<\/p>\n

      Step #1: Understand Why Your Wife Is Being So Difficult<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      When your wife is being difficult to you…<\/p>\n

      …and she seems to get more and more difficult the more you appease her…<\/p>\n

      …then it just means one thing.<\/p>\n

      She\u2019s falling out<\/em> of love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      And the reason is simple:<\/p>\n

      It\u2019s clear as day that YOU want her more than SHE wants you.<\/em><\/p>\n

      She\u2019s the one in the power position of the relationship… instead of you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

      And the more you try to appease her, the more she feels in power…<\/p>\n

      …and consequently, the more she falls out of love for you<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

      Sucks, right?<\/p>\n

      Now, you might be asking:<\/p>\n

      \u201cBut I\u2019m showing her I love her! Why would that make her love me less?\u201d<\/p>\n

      Answer: It\u2019s all because of a certain flaw in the female mind<\/em>.<\/p>\n

      And that flaw is this:<\/p>\n

      When a woman feels she has power over a man, she\u2019s hard-wired to reject him.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      You\u2019ve probably noticed this flaw in action before…<\/p>\n

      When you confess your feelings to a woman you like… she rejects you.<\/p>\n

      And yet when you hide your intentions with a woman, what happens?<\/p>\n

      She gets curious. She won\u2019t reject you. Instead, she\u2019ll spend more time with you, trying to figure you out.<\/p>\n

      So that\u2019s lesson #1 for you: A woman can\u2019t reject what she can\u2019t “detect”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      The first thing you have to do is to stop <\/em>obviously trying to work things out with your wife.<\/p>\n

      Instead, be quieter. Be more discrete<\/em>. Do your thing, but don\u2019t explain it to her or make a show of it.<\/p>\n

      You\u2019ll want to continue doing the things you usually do…<\/p>\n

      …only in a more resigned, \u201ccome what may\u201d mindset.<\/p>\n

      When you do this, your wife will stop rejecting everything you do, and start wondering what you\u2019re up to.<\/p>\n

      You want her to think:<\/p>\n

      “What happened?”<\/em><\/p>\n

      “He seems different… and I don’t know why…”<\/em><\/p>\n

      “He is behaving strangely… what is he up to?”<\/em><\/p>\n

      Congratulations \u2013 you\u2019ve snapped her out of her \u201cstonewall\u201d attitude, and now she\u2019s curious about you.<\/p>\n

      It\u2019s time for Step #2.<\/p>\n

      Step #2: Fake-Dump Her<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Wait until she\u2019s paying attention to you \u2013 like she\u2019s watching closely for your next move.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      And when she asks you what\u2019s going on, or if you have something to say, that\u2019s when you tell her:<\/p>\n

      \u201cI want to take a break for a while.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

      That\u2019s right \u2013 you fake-dump <\/strong>her.<\/p>\n

      It\u2019s important to be vague and ambiguous. You didn\u2019t mention the words \u201cbreakup\u201d or \u201cdivorce.\u201d<\/p>\n

      Just \u201ctake a break.\u201d<\/p>\n

      What this does is it makes your wife even MORE confused.<\/p>\n

      She\u2019ll wonder:<\/p>\n

      \u201cWhat does he mean? Does he want a temporary break or a permanent one? What\u2019s he up to?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

      It\u2019s going to turn her into an emotional mess<\/em>. And the more you resist the urge to give in or explain yourself, the more emotional she\u2019s going to be.<\/p>\n

      Her own imagination will be her worst enemy.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      And guess what? That puts you even further in power<\/em>. First you snapped her out of her stonewall attitude \u2013 now you\u2019ve grabbed her full attention.<\/p>\n

      Eventually, often a few days later, she\u2019ll give in and surrender the control of the relationship to you. And she\u2019ll do this by asking: \u201cCan we talk things over?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

      (Women will ALWAYS want to talk shit over. It’s something that’s completely ingrained into their psychology<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

      When she\u2019s in that state \u2013 powerless and completely at your mercy \u2013 it\u2019s time for Step #3.<\/p>\n

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      Step #3: Rekindle Your Marriage with The “Deal Sealer”<\/strong><\/p>\n

      There’s a technique inside Shogun Method which is popularly known as the “Deal Sealer”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      The reason why it’s called that it’s simple…<\/p>\n

      It’s the ace up your sleeve. You’ll use it to “seal the deal”. With it, you’ll rekindle the passion and romance in your marriage, and keep it hot for years to come. Believe it – it’s true.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      The technique that will seal the deal for you is known as “Fractionation”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Here’s what you need to know about Fractionation…<\/p>\n

      It’s possibly one of the most powerful hypnotic \/ Mind Control \/ NLP seduction<\/a> technique ever invented, period.<\/p>\n

      Here’s how it works – with Fractionation, you’ll put your wife in an emotional roller coaster. You’ll make her feel good… and then sad… and then happy… in cycles, repeatedly.<\/p>\n

      Here’s an example:<\/p>\n

      After she asks to talk things over (Step #2 above), you can lead the ensuing conversation this way:<\/p>\n

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      1. You start the conversation with the current \u201csad\u201d feel of the marriage. You can say: \u201cI don\u2019t know if I can keep doing this.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n
      2. Then you switch to a happier, more romantic feel. You can say: \u201cI miss the days when everything was simpler. Remember those times we\u2019d do anything for each other? Those long nights on the phone, those trips to Mexico, those movie dinners?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n
      3. Then you switch back to the current \u201csad\u201d feel. You can say: \u201cThose days seem to be gone forever. I keep trying to bring them back, but I\u2019m getting tired. I can\u2019t do this forever.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n
      4. Then you switch again to a happier, more romantic feel. You can say: \u201cI know you want things to work out again. You always did. You were the woman who would never give up on us, no matter how bad things were. That\u2019s what I loved about you.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n
      5. You keep going back and forth until your wife is emotional putty in your hands.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Easy, right?<\/p>\n

        The result is amazing:<\/p>\n

        After repeated rounds of Fractionation, she’ll become totally, completely, helplessly addicted to you.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

        She’ll be hooked on you because she’ll need you for emotional fulfillment.<\/p>\n

        Why does Fractionation work so well?<\/p>\n

        Here’s the reason:<\/p>\n

        Fractionation exploits yet another flaw in the female mind:<\/p>\n

        That when a woman is on an emotional roller coaster, that\u2019s when she’s most susceptible to suggestion<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

        This is when you can “plant” ideas in her mind without her knowing.<\/p>\n

        For example, you can covertly make her believe <\/em>that she needs to depend on you for:<\/p>\n