{"id":3897,"date":"2017-09-29T12:56:15","date_gmt":"2017-09-29T04:56:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/?p=3897"},"modified":"2023-08-31T11:12:20","modified_gmt":"2023-08-31T03:12:20","slug":"stages-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/stages-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Stages of Love For A Man (How To Make Her Fall In Love In Four Stages)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"ds322\" data-offset-key=\"3sn6k-0-0\">\n<h2><strong>Stages Of Falling In Love: The Psychology Behind Phases Of Romance<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>At some point in your life, you\u2019ve probably met <em>that guy<\/em>. <\/strong>Sometimes, <em>that guy<\/em> is Rick. Rick\u2019s the one who gets Cheeto dust and pizza grease all over the Xbox controllers.<\/p>\n<p>And everyone\u2019s like, \u201cOh man, don\u2019t invite Rick to play video games. I hate&nbsp;<em>that guy<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, <em>that guy<\/em> is Walter. Walter always has the newest, best TV and sound system. And he wants you to know it.<\/p>\n<p>And everyone\u2019s like, \u201cUgh, I don\u2019t want to hang out at Walter\u2019s. I\u2019m sick of <em>that guy<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Most other guys hate <em>that guy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>But, at the same time, every guy occasionally wishes he was <em>that guy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Because sometimes <em>that guy<\/em> is Eric. Eric is always dating some gorgeous, clever, extremely desirable woman.<\/p>\n<p>And everyone\u2019s like, \u201cHoly shit, have you seen Eric\u2019s girlfriend? Man, I am so freakin\u2019 jealous of <em>that guy<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yes\u2014sometimes, it is good to be <em>that guy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Problem with Dating a Beautiful Woman<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>For most men, dating a beautiful woman isn\u2019t as great as they expect.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, there\u2019s the sex. And the social prestige. And the personal gratification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, and the <em>sex<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my experience, all of that eventually ends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because here\u2019s the thing: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-keep-a-woman-interested\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">most men can\u2019t <em>keep<\/em> a beautiful woman<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, once it\u2019s over, it\u2019s all <em>downhill <\/em>for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Or so they say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s the real truth: it\u2019s unlikely that most guys will be able to get another trophy looker on the hook again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, for them, it\u2019s back to ugly and desperate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And so they\u2019ll spend the rest of their lives telling their friends the story of that one time when they dated a super-hot girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019ll also spend their lives wishing they could do it <em>again<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Except, of course, for those who actually <em>do<\/em> manage to <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-be-attractive-to-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">attract and date another beautiful woman<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And another. And another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or those who find the right one and marry her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, which guy would <em>you<\/em> rather be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Option A:<\/strong> The sad little man who settles.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Option B: <\/strong>The serial monogamist who gets dates with whichever woman he chooses.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Option C: <\/strong>The devoted partner who\u2019s found the love of his life.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, it\u2019s a trick question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously, you can\u2019t get to option C without going through option B.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The trick is getting to B in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to do that, you have to get past option A.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you ready to learn how Eric did it?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-girl-like-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Make A Girl Like You<\/a> (With Mind Control Techniques<\/strong>)<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Fallacy Of &#8220;Pickup Artist&#8221; (PUA) Tricks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You might be thinking that Eric is some kind of virtuoso &#8220;Pickup Artist&#8221; (&#8220;PUA&#8221;).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But stop and think about that for a second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eric <em>dates<\/em> beautiful, desirable women. He doesn\u2019t just sleep with them. <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-make-a-woman-want-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Women actually <em>want<\/em> him<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think you can go the Eric route using Pickup Artists\u2019 tomfoolery? You\u2019re in for a nasty surprise&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A surprise that you should have seen coming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s in the name, actually: <strong><em>Pickup<\/em> <\/strong>Artist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, cheap PUA tricks may help you take that bar hottie home with you. Sometimes&#8230; when the stars align for you, perhaps once in a blue moon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But at their best, PUAs are only good for short-term &#8220;seduction&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>PUA gimmicks are <em>terrible<\/em> for <em>retention<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The result? She\u2019ll be gone the next morning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, if you\u2019re reading this, you\u2019re obviously in the market for something <strong>more <\/strong>than a one-night stand. Right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You want to get the girl of your dreams. <strong>But you also want to get her to stick around.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you know what? That can definitely be a challenge for even the most attractive, confident men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, wouldn\u2019t it be great if there was <strong>a scientifically tested and proven method for attracting a woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And wouldn\u2019t it be great if it could actually <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/make-girl-fall-in-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">get a woman to fall in love with you<\/a> for <em>real<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, wouldn\u2019t it be great if there was some kind of <strong>step-by-step guide that could teach you how to do it?