{"id":5150,"date":"2017-11-28T18:20:42","date_gmt":"2017-11-28T10:20:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=5150"},"modified":"2017-12-04T21:39:57","modified_gmt":"2017-12-04T13:39:57","slug":"strong-independent-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/strong-independent-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating A Strong, Independent Woman? (Know This.)"},"content":{"rendered":"

How To Make A Strong, Independent Woman Fall In Love With You<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Two weeks ago, a friend of mine started dating this woman.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Everybody says she has a “strong personality”. This usually means she talks too much.<\/p>\n

Anyway, here is how my buddy described his new girlfriend to me:<\/p>\n

“She earns more than I do, is head of a department, and has been living on her own since she was 18.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“Strong woman, huh?” I enquired.<\/p>\n

“There’s more: she watches Sex and the City, listens to Beyonce songs and loves busting guys’ balls.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Gulp.<\/p>\n

“She said she broke up with her last boyfriend because he ‘leaned’ on her and he let her take care of everything.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

I need to know how to handle her, Derek. Please help me and tell me how to understand her<\/a>. I need to become more assertive and dominant<\/a>… or she’s going to eat me alive.”<\/em><\/p>\n

In a minute I’ll reveal to you the advice I gave him. But, before I go on, let’s dig deeper on why women behave like this.<\/p>\n\n

“Independent Woman” Relationship Problems – Where Do They Come From?<\/h2>\n

Lots of guys today have the same problem.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, just look all around you.<\/p>\n

Women are turning into men and men are turning into women.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I won’t spend any time explaining the political and socioeconomic reasons behind this. That’s pretty much water under the bridge, and won’t help anyone…<\/p>\n

Instead, I’ll spend more time on the solution and tell you how to handle a strong, independent woman<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

But first, you need to understand the intricacies <\/em>of female psychology<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Here’s the important thing that you must understand:<\/p>\n

The concept of a “strong, independent woman” is a facade.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

It’s an act she’s putting on. In other words, it’s not <\/strong>indicative of her true <\/em>nature.<\/p>\n

What I am going to tell you is going to surprise you because I don’t often agree with mainstream relationship coaches… but in this case, we are 100% on the same page…<\/p>\n

A woman “pretends” to be strong and independent because of one reason…<\/p>\n

…she’s protecting her heart.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like a player who avoids deep relationships with women and remains a bachelor for years. He’s doing this to avoid getting his heart broken.<\/p>\n

The “strong, independent woman” is doing the same thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deep down women fear being vulnerable… and so they put on an air of strength and independence.<\/p>\n

Makes total sense, right?<\/p>\n

READ ALSO: Are You Dating A High Maintenance Woman<\/a>?<\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

What A Woman Really Thinks (And Wants)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Being vulnerable means you might get hurt…<\/strong><\/p>\n

…and yet it’s part and parcel of the game.<\/p>\n

Understand that beneath this tough exterior, she wants you to be a man and dominate her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Strong,<\/p>\n

This is true no matter how “independent” she may seem to be.<\/strong> Remember… she can’t fight mother nature. She’s programmed in her DNA to want to be dependent on a man.<\/em><\/p>\n

Here’s the bottom line…<\/p>\n

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  1. She wants you to take responsibility and take care of her problems.<\/li>\n
  2. She wants to be feminine, to curl up beside you and rest her head on your strong, hairy chest.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    No matter what she says… this is what she wants.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

    No matter what the mainstream media say… this is what she wants.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

    Let’s not kid ourselves. 40 years of sexual liberation and political correctness ain’t gonna overturn millions of years of evolution.<\/p>\n

    And here’s the cold hard truth…<\/p>\n

    …if you’re not a real man, she’ll dump your ass in no time for a man who can handle things.<\/em><\/p>\n

    So you need to step up.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Do you want to know how to do it?<\/p>\n

    Good. Here goes…<\/p>\n

    READ ALSO: How To Make A Relationship Last<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n

    How To Deal With Her “Independent Woman Syndrome”<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    The first step to turning the tables on a strong woman is understanding one fundamental truth…<\/p>\n

    … that the female mind is flawed<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    DEEPLY<\/em> flawed, in fact.<\/p>\n

    And the key to controlling and dominating her – no matter how assertive she is – is to exploit<\/span> these flaws<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    If the idea of “exploiting a woman’s flaws” <\/em>sounds aggressive and manipulative to you… you know what? I don’t care.<\/p>\n

    This is warfare and you either hunt or you are the hunted. Guys who refuse to take this approach get their hearts broken and cry.<\/p>\n

    So, man up<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    What I’m going to share with you are the two flaws of the female mind that you should (and must) exploit to be good with women.<\/p>\n

    Female Psychology Flaw #1: She Doesn’t Know What She (Really) Wants<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    “What women want?”<\/strong><\/p>\n

    That question is as old as the hills. And most men have tried to answer it by doing the seemingly obvious thing to do… by asking women directly<\/em>.<\/p>\n

    Good idea, right?<\/p>\n

    Wrong!<\/em><\/p>\n

    And here’s why…<\/p>\n

    When it comes to love and relationships, a woman can never<\/span> properly articulate what she truly<\/em> wants.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    So she will give you some bullshit answer that has nothing to do with her real desires.<\/p>\n

    There’s a good reason for this. She can’t articulate those desires because they are hidden deep inside her subconscious brain.<\/p>\n

    And so she’s not to blame for this at all.<\/p>\n

    This leads on to the second flaw in her psyche…<\/p>\n

    Female Psychology Flaw #2: She Has No Control Over Who She’s Attracted To<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Have you ever met a woman say she loves a man “who has a sense of humor”<\/em>…<\/p>\n

    …and then you see her hooking up with a jock who has never told a joke in his life?<\/p>\n

    Or have you heard a woman say that she goes for “tall, dark, handsome men”…<\/p>\n

    … and then you see her kissing a short, blonde, ugly guy?<\/p>\n

    What the hell is going on here?<\/p>\n

    Answer:<\/p>\n