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been wondering about the same thing, then listen up. You&#8217;re going to learn about <strong>something <em>totally different <\/em><\/strong>today. And it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ve never seen this anywhere else before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;re about to discover the legendary <strong>IRAE Model.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Warning!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But before we proceed, let me provide a word of caution.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t skip this. Hear me out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The honest truth is that what you\u2019ll read next<em> isn\u2019t<\/em> for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <strong>IRAE Mode<\/strong>l is the foundation of the notorious <strong>Shogun Method<\/strong>. Yes, <em>that<\/em> Shogun Method.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, the Shogun Method has three prerequisites. One of those is accepting your <strong>true nature<\/strong> as a <strong>manipulator<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are a manipulator. Yes, YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t deny it. Instead, <strong><em>embrace <\/em><\/strong>it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the fact is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>All successful men are manipulators.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>History has proven this to be true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you can say that manipulation is <em>wrong<\/em>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, you can talk about misogyny, chauvinism, and exploitation&#8230; and how unfair the world is&#8230; or how <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/dark-triad-seduction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dark triad<\/a> men rule the world&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, you can say that honesty is the best policy&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, in the end, we all know that <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/mentalfloss.com\/article\/62774\/where-does-phrase-nice-guys-finish-last-come\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nice guys finish in last place<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And trying to morally justify an ineffective approach just perpetuates <strong><em>delusion<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So you can take all that self-deception back to your women\u2019s studies classes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you find anything that I\u2019ve said above to be objectionable, then stop reading here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, maybe you should go watch Care Bears or My Little Pony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because what I\u2019m going to share with you isn\u2019t politically correct at all. It doesn\u2019t make polite dinner table conversation. It\u2019s not going to win any social justice awards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This shit is <em>for real<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: 27 <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/27-signs-of-a-controlling-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Signs Of A Controlling Girlfriend<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Four Stages Of Love: The IRAE Model<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Love, as they say, comes in stages.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The IRAE Model gives you the ability to blast through these stages with <em>ease<\/em>. It works to increase your <strong><em>desirability <\/em><\/strong>in a woman&#8217;s eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And guess what? It <strong>works on<em> any woman<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s right, it\u2019s universally effective. I can say that with certainty because:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I spent countless hours researching <strong>loopholes in female psychology.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I spent many more hours <strong>scientifically testing<\/strong> what I\u2019d learned.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I <strong>proved my hypothesis<\/strong> right every time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>The IRAE method\u2019s real workhorse is a <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/mind-control-techniques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Control technique<\/a> called <strong>Fractionation.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fractionation works to <strong>manipulate <\/strong>a woman&#8217;s <strong><em>subconscious <\/em><\/strong>mind. And because of this, she is completely defenceless against it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quite simply, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Fractionation seals the deal<\/span>. End of story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll tell you all about Fractionation in a minute. First, let&#8217;s take a look at the IRAE Model, alright?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>IRAE (pronounced <em>eye-ray<\/em>) is an acronym. It stands for:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Intrigue (I)<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Rapport (R)<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Attract (A)<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Enslave (E)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not the EARI Model. It\u2019s not the REIA Model.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s &#8220;<strong>IRAE&#8221; <\/strong>for a reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that reason is simple. <strong>The IRAE Model is a &#8220;straight line&#8221; process,<\/strong> not a playbook.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Intrigue must come before Rapport. Rapport before Attraction. Attraction before Enslavement.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In that step. In that order.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think about a ladder. You go up a ladder one step at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You do not put your foot on the fourth step first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is not how a ladder works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you try using a ladder that way, you\u2019re going to fall on your ass. <em>HARD<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you play fast and loose with the IRAE Model, you will likewise reduce its effectiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, if you use it right, you\u2019ll be on top in no time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Makes sense?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stages Of Love: The Psychology Of &#8220;Desirability&#8221;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Imagine that your <em>desirability <\/em>can be ranked on a scale from 1 to 10.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Undesirable people are at 1. The most desirable people are at 10.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your score depends on who you are and the woman\u2019s preferences. You could immediately land anywhere on that scale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The IRAE Model&#8217;s purpose is to move you up the Desirability Scale.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the higher you are on the scale, the more likely a woman is to do things like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Give you her phone number.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Go on a date with you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Have sex with you.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do anything you ask her to.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Surrender to your authority and dominance.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Agree to marry you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sounds great, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s the catch though&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You have to follow the steps inside the IRAE Model in strict order.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Don\u2019t try to build <strong>Rapport <\/strong>without creating <strong>Intrigue<\/strong>. <em>She won\u2019t be interested.<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don\u2019t try to <strong>Attract <\/strong>her without first building <strong>Rapport<\/strong>. <em>She\u2019ll dismiss you as creepy.<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don\u2019t try to <strong>Enslave <\/strong>her without <strong>Rapport <\/strong>and <strong>Attraction<\/strong>. <em>She\u2019ll run as fast and as far as she can.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>See how it works?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ready to learn more? Great. Let&#8217;s look at each of the IRAE stages with greater detail, OK?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"su-note\"  style=\"border-color:#cb3b34;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><div class=\"su-note-inner su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\" style=\"background-color:#e5554e;border-color:#ffffff;color:#fff;border-radius:3px;-moz-border-radius:3px;-webkit-border-radius:3px;\"><strong>READ ALSO: <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/how-to-seduce-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How To Seduce Women<\/a><\/strong><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">IRAE Stage 1: Intrigue<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The intrigue step is exactly what it sounds like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You have to capture her attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you have to do it <strong><em>immediately<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, women make decisions about men based on their immediate gut reactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you <em>do not<\/em> want her reaction to you to be, <em>\u201cThat dude\u2019s boring.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rest assured, she will make a snap decision before she knows anything about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So you better make a good first impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best way to do this is to tell a personal, captivating story. It should be full of things like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Cliffhangers to hold her attention.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Loose ends that keep her interest.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Conflict that gets her invested in the outcome.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em>(Module 4 inside Shogun Method is all about generating intrigue using &#8220;Intrigue Pings&#8221;, and more.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you\u2019ve intrigued her with these, you\u2019re ready to move on to the next stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">IRAE Stage 2: Rapport<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>After you\u2019ve caught her attention, you need to build <em>deep emotional rapport <\/em>with her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rapport is the bridge between initial intrigue and lasting attraction. To build this bridge, you must <strong>elicit her values.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll need to understand two things &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>What are her emotional needs?&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>What causes her psychological distress?<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>These are things you <em>must<\/em> know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? Because you\u2019re going to <strong>exploit them in the steps to come.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you\u2019ve learned those things, you\u2019re poised to move into the next IRAE stage&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">IRAE Stage 3: Attract<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Most &#8220;Pickup Artists&#8221; (PUAs) jump straight to this step (skipping Intrigue and Rapport.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that\u2019s why they fall flat on their face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, you\u2019ve established attraction. But there\u2019s no rapport to sustain it. And the &#8220;attraction&#8221; is sure as hell ain&#8217;t gonna last very long. Or worse, <a href=\"https:\/\/derekrake.com\/blog\/friend-zone-signs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">they get stuck in the friend zone<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, the PUA entices, but in the interest of a quick score.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the field goal of romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>We\u2019re going for the touchdown with a two-point conversion.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you really want that big score?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then you can\u2019t just &#8220;entice&#8221; a girl or pull her to you. You have to <strong>strategically REPEL her as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I mean&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>A woman will instinctively chase something she wants and can\u2019t have.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s in her genes. And she can&#8217;t fight it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, <strong>you have to make her <em>want <\/em>you&#8230; by making her fear she can\u2019t <em>have <\/em>you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make sense?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s what you need to do to entice her:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You need to <\/strong><strong>covertly command her interest.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, a woman will actively rebel against explicit commands. (Again, it&#8217;s a female psychology flaw.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means that you need to <em>disguise<\/em> your commands. 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